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Who You Say You Are Makes And Incredible Difference!

“One can believe that we operate from our beliefs and perceptions, our filters, and that we create everything 100% in our reality, or that things happen and we react from our previous habituated mental conditioning and we have no say in reality. We are Victor or Victim,

You can believe you can learn to positively and productively respond to whatever circumstances arise or you are helpless and powerless to do so. You can choose to accept 100% responsibility in choosing how to respond what life offers even if you aren’t in control of it.

How well you fare in life, how happy and successful you are, depends on how you choose to view yourself, the world around you, and whether you’re ‘at cause’ and help make things happen, or ‘at effect’, and are a victim of happenstance. What you think is what you get!

Perception Is Everything – Your Beliefs Make It So – Be Aware

If you decide you are 100% responsible it means you account for everything, good and bad, that happens and you attempt to make the best of it. You aren’t a victim. You take charge and respond as best you can when difficulties arise. You choose to be resourceful.

You are either a victor or a victim of whatever happens. A victim has no say in making it different and reacts from habituated thoughts, feelings and behaviors. One choice comes from a place of power. The other does not. So, So are you able? Can you chart your own course?

Can you create the life you want? Are you a victor or a victim.? Whatever you may have decided previously can be changed, or not, depending on whether one believes you can change it or can not. How successful and happy you are depends on your mindset.

Stop Struggling Start Living – Create Your Best Life Ever

These questions are meant to help you clarify which mindset you live from. Which mindset do you want  to live from?  What are you willing to settle for? What will you stop tolerating? When will you begin to create what you want? You know your answers. So….

Are you powerful enough to make changes or must you live as a cork bobbing on the water driven by the wind and waves? It is either up to you or it isn’t, right? Choose! It is a choice each of us makes, or doesn’t. Whatever you do, or don’t do, there you are! It is up to you!

You live from your choices or decisions. Whatever you decide is what you get to fulfill; victor or victim. If you play the victim role your choices are limited. Whether or not you are actually responsible, if you act as if you are, you have more choices available.

What You Say Is What You Get – Success Is A Decision Away

As a victor you have the power to choose how to respond, how to make it different and how to feel differently! You are in charge. This an important distinction between a winning mindset and one that is not. You want a winning, victor, champion mindset, do you not?

More next time. Meanwhile, decide whether or not you are in charge of your thinking, feeling, behaving and your life. It is all up to you and your decisions. Success is only a decision away. Choose that which enables you to create and live the life of your dreams. Take action. If you say you are a victor, act like it! Live from your power. Live from gratitude. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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It Matters! Who Is Running The Show?

“In a recent post I posited, “From ancient time on, humans have asked,  ‘who is running the show?’ I pointed out that from ancient time answers have been forthcoming. Not everyone appreciates the answers, nor do all agree. What say you? Who is running the show?

Your answer speaks volumes about you, your mindset, your current status or circumstances, and your ability to be happy and successful. It speaks volumes about how easily you will triumph or whether you fold, quit and go home a loser, tail between your legs. So…?

Answer carefully. Your answer either comes from your previous, past, conditioned thinking, you adopted from others and from conclusions you drew from experiences you had, run through your past conditioned filters, to be able to make those conclusions.

Energy Flows Where Your Attention Goes – Reap And Sow

The answer comes from your beliefs about you, the world and your ability to be happy, loved, successful, peaceful, or not. Your answer is be a reflection of the deeply ingrained convictions you hold about possibilities and opportunities, for yourself and from the world.

You either place control outside yourself, within yourself, or some kind of mix. Whatever you choose will determine, to great extent, how you live your life. You either are a champion or a loser; a victor or a victim, or one somewhere in the middle.  The middle is ho-hum.

This is a most important point most people miss! Every moment of the day you are making attributions and assignments about your pleasure or pain. You are placing the control for a wonderful life either in your hands or in someone else’s. Do you understand this?

You Create Reality Within – You Operate Off Mental Maps

Whatever your answer is will illuminate you to where your problems, issues and obstacles are. It will shine the flashlight of awareness on your limitations IF, and WHEN, you are ready to notice what your thinking is. If not, it will remain hidden.

Have the courage to listen to yourself! Listen to your attributions, the excuses, the reasons, the complaints, the blames, the accusations and realize, and recognize, you either have the power to change things, and make things happen, or you don’t believe you do.

So which is it? What is your truth? Is it the old, previously conditioned, limited way or a brand new positive and powerful way? Examine your thoughts and beliefs. Drop and let go of the ones that don’t serve you and the reasons that hold you captive. Release them!

What You Say Is What You Get – You Make It So – Choose Wisely 

Release that which doesn’t serve you. Let go of the non-supportive beliefs, and attitudes, and adopt new beliefs and attitudes, principles and practices, that help you create your best life ever. Only you can make your life truly amazing. So, please stop wasting time. Get on it. Find reasons to be happy and delighted. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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It’s What You Do With It That Matters The Most!

It is not what you are given. It is what you do with what you are given. If life gives you lemons, make lemonade. If you don’t transform the bad to good that you’ve been handed, who will? If you act a victim you will remain a victim, until you choose not to. It’s up to you.

It rains on the good and the bad. The sun shines on the rich and the poor. Bad things happen to good people. Good things happen to bad. It isn’t what happens to you that matters it is what you do with it. It is about how you respond. Do you give up or do you triumph?

Will you transform it and learn from it? Some may say, well not everyone knows how. This is true but everyone can learn how. Everyone has witnessed others beaten down who went on to great personal victory. Everyone has witnessed those who did not, too.

One Person’s Ceiling Is Another Person’s Floor  It Is Up To You

We all know, somewhere inside us, that we are stronger than we think we are. What we do need to do is learn to discover our inner resources and strengths, talents and abilities and apply them to whatever life hands us. If we look at every roadblock as opportunity to learn new things we improve our chances. When we are grateful for all we transcend our problems. Learn to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Without Self Control You Are Stuck And Face Blocks
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