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Overcoming Difficulty, Problems, Troubles, Worry

There Is A Price You Pay By Remaining The Same!

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“What is it costing you to remain as you are? We know if you always do what you always did you always get what you always got. To do the same thing over and over again while expecting different results is insane. What is this costing you? The cost can be prohibitive!

Only by learning to do something new and different can one even hope to overcome and change from old conditioned limiting beliefs and habits. If you only live within your comfort zone, day to day living, tolerating upheavals and upsets, maintaining ‘okay’ you lose.

You lose out on all the incredible moments life offers. If you hold onto the hurt of another’s words, a harsh tone, a certain look in their eyes, or the disappointment of a dream or goal not yet manifested, or plans go awry foe even a few minutes, it is costing you a lot.

If You Think You Can Or Your Think You Can’t You Are Right

You remain the same and miss out on everything else that could be. You miss out on peace, joy, delight, gratitude, happiness, success and more. BY not letting go of disappointments, hurt, anger, resentment, envy, hatred, intolerance and negativity you are paying a great price.

You internal chemistry system is creating dangerous hormones and chemicals, your body is at war combatting these. They take their toll if not immediately over time. Your thoughts and feelings are negative and depressed. Your energy is zapped and drained.

If you live by ‘yes, but’ or are even thinking that right now you are losing out. Reality is as it is. You need to get this. You need to understand and accept this. Yes, shit happens. Yes, wonderful things happen. If you live bouncing back and forth you lose.

You Go Where Your Thoughts Take You – Learn New Ways

Most people do. You need to learn to get free! Stop losing. Stop missing out. Stop going down endless unhappy rabbit holes. Stop paying the price of remaining the same doing the same things, feeling and thinking the same things over and over again!

Learn new positive ways. Do new positive things Accept what is. You don’t have to like it to accept it. If you can learn to understand, even if not true, everything happens for a reason and for your benefit then you can look at each moment as a blessing and opportunity.

When everything is considered a blessing and an opportunity you and your life transform. Suffering ends. You are free. You aren’t pouring more negativity into ‘negative’ events. You are allowing. You are letting go. You are grateful. You learn the lesson. You are blessed. When you learn to let go you can instantly begin to heal, transform and move forward in new ways. You do this when you celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Negative Thoughts, Troubles, Trust, Worry

Universe Works In Mysterious Ways

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“I’m driving with my daughter one evening when all the dash warning lights go off. I don’t lose power or lights but the alerts went off. Later, they went off again. I called my mechanic to discover the garage had permanently shut down between visits, without notice.

I loved my mechanics. They were wonderful. However, the owners shut everything down without notifying them in advance either. Okay, I seem to have a need and I am without a trusted garage. No problems with the car but the warning lights go off a few times.

Every couple of days. Might be a short. Doesn’t seem to effect anything but I don’t want to press my luck. Then, I loaned the car to my daughter who called to say it was driving funny. It was a Saturday night. She brought the car home and it had no brakes. WOW!

All Good Things Come To The Person Who Believes – Have Faith

I really needed a mechanic. I called a friend who said he had a friend who was a mechanic and who would take good care of me. Meanwhile, I researched what might be wrong with the brakes. I called a few shops nearby telling them what I discovered.

They couldn’t quote it but said, most likely it was expensive. Okay, I prepared to shell out if I must, but obviously, who wants to and I didn’t. I take the car to my friends garage this morning. I meet the gentleman who says ‘let me take a look’. He does. He tells me to wait.

He says it might take 20 minutes or longer, depending. 20 minutes later it is fixed. Great! I ask what I owe. He says, ‘You don’t owe me anything. Glad I could help.’ WOW. Really great! I found my new mechanic, BUT I wouldn’t have, had I not had the problem. Get it?

Another Name For Faith Is Trust – Trust It Will All Work Out

I could have looked and searched for good reliable mechanics but I hadn’t yet. The pressing brake issue meant now I had to.  I should have when the alerts went off. Which by the way, never have since. If they do I know where I will take my car. Universe provides! Get it?

When problems arise, expected or unexpected, it is normal and easy to think negative thoughts. We have been conditioned to worry and have fears or doubts. THAT is precisely when we need to shift to the positive thinking and feeling. That is when we need to trust. Get it?

Inside every adversity is a seed of equal opportunity. When my other garage had closed I thought, ‘okay, now for something equal of even better’. I just didn’t make it a priority at that time. I put it out there that I needed a new mechanic. Then, I got a worse the problem.

Count Your Blessing – Things Always Work Out For The Best

AND it wasn’t really even a problem. It didn’t cost me anything and I found a great new mechanic. I am blessed. I called my friend and got a tip on how to gift the new mechanic. I went, purchased a gift, returned and gave it to him. The look I got back was worth it!

How cool. He gifted me with free service. I gifted him with something I found out he would like. He feels good and I feel good! I felt great giving the gift. While it may, or may not, be true that everything happens for a reason, I prefer to think that it does. That way everything IS a blessing to be grateful for, even, if at first it doesn’t appear to be one. I am blessed. You are blessed. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Positive Thinking, Resistance, Stress, Transformation, Troubles

What To Do About All The Nasty People?

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“What do you do when people bother you? How should you behave when someone opposes you? If you fight with them and resist them it only tends to escalate things. Is that what you want? Do you want to spend your time annoyed, angry and fighting with others?

There is a better way. Jesus said , “Love your enemies”, “Love those who hate you”, ‘Turn the other cheek? Why on earth should you have to love your enemies and those people who hate and perturb you.
The simple answer is you get back what you put out there.

It will return to you like a boomerang! Do you want that? My guess, is no. What you think about them, and how you speak about them will come back into your life. That is why it is said to speak only to bless, heal and prosper. Your story determines your experience.

If You Let The Get You – Then They Got You – Baited And Hooked

Okay, but these people drive you crazy! What to do. Love them? How can you do that when you don’t even like them and want to be rid of them? Well, remember, what you resist persists. You get back what you put out there. So what real choice do you have.

Maybe Jesus and Buddha and all the wise spiritual teachers who said love, be compassionate, forgive, accept, release, knew something we ought to know. Consider that. If you always do what you always did you always get the same results as before. Try something new.

Give different thoughts and feelings and behaviors a chance to work. You have to really give them the opportunity to work. You can’t do it once and think, ‘okay, tried it. Didn’t work.’ You have to work at it and make it a habit. OR you really have to let it go.

What You Resist Persists – Turn Resistance To Assistance

Let it be as it is. What is IS. Consider that these people are there for you to learn something new about yourself, to transform and transcend though these disturbing reactions. They are there to help you learn HOW TO let go. They are your teachers in dropping it!

If it were easy, in the first place, you wouldn’t need these teachers. Einstein said, ‘great spirits must always do violent contention with mediocre minds’. You will always have detractors and naysayers. Jesus said, ‘forgive them they know not what they do.’

Simply believe and know they have a right to be who they are and act the way they do. You don’t have to like it. You don’t have to invite them to hang with you. It isn’t about creating a love affair. You simply allow them to be who they are without judgement. Let it all go.

Let Go And Let God – Stop Trying To Control Others And Events

Release them from having to be or act or think a certain way. Stop attempting to control them and manage situations. Imagine how much energy you are wasting by giving them and these interactions attention. Stop it and you will begin to feel much better. Let it go.

Allow yourself to stop judging. Look for the lesson you need to know to transform and transcend. It is always there. You will find it if you direct your attention to it. Your life will magically change when you stop perpetuating the difficulties regarding them. Get that?

You are perpetuating it too. Your thoughts, feelings energy also keep it alive. Your labels and judgements. Your resistance keeps it current. Stop it. Let it go. Forgive and forget. Release and you will feel better. Shower them with positive thoughts and feelings!

Judge Not Lest Ye Be Judged – What Goes Around Comes Around

Then those will come back to you. Don’t expect that they will be different because you do so. Simply allow them to be who they are. If they leave you alone fine. If not, remember the lesson and the love. When you accept things you can’t change you are ahead in the game. Practice gratitude and be thankful for them. Life is incredible when you can celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Champion Mind, Circumstances, Responsibility, Troubles

How You Define Yourself Is Critical!

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“Some people allow circumstances to define them. Some allow circumstances to defeat them. But, not you, never. You, define, the circumstances. You, are never the result of circumstances. Instead, you, create them. You triumph through them. You rise above.

When you take 100% responsibility for everything that happens or comes your way, then you are the cause, the creator and not the effect, nor the creation of circumstance. You recognize it is your thinking that makes something so. What is IS by your declaration.

Speak only to bless, heal, prosper, inspire and motivate. Never get caught up in telling stories of woe. Redefine yourself as someone magnificent. BE powerful and positive. Know that you’re in charge and any mess you create you resolve. The mess is only for your good.

The Brain And Mind Is As Strong As Its Weakest Think

From chaos stars are born. Once you know you are in charge, and you are, you don’t have to suffer. You realize it is all for your good, your evolution and transformation. Believing makes it so. You know that whatever you believe and think you create and attract.

If you believe circumstances to bigger or greater than you are, you will fail. You will suffer. You will be at the effect of a lie. You will miss out. You will give away your power. Circumstances can never truly define you, unless you allow them to. You define you! Get it?

Therefore, you manage your thoughts and feelings. Make sure you vibe high. Make certain you believe the best. Focus on the positive. Focus on the ‘I can’. So don’t let your thinking bring you down. Practice gratitude and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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‘What’s Stopping You’ is a life changing 22 minute audio MP3 that helps you go beyond limitations, break through obstacles and make positive changes to get the results you want! Get it! It is Free!

Without Self Control You Are Stuck And Face Blocks
When You Learn Self Control You Can Master Anything!

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