“What do you do when people bother you? How should you behave when someone opposes you? If you fight with them and resist them it only tends to escalate things. Is that what you want? Do you want to spend your time annoyed, angry and fighting with others?
There is a better way. Jesus said , “Love your enemies”, “Love those who hate you”, ‘Turn the other cheek? Why on earth should you have to love your enemies and those people who hate and perturb you.
The simple answer is you get back what you put out there.
It will return to you like a boomerang! Do you want that? My guess, is no. What you think about them, and how you speak about them will come back into your life. That is why it is said to speak only to bless, heal and prosper. Your story determines your experience.
If You Let The Get You – Then They Got You – Baited And Hooked
Okay, but these people drive you crazy! What to do. Love them? How can you do that when you don’t even like them and want to be rid of them? Well, remember, what you resist persists. You get back what you put out there. So what real choice do you have.
Maybe Jesus and Buddha and all the wise spiritual teachers who said love, be compassionate, forgive, accept, release, knew something we ought to know. Consider that. If you always do what you always did you always get the same results as before. Try something new.
Give different thoughts and feelings and behaviors a chance to work. You have to really give them the opportunity to work. You can’t do it once and think, ‘okay, tried it. Didn’t work.’ You have to work at it and make it a habit. OR you really have to let it go.
What You Resist Persists – Turn Resistance To Assistance
Let it be as it is. What is IS. Consider that these people are there for you to learn something new about yourself, to transform and transcend though these disturbing reactions. They are there to help you learn HOW TO let go. They are your teachers in dropping it!
If it were easy, in the first place, you wouldn’t need these teachers. Einstein said, ‘great spirits must always do violent contention with mediocre minds’. You will always have detractors and naysayers. Jesus said, ‘forgive them they know not what they do.’
Simply believe and know they have a right to be who they are and act the way they do. You don’t have to like it. You don’t have to invite them to hang with you. It isn’t about creating a love affair. You simply allow them to be who they are without judgement. Let it all go.
Let Go And Let God – Stop Trying To Control Others And Events
Release them from having to be or act or think a certain way. Stop attempting to control them and manage situations. Imagine how much energy you are wasting by giving them and these interactions attention. Stop it and you will begin to feel much better. Let it go.
Allow yourself to stop judging. Look for the lesson you need to know to transform and transcend. It is always there. You will find it if you direct your attention to it. Your life will magically change when you stop perpetuating the difficulties regarding them. Get that?
You are perpetuating it too. Your thoughts, feelings energy also keep it alive. Your labels and judgements. Your resistance keeps it current. Stop it. Let it go. Forgive and forget. Release and you will feel better. Shower them with positive thoughts and feelings!
Judge Not Lest Ye Be Judged – What Goes Around Comes Around
Then those will come back to you. Don’t expect that they will be different because you do so. Simply allow them to be who they are. If they leave you alone fine. If not, remember the lesson and the love. When you accept things you can’t change you are ahead in the game. Practice gratitude and be thankful for them. Life is incredible when you can celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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