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How To Create: Do What You Can Then Let It Happen

“Mindset is everything. Attitude is everything. What mindset and attitude do you need to have, and adhere to, to make your dreams come true?  What should you think, feel and do to have the career, the life, the things you want? What can you do?

Keep the faith. Believe in yourself and your future. If you don’t yet, and you doubt, you must learn how to manage your thoughts and feelings, take control of your mind and thoughts, and develop your belief muscle. Like any other muscle, it grows strong with use.

People want things. If it is tough getting them, they give up. Many of us have grown up coddled and  enabled in ‘not’ doing positive things for ourselves.  We grew up being told we, ‘have to work hard’ and that, ‘life is tough and not fair’ and that, ‘few really get ahead’.

Whether You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You’re Right

We have been deceived. It is far better to believe that you can learn how to do almost anything. You can! If you learn how to manage your thoughts and feelings, you can become unstoppable. If you learn how to, you can create the future you want. You can and will.

If you believe in yourself and you expect unexpected good to come your way, you can do almost anything you want. You can write your own ticket because you are making it happen. It is not happening to you or for you. Faith comes from doing and from repetition.

Affirm, and visualize. Chant your mantras daily. See your future in your mind. You will develop the faith habit if you continue to do it, repeatedly, for long enough. Believe in yourself. Develop unshakeable, unstoppable, belief in yourself. Learn to be competent.

Accept What Is – Let Go Of What Was – Have Faith What Will Be

Learn how to do what you want to do. Invest in yourself. Believe you will have everything when you need it, in its perfect time. It will unfold as it will, when it will. You plant the seed, tend to it, nurture it and let nature do it’s part. You do yours. Nature does hers.

Let go and let god, the universe or whatever you want to believe it is. Develop your mindset. Develop powerful feelings. Take appropriate, inspired action. Believe you can make it happen. Let go and get out of your way. Allow the fruits of your labor to unfold as they will.

Believe. Be grateful. Express your thanks and gratitude. Have fun. Delight. Enjoy.  Stay positive. Stay optimistic. Feel wonderful. Vibrate high. Where your attention goes, energy flows. Make it happen. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How You Can Get Good At Anything

“Do you have to be born talented or can you develop it? How do you get good at acting? How about golf, swimming, juggling or cooking? How do you get good at anything? What is it that you must do to become the best? How does one master their skills? Here is how.

Remember the famous question, ‘how do you get to Carnegie Hall?’ The answer, ‘practice, practice, practice.’ You can develop or learn any new habit through correct repetition, consistently, over a long enough period of time. You aren’t born with it but you develop it.

Any skill! Mental, emotional, or physical can be wired in at the neurological level through this method. You can replace any old, non-supportive habit with a new positive supportive habit by conditioning yourself this way.

Any Skill You Wish To Learn And Master You Can If You Practice

Mastery may differ from person to person, but you can become your personal best, if you are willing to do what it takes. Think about it. And yes, that too is the answer. Mindset first! Get your thoughts right, feelings will follow and then your actions leading to results.

The more you practice the better you become. The same is true about creating and attracting. Practice creating. Practice believing. Practice making things happen and you get better at it. Start small and build up, as you would with any skill. Think about this!

It is true AND it is up to you! Do it and you will get better. Begin now. Don’t wait. Practice gratitude! Practice feeling marvelous! Practice expressing it. Practice communicating well with others. Practice supporting others and letting them support you. Practice solving problems. Practice unconditional love and acceptance. Practice celebrating everything!” Rex Sikes

It is a new day. Yes, act like it!

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The Secret To Transforming Your Problems Into Opportunities

“When times are difficult many people struggle with fear and worry. They imagine dastardly, negative scenarios, again and again, in their head. There is a way to move past this and get relief. Instead of derailing oneself, there is a means of getting back on track.

When troubled by people, events and circumstances, one of the useful things you can do is ask yourself, ‘What is the worst that can happen?’ Granted this sounds like a question you might want to avoid but it is important to consider. ‘What is the worst’?

Why on earth do you want to ask that? Because most people already see bad things. They imagine the world crumbling around them. What they don’t see is the ultimate bad thing. The reason you want to this is because, typically, the worst thing never, ever happens.

Don’t Let What You Fear Interfere With What You Are Able To Do

It just doesn’t. They simply live in worry and fear. They perpetuate the difficulties by focusing on them. Worry is actually negative programming. People program their minds. The more you worry and fear the more likely you are to bring those things about. Quit it!

Someone once said, everyone should go through bankruptcy. Again, why on earth wish this for anyone? Because, when you go through it you realize life isn’t over. People who are bankrupt still have a place to live, a car to drive, places to go, things to do and enjoy. They do!

It isn’t over! WE tend to think it will be, but it isn’t. I’ve had numerous friends go bankrupt and while not pleasant always, their lives did not change much. There may be some exceptions. For most who go through it, they  learn it is not as bad as thought, prior to it.

There Aren’t Obstacles In Your Path – Obstacles Are The Path 

When you deliberately ask, ‘what is the worst that can happen’ usually, you discover whatever ‘the very worst thing is’ you still survive. You are still okay, and you can, if you worked at it, handle it. Life isn’t over because of your imagined fears and worries.

They loom larger in the mind when not confronted. Once confronted the sting is gone. YOU took out the sting. You reduced the mountain to a mole hill. NOW You can break the problem down into bite size, manageable, steps or tasks, you can more easily and readily resolve.

It is the imagination running wild that is the difficulty. Gain control. Reign it in and you can again be on your way to being more productive and happy. You can resolve most any problem this way. Most of us, fear things that will never, ever happen. Stop it. Let go.

Strength Comes From Overcoming You Worries And Fears

Take control of your thoughts. Then you take control of your feelings. Yes, there are other things you may also do. I have discussed these in previous blogs. Read through and find them. I could share where but it is good to study and reread. It benefits.

Anytime confronted by problems consider them blessings and be grateful. This powerfully transforms them quite quickly. You don’t fear or worry about blessings and good things do you? Problems are their to teach you something and for you to discover what that is.

They are roadblocks slowing you down, to get your attention, so you can learn to be a better you. Be grateful. Be thankful. Feel truly blessed. Inside the obstacle is the seed of opportunity. You may have to look to find it, but that is why the obstacle is there. Trust. Let go. Enjoy. Delight. Feel blessed. Everything transforms when you celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Be Careful Group Think Can Kill Us

“It is the stories we tell ourselves, about ourselves, others, circumstances, events and the world, that make up our reality. We have back stories, we continually remind ourselves of, when we interact with others. We create the outer by repeating the inner.

Our stories, ‘our history’ have great affect on us as individuals and as a collective consciousness. There is no escaping the affect of these stories, these versions, we adhere to. We make reality conform to what we think and believe it is, by the decisions we make.

We create our reality every moment. We choose.  Sure, the outer world influences us, but it is our reactions  or responses that determine the outcomes we get. We create reality. Consider, mob mentality. Something happens, people erupt. They react. Even kill.

Believe In The Beauty Of Your Dreams And You’ll Own The Future

They act of one accord. They create the continued circumstances or events. Some people get swept up with out even, ever, knowing why. People can get caught up! There is group think. It can work for or against us. Be careful. We need to seek accurate versions.

We believe what we are told, what we have read, what is passed down, often without question or investigation. We believe our pundits and leaders; just because. We believe what we tell ourselves because we have repeated it forever, without investigating it.

We make up our individual and collective conscious realities by what we believe and whom we associate with. We believe opinions, mistaking these as fact. It is difficult to gain access to accurate information, whether personal or otherwise. Still, we must seek to.

Once Your Mindset Changes Everything On The Outside Changes

We create our outer world by how we imagine it. We create it by whom we agree with, about it. Often, these agreements are about how we are limited, or at the affect of circumstances, god, powers, weather, economy, traffic, other races and religions and more.

We look for evidence that corroborates what we already think. Rarely, do we look for counter-examples or versions, or evidence that would provide a different way of thinking because we don’t like to be wrong. We avoid Cognitive Dissonance. We must feel right!

If you want it to be otherwise. If you want it to be different. If you want to begin creating more of what you want and less of what you don’t want, you need to decide to begin. You need to choose to make it different. You need to develop your mindset and act differently.

Once You Awaken You’ll Have No Interest In Judging Those Asleep

To start, you need to refuse to accept those thoughts that don’t support you positively in accomplishing what you want. You need to turn away from them and toward those positive, optimistic thoughts that get you closer to what you want. It is deliberate thinking.

Don’t fight the old thoughts. Let them go. Shift, give your attention to new thoughts. You only create more of what you have had when you fight the old. What you resist, persists. To change it, you need to shift away from it. Energy flows where your attention goes.

Repeat these new thoughts as affirmations. This is important! Repetition is how we create habit. To develop new positive, powerful thought habits that assist you in making the results you want a reality, you must think differently from the past. Think new!

Assumptions Are Dangerous Especially When Made In Anger

If you want your life and world to  be different, begin by making it different within you. Start telling yourself different stories. Repeat new, positive stories about how you are creating your world each moment. Stop telling victim stories. Stop participating in the old.

Each of us can transform, how we think and act, on an individual level, in our daily lives. We can affect the world at large. If we hold positive beliefs and expectations, we CAN make a difference. If we don’t buy into ‘negative group think’ we can begin to alter things.

Who we hang around with makes a difference. Who we associate with and what we believe and think, as a group, makes a massive difference. There are peace groups and hate groups. Choose how you want to live in the world and how you want the world to be.

It Is Wiser To Find Out Than Agree And Suppose – Seek Answers

Seek to improve the world through positive changes that makes it better for ALL people. Seek to include, rather than eliminate. What we resist, persists. Don’t hate, hate. Seek love and peace instead. How we think, and what we think, determines the results. Get it?

This is why gratitude and daily, moment to moment expression of it, is so powerful. You fill your mind with positive thoughts and you feel wonderful. You tell different, magnificent, marvelous stories. When you are focused on blessings, small and large, everything changes!

When you delight and vibrate high, and are on top of the world, IS when you create and attract most easily! Get it? So don’t get caught up in less than glorious drama and circumstance. Stop creating discord. Create a better now and you create a better future. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Biggest Mistake You Can Make Holds You Back From What You Want!

 

“Why do people toil so hard to get ahead but not see any results? What is they do, or don’t do, that makes it nearly impossible to succeed, even when they totally want to? What is it? Can one change it? What determines whether we succeed or not?

The major cause for difficulty is where you place your attention! Energy flows where attention goes. Keep that in mind while consider this: power either resides within you or comes from outside you. Whatever you believe determines your lot.

You either believe you are in control or something else in control. It is a matter of belief. It is whatever you think it is! Our beliefs create our perceptions and reality. It is as we think it is. If you don’t believe you are in charge of everything then something else is! It’s simple.

You Are The Power – You Are The Author Of Your Life – Act Like It

If YOU are in charge, then there is always something you can do to alter the situations in your favor. You are not a cork bobbing in the water, driven by the wind and current. You operate of own volition. You are ‘at cause’ not ‘at effect’ in your life. You’re the power source.

Mindset makes an incredible difference in everything you do. People suffer because of where they place control. If anything else is in charge, we are subject to that. Get it? Regardless, of what the ‘actuality’ is, our reality is determined by what we think it is.

Your beliefs and thoughts determine how far you go. Your mindset and attitude determine how much, or how little, influence you have in making your life what you want it to be. You either are in complete charge or you are not. You choose. You must decide. Which is it?

Within You Is The Power To Rise Above Any Situation Or Struggle

Power either comes from within you or from outside you. Frankly, you already made the decision while growing up. You made that decision and you live from it. If that decision doesn’t support you, and serve you, you can change it. That is the good news!

When you take responsibility for everything that happens, whether this notion is true or not, it puts you in a place of power. You make changes. You don’t sit and wait. You create. You determine what the events and circumstances mean. You become the cause.

As the cause, if you don’t like the meaning, you can reframe it. If you don’t like the results you can change them. You can think differently. You can change your m ind. You can feel and act differently. You create different results. You determine where you go and how far.

At Any Time You Can Declare This Is Not How My Story Ends

There are NO limitations except the ones, we THINK there are. Limitation exists only in our thoughts. What are you thinking right now? That will determine many things for you? Either you believe you can or you believe you can’t. Either way, you are correct.

In order to determine whether you, or someone else, is in charge simply listen to where you place authority. Do you blame the weather, the traffic, the people around you, the economy, and all sources outside yourself for what occurs, or do you accept it?

If you say, ‘sorry I am late because I didn’t get up on time’ at least you aren’t saying, ‘I was heading there but traffic was heavy and made me late’. Even if there was heavy traffic, it is up to you to get there on time. YOU are responsible for any delays, not the traffic. Get it?

You Must Learn You Have Always Had The Power – Now Accept It

Most people don’t want to, nor will they take, this kind of responsibility. They want to put it onto other things because this is how most of us were brought up. We learned it from others. That is okay. Now, is the time to change it! Now, is the time to take charge.

Get it? Power doesn’t reside outside of you, unless you are willing to give it all away. Yes, we WERE raised to give most of our power away. We no longer have to! Change your thinking and you can change your life. Accept 100% responsibility for everything and transform.

The moment you do, everything can change. You already have everything you need to transform your life in incredible ways, but most will continue to miss out. Stop! Don’t. Take charge today! When you do new horizons will open. Be glad you can. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Stop! You Are More Likely To Fail If You Do This!

“There are times when you have to be smart or suffer potential consequences. Many people attempt to work harder, and harder, to get ahead. Instead, they actually put themselves at risk of screwing up everything. Be smart. Know when to quit. Know when to let go.

No, I am not suggesting giving up on your dreams. I am suggesting taking a break. Don’t work when you’re exhausted. Stop trying so hard. Quit and take a break because you’re more prone to negativity, pessimism and even accidents, when you’re tired and worn out.

Take care of your mind and body.  Stop and go have a little fun. Lighten your load and spend time chilling out. Return to your work once you’re refreshed. You will perform much better. YOU have to be your own benevolent boss and  know when to stop! Get it?

Breathe – Take A Break – Rest – Have Fun – Then Move Forward

You make less mistakes, and have less do overs, when you are at the top of your game. If your mind is worn out, if your mindset is strained or tired, if your body needs rest, take the rest you need. You’ll be more productive when you are positive and feeling good. Get it?

So be good to yourself. Be gentle and kind. Keep yourspirits up! You get further faster when you are feeling great, anyway. Make it a point to always feel your best. Do those simple things I’ve shared elsewhere in my blogs to keep feeling good as you journey.

Savor each moment. Stop and smell the roses. Don’t allow yourself to fall two or more steps back because you didn’t take care of, and look out for, yourself. Enjoy the process. If you aren’t, stop. Take a breather! Stay positive. Stay optimistic. Keep feeling marvelous. Feel delighted, grateful and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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To Stop Losing And Start Winning You Must Do This

“Our social conditioning contributes to our mindset. Sadly, not much of our co-opted conditioning, that which happens to us from birth through childhood, is profoundly useful for helping us to recognize the powerful creators we are. It seems to be designed so we miss it.

We applaud the notion, ‘the buck stops here’, but few embrace and live from that notion. Instead of taking 100% responsibility for ourselves, we place responsibility, for our success or failure, on others, our upbringing, outer events and circumstances.

This is insidious! We blame our parents, our education, our friends, our enemies, our lovers, luck, the government, the economy, foreign powers, terrorists, the weather, the traffic, our pets, the media, you name it. We blame ourselves, too. We blame everything. Everything!

Learn To Separate What You Feel From What Is Happening

We are conditioned to do so. We learn from our parents, teachers, peers, churches and synagogues, media and others. Changing ourselves and becoming successful means we have to change where we place the responsibility. We have to assume it! Aim inward!

We are 100% responsible for everything that happens to us. Good or bad, right or wrong, accept the responsibility. We alone are accountable. We create our reality 100%.  Our responses determine our outcomes. No one else, no other agency is responsible. We are.

 Accepting total responsibility separates the survivor from the overcomer; the victim from the victor. When one takes responsibility for everything, one takes control and puts oneself in the driver’s seat. That person determines how the ride will go.

Learn To Act In Spite Of Your Mood – Always Give 100 %

Regardless of the outer terrain, or the weather, that person determines how they enjoy it, and where they travel. If they must take detours, so be it. They don’t whine and complain, make excuses or blame. They adjust and continue. They find or create a way.

This is the mindset for making life wonderful. Nothing will change until you do. Accept this! Change your conditioned thinking from limited to unlimited. Opportunity can be all around you but unless you notice and act on it, you will miss out. You must do it!

Many people think luck, or god or the universe, or attraction is doing it to or for them. Sadly, most don’t experience the abundant life they could. They live like a cork bobbing in the water, going where the current takes it. The power to change is YOU. Most don’t realize this.

Keep Your Commitments – Live Deliberately – Make It Happen

They don’t assume their power because they live from the old, limiting, conditioned beliefs that other forces are more powerful than they are. Those who get ahead, unconsciously break through, or they work very hard to do so. They change their thinking.

You want to win? Develop a winning attitude. Change your mindset. Become a champion in your thoughts and feelings. The right mindset will lead you to the right, inspired actions so you start getting better results. You determine your success and happiness in life.

You determine the exact amount of your financial well-being. You are the author and creator of your life whether you realize it, and act like it, or not. You are doing it! No one else. Yes, I know. You might think others are. That IS the issue. The issue is always your mindset.

Paradise Is A State Of Mind – You Determine Where You Live

The issue is always the thoughts and beliefs you have that govern what you will and won’t do. To make everlasting, positive change, you must change some things. Mindset is the first thing you need to master. You won’t win with a loser attitude. Get it? Change it!

Start changing your thinking for the better. Take charge! Overcome your prior conditioning. Recondition yourself. Get yourself in great mental shape. Become a warrior in mind and spirit. Become a peaceful warrior. Your life will transform incredibly when you do. Love, laugh, learn, live fully and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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