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Success Comes From Steady Progression

My last post included this quote ‘Success is the steady progression toward the realization of a goal,’ by Earl Nightengale. To succeed, all you have to do is keep progressing toward your goal. It is never over until it is over. You decide that moment. Many quit too soon.

Keep moving forward. An inch moved in the right direction, is progress in the right direction. Whether you get there slowly or quickly, you get there. Remember, the story of the tortoise and the hare? The tortoise methodically made it to the finish line.

You can too. Keep the faith. Keep doing a little bit each day. ‘Drop by drop the tub gets filled.’ You are not in a race. Remember that and keep the following in mind. Steady, positive progression is all that is needed. As long as you are progressing you are succeeding.

You Become What You Think About Most Often Each Day

Keep going. Keep making progress toward your goal. YOU can make it happen. You will! Just don’t quit. Never give up. You will learn and grow in the process. You’ll make mistakes and correct them. You will find or create a way. Along the way, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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To Live Abundantly You Need To Notice Abundance Now!

“Have you ever noticed that when you choose to recognize abundance around you, celebrate it, and feel abundant within, more and more good, just naturally and easily starts to come into your life?  When you acknowledge and celebrate you open these doors.

If you haven’t noticed it, yet, it is an indication your attention is not where it is most beneficial for you.  You will want to make some changes. If you’re experiencing lack, and troubles, it indicates that is where your focus is. You’re paying attention to circumstances.

This can be difficult at first to understand and to change. It is absolutely possible to do so. We’ve grown up conditioned to pay attention to events, people and times that are upsetting. From the media to our parents the focus typically is on the ‘bad news’.

You Get What You Focus On – What You Focus On Expands

We entertain it. We talk about it. We share it with our family and friends. We moan, fret and lose sleep over it. When someone comes along and says, ‘you don’t have to just change your focus’ it can be difficult to receive, but it is possible and it is necessary. Get it.

If you always do what you always did you always get what you always got. You will get more of the conditioned same that you always have. Results will be haphazard and life will be tougher. Energy flows where your attention goes.  Gotta change!

People create more lack and adversity when they choose to see what’s lacking and what is wrong. You get what you focus on. It does come back to you in a variety of ways. People focused on lack and problems are never satisfied. They always need more and more.

Energy Goes Where Attention Goes – Focus On What You Want

When you ‘need’ you create more needing. You get more of whatever you are focused on. Concentrate on what is good and what you have. Focus on abundance. Stop noticing what you don’t have now, and concentrate on what you do have now. Be grateful.

Appreciate where you are in life, on your journey. Stop focusing on how you aren’t at your destination yet. You get whatever you focus on whether what you focus on is positive or negative. SO focus on the positive. Focus on abundance, on health, on love, on peace.

I repeat:  Look for the good. Notice abundance all around you. Feel the good. Feel blessed. Feel healthy, wealthy and happy. Savor and enhance the good feelings. Vibrate high! Keep a gratitude journal. You will begin to notice more coming to you. Mindset is everything!

Renew Your Commitment To Abundance Mindset Each Moment

Your mindset and attitude determine what you create and attract. Keep in mind, it is what you create that matters the most. Begin focusing on what you can do! Do you want to live the best life ever? Then enjoy everything, be grateful, feel blessed and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What The Question ‘What Do You Want?’ Does For You

Asking what do you want clarifies your thinking. It re-focuses you. It puts your attention on what you want and what you want to include. It takes your energy from what you don’t want and wish to exclude and re-focuses it. Get it? It shifts you from powerless to powerful.

It helps put you back in the driver’s seat and in charge of your own life. You can use it whenever you have a limiting thought, feeling or behavior. You can use it regarding events, circumstances and others. Let’s say the bank refuses your loan. Ask ‘What do I want?’

Of course you want the loan, but why? What are you attempting to accomplish? What is the larger goal? What are you wanting to feel? There may be other ways of legitimately getting the outcome or the money, without the loan or going through the bank. Understand?

Energy Flows Where Your Attention Goes – Focus And Flow

It allows you to have a next step. You don’t have to know how it works out, but by asking ‘what do I want’ you focus your attention and energy on what is truly important. From there you may get other insights and ideas, flashes of intuition, if you listen.

When arguing with a loved one, remember to ask, ‘is this what I want? WHAT do I want?’ You can decide, ‘No. I want to get along. I want both of us to feel loved. I want to communicate with each other better. What do I want? I want to get along!’ That can change you!

When you go back to what you want and what is important to you, it focuses the energy on THAT instead of the argument. Get it? You refocus. You determine what is important to you and you seek to make that happen for both parties. YOU change the situation.

You Get What You Focus On – What You Focus On Expands

You shift things by making your internal adjustments. You don’t blame, whine, accuse, excuse yourself or the other, instead look for the positive, good you can focus on, that changes you and helps improve the situation for both of you. Get it? You shift and change it.

It gives you the means to get out of being stuck in non-productive, even repetitive, mental and behavioral loops. If you keep doing the same thing, hoping for different results, that IS the definition of insanity. If you want change, you must make changes. Get it?

It is up to you. Re-focus your energy. What do you want? Clarify and determine what is positive and supportive that will help you get what you want. What is it that is good for you and for others? Focus on making these changes along the way. Are you getting this?

Your Mind Is Powerful – Fill It With Positivity – And You’ll Change

Most likely, you will need to ask it, or do it, more than once. Trust me! You will. You can ask moment to moment. Every time you engage in a new behavior you can ask. When driving to work, how do you want it to go? You could think, ‘I want a safe, enjoyable drive’.

Listen to your answers. What do you want from your meal? ‘I want my body, mind and spirit to easily process this wonderful meal and fill me up nutritionally’. Or. ‘I want to maintain my ideal weight’ so you adjust what you eat and how much. Get it? Use the question.

Use it to guide you moment to moment. In any situation alone, or with others you can ask. Clarify, then move forward, once you have. This question, and the others I gave you, can be a real game changer when you routinely apply them to your life. So don’t stay the same.

Direct Your Mind Where You Want To Travel – It Will Take You

Especially, if you don’t want to. If you want to grow and evolve and make positive changes, using these questions can move you ahead more easily and quickly. So too, can practicing gratitude and understanding that each of life’s many moments are blessings. So celebrate everything!: Rex Sikes

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Success And Happiness Is Determined By How You Think!

“In recent blogs, I taught and I encouraged you to ask, ‘does this support me? Is this supportive or non-supportive?’ A very important consideration. Something either supports and uplifts you, or it does not. I snuck in another question, too. Perhaps, you noticed it.

If something is not supportive, ‘what can I change; what thought, feeling or behavior?’ If you discover your thoughts aren’t supporting you, then you should, you must change them, to supportive ones that help get you the results you want. Awareness, then shifting, is key!

If you do something that makes you feel bad, you want to change it to something that makes you feel good. Realize, you should have a conscience too. You ought to do what is best for you and everyone involved. I am never suggesting you do anything to harm anyone.

Whether You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You’re Right

That includes you and others. Be sensitive and be good to all. Another consideration, prior to getting into the next question I share, is this question? Is it positive or negative? If something is negative and doesn’t support you, change it? Focus on the positive.

You get what you focus on. You want a better life? You don’t get one by focusing on negativity, what is wrong or lacking. You make your life better by focusing on those positive thoughts, feelings and actions you can take, to get you positive and better results. Get it?

The point of these questions I am sharing, is to bring your awareness to the moment. Is what is going positive or negative? Does it support you or not? What change can you make to your thinking, feeling or behaving that will shift it from negative to positive and supportive?

Change Your Mindset And You Change Your Life – Be Positive

More next time. For now keep focused and keep asking. Stay tuned to what you are grateful for. This combination of gratitude and positivity, with questions that direct  you into being and feeling supportive, is unstoppable. Make it your new habit. Master it. It is amazing. Celebrate everything! Rex Sikes

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You Must Stop Vomiting On People!

“Does what we say matter? Does it matter to others? Does it matter to ourselves? From early times to present there’s a wealth of wise people pointing out that what we say shapes our reality. We think it and then speak it into being. What we talk about we bring about.

What we think about we bring about is an important notion. Recently, at a meeting I attended, a devout Christian stood up and quoted Proverbs 18:20. ‘A man’s belly shall be filled with the fruit of his mouth; With the increase of his lips shall he be satisfied.’

I don’t care whether you believe the Bible or not. That is not the purpose of my posts. Whatever you choose to believe or not, is up to you . Your faith is yours. I simply want to point out what all faiths and new thought leaders and thinkers have pointed out for eons.

Words Are Seeds – Be Careful What You Plant And What You Say

What we think about we bring about. What we say is what we get. The quote above is easily understood as what we say is important. What we repeatedly talk about IS what we think about. It IS what we feel about. It is what we create and experience and attract.

We can’t escape that we are responsible for our situations in life. The stories we tell daily about what happens to us, affect us. Most of us love drama. We want to tell others how we are used, abused, mistreated here, there, on the freeway, in the home and office.

By friends and by strangers; we talk about what we don’t want. We keep that morning commute skirmish alive throughout the day by repeating the tale to all who will listen. ‘Let me tell you what happened to me today!’ Blah Blah Blah we verbally vomit on others.

Life Is A Boomerang – What You Give Out You Get Back

We talk about the banks, big biz and government, gossip and the latest bad news on the internet. Our focus in not on the good we can create. We aren’t talking about how good things are, how easy it is, how beautiful life’s moments are and the many ways we are blessed.

This, however, is what we should endorse and repeat. We should speak only to bless, heal and prosper ourselves and others. Put a guard before your lips. Only command into being those things you want to bring into being! Stop talking about what is wrong!

Start talking about what is right. Practice gratitude and appreciation. Be thankful. Whatever you are talking about YOU ARE thinking about. What you think about you become. Get it? Instead, start feeling blessed and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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When Things Are Tough Stop Being A Crap Magnet!

When things are toughest, when the crap hits the fan what is one to do? Many buckle, cave and give in. They whine, complain, excuse and blame self, others, events and circumstances. While comforted by this negative, non-supportive habit, it does nothing to help.

Stop the whining and complaining. Stop finger pointing. It doesn’t change things.  The attitude that there are outer circumstances, forces, events or people who prevent you from being who you want or getting ahead doesn’t help you in the least,

Nor does it support you changing or circumstances changing. For you or the outer world to change you must FIRST change yourslef on the inside. The right mindset, the right thoughts and beliefs and feelings are crucial. Without these you get almost nowhere.

You Get What You Focus On – Energy Flows Where Attention Goes

Anyone who has changed, without exception, has either deliberately or inadvertently changed their mindset from one of negativity and failure to one of positivity, happiness and success. Without exception! This IS what you must do. From within to without it goes.

You must hope and envision a better day to bring it about. To give in to ‘big corruption’ or outer influences, and assume there will never be a change, assures you there won’t be. Keep the faith that it can and will always work out for the best. Hope and believe! You must!

Do whatever it takes positively to bring change about. This is the path. Have faith. Be optimistic. Share the positive vibes and limit the negative ones. Create more positivity than negativity. You know the analogy, darkness flees when the light is turned on. Turn yours on!

Stop Being A Crap Magnet – Create And Attract Positive Vibes

Decide to stop focusing on what is wrong. Start focusing on the solutions and what you want instead. Focus on the good. Find it no matter how difficult. Focus on what you can and do appreciate. Look for the blessings! Be grateful. Feel the gratitude fully! Believe you can and will bring about a better day and a better world. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Not Doing This Literally Robs You Of Your Life!

“Everyday you are being robbed. That absolutely sucks. Has anyone ever taken anything that belongs to you and not returned it. Not good, right? Every single day you are losing out.  Every day you are missing the mark and ending up with far less than you could have.

Each day you lose time. You lose energy. You lose opportunities that bypass you. Have you ever had an idea you thought was great, a money maker, but you didn’t take action on it. Someone else did and they enjoyed great success. Opportunities like that, may come once.

You may be reading the newspapers online and offline, articles on FB and more of the same, daily. You may be posting your displeasure and arguing with others. You may be viewing countless hours of video or attempting to get the very latest breaking news .

What You Read Has The Power To Change You 

You could be gossiping with co-workers and neighbors. Playing online games and gambling. Perhaps, you run down to the casino every few days to try your luck. Perhaps, you are reading trashy romance or popular novels one after the other. It doesn’t matter.

There are lots of ways to spend time.  It is important to feel good. Some things make us feel really good, which IS really good. Other things distract us from feeling not so good. They are ok. They bring pleasure and guilty pleasure but they are a substitute for good.

These distract us from ourselves and from our life. We can never get our time back. Ever! Wasting time robs us! So, how we spend our time, should be a priority for each of us. It is probably an accurate statement, that you could make better use of your time.  Am I right?

Reading Can Change Your Thoughts – Your Words – Your Actions

If you want to change, and transform yourself and your life into the best it can be, then there are things you need to do, that help you do that. One of these is reading. Reading inspirational and motivational books. Not just any book that comes along but some of the classics.

You’d be better served if, daily, you spend your time reading Napoleon Hill, Ernest Holmes, Wallace Wattles, Neville Goddard, David Schwartz, Joseph Murphy, Norman Vincent Peale, Dale Carnegie, and Abraham Hicks. Feed your mind some positivity.

Get some positive nutrition. Don’t get pulled down into the fray, rise above. Do some daily mental conditioning. If you could read for an hour each day that would be wonderful. If you think you can’t, then read whatever you can. 30, 20 15, 10, 5 or even a minute. Get it?

Your Life Does Not Get Better By Chance – You Change It

How you spend your time is crucial to your happiness and success. The more time you spend feeding and conditioning your mind for positive thoughts and enjoying positive feelings, the more positive actions you will take, that lead to positive outcomes and results.

Get it? Read these books and let them inspire you and direct your mind. Why read? Because when you do you use your imagination. You visualize and can picture yourself happy and successful. You affirm. You think, ‘I can do that!’ ‘I will do that!’ You use your mind.

Stop robbing yourself and start caring for yourself. You have to value your time and energy and how you use your mind and feelings.  Put an end to distractions that rob you. Instead, put your mind to good use. You never get back the time you waste! NOW, is the only time.

It Is Important To Think Positive And Feel Good Most Of Your Time

Remember, the more time you put your mind to better use, the more likely you are to get the good results and have the lifestyle you desire. Spend time feeling good. Use your imagination. Affirm your happiness!  You’ll feel happier and more successful as you do.

You’ll get further, faster, when you spend your time, filling your mind daily, with good, positive, reading material. Utilize  this blog as part of your regime. Spend time being inspired and feeling grateful. Practice appreciation for everything in your life. It will change you. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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