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The #1 Ingredient You Need To Succeed!

“Do you know what ingredient you must have to succeed? Without it success is unlikely. Sure, you might ‘luck’ into it but is that how you want to go through life? Probably not! Don’t you want to know you can make it if you attempt it? This ingredient makes that possible.

Those who succeed the most not only have a white hot burning desire, passion and enthusiasm for what they do for creating the success they have they have something else. They have unshakeable confidence, trust or faith in themselves and that they will prevail.

Faith or certainty is what they have. While one can never be certain, they are! They know that no matter what they will continue until they make what they want happen. They will persist. They believe in themselves so much and in their future they continue until they win.

The Mind Is As Strong As Its Weakest Think – Believe In Yourself

What is faith? I’ll share on faith in the next blog post. Know this. If you don’t have faith you most likely aren’t ever going to accomplish what you hope to. That is the bad news. The good news is faith can be developed. If you don’t have it, you can! BUT you have to work it!

Get it? It never just happens to you, except in very rare occasions. You make it happen. If it is to be it is up to me, is how the saying goes. Your thoughts, feelings, actions and vibes determine the results you get.  Your results are up to you! Develop the necessary belief in yourself and you too can succeed far more readily and easily than without it. Take charge and make it happen! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How You Stay In Or Get Out Of The Suck Cycle

“How can you begin getting what you want to get? How can you begin to become happier, healthier, wealthier and more successful? Is there something you aren’t doing that would make the difference when you did it? Yes, there absolutely is.  Do this and transform!

Tell the story, to yourself, repeatedly, how life is already the way  you want it! You are already the person you want to become! See it in your mind. Visualize the dream. Affirm it daily. Convince yourself you are the person of your dreams, living your dreams right now.

Live it. Act as if. Pretend it purposely, enthusiastically and vividly. Play and have fun. Delight and give thanks. We impress upon our subconscious our wants and desires through enthusiastic, emotional repetition. Determine to make what you want, happen. Do it!

Turn Your Desire Into A White Hot Burning Obsession 

The reason so may have troubles is when feeling anger, sad or negative they affirm life sucks. They whine, blame, complain and wallow in the negativity and low vides. Hence life does suck. We get back what we put out. Learn this and stop the suck cycles.

We move forward positively and more readily the more we let go of negative circumstances, people and issues. The less we notice we aren’t where we want to be yet, and the more we imagine we already are, and act and feel as if we are, the quicker we close the gap.

It is what we did as children. We pretended whole-heartedly. That is the way one makes things happen. Live it and do it. It does not come to you as if by magic you make it happen from your power within. Think, feel and act like a success and you will eventually be a success.

Believe You Can Do It With Absolute Certainty Persist And Persist

You are already. You just don’t recognize that yet, fully. Sometime, sooner or later, you will look back and go ‘wow, how far I have come.’ Keep playing and having fun. Stay focused. If you do it haphazardly you will get haphazard results. If you commit to it and do it consistently you will get consistent results. Delight and enjoy. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What About Those Nasty People And Circumstances?

“Who do you listen to? Who do you pay attention to? Who are your teachers? When it comes to learning how open and available are you? How easily do you learn? Do you dabble? It is all up to you. Are you willing to do whatever it takes to master the material?

There are important teachers and mentors but those may be the subject of another blog post. I have already addressed these important influences. More importantly is another realization. When you realize this you entire life can instantly transfor,m.

Everyone IS already our teacher. Until we open our hearts we don’t realize it. We are blinded to that as a possibility.  Because we are so sure we know, we miss most everything. That is because we don’t know what we don’t know. We can’t see around the corner!

Awareness Can Lead To Massive Positive Transformation – Let Go

Every circumstance is our teacher. All the nasty, rude, difficult people and horrible circumstances provide lessons, opportunity and blessings, if we only become aware, open ourselves up to look and find them. We must be willing to look, to seek, in order to find.

All of our experience can teach us. Learning to be open, available , and see the good in everything is crucial to our happiness and success. Without the ability to let go and surrender we place most of our happiness on people, things and circumstances outside us.

We make the outer the key to our success and happiness when it comes from within instead. We need to correctly make attributions and as long as out focus is on people, places, things, events outside ourselves we miss out. We can’t know what we can’t know.

What We Focus On Expands – We Become What We Think About

We need to develop trust and faith that it is all good and all is there for our ultimate benefit whether difficult or easy. Our thinking determines how we feel about those things that happen to us. Our thinking makes happen, or at the very least, contributes to the same.

When we learn to change our thinking from negative to positive, when we learn to seek the good, the lesson and blessing in all things, when we learn to be truly grateful for all of it and let go of resistance but instead trust and surrender, our lives become blissful!

We become free. We enjoy a peace beyond description. This is available to you when you are ready to let go and learn from all. Let go and let god is an important saying to adopt. Invite the higher power, infinite intelligence, source, god, the divine, whatever you call it, to help you let go and learn. Learn to  Be. Learn to be present and thankful. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Destination Is The Journey Not Something Different PT 4

“Is that what you want? You get what you focus on. It’s important to know what you want and where you want to go. Yes, have a destination but focus on it as if you already have it. Think of it as already yours. Stop feeling bad by noticing you do not yet have it!

You can’t feel bad and think negative and have a positive life. If you miss the journey you miss all that contributes to you having a great future. Your future IS in your present! It is now. Celebrate and enjoy now. Be glad and be grateful for all of it! Seek and find the good.

When you do you transform everything! This is where the power of manifestation is! Let go of not being there yet. Instead, be thrilled with where you are each step of the journey. Every second along the way blessings and miracles and good abound. You will find it, if you only look and acknowledge and celebrate that it is HERE. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Destination Is The Journey Not Something Different PT 3

“Then, I will be happy. Here is an important point. Then, either comes when it comes, or it doesn’t come at all. There is no actual, then. There is only, now! If you put off your enjoyment until, then, when you think it will be perfect, you will only find it eludes you.

Once there, you will have another ‘then’ that you seek. So many people report their dissatisfaction with getting ‘everything I ever wanted’ because that isn’t what fulfills us. Enjoy this moment. Find miracles and blessings in this moment, then the next will be filled!

You get what you focus on. Then, is always a distance away. If your focus is on not being there yet, you will never get there. You will continue to pursue the elusive fulfillment of the future only to find you robbed yourself of all the good times in the meantime. STOP! Instead, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes – Continued next post.

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The Destination Is The Journey Not Something Different PT 1

“Drop by drop fills the tub. It happens in time. If you keep moving forward you will get there eventually. Keep growing and keep enjoying.. What else is there to do? Hate the journey? Do you wish to be miserable all along the way until you get there?  That sucks!

That is a waste of your present. You are living too much in the future if you are noticing you aren’t there yet. You aren’t in the present enjoying how glorious it can be right now. You’re mentally elsewhere and it is robbing you of your life and your peace and happiness!

Whether you focus on the past and carry around pain or you focus on the future worried about it or upset that the good you desire hasn’t manifested yet, you are keeping all the good away. You get back what you focus on. Instead focus on how marvelous now is! I’ll continue in the next post. Learn to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Stop Struggling And Find Peace

“Do you feel troubled or in turmoil? Are you fretting over a situation or a loved one, friend, or stranger? Are you letting your thoughts and emotions get the best of you? If this applies to you, stop, take a few deep breaths and as you breathe out let it all go. Simply, drop it.

You may find yourself needing or wanting to repeat this frequently. Here is why: we are used to having problems and troubles. We are comfortable being disturbed. We have worked on figuring out things all our life. It is our conditioning. We struggle. It is habitual!

Letting go of that takes us out of our comfort zone. We rebel inside. ‘Hey, wait, what is going on?’ Doubts, fears, anxiety arises. Why? Because we stop doing what we are used to doing. We don’t have a program for not struggling. Our subconscious scrambles now.

You Can’t Change The Circumstances You Can Change Yourself

We encounter limiting beliefs and feelings. It is homeostasis. Just like your thermostat. If it gets too warm it kicks in to cool down. If it gets too cool it kicks in to warm up. It is automatic and designed to keep us the same, doing the habits and conditioning we learned.

When we decide to take on a new goal or put an end to an old behavior these processes rear up attempting to keep us reliably as we were. That is why it seems difficult to change. Especially at first. We can change! We just need to practice the new behaviors enough.

We make new thoughts, feelings and action habit by repeating them over and over, for long enough, until they become automatic, reliable, new, positive habits. Then it’s easy again. Whatever we hope to do with ease we must first do with diligence. So we practice!

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

‘Today, I have decided I am at peace. I allow myself to let go and let god, the universe, source, or my higher power, whichever works for you, run the show. I caste my burden on the divine, so I may go free and be at peace.  I enjoy the peace that passes all understanding.’

One of the ways to help yourself most readily and easily change is to direct your mind to the positive through affirmations and questions. What you focus on expands. We get back what we think about. Energy flows where attention goes. Use the above affirmation.

Or create your own. Declare it with enthusiasm or ask it as questions. The point is to stay focused on what you want and let go of what you don’t want. Eliminate what you want to eliminate and focus on what you want to create, think, feel or do instead. Get it?

Change Begins The Moment You Honestly Decide To Change

Then, hang in there. Continue, persist, until you fashion and secure the new thoughts, feelings and behaviors you want to get. When you do transform in this way you begin to get new positive, wonderful results. Everything can change for the better, when you do!

Gratitude works wonders. If you are thankful even for your struggles, and can find blessings and lessons in them, you win! You set yourself up to feel better because you find the good in situations, or with people, that would have previously bothered you. Express your thankfulness for all. You truly transform, and will experience peace, joy and abundance when you learn to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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