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The Secret To Preventing And Managing Overwhelm

“Sometimes crap shows up. Sometimes you have so much on your plate, you aren’t sure what to do. You feel physically stressed and mentally overwhelmed. Your spirit may be broken and you are suffering from all of it. What to do? What can you do?

First, you must realize, and recognize, that the feeling of overwhelm, or stress, is a signal that you are denying, or preventing, yourself from co-operating internally and, most probably, externally. When things get tough people tend to negatively accelerate their thoughts.

They get caught in a spin. Things move too fast and feel crummy. You need to create a break space for yourself. You know that already, because you are probably wishing for one. You need to take a break or do something to change yourself so you can feel better.

Let It Go – Life Is Too Short To Get Caught Up In Empty Drama

You hope things will work out but you probably don’t expect them to. Get it? Whenever you feel overwhelmed you need to pause, to stop to breath, and understand you’re communicating something to yourself. You need to relax and co-operate with yourself and others.

You have to recognize you are resisting what is going on, and what you are resisting is persisting and causing you the discomfort. Much of the ill at ease feelings will disappear when you stop putting your energy into resisting what it. You need to look for how to allow.

You need to seek to accept. Seek out what you can let go of. I don’t mean forget about, I mean, let go of. Stop fighting and begin working with it. Find solutions, instead of problems. Find co-operation, instead of pushing. When you push, you get push back. Relax. Allow.

Refuse To Entertain Negativity – Shift – Focus On The Positive

Surrender doesn’t mean giving up, it means releasing the fight to do things in a different way. Let go of the struggle and the negativity and allow the positivity to flow. Turn your attention. Shift your thinking and feeling. You may need to do some physical things.

Walk, exercise, go camping or hiking. Do anything positive to create space for yourself. Get a massage. Meditate. Go to church or temple. Whatever works for you. Create positive space where you can relax. Let it go. Then chunk everything down into manageable bits.

Any large task can be broken down into smaller, easier, manageable pieces you can do more readily. Overwhelm out of control helps no one. Look for how you can better work with others. Seek harmony. When you do, everything can begin to lighten up. Get this?

Chunk It Down – You Eat An Elephant Bite By Bite – Easy Does It

Things remain the same because of our own hold on them. We habitually react and keep perpetuating the same old, same old. In order to have something different we must do something different. Delight, let go, change something. As you change things will change!

Give up the fighting. Become fluid and flexible. At the first sign of overwhelm and stress, change. Divert it. Shift and move and create what you want instead. Don’t be a victim of it. Stop and create what you want. Be grateful. Feel good.  Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Some Things That Might Make You A Better Person

“What makes a person a better person? I’d like to list a few things. This list is not exhaustive. It is in no particular order. It may mean different things to different people. That’s okay. It’s a guide. Anyway here goes. You are a better person when:

You discover who you are. You recognize and live your truth. You are aligned with your purpose. You are able to share your truth with others, with compassion. You have love, for yourself, and all life. You learn to accept everything as it is and, yet, you continue to improve.

You develop yourself. You manage your thoughts and mindset. You become more positive and optimistic. You choose to feel your very best. You endeavor to help others do likewise. You keep your commitments and promises and word because you have integrity.

It Is Good To Be Alive – Run Jump With Joy Celebrate Everything

You are honest, trustworthy and loyal. You are accepting, allowing and forgiving of yourself, others and circumstances. You are secure in yourself and celebrate others. You are confident and radiate well being, joy and friendliness. You focus on solutions.

You are a team player. You are a  leader. You enjoy helping. You go the extra mile for others. You enjoy life and like people. You share and care. You are enthused. You know how to communicate and positively influence, motivate and inspire yourself and others.

You pay attention to others. You listen and seek to understand. You invite rather  than push. Still, you can push when necessary. You are committed and have strong will. You are determined and ambitious but not envious or destructive. You are passionate and upbeat.

First Thing In Morning Think What A Privilege It Is To Be Alive

You learn to play the game so that you win, but others can win too. You know we are in it together. You think and feel well, and take inspired action. You’ve learned to trust yourself. You seek out accurate information to make decision. You explore. You’re curious.

You drop and ignore gossip and opinion. You seek the truth. You speak to bless, heal and prosper. You invite. You know how to be excited and relaxed. You can be calm and steady. You are resourceful. You know you already have everything you need.

You are filled with gratitude. You realize that everything is a blessing, even when it may be disguised. You expect unexpected good. You know everything will turn out well. Its fine that you are happy. Its fine that others are happy. You are open. You allow.

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You give and receive because you know both are important. You accept and celebrate when others move ahead. You celebrate yourself, and others, for wherever you, and they, are on the path. You understand it is a journey and you are in process. You don’t judge.

You allow, and accept them, and yourself, to be as you are. Still, you are able to seek to evolve and change. You look on yourself and others with compassion. You are hopeful, optimistic and positive. You are inspiring. You know attitude is everything. You’re curious.

You share because you don’t need to insist. You realize everything happens in its own time. You know what you want. You are clear about it. You know what you don’t want ,so you focus on what you do. You believe you can accomplish it or learn how to. You persist.

It Is A New Day – I am Alive – I am Blessed – I Am Thankful

You pursue it eagerly and enjoy the process. You navigate difficult challenges and overcome each because you recognize them for what they are; opportunities to grow. You keep the faith. You remain coommitted. You achieve. You enjoy. Then think, ‘next!’. And on you go. You delight. You celebrate everything.” Rex Sikes

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The 1% Versus You: You Versus The 1% And Money!

It is sad there is such disparity between the rich and the poor. Yet, typically the rich, did what others aren’t willing to do. I mean the good rich people, not corrupted rich and criminal rich. The good ones did things others, who aren’t rich, aren’t willing to do.

It’s true, there are some who have nothing, yet, work very hard. I don’t believe, most people want entitlements nor, are most people lazy. Most people want a good life. Most work hard to try to get it. The disparity between the wealthy and those not, is not laziness.

The wealthy worked hard to get ahead too. Instead of working jobs and living pay check to pay check they figured out ways to serve people by creating businesses. Many are smart enough to automate their business. Then, it can work, while they do other things.

Your Beliefs Create Your Reality – Mindset Determines Results

They created business, made investments and got  their money earning for them so they didn’t have to work a ‘job’. They created freedom. Whether they are in the office, playing golf, boating in the Bahamas or dining with celebrities, they are making money. 24/7

They learned not to trade their time for money, but to make their money work from them, so they had more free time. Many still work hard. It doesn’t mean they’re always out partying, but they enjoy the benefits of their money working for them. We should all  learn this.

Some inherited wealth from a person, or persons, who created it. Some had the advantage of growing up with a wealthy, ‘I can do anything’ mindset. If you and I did not, we can still cultivate that attitude and make it work for us, just as those who ‘lucked’ into it.

Whether You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

Most of the wealthy spend time reading and improving themselves. Few watch more than 1 hour of television. They are driven by a larger purpose. Many work longer hours than their employees but don’t consider it work. They love doing what they are doing.

That makes a big difference! They love their ‘work’. Many created passion businesses or solved a need of people around them. They solved problems of the multitudes or delivered something people really needed and/or wanted.  The following are a few examples.

Amazon, Uber, AirB&B, toilet paper makers, doorknob and widget manufacturers, Apple, Microsoft, trash removal, name it. Someone has made a fortune helping others live better. That is an incredible key. Serve more people. Make more money. Get it? Serve others!

Even fast food, horrible as it is today, was designed to save people time and money. The poor laborer, or average worker, could do similarly, even in today’s world, but few will. They complain about the rich and sadly the rich complain about the poor.

If You Want Your Life To Change You Must Change Some Things

Today, some think, things are a little more stacked against the worker, trapped living paycheck to paycheck. I do believe some of this is accurate. It is also accurate that there are more opportunities, and in some ways, it’s easier than ever. Mindset makes a difference.

If you believe you can, you might. If you believe you can’t, you might not even try. It’s been said that when America was the land of opportunity and promise, poor immigrants came, worked hard, and became millionaires, because they believed in the promise.

More immigrants became millionaires than the people who lived here. Why? Because citizens felt the government, economic climate, and the wealthy stacked the deck against them. They didn’t try as much or as hard as the immigrant, who wanted to improve their life.

People Don’t Improve Because They Don’t Believe They Can

Attitude may not be everything. Positive thinking may not work miracles, but at least it helps you try to do things you might otherwise not. Mindset makes a difference. You can do the research if you want to learn more about the wealthy and the not wealthy

The rich 1% do not need any more advantages. Some want the wealthy to have more entitlements, more than the poor. This is wrong. They created theirs in numerous ways, even buying legislators. The wealthy can take care of themselves, and do.

The poor can use some help while they transition and learn the skills that can help them improve their lot. Still, many will never move beyond their limiting views of themselves and the world around them. If they did that number 1% would change to 2, 3, 5 or 10%

If You Can Conceive It And Believe It You Can Achieve It

Many of the vanishing middle class, even the upper middle class, won’t do anything either. They could but don’t, because they are comfortable. If you are comfortable you do little to change it. You take more action when things get uncomfortable.

Still, you must act smart. Napoleon Hill pointed out you could THINK and grow rich. That doesn’t mean, as some erroneously believe, that all they need do is think. It meant, you could learn to work smarter, instead of harder. Mindset can make a difference!

Still, many will never even bother to improve themselves. It isn’t a poor, middle class or wealthy issue, it is a personal issue. It is up to each of us, regardless of our lot in life. If you do nothing to change, nothing will change. To be different, you must become different.

Dare To Dream Dare To Dream Big Make Your Dreams Come True

There could be a power play to hold the poor down. I think it is even likely, obviously.  Yet, it is still possible to get ahead, even in today’s world. It is unrealistic to think no one could break through. However, if no one attempts it, no one will. What about you? Where are you?

Even if the is deck stacked, you can either complain about the stack, or attempt to do something about it. I prefer to do whatever I can, in spite of the odds. If you think you can’t do anything to improve yourself or your life, then it is as you say it is. You probably won’t.

Those who think they can, will do. Those who don’t, won’t. Stacked or not doesn’t make the difference.  Some people will triumph in spite of ridiculous odds. Some never try. It is a decision each of us makes. I refuse to let the 1% or reports determine my future.

You Live As Large Or As Small As You Accept – Mindset Matters

I do believe the 1% will do anything they can to hang onto their lion’s share; including, making it seem impossible you, or anyone, could do better or become one of them. They want limited membership. They will make it seem through the media, of all kinds, that you are stuck.

Don’t believe it. Believe in yourself! Nothing is impossible to those willing to attempt it. If they don’t make it as big as they hope, they still get further than if they never try. Mindset matters! Put your mindset to work for you. Get your money working for you. Develop yourself and your life. Learn how to celebrate everything! Rex Sikes

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Why Be A Loser When You Can Be A Winner?

Why think positive? Isn’t it unrealistic? As I point out, what if it is unrealistic, so what? What is the alternative? Realistic and bummed out? Realistic and a wimp? Realistic and stuck in problems of one’s own making? Nope, I prefer positivity to that. Don’t you?

For me, I like that I can move ahead and not be stuck, or not be stuck for very long, when I think positively and powerfully. Life is good and life is great. The world is abundant in my way of thinking and there is plenty for all. They deserve it. You deserve it. I deserve it.

I prefer to think positively, about possibilities and solutions. I like thinking optimistically. I enjoy moving through challenges optimally. Life is a process. Life is contrast. Life is all sorts of things. Life is flow. I enjoy going with the flow and all the sights I see along the way.

Never Underestimate The Heart Of A Champion – Winners Win

There is light and dark, good and bad, positive and negative. One can focus on whatever one chooses. Whichever one chooses has an affect and consequences. I prefer to focus on the light, the good and the positive. I prefer to take responsibility for my focus and my life.

Some people are stuck in a quagmire of their own creation. I have been. I could be again. I prefer, learning and developing to minimize that as much as possible. I want to accept responsibility for making my life the best, for how it turns out, good or not so good. Get it?

I prefer the attitude of Conor McGregor who determined to win against Floyd Mayweather.  He spoke well of his opponent. Took the loss graciously. Stated he didn’t anticipate some of Mayweather’s moves or skill and is moving on. He may box again. Cool!

Every Champion Was Once A Contender Who Didn’t Give Up

He is still a winner and a champion. Defeat doesn’t appear to rile him. I like the attitude I can see from him. Though he lost the bout, his attitude was marvelous. That is what I want to do, don’t you? If you get knocked down, get up and keep going. Smile and move.

Learn from it but don’t wallow in it. Cut the losses and decide to make new  things happen. Get up and move forward. Make the day a better day. What we focus on is what we get back. We attract WHO we are back to us. So, who we are and who we become is important. Be the best. Be happy and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Are You Cut Out For Happiness And Success?

“‘Success is the steady progression toward the realization of a goal,’ said, Earl Nightingale. Some give up while still progressing. They quit, throw in the towel on their career, romance, business or life goals. When quitting isn’t an option, most people can succeed.

Statistics demonstrate that most people quit right before they would have succeeded. Most businesses fail within a couple years. Had they been able to stick it out, they’d have soon succeeded. Are you cut out for success? Will you do what it takes to get to the top?

Mindset is the key factor that determines how far you go. You either decide you are all in, or you decide to opt out. No one can tell you when to cut your losses and change direction, but you. Of course, you can take advice from worthy mentors. That might be wise.

Winners Never Quit – Quitters Never Win – Which Are You

Choose someone one who has what you want and started out as you did. This mentor should be successful and knowledgeable in the lines you desire to get mentored about. Don’t go to a farmer about banking or a banker about farming. Get it? Go to a qualified expert.

When it comes to mindset, you can make awesome progress in your evolution alone, and especially with a good mentor.  Mindset determines how far you go, your level of commitment and persistence. Make it a point to daily work on your attitude.

Commit to positive, powerful thinking. Take charge. Learn how to direct your mind to go after your goals; to make happen what you want to make happen. Stop wishing and hoping things change and change them yourself. You can, when you realize you can.

Winners Fail But They Don’t Quit – Winners Fall But They Get Up

It is all up to you. Champions know this. It’s time you learned it, too. Champions aren’t born. Champions are made. They condition their mind and body and finely hone their mental and physical skills. They invest in themselves; their time, energy, even money, in making it so.

Don’t you think you deserve to be a champion? I do. I believe you can. You must believe it, too, because it doesn’t matter what I believe about you. Take hold of your thinking and feeling power and begin to make these work for you. When you do, truly, you will celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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