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You Will Never Have The Good Life Doing This!

“Stop and consider this. Why on earth would you ever get what you want while focused on what you don’t want? I mean really. If you wanted to come and visit me, but focused on every place I wasn’t at, how would you ever expect to get there? You wouldn’t, would you?

Yet, this is what people do all the time. They think, speak and affirm all the difficulty and issues they experience. They gleefully share bad news with family and friends. They out do each other with stories of woe. Do you think this leads to a more positive and productive life?

There is a reason for the statement, ‘misery loves company’. There is a reason for the statement, ‘birds of a feather flock together’. You get more of the same, whatever you are focused on. You don’t get its opposite. You don’t get to Milwaukee, talking about Texas.

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t – You Are Right

You must focus on where you want to end up regardless of where you are right now. That is the principle behind the GPS. It knows where you are and where you want to get to. It assists you in choosing the quickest path, and in some cases, avoiding blocks.

That is what affirming, what you want, does for you. It keeps the destination in  mind while you journey. If you want more good things in life, you must put and keep your attention on those. Energy flows where attention goes. You get what you think about most often!

You don’t get what you love, focused on what you hate. So, why do you persist? Habit. It has been a habit and you must learn to change the habit. That is why I write this blog to help you. That is why I have products and seminars for many years assisting people. Get it?

You Become What You Think About Most Often

Stop focusing on what your problems are and begin shifting your attention to what you want to be, do and have! No matter what circumstances present themselves, no matter where you are on the journey, stay focused. This is how you make it happen. Get it? Focus on what you want. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Can’t Have It Both Ways!

“Some people try and noticeably fail. You just cannot have it both ways. Instead of being focused and putting their attention into what they want to include and keeping it there, they get distracted. They focus on what they do not want. They end up wishy-washy.

That ambivalence is keeping you stuck, if that is what you do. You can’t have one foot on the dock and another on the boat and feel comfortable and well off. You can’t want wealth, while thinking and telling stories of scarcity, lack and hardship. It just doesn’t work!

You can’t have health, focused on illness. Nor, can you have love while focused on loneliness or resentment. You can’t have it both ways. You can’t have peace if you are a warmonger. Energy flows where you attention goes. The story you tell, is what you live from.

Singular Focus Creates Success – Divided Attentions Prevents It

In order to have what you want, you need to think, speak and act like you already have it. Pretend it in your mind. Feel all the good feelings of enjoying it, now, on the inside. As a kid you used your imagination. Successful, happy people still do! They know how to focus. Get it?

They know what to focus on. You can to! Do it today. Focus on what you want without paying any attention to not having it yet. Create an inner world where it is already yours. Stop telling stories to yourself and others of woe. Speak only to bless, heal and prosper!

Let go of the bad and focus only on the good. Let go of the scarcity and lack of anything, and only focus on including what you want. Be grateful for what you already have, whether it is little or a lot. Feel the appreciation. As you do, your energy will change. It really does!

Focus On Opportunities And You’ll Have More Opportunities

Be grateful. Gratitude works wonders. When you stay true to what you want and let go of the rest, you open doorways to create  it. When you stay true to one side, your mindset, your feelings, your energy and actions align. You align yourself totally with making it happen. That is power! Do it! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Who And What Are You Inviting Into You Life

“How is your life going? If it is not what you want it to be ,you want to consider what you are inviting or allowing in. Whatever you focus on, you give your attention to, your energy to, and you continue to enhance or amplify or perpetuate it. This is crucial to understand!

Whatever you focus on, you invite. You amplify. You perpetuate! Where your concentration is, where your mind is most of the day and night and how you feel, determines how you move through the world. It determines whether you get more goodness or not.

You don’t have to think in terms of Law Of Attraction. It isn’t anything ‘woo woo’. It is actually based in science. One simple example is the Law Of Cause and Effect. For every cause there is an equal and opposite effect. Your thoughts have an effect.

You Are Today Where Your Thoughts Have Brought You

If you push someone the person’s body responds. They may push back. Water under concentrated pressure can cut through rock. There is always an effect. If you think negatively, you will get more of the same. If you think positively, you will get more of the same.

What you aren’t likely to get is this: If you think negatively you won’t get positivity. Consider your thinking an invitation. Whatever you think, you invite more of. If you think ‘I am broke. I want money.’ You are essentially thinking, ‘Money doesn’t come to me.’

You aren’t inviting it by thinking of what you do not have. You aren’t attracting or creating money by thinking about what you don’t have or don’t want. Do you get this? You must think, concentrate and focus on that which you do want, without inviting the opposite.

Tomorrow You Will Be Where Your Thoughts Today Take You

If you think, ‘I want money because I don’t have any’ you’re thinking about what you don’t want. You’re thinking about the scarcity or lack of money. The same is true of love, romance, friendship, health or anything you desire. You attract or create what you focus on.

In order to get what you want, you need to focus on what you want and feel good about it. The good feelings drive the show. You want more good feelings. Feel good now. Think and do those positive things that help you feel your best, right now, in the present!

Good feelings create more good feelings. Get it? So celebrate what you have. Enjoy and delight in it. Feel good about it. Be thankful and appreciative. Be lighthearted. Live carefree. Know that all is well. This is how to create more goodness. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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A Powerful Yet Easy Way To Accomplish More Doing Less!

“You have a change you want to make but you don’t feel much like doing it. Yet you know you should. What to do? Is there a way to begin getting things done, accomplishing more, without getting burned out and giving up? Yes, there is! Read on and learn.

Whatever you want to do, whatever change you want to make for yourself, whether it’s personal or a task you want to accomplish, do some small part of it right away. Commit. Make sure you do something within 24 hours. 48 hours at the most. Just do it!

Do something small enough to begin right where you are. Don’t wait. Really, don’t let 24 hours pass without taking a small action. Want to clean your office?  Heck, throw out a magazine, or organize your pens. Anything that beings the process. THAT, you can do, right?

The More We Do The More We Can Do – Just Begin It! – Do It

It is all step by step, inch by inch. You don’t need to take massive action to get massive results. It is preferable to take minimum action to massive results. That is the 80/20 notion. Do 20% to get 80%. Okay, so begin doing something. Then do another small something.

Soon you will have completed the task. Once you begin it and do a few small things, it is more likely you will wish to continue. Motivation comes from doing, not from waiting. Get it? Do it! Do it right away. As soon as you can after you made the decision. Act on it.

You will soon find, if you work this way, you’ll be so much more productive. You’ll develop habits that support you. A 1% increase daily amounts to 365% increase in a year. That’s a great return on investment. So do a little each day and you will accomplish a lot! All the while you are doing so, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Do You Think The World Is Ending?

“Lots of terrible things going on in the world. According to some we are in the last days. Society appears to be falling apart. The weather is an issue. So many bad things happening all at once. Is there any chance we are at the end as we know it? Can we survive?

My son asked me if I thought the world was ending. I asked him if he did and why. He said, ‘yes, could be, with all the storms and fires and bad stuff happening in the world. There is so much bad going on.’ For some people, my son has a point.

I gently pointed out that while it seemed dire, we get news of bad events, daily, from a variety of media sources; news, music, movies, TV talk shows, gossip, social media, etc. We crane our necks at accidents, and are focused on disasters near and far. Aren’t we?

It All Depends Where You Focus Your Attention

Still, when it boils down to it, there are far more days of good weather, than bad weather. There are far more good events, than bad events happening in the world. There are far more good people, than bad, or most likely all the rest of us would already be dead.

All dictators and terrorists of the past are dead and gone. The current ones will be, too, someday. So no, I don’t think the world is ending. People think it is because that’s what they’re conditioned to believe. It’s all about perspective. It’s all about what fills our minds.

It’s all about who you listen to. Media is designed to part us with our dollars and to create a certain thinking citizenry. It is a form of mind control. It’s designed to distract and misinform. It’s all about painting the worst possible scenarios. That keeps us off balance, un-united.

You Get What You Focus On – What You Focus On Expands

Keep in mind, bad news sells. People invest hard earned savings buying headline news gossip rags at the supermarket checkout. It is a habit and a passion of people. If you are busy being worried, filled with fear and divided among yourselves, you will never be in charge.

If you spend your time arguing over the ‘truth’ or the ‘correct’ political choices, or ‘climate change’ or ‘race and gender, and citizenship issues’  you will never singularly be powerful enough to challenge the status quo. You will never unite with others.

Some issues do deserve some of our attention. We each and all should work together to right wrongs and help all people live better lives all around the world. We could stand to become less selfish and more accepting. We could be more generous and helpful. Still…

Focus On Good Habits You Want To Do Not Bad Habits You Don’t

Each of us must STOP drinking the negative ‘sugary drink’ and begin to realize life is what you make of it. If storms come, of any kind, if you are prepared and wise and smart about it, you will prevail. You can weather all storms of nature, economics, and war.

You will be triumphant in  your personal daily struggles if you learn to take charge of your thoughts, feelings and actions. If you decide to take charge of your life and be responsible for whatever is, then you can start creating what you want. Stop focusing on the crap.

Recognize the crap is there to help you determine what you want instead of the crap. Put your attention and focus and energy on what you want instead. Think and feel and work to bring about the good things you want for yourself and the world.  It’s up to each of us!

It Is Time To Wake Up

If you don’t take charge and control your thoughts and your life then you are already controlled by someone else. They may not have your best interests in their heart. So you need to be sure you are in charge. It’s the time to cut loose from bad news and become free.

Live full and free. Stop being afraid and instead, live the life you choose to live. Make the good things happen by your efforts. Be a victor not a victim! Do it. Make it how you want it to be. Stop fearing. Stop wishing. Stop waiting. Stop whining. Start doing!

Take charge and design a positive life that you want and that is good for everyone else too. Make you, your life, and your world better. Only you can do it. It is up to each one of us to do what we can. If you don’t, then you won’t and you’ll stay a victim.

No the world isn’t ending it is just beginning.

This made sense to him. I have a smart boy! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What You Do Now Determines What Happens Next

“Always remember that the thought you think now determines the next thought. It creates and attracts what follows it. Our thoughts lead to our feelings. What we think now determines how we feel. How we feel determines our next thought. It is cyclic. It is a loop.

A negative thought leads to negative feelings and other negative thoughts. A positive thought leads to positive feelings and other positive thoughts. You either spiral down into more negativity and bad feelings or up into positivity and good feeling. It is a direction.

Get it? You set a direction by the thoughts you think. Either positive or negative. You determine what happens next by what you think right now. This is why it is important to learn to control, take charge of, and manage your thinking. You get back what you put out!

Positivity Is A Choice – Your Destiny Is Shaped By Your Decisions

As you deliberately think more frequently about what you want, as you consistently think more positively, as you think and speak in this way, and think less and speak less of what you do not want, you will discover yourself feeling and acting better. You get what you put out.

You will feel better, think better, and as a result act better and wiser. You will transform yourself and your life. Remember, we become what we think about most of the time. How you spend your time thinking is the difference that makes the difference for you.

Stay positive. Stay consistently positive. Focus on what you want that is good and that you desire. Stop thinking about what is negative, bothering you. and what you want to exclude from your life. Choose which you will do most. It is completely up to you.

Your Happiness In Life Depends On The Quality Of Your Thoughts

Your decision determines what happens next. Step by step along the way. You will discover life extremely pleasing when you become predominantly positive. Discover the joy that awaits you by taking charge of your thinking and therefore your life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Transform Your Crap Magnet Into Your Opportunity Magnet

“Are you ever concerned, as others are, about bad things or negative events? What should you think, and do, about them? Do you wonder why they happen and how to enjoy better things, events and circumstances? I’d like to help clarify some important concepts.

Bad things are blessings! This may seem difficult to comprehend but you will benefit  greatly, once you are able to embrace this. ‘Bad things’ help you to know what you do want. Whenever ‘bad things or negative thoughts occur you think or say, ‘I DON’T WANT THIS’.

What do you want instead? This moment, is an an opportunity to find, and focus on, what you want, and make what you want, begin to happen. Immediately ask, ‘WHAT DO I WANT?’  Focus on this. Then, instead of hoping, start committing.  Decide to be different!

Speak What You Seek Until You See What You’ve Said – Create

Hope is fine, but wishing and hoping won’t change things. Resolve to make it different. Decide. Commit. Find, what you  want. Clarify it. Specify what you want. Focus on that. Decide to bring it about. Think, ‘I am going to do this, that’s it! I’m going to make this happen!’

Stop being a victim of negativity and circumstances. Resolve that you are bigger than any obstacle. Mindset is important! Fix your mind on the positive good you want! Determine to make it happen. Become invincible. Marshal your positive resources. It’s up to you!

Don’t worry about how you will do it. First, decide to do it. The how will come after you make the decision and begin taking action. You go as far as you can see, and when you get there, you will see farther. Get it? YOU are the force that changes things for the better.

What You Focus On Expands – You Get What You Focus On

If it is going to change for you, YOU are going to make the changes. You are the one who makes the difference. Get this right! You are the positive, powerful, force in your life, or you are not. Which is it? Make the decision to take charge. Set your attitude. It’s everything!

When you focus solidly on what you want, when you know precisely what you want, your subconscious, looks for opportunities, you would otherwise miss, while preoccupied with negative events and thoughts. When you change your mindset, everything changes!

Move forward. Be willing to make good happen. Begin now. Focus on the good. Be grateful for the opportunity. Consider the negative events, not as negative, but as a blessing for you to get clear and make good things happen. Feel the gratitude. Feel the resolve. Feel the energy and flow. When you do EVERYTHING CHANGES! Energy flows where you attention goes. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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