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The Secret Revealed: To Stop Screwing Things Up You Must Do This First!

“All the actions in the world won’t make up for a crummy mindset. You can do and try anything and everything and still your results will be haphazard and mostly less than effective and poor. Actions does not replace mindset yet that is what most people attempt to do.

Most people try to make things happen. Mostly, they spin their wheels. They try to fix things or make problems go away or be better but they miss the key ingredient for doing that. You can be very busy with problem solving activity without accomplishing anything!

Einstein pointed out, ‘We cannot solve our problems with the same level of thinking that created them.’ Mindset must come first. You must learn and develop and maintain the proper positive, powerful mindset. From mindset come the right actions. Mindset rules!

You’re Where Your Thoughts Take You Thoughts Become Things

Without having the right mindset, all the actions in the world won’t make up for it. Yet this is the key most people miss. Why? Because we have been conditioned to ‘do things’. We have been told, ‘get educated, get a job, work hard.’ We haven’t been told ‘attitude first’.

Once you have the right mindset in place everything else follows. We have been told to put the cart before the horse. Change this and you begin to change everything! Get the right mindset and then you will be led to right actions by your feelings. You use your inner GPS.

The actions you then take, step by step are those that feel right. From the right mindset follow the right feelings. From the right feelings come the right action steps leading to the positive results you desired in the first place. Right mindset leads to right results.

The Brain Is As Strong As Its Weakest Think – Think Positive

You must design and maintain your mind to be more effective and get the results you want in your life. You transform yourself first and then all the right actions follow. When troubles come you are better equipped to naturally, effectively and easily resolve them. Get it?

Do you? When you evolve yourself you make good things happen. Why? Because you aren’t wasting your time, spinning your wheels in activity, but you are productively creating what you want to happen, bit by bit all along the way. Create yourself and your best life ever!

Take charge of your mindset! Focus on the positive. Be grateful and express your gratitude. Discover how everything IS a blessing. Stay focused. Stay the course. Remain optimistic. Let go of blocks and limiting beliefs. Enjoy life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Can You Stop Being Afraid?

Fear has been said to be false evidence appearing real. For example, this or something like it may have occurred for you. You walk outside at night-time, see a snake and react in fear. You freeze or run. You are terrified. In dim light, you can’t tell it is really only a garden hose.

You mistook a garden hose for a snake. Doesn’t matter, does it? You still had a fear response. Your body reacted as if it were real. Even though it wasn’t, you thought it was. In your mind you saw a snake! You believed it was a snake!  Yet, there was nothing to fear.

Sometimes, we encounter real snakes, or lions and tigers and bears. We encounter real situations that could cause us to react with caution or with fear. Hopefully, we respond appropriately at those times. Then, there are many times when we perceive things to fear.

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

Perhaps, that could be said of all situations. We respond as we’ve been conditioned to respond. We respond and react as we grew up learning to; these are thought and behavioral habits. There is nothing to actually fear, yet,we feel afraid; fight, flight or freeze.

We are afraid of things for which fear is not necessary. We have made that fear a habit. There is nothing wrong with fear. It is a useful response in the appropriate situation. Fear, freezing, fleeing or fighting is an evolutionary response to keep us alive. Get over fear.

There is nothing wrong with being afraid. Real stimuli or not, there is nothing wrong with being afraid It is a human response. Courage is not the absence of fear but the ability to manage fear and do what is necessary anyway. Courageous people act while afraid.

What You Focus On Expands – Be Careful What You Focus On

Many of us are afraid of things we need not be afraid of. Instead of being concerned with fear, be more concerned with developing courage and an unstoppable attitude that allows you to move forward as you want. Manage your thoughts and feelings.

Take charge of your thinking and feeling so you become more joyful and peaceful. Learn to be happy often and delight in all life offers. Experiences that bring fear are opportunities to transform yourself and go beyond the limitations. It’s an opportunity to be different.

You can go beyond the conditioning you once knew and move into new ways of being. Everything can be a blessing if you look for the blessing inside of everything. Learn to live this way, celebrate everything, and most fears will diminish and give way to bliss.

Learn To Create What You Want More Of And Let The Rest Go

Then when necessary, if it is ever necessary, you can and will still use fear to succeed and navigate successfully in troubled waters. You may be afraid, perhaps, but you will still be moving forward. Fear won’t paralyze you but be a signal to move forward cautiously.  Transform yourself and enjoy! Become free. Celebrate everything!”Rex Sikes

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Why You Need To Take Charge And Direct Your Mind!

“Here is a simple little example for those people who THINK they don’t need to learn how to control their thinking. This is for those who THINK haphazardly, and live as a cork bobbing in the water blown by the wind. This is for those who are victims of thoughts.

What happens when you ask or say to yourself, ‘why am I such an idiot?’ How do you feel? What are your emotions? Do you feel successful, confident or powerful? What is your experience when you or someone asks your that? Bet it doesn’t feel too good, right?

Ask yourself, ‘how come everything sucks?’ or ‘Why does all this bad shit happen to me?’ Do you feel any better asking these questions. How about this? Say to yourself, ‘I never have enough money’ or ‘I am always in debt’ or ‘I don’t know how I’ll make ends meet.’

Your Excuses And Your Blames Hold You Hostage

How do these statements make you feel? How do you feel and think and behave when you say, ‘I feel crappy’ or ‘things suck!’ How marvelous do you feel then? Do you feel on top of the world? Do you feel successful or confident? Do you feel like you can do anything?

Most likely not? What happens when you ask along these lines? ‘In how many different ways am I incredible?’ You may not know the answer yet, or even feel differently yet, but keep asking that. Ask it throughout your day,  before you get up and before you go to bed.

Ask, ‘How quickly and easily can I discover  how delighted I will feel to learn how effortlessly one can succeed?’ Or say ‘I feel incredible!’ Do it with enthusiasm and passion when you say it. Shout it. Loud and booming. ‘I can do anything!’ How do these make you feel.

If You Want Things To Change You Have To Change Some Things

If you don’t notice much difference there’s a good change you have been not thinking this way very much yet. You are conditioned to the other way of thinking. That can all change and you can too. It only means you are conditioned to a certain habit of thought and feeling.

Learn new thought and feeling habits and all of your life can become remarkable! The one set of questions and statements brings up less than glorious feelings. It points you in a negative direction. The other set sends you in a positive direction.

What do you want dog crap or diamonds? Do you want negativity, fear, worry, doubt, depression or positivity, confidence, peace, self-love, and joy? Choose! It is always up to you. It’s a brief example but I hope it helps illustrate the difference. You have to do it to know it!

Whether You Do Or You Don’t Is Completely Up To You

Practice it, long enough thought the days, and weeks and month and you will discover yourself moving in new directions. You’ll be more positive, optimistic and  cheerful. You will make more things happen and be less of a victim. That would be worth it, wouldn’t it?

Learning how to direct your mind in powerful positive ways makes all the difference in how easily and effortlessly you can discover becoming happier, healthier and wealthier. That’s a pretty great benefit in my book, don’t you think?

Imagine if you could go beyond anything that holds you back and begin getting the fabulous results you want instead. If you could do this now, how would you and your life begin to change, in so many wonderful ways?

The Quality Of Your Life Is Determined By Your Decisions 

You can’t even list them all, yet, but you could start enjoying new incredible ways of being? So try it out. Feel the difference when you take charge of your mind. Make it a habit and you will discover new things to enjoy! New opportunities and circumstances will present themselves to you when you master your mindset and attitude. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Have A Wonderful Life Part 2

“In my last blog post I shared how anyone can learn to have a more glorious and wonderful life. If you haven’t yet read that post I invite you to stop and read that one first. I’ll continue now to discuss the important power of your attention and your focus.

What you focus your attention on and for how long you focus on it matters mightily.  I repeat, what you focus on and the amount of time you spend focusing on it makes a critical difference as to the results you get. The strength and intensity of your focus is also crucial!

If you give passing thought to the good things but mostly concentrate on what is wrong, and what you don’t want, during your day, you get back precisely what you give most of your energy and time to. If you’re worried about crap, you will remain in the crap!

Accentuate The Positive – Eliminate The Negative

Get that? I mean do you get that? You must understand. Whatever you focus your flashlight of attention on is what you see and get. If most of your time is negative you will live mostly a negative life. To have a good or great life you must shift the balance to the positive.

Intensity makes a big difference! Some people focus strongly with great emotion for long hours, or days, on their problems and what they absolutely do not want. 20% crap gets you an 80% crap life!  That doesn’t lead to happiness and success! Get it? Do you get it?

What leads to a positive life is a positive, passionate, powerful, long term focus on the positive and productive aspects you want more of in your life. Focus on the good things with energy and  great passionate emotion! Focus on positivity most of your time! I repeat.

Celebrate Everything – Be Grateful – Find Blessings In All 

Focus on positivity for most of your time. Feel good most of your time, and your life changes. Mindset rules everything else. Most people keep missing this important piece. It isn’t hard work to change your life. Focus on the good to have a good experience!

If you don’t already do this naturally, then you MUST learn to if you want to live a wonderful life. The great news is ANYONE can learn to think better and create a better, even fabulous life. You simply must decide to being to do it right now! If you will, you’re on your way!

Is effort required? Sure, but as Napoleon Hill stated, when it came to being fabulously well off, in Think and Grow Rich, ‘When money comes, it is never the result of hard work.’ It is the result of having your mindset right. That is the truth about happiness too!

Whatever You Focus On Expands – You Get What You Focus On

How do I spend my time? In the present, as much as possible, savoring what IS, imagining and manifesting more of the future as I intend it to be, while enjoying all of it as it unfolds. It is a beautiful experience we all can have. So, pay attention. Focus your thoughts!

Make your mindset magnificent. Shift! Develop a positive powerful attitude. Become excited. Become passionate. Become positive. Feel grateful and practice gratitude. Delight more. Mope less. Do the thinking that makes a difference! Take action and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How You Can Create An Awesome Life

Do you want to get unstuck? Would you like to feel more fulfilled? Do you want to live a life you always dreamed you could? How would you like to eliminate whatever holds you back and manifest all your dreams? You can you know. All you have to do is this! Read on.

Whatever has held you back, whatever you say it is, understand this. That is an excuse. You suffer from ‘Excusitis’. it is time to stop putting off living the life of your dreams! You can be and do and have anything you want. You can achieve it. But you must do this!

You must make it happen. You can’t wait for it. You can’t hope and wish for it? You can’t want to attract it. You have to actually create it. You make it happen. You and only you! You have to get over all the reasons why you don’t have it and start making things right.

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

Get your head screwed on right. Correct your mindset. Manage your thoughts and feelings and take action. The only permission you need is yours. Give it!  Move on ahead full steam, with no excuses! Do it today. Be positive. Be optimistic. Stop waiting and wallowing.

Claim your own power. No one else is going to do it for you. The calvary ain’t coming to rescue you. Times don’t need to get better for you to do it now. YOU just have to do it. Start affirming you can. Start affirming you will. Decide. ‘I am going to do it. That is it! Period! I  make my dreams come true’. Get it? Do it! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Secret: You Keep Getting The Same Ole Crap Here’s How To Change That!

“Today, I am going to share with you two versions of one very important principle. What I share is very brief, yet very profound. You may have even heard this before, claiming you know it, but if you aren’t doing it, you don’t really know it. That is how it all works.

Here goes: If you always think as you have always thought you will always get what you always got. Perhaps, you heard it this way. If you always do what you always did, you will always get what you always got. Similar, yet different. The first, far more important.

Your thoughts run everything. They determine what you do or don’t do, whether you feel like it or not. One bad thought leads to another. One positive thought leads to another. Whatever you think about most frequently, you bring about. You do it. You make it happen.

You Can’t Escape The Consequences Of Your Thinking

So, if you never change your thinking, you will continue to get what you always have. If you want your life to change you must change things in your life. You must change you thinking from ‘stinkin thinkin’ to positive, powerful productive thinking. Get it?

Then you will feel like doing the right actions that bring about the results you want. Most people wallow and whine. Many say they know this, but if they haven’t made it work yet, they only know about it. They don’t know it! It’s not part of them. It’s information.

Information only changes you when you apply it. You put it into action. You want your life to change for the better then you must change your thinking for the better! When you do everything begins to change. If you aren’t where you want to be, you need to change to get there. Begin today. Practice gratitude and celebrate everything!” Rex SIkes

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