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You Must Over Come The Solution To Your Problem!

“Often, what you think the ‘fix’ is, isn’t. Your best reasoning may be lazy, faulty, and based on inaccurate info, or simply the result of prior past limited conditioning. ‘The best-laid plans of mice and men often go awry. The saying goes. You think you know the solution, but don’t.

That is the reason you must overcome the solution to your problem. Because sometimes the solution creates more unintended consequences than the original problem created consequences. It is the equivalent of pouring gasoline on a fire. Hence, Einstein’s quote.

‘We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.’  If you always do what you always did you will always get what you always got. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing again and again expecting different results.

When Nothing Is Going Right – Go Left – Do Anything Else

We must learn new ways to think. We must overcome our own reasoning and blind spots to go beyond what we know, and what we don’t know, to discover new possibilities and modes of thinking and behavior that lead us to the desired results and outcomes we want.

We must learn to manage our thinking, be positive, and think in new ways. We need to design our minds and our lives to begin getting the positive good we want to get. Once we learn how to do this our results can skyrocket. We move forward positively and can create and live our best life ever! This is possible. The opportunity is before you. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Try Doing The Opposite For A Change

“If your inner world is yucky because the outer world is yucky then you need to make some changes. If your outer world is yucky because your inner world is yucky you have changes to make. Keep your inner world positive and optimistic, cuz what else can you do?

Choose to make the inner incredible in spite of what goes on outside and you may just transform everything. Since you can’t control the outer world much, you might as well learn to control your inner world. Right? Consider that for a moment. Then…

Consider this:  some people think ‘realty’ is outside of them. Their circumstances are real. They consider their inner world a dream world or  ‘the unreal’ world. They think the inner is some delusion or fantasy.  Well, what if it were the reverse?  What if it is the opposite?

You Are Where Your Thoughts Have Brought You

What if the outer is the delusion and the inner the reality?  Just to change things up if you have ever thought this. If you have done the other version for many years, and you have thought the outer was more real than the inner, then try this on for yourself.

Imagine the inner is the actual reality and the outer is just a dream that you can shape by how you think about it. The more positive you become the more you can positively influence your future. Get it? It is an exercise! Try this at least try this for 90 days, or more, to give it a bit of a chance. After all, you’ve done the other for all this time. Practice something new! Discover something new! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How You Create The Future You Want To Create?

“How do you create the positive future you want to create? It isn’t magic, but when all is said and done, it may seem like magic. You create your positive good by staying focused on it. You focus on the invisible, that which exists in your imagination. You keep your focus.

Don’t let circumstances deter or disappoint you. Everything that humans have ever created first existed within the imagination. It is translated into reality by staying true to your dream and allowing your own intuition to develop a plan. You may adjust the plan many times along the way. Stay true to your vision. You will bring it about as you persist in your vision. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Do This Since You Can’t Change The Past

“Have you harmed someone in your present? What can you do to make things better? Have you harmed anyone in the past; physically, emotionally, mentally, spiritually? Has someone harmed you? To take care of yourself and move forward you must make some changes.

You cannot go back and change the past. You can however make amends to yourself and others for past wrongs. You can forgive yourself and forgive the others. If they are no longer alive you can release them in your heart and mind. You can change yourself.

Having learned from past mistakes you can change your present behavior for the better. By genuinely doing this you can move forward with a clean conscience. You do whatever you can to correct the situation. You take the actions you can to make things better.

If You Want Your Life To Change You Must Make Some Changes

You release and let go. You forgive yourself for hurting others and yourself. You forgive and let go of others for hurting you. Then having released the persons, the memories and feelings, you can learn the lessons you need to learn from having gone through this.

Ask yourself what you needed to learn from this experience? What is the positive good you get from the lesson of that situation? Discover it and  you can begin to appreciate everything.  Instead of suffering, you let go and begin to move forward positively.

You can begin to create an whole new future. You re-create yourself in light of the positive lessons you glean from the undesirable circumstances back then. Leave the past in the past. Free your mind from any uneasiness. Free your heart. Resolve to do better.

Always Do What You Always Did You’ll Always Get What You Got

Apply the positive lesson and you will do better. Be positive. Learn to feel good. Be grateful. Consider your learning an opportunity and blessing.  You can change how you feel about any circumstance and person by changing what you choose to focus on. It is always up to you. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Are You Ruled By Mythic Thinking?

“Positive thinking and optimistic thinking does not necessitate that it ever become unrealistic. That is mythic thinking. That is a great misunderstanding about positive thinking. Positive thinking does not mean turning a blind eye to problems. It has never meant that!

Blind thinking, as some have said, is to imagine ‘there are no weeds, there are no weeds’ when there are weeds. That is not positive thinking. That is ignoring the weeds.  Positive thinking is ‘I can weed the garden. I can learn to weed. I can make it beautiful.’ Get it?

One can ask, ‘what needs to be done to make this the best garden? I can take care of this’. Thought precedes action so the appropriate follow up to ‘I can weed the garden’, is to then weed the garden. Many people misunderstand what it means to think positively.

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Correct

Many misconceptions abound.  Positive thinking is most useful in creating what one wants. You can create and design your plans. You aim at the target so you can hit it. It can even include knowing what you don’t want to clarify what you do want. YUP! It does indeed

You can’t build a building knowing only what you don’t want in it. You have to know what you do want! An architect draws very specific plans! Looking at the plans one might decide the closet should be located elsewhere. You know what you don’t want.

Then, switch focus from ‘what is wrong,’ to the ‘right’ you intend to pursue and create. Example aside, positive thinking is incredibly useful in righting wrongs; the ‘wrongs’ in your personal life and in society. Stop tearing down, but recognize what you won’t tolerate.

Then make a plan to create what you want instead. What you resists persist, but you can overcome the problem. You can even overcome the solution to the problem to make things better than you could otherwise previously imagine. Get it? It’s important. Do you?

The More You Do The More You Become Capable Of Doing

What do I mean by overcome the solution? Sometimes, the obvious solution isn’t  the wisest or the most efficacious. Sometimes, the very solution one is attempting to utilize IS the problem or exacerbates the issue. This can be overcome by better thinking.

Positive thinking means you don’t let the negative thinking get you down or derail you from useful, well constructed plans or goals. It means you put your best ‘mindset’ on, manage your thoughts, and put your best foot forward. You function realistically and optimally.

In spite of odds, you continue to prevail. You persist and see it through. You adjust as necessary along the way. Use positive thinking! If you don’t know how, or if you struggle to, you can learn and train yourself to think more positively. You can make positive thinking  a reliable habit. If you want to be happier and more successful this is a must! Learn how to transform yourself and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Isn’t It Time To Feel Good About Yourself?

“Many of us, for whatever the reasons, have gotten down on ourselves. We treat each ourselves harshly. We are critical and we judge ourselves and past choices and behaviors. We regret. We live in victimhood. Isn’t it time you decided to feel good about yourself?

Isn’t it time to realize you did the best you could with what you knew at the time. Those days are over. Let them go. Before you do, decide to forgive yourself for whatever you did or whomever you were back then. Forgive and let go. Now, forgive yourself for being cruel to you.

Forgive yourself for judging and treating yourself without respect. Let it all go. Let all the doubts and personal injury slip away, fade away. Let go of all the negative thinking about yourself. Put an end to it. Start to recognize your positive characteristics and attributes.

You Go Where Your Thoughts Take You – You Create Reality

Emphasize these. Emphasize the good in you. Emphasize your positive accomplishments,  You are only human, after all. Cut yourself some slack. Accentuate the positive. Eliminate the negative. Every time you notice a limitation or defect in yourself, stop!

Stop, drop and let it go, Then find a positive trait or asset to feel good about. Stop wallowing in pain and suffering, start being thankful, feeling blessed and feeling the good you can come to enjoy when you do this. Make a list of all your positive characteristics. List them!

List your talents and abilities. List what you are learning to do. List all that you are thankful for about yourself. Praise and encourage and nurture yourself. Find things in your life, experiences, people, events and circumstances to be grateful for. Consider all of it a blessing.

What You Focus On Expands – You Reap What You Sow

Realize you are a gift to the universe and you have the gift of life. Enjoy both! Treat yourself with love, compassion, respect and kindness. Discover your good. Look for it and find it! Discover your light! Let your light shine! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Would You Like To Stop Making A Mess Of Things?

“What are you creating for yourself? What are you making? Is it magnificent or is it a mess? Lots of people are great at creating a mess. Fewer are magnificent at creating the magnificent. Wouldn’t you like to stop making problems and create the life of your dreams?

You can when you apply some simple, but powerful, principles consistently, for long enough to make create supportive habits. I am fond of saying ‘Always remember, if you wrestle someone in the mud, you both get dirty.’ The same applies to your thoughts.

What are your dominant thoughts? Do you focus on the ‘I can’, ‘I am able’, ‘I will’, ‘I accomplished’, or do you focus on the less than glorious? Where do you spend most of your time? Are you mostly positive? How high are you vibing? This is important. Gotta feel it!

What Is Now Proved Was Once Impossible

The more positive and high vibe your thoughts are the more powerful they are. Your subconscious gets the message you want it to get when your positive attitude has HIGH SIGNAL value. Think of powerful broadcasting stations and their ability to reach further.

The same is true of your thoughts. Wimpy thoughts gets wimpy or less than glorious results. Powerful, positive thoughts gets powerful positive results! Remember, the story of the two dogs within you waging battle. The one that wins is the one you feed. Feed often!

Turn your thoughts in positive, powerful, high vibe mental broadcasts. This is how you begin to create what you want and attract what you want. Stop making messes. Create your best life ever. You can when you know what to do! Remember the statement, ‘If it is to be, it is up to me!’ Celebrate everything! Rex Sikes

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