How To Actually Help Others

“Someone dear to you is troubled and needs help. How might you best help him or her? What positive thing can you do when you may not be able to do anything else? The person my ‘resist’ you, or may be far from your influence so what can you do for them and you?

Hold the person in positive esteem. Harbor no ill will. Think positive thoughts. Imagine them already as you want them to be. Hold this in your heart and mind. Shower the person with love. Forgive and let go of any resentment. Allow yourself to feel peace and love.

Treat the person you want to help as though that person has already made the changes you hope to see. See him as already what you want him to be. Hold a positive image and she can grow into that. If you think otherwise he will grow into that. You get back, remember?

The Greatest Good We Can Do For Others Is To Expect Their Best

You get what you put out. The Pygmalion Effect states people tend to become what you expect them to become. People rise to the level of the expectations set for them. Therefore expect the best, not the worst. Get it? Expect the positive and they can become this.

Be it in advance of becoming it. Think, talk, walk and behave as if you are already that which you want to be. Allow others to grow into your positive expectations by expecting the best of them. Imagine them already healed, cured, rich, loving, good, free, honest. Get it?

Plant the seed for the person to grow into. Nurture that seed. Love it. Help it grow. You cannot grow it. You can’t do for the person. You can only allow the person to become their best version. You can’t control them or change them. You can only keep the faith.

Respect Others – Love – Allow – Accept – Hold In High Esteem

So imagine the best. Allow them room to grow. All them room to make mistakes. Be grateful for them. Love them. Accept them no matter what. Surrender and give up trying to micromanage. It isn’t your job. It is god’s or the universe’s job. Let go. Feel grateful. Feel blessed. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Use Negative Energy To Your Advantage

“Isn’t it true the more circumstances are difficult the more you want to get past them. The feelings grow stronger.  You want to get be rid of or beyond them. The desire to live happily and fully increases. The more difficult it gets the more you want the opposite.

When you have had enough you will change it. If you don’t buckle or give in you will triumph. When backed against the wall is when people find their backbone. Prior to the last resort they waffle and wallow and allow the bad to increase. It is like a water dam.

All that water backs up beyond the wall. There is tremendous energy their.  The weight of the water is great. It is dammed up. When appropriately released water from the dam is used to generate electricity. The direct the flow to make good things happen.

Choose Which Side Of The Fence You Want To Be On – Decide

When circumstances suck you need to stop focusing on the circumstances as negative and understand you have an opportunity to gather your resources. You have an opportunity to gather your energy. You now know precisely what you do not wan.t

It is time to define and clarify precisely what you do want and channel your energies into that. Put your attention on what you want and utilize the gathered momentum from the circumstances to propel you forward. Think, ‘never again!’ Not this BUT THIS!

Put your attention into what you want to create and use the energy you amassed to move away from the negative. Move into the positive. Direct the flow. Put it to work for you creating more positive energy. Stop being a victim and be the victor.

If You Really Want Something Badly Enough You’ll Find A Way

Declare victory. Say enough already. Stop being negative and move into the positive. Never let the negative grab hold of you, instead use it to propel you from it into positive accomplishment. Some people get sick and tired of being sick and tired.

Some won’t tolerate poverty so they create wealth. They refuse to live the way they were and they create new circumstances the prefer. You can too. This is your power. You have power to choose how you want to live. You have power to create your future. Decide to live the life you want. Create your best life ever. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How You Can Know You Will Be Happy And Successful!

“You can set yourself up for greater happiness and success. You can position yourself to have more. You can enjoy more of life. So let go! Allow yourself to have some fun. Stop being so serious about your goals. Know you can have everything you want. You can get it!

Expect to make it happen. Expect to have it. Expect it! When you exercise daily you can expect that you will get more fit. You will condition you body and experience better health. You know it is happening because you are doing something about it daily.

So expect life to be good. Do those things. Think and feel delighted. Have fun. Look for the good in all circumstances and people. Feel blessed. Stop being serious and start being alive and grateful. It will all come about. You will make it happen when as you begin to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Awareness, Circumstances, Transformation, And You!

“If it were easy, everyone would be doing it. Whether by intention or not. Trying circumstances can be used to further your sleep or wake you up. They are catalysts for profound change if you are aware. All times, can be used to further awareness if you choose. It’s up to you.

It is only up to you whether you choose to awaken or slumber longer. Events are whatever we judge them to be. They are nothing in and of themselves. Earthquakes and forest fires weren’t bad prior to people deciding them so. They just were. We, and circumstances, just are.

Consciousness is a deciding factor. Awareness is an opening for more awareness. Anything can be, or can be used as a catalyst, purposefully, or inadvertently. What you do with it, is what you do with it in your journey. You are the deciding factor how things are.

Exploration Is The Doorway To Adventure – Awareness The Key

Be grateful for all. Everything is a blessing. Once you understand that, all IS a blessing. Live with gratitude for each moment. Allow the moments to unfold. Whatever happens, everything will ultimately work out for the best. Keep the faith. Celebrate everything.” Rex Sikes

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The Hiker’s Secret To Success

“Drop by drop the tub fills. The journey of 1000 miles begins with a single step. Just keep taking steps. Look at what is near and in front of you, not at the distance to traverse. Stay present and immediate. You will get there as you do. Stay focused and enjoy the journey.

You look only a couple feet ahead. On the ground in front of you. The journey becomes possible. All you have to do is take the next step. Hikers know this. Bikers know this. Don’t look at the top of the hill you must get to. Look at the next few steps or feet you take now.

You distant goal you keep in mind. What you look at are the things you can do right now that move you closer. Stop noticing the distance between you and your goal and focus on taking each immediate step. You will get there! Simply keep going. Focus. Focus.

Standing Is Harder Than Moving – Drop By Drop The Tub Fills

Focus on what to do now, not on how great the distance is. You narrow the distance with each step you take. This is the sweet spot. What you presently accomplish that gets you closer to your ultimate goal. Continue in this way and you will get there. Meanwhile, enjoy the journey and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Universe Works In Mysterious Ways

“I’m driving with my daughter one evening when all the dash warning lights go off. I don’t lose power or lights but the alerts went off. Later, they went off again. I called my mechanic to discover the garage had permanently shut down between visits, without notice.

I loved my mechanics. They were wonderful. However, the owners shut everything down without notifying them in advance either. Okay, I seem to have a need and I am without a trusted garage. No problems with the car but the warning lights go off a few times.

Every couple of days. Might be a short. Doesn’t seem to effect anything but I don’t want to press my luck. Then, I loaned the car to my daughter who called to say it was driving funny. It was a Saturday night. She brought the car home and it had no brakes. WOW!

All Good Things Come To The Person Who Believes – Have Faith

I really needed a mechanic. I called a friend who said he had a friend who was a mechanic and who would take good care of me. Meanwhile, I researched what might be wrong with the brakes. I called a few shops nearby telling them what I discovered.

They couldn’t quote it but said, most likely it was expensive. Okay, I prepared to shell out if I must, but obviously, who wants to and I didn’t. I take the car to my friends garage this morning. I meet the gentleman who says ‘let me take a look’. He does. He tells me to wait.

He says it might take 20 minutes or longer, depending. 20 minutes later it is fixed. Great! I ask what I owe. He says, ‘You don’t owe me anything. Glad I could help.’ WOW. Really great! I found my new mechanic, BUT I wouldn’t have, had I not had the problem. Get it?

Another Name For Faith Is Trust – Trust It Will All Work Out

I could have looked and searched for good reliable mechanics but I hadn’t yet. The pressing brake issue meant now I had to.  I should have when the alerts went off. Which by the way, never have since. If they do I know where I will take my car. Universe provides! Get it?

When problems arise, expected or unexpected, it is normal and easy to think negative thoughts. We have been conditioned to worry and have fears or doubts. THAT is precisely when we need to shift to the positive thinking and feeling. That is when we need to trust. Get it?

Inside every adversity is a seed of equal opportunity. When my other garage had closed I thought, ‘okay, now for something equal of even better’. I just didn’t make it a priority at that time. I put it out there that I needed a new mechanic. Then, I got a worse the problem.

Count Your Blessing – Things Always Work Out For The Best

AND it wasn’t really even a problem. It didn’t cost me anything and I found a great new mechanic. I am blessed. I called my friend and got a tip on how to gift the new mechanic. I went, purchased a gift, returned and gave it to him. The look I got back was worth it!

How cool. He gifted me with free service. I gifted him with something I found out he would like. He feels good and I feel good! I felt great giving the gift. While it may, or may not, be true that everything happens for a reason, I prefer to think that it does. That way everything IS a blessing to be grateful for, even, if at first it doesn’t appear to be one. I am blessed. You are blessed. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What To Do About All The Nasty People?

“What do you do when people bother you? How should you behave when someone opposes you? If you fight with them and resist them it only tends to escalate things. Is that what you want? Do you want to spend your time annoyed, angry and fighting with others?

There is a better way. Jesus said , “Love your enemies”, “Love those who hate you”, ‘Turn the other cheek? Why on earth should you have to love your enemies and those people who hate and perturb you.
The simple answer is you get back what you put out there.

It will return to you like a boomerang! Do you want that? My guess, is no. What you think about them, and how you speak about them will come back into your life. That is why it is said to speak only to bless, heal and prosper. Your story determines your experience.

If You Let The Get You – Then They Got You – Baited And Hooked

Okay, but these people drive you crazy! What to do. Love them? How can you do that when you don’t even like them and want to be rid of them? Well, remember, what you resist persists. You get back what you put out there. So what real choice do you have.

Maybe Jesus and Buddha and all the wise spiritual teachers who said love, be compassionate, forgive, accept, release, knew something we ought to know. Consider that. If you always do what you always did you always get the same results as before. Try something new.

Give different thoughts and feelings and behaviors a chance to work. You have to really give them the opportunity to work. You can’t do it once and think, ‘okay, tried it. Didn’t work.’ You have to work at it and make it a habit. OR you really have to let it go.

What You Resist Persists – Turn Resistance To Assistance

Let it be as it is. What is IS. Consider that these people are there for you to learn something new about yourself, to transform and transcend though these disturbing reactions. They are there to help you learn HOW TO let go. They are your teachers in dropping it!

If it were easy, in the first place, you wouldn’t need these teachers. Einstein said, ‘great spirits must always do violent contention with mediocre minds’. You will always have detractors and naysayers. Jesus said, ‘forgive them they know not what they do.’

Simply believe and know they have a right to be who they are and act the way they do. You don’t have to like it. You don’t have to invite them to hang with you. It isn’t about creating a love affair. You simply allow them to be who they are without judgement. Let it all go.

Let Go And Let God – Stop Trying To Control Others And Events

Release them from having to be or act or think a certain way. Stop attempting to control them and manage situations. Imagine how much energy you are wasting by giving them and these interactions attention. Stop it and you will begin to feel much better. Let it go.

Allow yourself to stop judging. Look for the lesson you need to know to transform and transcend. It is always there. You will find it if you direct your attention to it. Your life will magically change when you stop perpetuating the difficulties regarding them. Get that?

You are perpetuating it too. Your thoughts, feelings energy also keep it alive. Your labels and judgements. Your resistance keeps it current. Stop it. Let it go. Forgive and forget. Release and you will feel better. Shower them with positive thoughts and feelings!

Judge Not Lest Ye Be Judged – What Goes Around Comes Around

Then those will come back to you. Don’t expect that they will be different because you do so. Simply allow them to be who they are. If they leave you alone fine. If not, remember the lesson and the love. When you accept things you can’t change you are ahead in the game. Practice gratitude and be thankful for them. Life is incredible when you can celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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