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Positive Thinking Is A Scam Don’t Believe It!

“In order to get really good at anything we must practice the right things, consistently, long enough. Not only practice but practice correctly. Because, we can practice wrong, and develop bad habits. Frequently, coaches have to correct, learned, bad habits in sports.

It is important to get proper, qualified, coaching right from the start. It is important to practice, correctly, right from the start. Given that, what else can one do to learn and grow positively, more easily and quickly? Practice maintaining a positive attitude in all things!

A positive attitude does not mean ignoring the negative. It means using the negative to get to the positive. When a negative thought occurs shift to the positive. If you think something you don’t want, or feel bad, once you become aware, change it, to what you do want.

Whether You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

Positive thinking means you take into account contingencies, so that you have plans, in case things don’t go the way you want. It is not airy fairy ‘I can walk on water’ or ‘I can fly’ mentality. It is, ‘I could learn how to do these things with the right know how and equipment.’

It is knowing how to pursue your goals and dreams and remaining faithful to them, when the going gets tough. It is learning and knowing that you can get through the tough times by emphasizing your resources and putting them into action. It is thinking right.

It is feeling right. It is doing the right things. Negative thinking doesn’t do this. Correct, positive thinking does. It is not sitting in your room thinking ‘breakfast will appear’ or that the food in the fridge will somehow cook itself. It is doing it yourself. It is action.

Negative Thoughts Hold You Back – Nothing Else Holds You Back

It is doing it with the right attitude. Many people are mistaken about positive thinking. I see articles and videos bad rapping it because they misunderstand what it is and the purpose of it. They miss out. Positive thinking IS one of the most powerful things you can do!

Don’t miss out. Correctly practice! Don’t believe the positive thinking is a scam people. Believe in yourself! Go back and read through my blog posts. Study them. Apply the principles and practices and you will powerfully transform your life! You will.

If you apply them correctly you can learn to be, do and have almost anything you want. You will learn how to make things happen. Then it is all up to you. Positive thinking means becoming smarter and wiser. It means being dedicated or committed. It means persistence.

Replace Negative Thoughts With Positive And Get Positive Results

The best way to practice is to have fun. Be dedicated. Keep an open mind. Be intense, yet, work at it in a relaxed, positive, energetic way. Passion and optimism make a big difference. Pursue passionately. Bring positive energy and high vibration to everything you do.

Your life changes when you feel incredible. Delight and enjoy! Practice feeling your best. Transform less than glorious thoughts and feelings into better and more glorious ones. Practice gratitude and expressing it. Practicing always speaking positively about yourself, your life, events and others. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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A Secret You Need To Know: Your Expectations Sometimes Hold You Back

“What gives? What  is going on? Sometimes, the things, we think, help us the most, actually don’t. We strive, we effort, we maintain a positive attitude and yet we don’t get what we want. We neither make it happen or attract it, as we hope. Why does this happen?

It is important to focus on the positive. It is important to expect things to work out for the best. It is good to have positive expectations about people, situations and your future. Focusing on the positive is great. It helps you think and feel and act better.

When it comes to your goals and dreams. The small ones and, especially the large ones, your Definite Chief Purpose or Aim, focus on the positive and feel great about accomplishing it. Imagine it as though you already have what you want. Feel it. Then let it go.

Start Loving Yourself For Everything You Already Are

Release the expectations of how and when it will work out. Stop yearning and hoping and needing. Let it go. Drop it. Have faith it will work out. Develop that certainty. Know that issues will resolve and your good is yours. Stop trying to make it happen. Let it happen.

Still, visualize and affirm each day. Continue to focus on your goal. Don’t be attached to the outcome. Give up on the time line. Allow it to unfold. People get in their way of making what they want happen by overdoing it. When you need it, you don’t get it. Odd, right?

Needing it, or needing it a certain way or a certain time, means you don’t have it. You notice not having it. You are focused on the lack of it so you subconsciously continue to create more lack. Get it? Get out of your way. When you don’t need it, or insist on it, you’ll get it.

Needing It Pushes It Away – Let It Unfold Naturally – Yes Want It

Again, this is why gratitude is so powerful. When you are thankful for having it, and you are delighted in having what you don’t yet have in reality, you open the door to it. You are focused on the feelings of having what you want. You are enjoying the great feelings!

You are vibrating at a high level. Your inner resources can readily align to go after what you want because you feel great and are thankful for it. Everything is working together in one accord. You get it when you release needing it and feel like you already have it. Do the work and then open yourself up to receive it. Become a great receiver! Believe and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Are Either All In Or You Are Not In At All

“I spent time with a friend, mentor, today. He shared some powerful, pertinent ideas for all of us. It was a wonderful time. He shared how he grew his business and how he felt starting out. He got very successful in a very short period of time. Read and remember!

Another mentor of mine, went from less than nothing, to fabulously happy, healthy and rich in five years. Within three years, this gentleman changed his entire life. He began by asking, ‘what do you think it was like for me starting out? Then he began to share.

‘I built my business on a horrible presentation. I didn’t know what to do or how to talk about it. I didn’t know what to say. I  was scared. I didn’t have a clue how to share what I was doing with people. I sucked at it.  I felt like I was in over  my head; out of my league.

Wherever You Go – Go With All You Heart – You Have To Commit

BUTI just kept doing it. I had a vision of success I wanted to, one day, soon achieve. As someone said, your vision of victory must be bigger than your fear of failure. That is a choice. I had reasons to stop. Lots of things were not okay, but I kept going.  I was not organized.

The technology back then sucked. I just kept going. I just kept doing it. I made a promise to myself to continue in spite of obstacles. In spite of everything, anything, I would continue. I had mentors, I made myself coachable. I listened and I learned. I screwed up plenty.

Still, I listened and learned. I sharpened my axe everyday. I invested in myself and kept myself sharp. I filled my mind every day with positive reasons and thoughts. I read positive books. I stayed close to my mentors. I didn’t let disappointment or fear stop me.

We Are Here On Earth To Go All In – Make It Happen – Do It

The reason I made it in business is because I had reasons to succeed. I wanted to spend more free time with my children. I wanted to be with them while they grew up. Most people make just enough to get by, and that is it. I mean we all have cell phones and a place to live.

Most people aren’t hungry enough. They do just enough to manage. Dream big. If you don’t have a big dream, you’ll just get by.  We all want more than we have, but don’t pursue it! It is all or nothing. Do it. Buckle in. Make it happen. Only those hungry enough will.’

Yes, powerful words. You’re either all in the game or you are not in the game at all. Think on these things. Invest in yourself. Spend time reading and studying. Fill your mind with positive thoughts and gratitude. Spend time with people who are making it happen.

Commitment Transforms Dreams Into Reality – Decide To Do It

Commit to being successful. Dream big so you want to make it happen. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Want To Win More Often? Cultivate This Attribute!

“Why do some people get stellar results while others only get mediocre ones? What is it that makes a winner? Winners, or successful people, have a few characteristics or attributes, they share in common, that separate them from the rest.

One important attribute is that they are open, or receptive, to new ideas, and new avenues or streams of income. They are open to possibilities and opportunities. Being open is what separates them from those who don’t have as much. Those people aren’t open.

They tend to worry, focus on lack, are protective and don’t want to lose the little they have. Whereas, the person with the winning mindset is less risk adverse. They know they need to keep moving forward, growing, learning, investing in themselves and their future.

Prepare To Be Surprised – Plan For A Miracle – Expect The Best

If you aren’t already making your dreams come true the way you’d like, you might want to try on this mental mindset. You may wish to affirm some new ways of thinking. Anyone can change their thought habits if they are willing to try. Are you? I sure hope so. Do it now.

Be open to receiving unexpected good from unexpected sources. Expect things to always work out for the best. Know that no matter how ‘bad’ it gets you will always land on your feet. Keep the faith. Understand that limitations only exist in your mind, or your thinking.

This is what successful people think and believe. They are open to good things happening. They don’t worry about how to make things happen. They simply know they will when the time is right. Mediocre minds worry about the details. How, where will they get the money?

Make A Decision And The Universe Conspires To Make It Happen

Winners don’t worry. They know it will come. They believe. They understand they are unlimited beings. They accept abundance as a reality. They accept unlimited good from unlimited source.  They allow, accept and receive good things. They keep the faith.

Therefore they can make things happen. You can too! Stay open to accepting miracles small and large in your daily life. Know that you are blessed and count your blessings. Whatever you have is a blessing. Count them. Live with gratitude. Enjoy each moment. Have fun. Decide to make your dreams come true. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Some Inspiring News From The Front!

“It was a delightful day, today. I’d like to share my conversations with two amazing manifestors. These gentleman are both making things happen and have insights to share. The first gentleman provides me health and body wisdom and practice, I provide mindset to him.

We mentor each other. I saw him today and asked how he was doing. He informed me he had written down numerous examples of when he was successful in his past. He fully relived these moments and allowed himself to savor the feelings. He upped his vibration!

Feeling fully successful, counting his wins, he added his future goals to the list so he’d feel as successful about those now, as he has with his other successes. Awesome! Is my response. This is exactly what you want to be doing. Act as if and feel as if you already are it!

What You Think And Feel And What Manifests Is Always A Match

Success breeds success. Read back through the blogs and you will see many reminders to count your wins and imbibe fully the feelings. It is a marvelous daily practice. If you are familiar with NLP you also may understand this as wisely using anchors and future pacing.

My next wonderful gent, called me. During the call, he informed me had been invited into an elite group. He would be mentored during the next year. It is an outstanding opportunity. They reached out to him and they sought him out. Really great stuff coming his way.

I jokingly asked, what he had to do to make this happen? His response, true to form, is ‘You attract who you are’. Absolutely, good things come to those who put out good things. Both these gentleman prosper in many ways because they go the extra mile.

With An Open Mind I Can Accept That Anything Is Possible

Service to others is not a foreign word to them. They walk their talk and good things come their way. I love being able to share this with you. I also want to share that Law Of Attraction Magazine published one on my blogs. Check out this cool magazine using the link below.

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That is it for today. Smile and laugh more. Enjoy all life brings. Stop and notice the beauty around you. Spend time reading and studying these materials that will help you transform your life. Spend time feeling good, expressing gratitude and celebrating everything!” Rex Sikes

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Delight daily!

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It Doesn’t Matter Where You Begin!


“It doesn’t matter where you begin. Many have begun with less than you have. What matters most is where you are going. What direction are you focused on? Someone once said, the future is most important because that is where we will spend most of our time.

Focus on what you want, not on what you don’t have. Focus on where you want to end up, not on where you started, not even where you are right now. Focus on making good happen. Focus your attention and resources on creating the you, you want most.

Enjoy the present as a means to tomorrow. Embrace right now, where you are on the journey, and take the next step toward your destination. Now becomes the next moment. When you live fully this moment you take it into the next moment. You get more back.

Focus On What Matters – What You Focus On Expands

Determine your Definite Chief Purpose or Aim. Dream big. Set the destination you know you will arrive at. NOW, concentrate on the first step that takes you there. Create the mindset, the feelings and the right actions that lead you to the next step. Step by step!

Step by step you close in on your destination. These steps should be small enough and simple enough you believe you can achieve them, and do so. They should be challenging enough, it holds your interest. If too small, and meaningless, they won’t hold your attention.

If too large you may not believe, or you may be too overwhelmed. Find the sweet spot where the goal, you currently pursue, is just the right size, and leads you to your larger destination. The most important ingredient in making things happen is to feel good.

If You Want Good In Your Future Put It Into Your Present Now

Feel ecstatic you are making things happen. Have fun. Enjoy the process. As I pointed out in my earlier blogs, keep winning along the way. Success breeds confidence. The more you do, the more you can do. You get better at making things happen. Momentum picks up.

Soon, you are making all sorts of wonderful things happen. You have moved from creating what you don’t want, to creating what you do want! You determine what happens. You design your life and live it on your terms. It all begins, now, with being positive and grateful,

It is in this moment, right now. Feel good. Delight. Help and support others. Be enthusiastic. Live, love and laugh, lots! Express your gratitude for where you are, where you have been and where you are going.  Live fully. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Real Secret To Making Good Things Happen!

“There are secrets to making things happen much more quickly and easily. I have been sharing these with you in my blog pages. Put them into practice and you can live a remarkable life. You can get your small and large goals and make your dreams come true!

The principal is you must feel good! One way to do this is to expect unexpected good. Anticipate things always working out. Enjoy the process no matter what. When you are fulfilled, happy and positive now, in this moment, more good things can and do come your way.

Does this mean ‘bad’ things never happen? No. They still may, but you are better equipped to navigate and transform them. If everything is a blessing then there are no bad things. There are lessons and opportunities. Find enjoyment each moment.

Be Patient – The Best Things Happen Unexpectedly – Have Faith

Then, more good things happen to you. You vibrate higher. You attract higher. Like attracts like. The difficulty many people face in setting their goals is they focus on a really big one. This is great! Still, you have to BELIEVE you will make it happen. BELIEVE!

So these people create a really big goal BUT don’t believe that they’re going to get it. They try. They are focused on it. It is soooo big and they don’t have it yet. What they notice is the distance between now and the time they might get it. They know they don’t have it.

They notice not having it. They want it but they don’t have it! What they are really focused on is the lack of it. LACK! They don’t have it yet, so that’s what they end up creating. More Lack! More struggle. More distance. It is a tricky thing this manifesting. BUT simple.

Believe In What You Want So Much – It Can’t Not Materialize

It is quite simple, but tricky. We are always manifesting! We cannot not manifest. This is what most people miss. Either you are manifesting what you want or you are manifesting what you don’t want. You attract what you are. You attract what you focus on.

What you focus on expands. If you don’t have it and you feel bad THAT IS what you are manifesting! You are manifesting not having it and feeling bad. The Law Of Attraction is working perfectly. You just aren’t manifesting what you want. The key is to get out of your way!

If you’re delighted and feel good and you expect to get it you are more apt to get it. You believe it and anticipate it. Then you attract it. If you feel like it’s not happening, it’s a struggle and you’re missing out, then that’s what you get back. It really, truly is that simple.

Think And Speak As Though You Already Have What You Desire

The trick is to develop yourself as a manifestor. Become a positive, magnetic attractor by working your way up to your big goals. As I suggested in my last blog post begin by manifesting things that are smaller and easier to attain. Remember, YOU make it happen!

You are the author and creator! Focus on those things that you can readily believe you can get. Don’t make it so small it is  boring but something that’s a challenge. Just not so much of a challenge you don’t think it’s something you can make happen. Get it? I hope!

Find something that will stretch you and move you in the direction of your larger goal. Remember, start small, so when you surpass it you feel extra incredible. Do you want to make $1 million start by manifesting an extra hundred a month, or an extra thousand?

Remember – This Is Important – Drop By Drop The Tub Fills

Shed a pound in a couple weeks. The when you lose a pound and a half you are excited.  Choose something you can believe in and, be certain, you can make happen. Have fun doing it. This is how you build up your manifesting muscle bit by bit. Smaller to larger!

When you have confidence in yourself as an attractor and as a manifestor, then magical good things will happen for you. If you practice this and practice gratitude every day you will develop these muscles and reliable habits. It will become an unconscious skill.

You won’t have to think about it so much. You will become confident and competent in making good things happen. As you do life becomes so much more exciting. You will create with greater ease and efficiency. You’ll manifest good things effortlessly and with precision! Get it? I hope so! Enjoy the journey. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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