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Universe Works In Mysterious Ways

“I’m driving with my daughter one evening when all the dash warning lights go off. I don’t lose power or lights but the alerts went off. Later, they went off again. I called my mechanic to discover the garage had permanently shut down between visits, without notice.

I loved my mechanics. They were wonderful. However, the owners shut everything down without notifying them in advance either. Okay, I seem to have a need and I am without a trusted garage. No problems with the car but the warning lights go off a few times.

Every couple of days. Might be a short. Doesn’t seem to effect anything but I don’t want to press my luck. Then, I loaned the car to my daughter who called to say it was driving funny. It was a Saturday night. She brought the car home and it had no brakes. WOW!

All Good Things Come To The Person Who Believes – Have Faith

I really needed a mechanic. I called a friend who said he had a friend who was a mechanic and who would take good care of me. Meanwhile, I researched what might be wrong with the brakes. I called a few shops nearby telling them what I discovered.

They couldn’t quote it but said, most likely it was expensive. Okay, I prepared to shell out if I must, but obviously, who wants to and I didn’t. I take the car to my friends garage this morning. I meet the gentleman who says ‘let me take a look’. He does. He tells me to wait.

He says it might take 20 minutes or longer, depending. 20 minutes later it is fixed. Great! I ask what I owe. He says, ‘You don’t owe me anything. Glad I could help.’ WOW. Really great! I found my new mechanic, BUT I wouldn’t have, had I not had the problem. Get it?

Another Name For Faith Is Trust – Trust It Will All Work Out

I could have looked and searched for good reliable mechanics but I hadn’t yet. The pressing brake issue meant now I had to.  I should have when the alerts went off. Which by the way, never have since. If they do I know where I will take my car. Universe provides! Get it?

When problems arise, expected or unexpected, it is normal and easy to think negative thoughts. We have been conditioned to worry and have fears or doubts. THAT is precisely when we need to shift to the positive thinking and feeling. That is when we need to trust. Get it?

Inside every adversity is a seed of equal opportunity. When my other garage had closed I thought, ‘okay, now for something equal of even better’. I just didn’t make it a priority at that time. I put it out there that I needed a new mechanic. Then, I got a worse the problem.

Count Your Blessing – Things Always Work Out For The Best

AND it wasn’t really even a problem. It didn’t cost me anything and I found a great new mechanic. I am blessed. I called my friend and got a tip on how to gift the new mechanic. I went, purchased a gift, returned and gave it to him. The look I got back was worth it!

How cool. He gifted me with free service. I gifted him with something I found out he would like. He feels good and I feel good! I felt great giving the gift. While it may, or may not, be true that everything happens for a reason, I prefer to think that it does. That way everything IS a blessing to be grateful for, even, if at first it doesn’t appear to be one. I am blessed. You are blessed. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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It Sucks But You Aren’t Thinking Your Own Thoughts!

“I like to be challenged to think and challenge others to think. Thinking is a rare act for most people these days. Especially these days, but for all of time. Most of us live from memories. We run  old mental movies in our mind. The same old memories and thoughts.

We run the same repetitive self-talk we’ve repeated endlessly for years. It never changes but the days change. We rag on ourselves the same way. We blame others and circumstances the same way. Events and people change but our thoughts stay the same.

We live from old preconditioned thoughts we think over and over, believing them to be ‘free thought’. They aren’t. They are rules, beliefs, and opinions we accepted while growing up. We bought into them from parents, peers, experience and media of all types.

The Mind Is As Strong As Its Weakest Think

We are socially conditioned. We think we should go to school, get a job, work 40 hours a week, marry, have kids, be a good citizen because we have bought into that. In and of itself, none of that is not necessarily not good, but it can be if you accept it without choices.

Thinking and regurgitating our old pre-conditioining are two separate things. Opinion versus fact are not the same.  Most of us accept opinion as fact. This is why we are so easily deceived. We don’t bother to check for ourselves. How often do you vet sources?

We believe it because someone said it, or we heard it, read it, saw it on the internet, or TV or in movies and popular songs but we don’t fact check it. We elect officials off of platitudes and slogans and media image campaigns without checking first if they are any good.

You Become What You Think About Most Frequently

We accept so much at face value because it is repeated to us over and over again. We affirm what we are told numerous times. The same applies to our own thinking. We don’t check to actually see whether it is valid or not. Most of our own thinking is broken.

We just believe it is because we ‘think’ it. We shouldn’t! Most of our thoughts are old accepted conditioning that is now habit to think. We do it automatically. We react from habit not from new thought. We are conditioned to do this. We can change, but only if we want.

In order to change we must first become aware of it. We must recognize what we have been doing. We need to take responsibility for it and become aware when we do it next. This requires vigilance and dedication. It may seem difficult, and it can be, but gets easier.

To Change You Must Make The Unconscious Conscious – Be Aware

If you don’t do it you will continue the way you always have. If that is great and okay with you then continue. If it isn’t and you prefer to change and live more fully, abundantly, happily, heathy, wealthy and more successful then you need to make changes now. Don’t wait!

It doesn’t get easier or better the longer you wait. It only gets worse. Realize now, that you are where your thoughts have brought you. Take responsibility for everything you have and don’t have in your life. No one else is responsible for thinking your thoughts but you.

To change become aware when you find yourself thinking old negative, less than glorious, dis-empowering thoughts and change them to more powerful positive thoughts. Continue to do this until you make the new choices, the new thoughts, habit. Get it?

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

It is up to you and no one else. So stop blaming, excusing, and complaining and start telling the stories you want to be told. Create positive life experiences, new goals and dreams you achieve. Live, laugh, and love more. Practice gratitude. This is how you begin to change. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Are You A Faux Optimist?

“Some people think, ‘I can’t’ but who think they are, or may appear to be optimists, but they are not. They say nice things, but think mostly negative thoughts. A true optimist thinks ‘can do’ and handles any challenge. They see possibility, opportunity, success.

They don’t notice or pay attenton to negativity because they ARE an optimist. Remember, they see the glass half full. They think, ‘I can’. The negative person, pretend optimist, sees the glass half empty, not full, and worries this will disrupt their happiness. They worry a lot.

They are afraid, something will spoil their happiness. Their negativity does hamper their happiness. True happiness, or bliss or peace, transcends worry and fear. It only sees what is possible and what is good. It is not afraid of what is bad or what can’t be done. 

Optimism Is The Faith That Leads To Accomplishment

It notices it and then looks back toward the positive to what can be done and what is good and what is the potential for changing it. Then they do something positive. They don’t retreat or fear or segregate. Their awareness is recognizing when a change needs to take place.

From that awareness they then find solutions. They do not let the need for change cause discomfort. After all, they are true optimists. The look for and find the good in all. So, the true optimist isn’t bothered by anyone or anything. The live free from fear.

If one fears the negative, their actual focus is on the negative. If they doubt, worry or fear, that is where their attention it. That is where their energy goes. That is what they create and attract. Stop focusing on the negative. The optimist already knows this.

Pessimism Leads To Weakness Optimism Leads To Power

It is really quite simple when it comes down to it. You are what you eat. You are what you fill yourself with. You are where you spend your time. You are what you embrace. You are what you focus on. Therefore, focus on the good, the joyful. the fun, gratitude, positivity, peace, love, kindness and abundance. Stop focusing on anything less. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Must Choose Every Moment!

“Every day, every moment, you must make a choice. Faith or fear? Which do you live from? Choose. Will you look for the good or the bad? Choose. Will you speak only of the good, the blessing, the healing and prospering or will you speak of bad, lack and ill?

Choose! It is always, only your choice. No one else can choose for you. No one can force you to pick. You choose each moment what to put your attention on. Whatever you attend to most you end up creating or attracting or getting. What you focus on expands.

Time to stop choosing lack, fear, anxiety, sadness, and worse. Time to choose to focus on joy, peace, love and abundance. Concentrate on that which you already have to be grateful for and you will get more. Look for the blessings. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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