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Stop Stopping Yourself! Keep Going!

“What is it that stops most people? A thought, a belief.  What is a belief? A thought you repeatedly think over again. What stops most people? A belief, a thought, repeatedly thunk (sic ;))  that limits you. A mental package of energy is what stops most people!

People don’t THINK they can. They think they don’t have enough money, love, free time, fun, of whatever. They believe that someone or something prevents them; the government, their parents, their upbringing, the weather, others, their own self, you name it.

They whine, complain, blame and excuse. STOP enough already!

Sometimes you just have to push on through! Be a warrior.  No matter what the obstacle is, decide you are bigger than it.  Let nothing stop you, not even yourself. Go for it. Make it happen. Act in spite of your mood or your fear. Act! Push through. Don’t be a wimp.

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Stop, stopping yourself. Quit, quitting. Never give up. Forget about wallowing and whining. Let go of distress and put your chin up, your chest out and stand tall. Feel your backbone and imagine you’re a giant. Marshall your resources and do something positive. Anything!

The overall goal is to feel your best most of your time. Make it a point to do that, no matter what you are facing. Resolve to be happy, healthy, wealthy, and successful. Be happy! Delight and consider everything a blessing. Practice gratitude and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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This Lie Can Help You. This Lie Can Help Others!

“Are you born smart or can you be made smart? Is genius an inner trait or does environment matter? What if, by your words and actions, you could influence your son or daughter to greater heights? Would you? Can a genius be made? It seems the answer is yes.

Here is one brief example I share with you. Click the link to watch this video. It is less than 2 minutes. Watch it. THEN use the back button to return here.

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Okay, okay… It isn’t true. It never happened, according to some. BUT it could have. Plenty of times the opposite occurs. Someone injures another person by their words or actions. Let this, short, untrue, video story, stand as an example. Remember it. Apply it. Live it!

Uplift and edify others. Emphasize their strengths in your mind and theirs. Diminish their weaknesses for them, in your mind and theirs. Be glad you know them. Be glad you can help inspire. Be thankful. Be grateful for everything about them. Feel blessed. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Live And Feel More Abundantly

“There is the story of the of the poor widow who had nothing but gave from her limited supply, versus the uber wealthy, who gave little in comparison. The widow gave generously from her meager supply. The wealthy gave stingily from their plenty. Hmmmm.

The widow is the role model for giving. She would be get back or be rewarded. That is the example set forth in the story. Giving comes from the heart not the pocket. If you want to live abundantly, you need to feel abundant. Your mindset should be on plenty not on lack.

The widow gave generously from the little she had. She is bound to get more. The wealthy ones gave little from their wealthy supply. Their hearts were more closed. Hers was more open. When you are open you are bound to discover opportunities and receive more.

Giving Opens The Way For Receiving – Enjoy Giving – Delight

At a  restaurant, do you order based on the price or by what you are hungry for. Do you get what you want or do you limit your choices by cost? When shopping do you limit yourself because you can’t afford items? When you give to others, do you limit your gifts?

There is nothing wrong with being frugal. Many millionaires live below their means. They look for bargains and discounts. Saving your money and wise investments are smart steps in becoming financially free. The wealthy don’t buy everything either.

The point is, do you feel wealthy or not? Some very rich people may not feel wealthy while some with far less may feel very rich. It is a mindset, a belief, a practice and a habit. Some people are generous givers, others withhold and are not. Abundance is a mindset!

Become A Generous Giver And An Excellent Receiver – Enjoy

Try giving more. That may mean you tip a little better. You tip more frequently. You don’t qualify your giving but give it freely. You don’t have to go nuts, you just do a little bit better than you would have. You don’t even have to give money. Give more smiles. Anything!

Give compliments. Give a hand. Help someone else. Share some tips and suggestions. Turn someone on to a new restaurant, a new shop, and new service. Give referrals. Share some tips and advice. Recommend some books or blogs. Give someone a ride. Help out!

Give of your attention. Give of your time. The point is to practice being generous, to feel good about giving. When you give, you open the doorway for getting back. Give to give. Give to put a smile on someone’s face. Give with no expectation of return. Simply give!

Energy Flows Where Your Attention Goes – Feel Blessed

Give because you can, as the poor widow did. It isn’t the size of the gift. It is the heart of the giver that matters. If you give because you feel blessed and are thankful and grateful for whatever little or plenty you have, you are operating abundantly. Get it? I hope so.

You create more abundance when you feel abundance. When you feel blessed and grateful. When you enjoy life so much you want to help others feel good too. Share whatever you can share to help others move forward. Share and allow others to share with you.

A closed mind and a closed heart generates little. An open, generous mind and heart, generates a lot. This is why it is said your return is 10 times or more. What you give, can exponentially return to you. Allow it. Accept it. Receive it by giving it. Welcome it, when it returns.

Practice Abundance – Feel Like You Already Have Everything 

Practice gratitude. Inspire yourself and others. Seek to feel your best. Delight yourself. Delight others. Share. Give. Share blessings and give thanks. Enjoy assisting others because you are helping yourself too. From abundance to abundance. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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This Determines Whether You Stay The Course Or Drop The Ball!

“Will you make it or will you flop? What will be the end result, success or failure? Is there anything you can do to make success more likely? Will you succeed or won’t you? What do you think the answer to that question is? Your success depends on your answer.

It begins, within us, as an idea we conceive of. From within, we move it, to without. We translate the idea into reality. We think, take action and get results. Napoleon Hill said, ‘What the human mind can conceive, and bring itself to believe, it can achieve.’  So we can.

Hill stated, he would not say, ‘we will achieve’ because he had no way of knowing what each individual will do or not do. Some will take action and do it. For others, it will remain a nice quote. Whether or not we succeed is up to each of us. You and I are responsible.

Whether You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

You must become unstoppable. Persist in spite of any odds. Stay committed to your goal. Remain certain you will prevail. Developing and maintaining certainty is one of the secrets. So, how does one become certain? You must develop faith in yourself. Here’s how.

The process of conceiving or imagining and creating has been called ‘out picturing’. Out picturing is what allows us to manifest what we want in the outer world. It’s a fairly good description. We picture on the inside and make it happen on the outside. We out picture.

A couple of times, recently, I referred to the sculpting process.  The end result is the out picture the sculptor envisioned. To create we must remove any resistance. Much of what rises to prevent us, are our own doubts and fears. Our limiting beliefs must be dealt with.

What You Consistently Hold In Your Mind Is What You Experience

We must replace non-supportive beliefs with supportive ones. We replace limited, ‘I can’t’ thinking with ‘I can’ thinking. We do this by exposing our minds to positive material; through daily reading and listening to inspiring and motivating material. We feed our minds.

We remove limitations through reciting our affirmations, daily, numerous times, aloud, with positive, enthusiastic emotions and feelings. We use cadence, similarly to how the military uses it. We hang around with other positive ‘can do’ people. We do workshops.

We attend events. We go to recognition ceremonies and notice, those who succeed, so we can begin to think,’ if THAT person can do it, I CAN do it!’ We visualize our success and we feel as if we have already succeeded. We use the ‘act as if’ principle. All this helps.

You Life Is A Living Reflection Of What You Are Out Picturing

We keep our eyes on the prize. We clear our minds of all distractions and negative thinking by sharpening and maintaining our focus. You maintain a vivid mental picture of what it is you want. A vision board helps greatly. Keep pictures and reminders around. Look at these.

The personal goal, besides succeeding, but in creating that success, IS TO REMAIN positive about the inner world goals you have, regardless of what you encounter in the outer world. This is the secret key, no matter what you encounter, stay the course. Believe!

Remain confident. Feel certain you will accomplish your goal no matter what the universe hurls at you. The person who can do this is the person who does arrive. Release your attachment to the physical world. Let go of the outer resistance, as well as, the inner resistance.

We Become What We Think About – What We Focus On Expands

The sculptor removes whatever is not the sculpture. The sculptor chips away at the stone to release the visualized creation from within. The medium may be difficult but, through belief and persistence, the sculptor unleashes and realizes the goal. We do too.

Understand that the picture in your mind, and the positive feeling you have for it, are real! What you encounter in the world is what you encounter. HOW you respond is what makes a difference! Some buckle and whine, complain and excuse. Others make it happen.

What will you do? Can or will? It’s completely up to you! That’s why Hill said, you can achieve it, if you will conceive it and bring yourself to believe YOU are able to.  Condition yourself for success. Remove the obstacles of your own thinking and feeling. Make it happen!

Condition Your Mind For Success Daily And You’ll Breakthrough

Gratitude is one of the most important means to a successful conclusion. Learn to live in, and with, and express gratitude moment to moment. Fill yourself with awe and wonder and thanks. When you do all of life transforms because you transform. So celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Get More Energy And Anything You Want!

“Feeling tired? Feeling down? Feeling unmotivated? How do you get more energy when you don’t feel like it? Is there anything you can do? The answer is absolutely, yes! There is a secret principle that is hidden in the open to get more of anything you want.

Act! Take action! When you don’t feel energetic, get up and dance! Jog a little. Sit up straight. Walk around. Sing, chant, shout and yell. Think of military morning boot camp. When your system is down or depressed, super charge it. Yup, do what you don’t feel like doing.

The principle is ‘givers get’. GO FIRST! If you feel unmotivated, act! I know, you will complain, that you don’t do it, because you don’t feel like it. Right, you’ve spent a life time whining and wallowing. You have a ‘bad’ habit of not doing. Change that habit! You need to act.

If You Want To Fly You Must Take Off – If You Want To Win – Play

Act even though it is difficult. Act in spite of your mood. Do it! Build a new habit of doing. Take charge. Stop whining and excusing and blaming yourself, others, events and circumstances. Change the situation, yourself. You have to spend energy to get energy!

Take responsibility. Take charge. Step up to the plate! Swing the bat. Don’t just sit there, do something! Act as if you already have what you want. Move! If you want your life to change, you must change some things in your life. If you want peace, be peaceful. Get it?

You can’t do what you have always done and expect it to be different. You must be different. If you want faith, believe. If you want confidence, act confident. Train your brain and body to give you more of what you want. Build the habit. It is up to you!

What You Focus On Expands – You Get What You Think About

I have friends, who recently reported that due to their habit of tithing regularly, their income, this past year, more than doubled. They got back far more than they gave out. The principle of tithing is give and you will get back. Giver’s get! Give what you want back!

It doesn’t require massive action. Of course, you can be passionate and expend massive action. Simple, little steps in the right direction, can be enough. Simple, consistent, persistent, right actions, prove plenty powerful! Take them. Begin today. Make it happen!

You want energy, give it. You want money, give it. You want motivation, give it. You want respect, give it. You want love, give it. You want attention, give it. You want trust, give it. You want loyalty, give it. You want support, give it. You want cooperation, give it.

GO FIRST! Be the change you want to have! Be grateful. Have fun! Delight. It comes back to you. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How You Can Get Good At Anything

“Do you have to be born talented or can you develop it? How do you get good at acting? How about golf, swimming, juggling or cooking? How do you get good at anything? What is it that you must do to become the best? How does one master their skills? Here is how.

Remember the famous question, ‘how do you get to Carnegie Hall?’ The answer, ‘practice, practice, practice.’ You can develop or learn any new habit through correct repetition, consistently, over a long enough period of time. You aren’t born with it but you develop it.

Any skill! Mental, emotional, or physical can be wired in at the neurological level through this method. You can replace any old, non-supportive habit with a new positive supportive habit by conditioning yourself this way.

Any Skill You Wish To Learn And Master You Can If You Practice

Mastery may differ from person to person, but you can become your personal best, if you are willing to do what it takes. Think about it. And yes, that too is the answer. Mindset first! Get your thoughts right, feelings will follow and then your actions leading to results.

The more you practice the better you become. The same is true about creating and attracting. Practice creating. Practice believing. Practice making things happen and you get better at it. Start small and build up, as you would with any skill. Think about this!

It is true AND it is up to you! Do it and you will get better. Begin now. Don’t wait. Practice gratitude! Practice feeling marvelous! Practice expressing it. Practice communicating well with others. Practice supporting others and letting them support you. Practice solving problems. Practice unconditional love and acceptance. Practice celebrating everything!” Rex Sikes

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Reverse Engineer Your Dreams And Goals

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A big tip to manifesting what you want is to begin at the end. Reverse engineer it. You already have what you want, how incredible does it feel? What do you feel? Enjoy. Bask in these feelings and emotions. Be excited about having it. Feel it!

When you feel it this way, you then KNOW it will manifest, even if you don’t know how. You don’t need to know how. You only need to believe and know that it will. Be open to limitless possibilities. Expect unexpected good. Enjoy living the dream before it is reality.

Act As If You Are Already The Person You Want To Be

When you do, it becomes reality. What you conceive, and believe, you can achieve. When you believe it, and feel certain, because you already feel all the incredible feelings that accompany making your dreams come true, the doors open up to you, being able to have it.

You make it happen. Enjoy it Be glad. Be grateful. Good things can come your way. Receive goodness into your life. Delight in it. Appreciate it. Be thankful for all things. If hardship arises, know inside it will all work out. Trust and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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