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How Do You Really Get To Carnegie Hall?

“You probably know the answer to this famous question. ‘How do I get to Carnegie Hall?’ The famous answer, ‘Practice, practice, practice!’ The answer is accurate and true. While you may practice and not get there, most assuredly you won’t if you don’t practice.

That is how you make it happen. Any skill or talent you want to learn improves with correct practice and repetition. That is how you learned to roll over, crawl, walk, talk and feed yourself. It is how you learned reading and writing and arithmetic. It is how you play games.

If you want to be a concert pianist you must practice, practice, practice correctly. What is difficult at first becomes easier. The more you do the more you can do. This is how it works. You stick with it until you master it. You are in a process. There is a learning curve.

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Correct

You are in the Conscious Competence until you are in Unconscious Competence. It takes the time it takes and that time frame differs for everyone. It isn’t a straight line. It is uphill, downhill and has plateaus. There are for phases to learning. I’ll briefly explain.

Unconscious Incompetence means you don’t know what you don’t know. Prior to being exposed to bike riding you didn’t know about bikes or that one, or you, could ride them. You are ignorant to it. Conscious Incompetence means know you know you can’t.

The Conscious Competence is when you talk your way through it. It seems a struggle. You have to pay attention to so many things. Just like when you first learned to bike ride or drive a car. You had to ‘think hard’ about it. You forgot. You made it work. You forgot.

The More You Do The More Capable Of Doing You Become

The more fun and delight, the more you nurture and encourage yourself and the process, the more you enjoy, the swifter and easier the process is . Always keep the faith. Know where you are headed. As you keep moving forward you eventually will get there.

Unconscious Competence is when you have made it a part of you. Your skillset becomes a reliable, automatic habit. You can do it without thinking. As you did one day when you hoped on a bike, or drove the car without thinking. You just did it. Everything worked.

You now can drive and be caught up inside your head and not even realize for a time period you are still driving. Your unconscious does it, similarly to how it takes care of beating your heart and digesting your food. You no longer talk your way, think your way, through it.

Drop By Drop The Tub Fills – Skill Comes Of Doing – Repeat

Our habits are all like this. The difference is we have learned some positive, supportive, uplifting habits and we have learned some negative and non-supportive habits. Some habits are both depending on when applied. Running away from tiger, good.

Being afraid to start a project that is good for you, not so good. You can overwrite the non-supportive habits the same way you learn to ride a bike, drive a car, become a concert pianist or learn to do anything. Through correct, consistent repetition for long enough.

You can learn to do and master anything you put your mind to. You can learn to be happier, more positive, more successful, you can take control of yourself to create your best life ever, when you know you can. When you apply certain life changing principles! Design your mind and you design your life. Pretend anything and you can master it! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Always Get What You Ask For!

“You always get what you ask for. Whatever you ask for is what you deserve. Some ask for plenty. Some ask for little. Some don’t ask at all? What are you asking for? What is your worth? Consider this important lesson. ‘Ask and you shall receive.’ What have you got?

Napoleon Hill found it important enough to publish this poem by Jesse B. Rittenhouse, in his best selling book, ‘Think And Grow Rich.’ I share the poem with you today. Hopefully, you will reflect on it, take it to heart and determine how it might apply to you.

‘I bargained with Life for a penny,
And Life would pay no more,
However I begged at evening
When I counted my scanty store;

For Life is a just employer
He gives just what you ask,
But once you have set the wages,
Why, you must bear the task.

I worked for a menial’s hire,
Only to learn, dismayed,
That any wage I had asked of Life,
Life would have paid.’

Hope You Enjoyed This Reminder! Celebrate Everything” Rex Sikes

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If You Don’t Believe This You Will Not Succeed

“If you  don’t  believe that you will get what you effort for, ask god or the universe for; if you don’t believe your subconscious, god or the universe, or your efforts will give you what we ask for, you  have no reason to expect that you will receive it. You must believe! Trust.

Believe in yourself. Believe in your higher power or source. How can you develop this faith? The Bible provided a clue when Jesus stated “Unless ye be become as a little child, ye shall in no wise enter the Kingdom of Heaven.”  What do you think little children do?

The have complete faith in their provider. They believe their parents will take care of them. They trust wholeheartedly! They also pretend and dream and use their imagination freely and vividly. We all do. Until trained or conditioned out of believing and positive imagining.

You Go Where Your Thoughts Take You – Skill Comes Of Doing

As children we pretended whole-heartedly. We believed we can be, do and have anything. We trusted those ‘in charge’ to provide for us. We prayed believing our prayers are answered. Whether or not they seemed to be, we believed. Mindset, heart and behaviors matter!

The way you make things happen is by believing in yourself. You believe you can and will do it. You will do it because you are responsible for it. No one else will do it for you. You are the one who makes things happen. Imagine it. Affirm it. Over and over again.

Continue until you absolutely believe it. If you do it correctly, repeatedly, consistently, for long enough, you will come to believe it. Believe it. Develop the faith and imagination of a little child. You can if you practice it. Have faith. Relax, let go and let god.

You Develop Certainty By Conditioning Yourself – Repetition

Sometime, sooner or later you will look back and you will realize all you have created and allowed.  Keep playing and having fun. You will be grateful and express you gratitude then. So begin now. Delight and enjoy. Be grateful. Find all the blessings. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How You Can Get What You Need To Succeed

“To truly be happy and successful you need to develop unshakable belief in yourself. You need to become certain you can, you are able, and you will make it happen. You need to know you have it in you to persist and bring it about. So, how do you develop faith?

Through constant, correct, repetition, consistently, for long enough. You affirm and visualize. You create small wins, step by step, until you can create larger wins. You build a confidence in your abilities and in your follow through, a bit at a time. You condition yourself.

Winning breeds more winning. So does losing. So, shift from the negative to the positive. Put your thoughts and feelings to work for you. Fill your mind and being with positive, optimistic thoughts and feelings material so you become positive and optimistic. Read!

The More We Do The More We Become Capable Of Doing

Hang out with upbeat, inspiring people who are making things happen in their lives. Learn from positive mentors and role models. Invest in yourself and attend seminars and events. Become teachable and willing to learn. Then, apply what you learn.

If you don’t apply what you know, you don’t know it. Gradually, you learn to trust yourself. You trust your thinking and your efforts. You come to realize you CAN do it. You are able. You can fight the good fight. You can overcome the odds. You become unstoppable!

You persist because of who you are. You know you not only can, but you will make it happen. Every fiber of your being is certain. Though there are problems or obstacles, these do not stop you. You learn from them. You adjust, correct and continue. You take feedback.

Winning Breeds  Winning – Birds Of A Feather Flock Together

You lose the old, limiting beliefs. You leave the doubt, fear and worry behind. That was the old you. You become new. If those worries and fears arise, you can and do handle them. You are capable. You have a champion mindset. You traded the loser mind for the winner mind.

You become committed and dedicated to yourself and your success. You know if there is a way, you will make it happen. You know you will not quit, but find or create a way. You remain positive and certain you will accomplish it in time. You become grateful for your learning and transformation. You take action and you do your part. AND you celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Already Believe! Did You Know This?

“Faith makes all the difference in whether you succeed or not.! So what is faith? We hear about it. Some think it means having ‘religion’. It can mean that, but that isn’t why it’s important. If you don’t have faith you can, and need, to develop it. So, begin to learn how, now.

Faith is the trust that the car on the other side of the line will remain in their lane. We believe this so much, without consideration, that we drive our cars. We know, historically, the sun has always risen so we believe that it will tomorrow, as well. We expect it. We know it!

We believe the chair we sit down will hold us up. We don’t check each to make certain they will hold our weight. We put our lives in the hands of auto, bus drivers, train engineers, and commercial pilots all the time and we don’t even know who these people are.

You Go Where Your Thoughts Take You – Believe In Yourself

They’re strangers. Yet, we trust the company that employees them chose qualified, trustworthy, capable people to deliver us safely. We trust when we hit the light switch or television power button it will come on. We trust so many things we don’t ever think about.

We ‘act as if’ what we want to happen, will happen. The drivers remain in their lanes, the chairs hold us up, the sun rises, the pilots will get us there, the power will come on when turned on. We act with certainty. We don’t fear, doubt or worry about any of these.

We believe many incredible things. We believe many stupid and negative things. Do you want to create your best life ever? Then you must develop faith. You must learn how to marshal your thoughts and feelings and put faith or belief to work for you. Get it?

Believe In Yourself – Trust You Will Make It Happen – Persist

It isn’t faith in outside elements, chairs, pilots, drivers, or the sun that is important . You must develop faith in you, your follow through and success. Develop the certainty and the will to make what you want to happen, happen. You must believe in you!

Those who are happy and successful believe in themselves. They know they WILL accomplish what they set out to do. So must you! Have faith! Be certain. Persist. Adjust as you must, change the plan but never get up your worthwhile goal and you will make it happen, in time. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How You Stay In Or Get Out Of The Suck Cycle

“How can you begin getting what you want to get? How can you begin to become happier, healthier, wealthier and more successful? Is there something you aren’t doing that would make the difference when you did it? Yes, there absolutely is.  Do this and transform!

Tell the story, to yourself, repeatedly, how life is already the way  you want it! You are already the person you want to become! See it in your mind. Visualize the dream. Affirm it daily. Convince yourself you are the person of your dreams, living your dreams right now.

Live it. Act as if. Pretend it purposely, enthusiastically and vividly. Play and have fun. Delight and give thanks. We impress upon our subconscious our wants and desires through enthusiastic, emotional repetition. Determine to make what you want, happen. Do it!

Turn Your Desire Into A White Hot Burning Obsession 

The reason so may have troubles is when feeling anger, sad or negative they affirm life sucks. They whine, blame, complain and wallow in the negativity and low vides. Hence life does suck. We get back what we put out. Learn this and stop the suck cycles.

We move forward positively and more readily the more we let go of negative circumstances, people and issues. The less we notice we aren’t where we want to be yet, and the more we imagine we already are, and act and feel as if we are, the quicker we close the gap.

It is what we did as children. We pretended whole-heartedly. That is the way one makes things happen. Live it and do it. It does not come to you as if by magic you make it happen from your power within. Think, feel and act like a success and you will eventually be a success.

Believe You Can Do It With Absolute Certainty Persist And Persist

You are already. You just don’t recognize that yet, fully. Sometime, sooner or later, you will look back and go ‘wow, how far I have come.’ Keep playing and having fun. Stay focused. If you do it haphazardly you will get haphazard results. If you commit to it and do it consistently you will get consistent results. Delight and enjoy. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Actually Help Others

“Someone dear to you is troubled and needs help. How might you best help him or her? What positive thing can you do when you may not be able to do anything else? The person my ‘resist’ you, or may be far from your influence so what can you do for them and you?

Hold the person in positive esteem. Harbor no ill will. Think positive thoughts. Imagine them already as you want them to be. Hold this in your heart and mind. Shower the person with love. Forgive and let go of any resentment. Allow yourself to feel peace and love.

Treat the person you want to help as though that person has already made the changes you hope to see. See him as already what you want him to be. Hold a positive image and she can grow into that. If you think otherwise he will grow into that. You get back, remember?

The Greatest Good We Can Do For Others Is To Expect Their Best

You get what you put out. The Pygmalion Effect states people tend to become what you expect them to become. People rise to the level of the expectations set for them. Therefore expect the best, not the worst. Get it? Expect the positive and they can become this.

Be it in advance of becoming it. Think, talk, walk and behave as if you are already that which you want to be. Allow others to grow into your positive expectations by expecting the best of them. Imagine them already healed, cured, rich, loving, good, free, honest. Get it?

Plant the seed for the person to grow into. Nurture that seed. Love it. Help it grow. You cannot grow it. You can’t do for the person. You can only allow the person to become their best version. You can’t control them or change them. You can only keep the faith.

Respect Others – Love – Allow – Accept – Hold In High Esteem

So imagine the best. Allow them room to grow. All them room to make mistakes. Be grateful for them. Love them. Accept them no matter what. Surrender and give up trying to micromanage. It isn’t your job. It is god’s or the universe’s job. Let go. Feel grateful. Feel blessed. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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