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Resistance Is Futile: It Is What It Is!

“It always IS what it is. You think it could have been otherwise. But it isn’t? So, could it have been? Perhaps, but it still isn’t? Is it? It is what it is. Face it. You can accept it or you can fight it, but it remains as it is. Have you ever noticed this? If you have, why do you persist?

Why don’t you celebrate what IS? I mean, is there really anything else to do  BUT celebrate? It is what it is. We can like it or not. The question really is how do you spend your time? BTW I am not discussing solving social injustices. Fight the good fight! That’s ok.

I’m talking about how things turn out in your daily life. Get it? Things go awry. Yes, it may suck BUT if you spend your time thinking and feeling how it sucks, what are you creating? What are you focused on? What are you perpetuating? That things, suck, right?

Train Yourself To Find The Blessing In Everything

It sucks to do that! But that is what is, until it isn’t any longer. Get it? You create how you experience yourself and  the world around you. So, how do you want to spend your time? You might as well celebrate what is. Right? Don’t celebrate it as a last resort.

Celebrate it because you chose to. Then you are open and free to discover all manner of nuance and blessings even when it seems to appear otherwise. Assume, whether it’s true or not, everything happens for a reason and you are choosing this for yourself now.

Then you are free from circumstances and less than glorious habits. Then you are in celebration mode about everything. You count everything as a blessing and enjoy more of life. You move through your days more care free knowing all is and can be well. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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To Succeed You Must Tell A Different Story!

“Stop telling the same old story of why things don’t work they way your would like. Stop it. Zip your lips. Stop thinking it. Stop speaking it. Enough already. You create your life circumstances through the stories you tell. How so? You get what you focus on! Get it?

While you may not wish to own up to this, your present life experience, the results you are getting, favorable or not, are due to your previous thoughts, words and actions. What you think determines what you do or not do. Get it? You create everything!

Until you get this major point you are bound to perpetuate a lot of what you’d rather not have. If you are getting a lot of what you don’t want and not enough of what you do want, then you need to make some real changes. They can be small but you need to make them.

You Become What You Think About Most Frequently

First change to make is to begin telling a brand new story. Think and speak only of how things already are the way you want them to be.  Stop reinforcing old things you want to change. Begin reinforcing the positive change you want to have.

Stop speaking about what is wrong. Begin speaking, with enthusiasm and passion and excitement, about what is right!  ‘Act As If’ you are already do have the future good you want in your life. You can pretend anything and master it. You can fake it till you make it.

Act As If that future you, does all the things necessary to succeed. You think right, feel good and take the right actions. Start telling that story of how you do positively accomplish things. Repeat the story over and over to yourself. Write it out. Share with others.

What You Say Is What You Get – What You Focus On Expands

You aren’t lying you are in the process of making it happen. You are bringing it about with your positive attitude and actions. Get it. You can share how you are learning to make good things result! JUST stop talking about all the crap, negativity and distractions. Get it?

Talk about nothing else. but what you want more of. Create a new story for the person you are. Put an end to the old story you have told for so long. Think, ‘I’ve had enough of that crap already!’ Tell the new story. Create it and live it! Think it, write it, live it and be it

Little bit by little bit your life and circumstances will improve. When you improve your story you will get better results! Be glad. Be grateful. Have fun. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What Ben Franklin Said You Should Know And Why

“What did old Ben Franklin say that is so profound? He said many important and useful things. The point he makes in this brief statement is one we should carry with us, in our hearts and minds, all the time. Remember and use it to make an incredible difference.

‘Do not anticipate trouble or worry about what may never happen. Keep in the sunlight.” Benjamin Franklin

What an important message! Keep in the sunlight. Stop anticipating trouble or worry. Live light and trouble free. Your worst worries may never come to pass. Live without them. Live carefree. Live with light, love and joy. Everything is perfect. I like it! What about you?

Worrying Will Never Change The Outcome

Everything is perfect even when it seems as if it isn’t. It provides contrast. To know warmth, you must know cold. To know light you, must know dark. Everything either provides you joy or contrast. Once you recognize that whatever is happening, is as it is.

It is a blessing! Everything is perfect, just as it should be. Your worries, your fears, your concerns will pass. They are transitory. As day gives way to night, night gives way to day. Problems are temporary. Love and enjoy each moment. No matter what.

It is all good, even when it appears it isn’t. There is truly nothing to worry about. There is nothing to fear. Remember, it is all illusion, ‘maya’, and we don’t have all the information at this moment. We can’t see what hasn’t arrived yet.

Difficult Roads Often Lead To The Most Beautiful Destinations

So go as far as you can see, and when you get there, you can see farther. Unexpected good will always come your way because it ALL is good. You just don’t always think so. When you do, all of your life beautifully transforms.

When you consider everything a blessing, no matter what it is, then everything is a blessing. No wrong can harm you. Get it? For some it will be a long time before they understand this. They will live as they do. But if you wake up, you wake up. Some day, they will too. Meantime, keep in the sunlight and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Who Are You Really? Did You Know This About Yourself?

“Sometimes it seems things aren’t happening as much or in the way that I would like. My dream career, my ideal job, my true love, that fantastic car or home, lot’s of money, being debt free seem so far away. Problems and issues loom. What’s going on? Ever asked that?

Neville Goddard, makes a most important point that we all should remember. Keep it in mind. Thought leaders from ancient to modern times promote and reinforce this idea. Once you begin to master the concept everything begins to change. Keep the faith and work it.

Mind set truly is everything. How we manage our thoughts, shapes our present and our future. It is how we relate to the past. Our thought is what moves us forward or keeps us stuck. It is why Ford said, ‘If you think you can or you think you can’t, you are right.’

You Are Already Everything You Want To Be …

‘Disregard appearances, condition, in fact all evidence of your senses that deny the fulfillment of your desire. Rest in the assumption that you are already what you want to be, for in that determined assumption, you and your infinite being are merged in

creative unity, and with your infinite being, all things are possible.’ – Neville Goddard. It is the skill we must master. We must stop getting caught up in how things presently appear to us. We never see the complete picture so we always operate on partial information!

We must ‘rest in the assumption that you are ALREADY what you want to be’. That is where our power stems from. We are already what we want to be, we already have everything. Even when it appears we aren’t or don’t. THAT is where the power is. In YOU!

… And You Are On The Path To Discovering Yourself

Now! BUT you, and I and everyone, miss it because we are focused on the wrong things, in the wrong direction, most of the time. We become what we think about, and we think about crap mostly. In order to live the life we want, we need to shift our mindset.

We need to shift our attention. That is why gratitude works. We focus on being grateful for what we already are, and have. Get it? If you let thoughts stop you from being who you are, and can discover, that’s sad. Yet that is what most everyone does. Discover yourself.

Say yes! Be grateful! Enjoy! Focus on already being, doing, and having everything you want. Express your gratitude. Most likely, it isn’t going to transform everything for you  overnight, BUT it can and could. I remind you of this because it is a journey. It’s not a flash and puff of smoke magical appearance. So enjoy and delight. Remember who you are and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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If It’s Not The Law Of Attraction What Is It?

“If it isn’t the Law Of Attraction what is it? You’ve heard, ‘like attracts like’ and ‘birds of a feather flock together’ so what gives? How come you don’t get what you want if like attracts like? Is the the LOA bogus? I never liked that name anyhow. It is misleading.

I don’t think the original intenders of the phrase we misleading about it, but it has been misunderstood for a long time. It is better to think of it as the Law Of Attention. You get back whatever you give your attention to. Good or bad. What you focus on actually expands.

It works this way. You want a new car, house, job, or money. You imagine getting it. But when you do you notice that you don’t have it and it seems a far way off. You wish you had it, because everything would change once you do. You don’t have it, but you continue on.

When You Look In The Mirror You Get Back What You Already Are

As you do this your attention is on the unwanted. Your attention is on not having it. You are focused on the lack of it. Your feelings let you know this because when you think about it, you don’t feel free and joyful, you feel as if something is missing, AND it is! Get it?

You notice not having it, and you get more of not having it back. It is working but not to give you what you want. You think you are focused on what you want BECAUSE you want it. BUT what you really are aware of most, is not having it yet. AND it’s painful.

So you remain not having it. For you to change it, you must get excited about having it, and imagine you already do. Then you get back what you are focusing on, actually having it. Your feelings determine what you get back. True joy brings more true joy. Get it?

Energy Flows Where Your Attention Goes

The knack of making it work is to remain joyful, feeling wonderful, and feeling like you already have it, ON the inside, even while it is invisible on the outside. You must keep the faith and the feelings in spite of current circumstances. That is why gratitude helps so much.

Focus on what you already have and feel truly grateful. Be happy about whatever you have. Express actual joy about it all and feel it fully. Then you begin getting more of the good feelings and more of the good things you have. Then you attract more of the good stuff.

Be thankful for your job, car, money or home. Then, BECAUSE of your ATTENTION to gratitude and the good feelings more can come your way. In fact, it doesn’t magically appear, but you open the doorway to get these things by your mindset and attitude. You make it happen. You bring it about. So feel good. If you want good things in your life, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Get Great Benefits Doing This: You Lose When You Don’t!

“Your career is going nowhere. You are in a dead end relationship. Debt is a mountain too high to see past. What to do? Perhaps, your struggling with only one area or all at once. Even it isn’t terrible it can be frustrating. Whatever your situation you need to do this!

Lately, I’ve shared with you the importance of taking a break and being able to walk away, at least temporarily, from circumstances that are brining you down. You want to vacate for awhile to refresh and renew. You want to regroup and gather your resources.

You want to stop considering it a problem and begin to find the blessings within. You need to marshal your mindset and take control. You can’t do that if you are hooked and dangling on a disaster line. You gotta get free to create space and allow things to work out.

Life Is Playfulness – Playfulness Is Sacred And Life Affirming – Play

This IS important! When you constantly fret, are worried or frustrated, in dire spirits about circumstances, when you are spinning your wheels trying to figure out the right move, all you really are doing is continuing to contaminate and perpetuate.

You must get free and optimize your attitude. Take a break. Trust that you don’t know everything, and that somehow, even though you don’t know how, it will all work out. You will land back on your feet. Then keep the faith. Do anything else for a while. Get it?

Take a mental and physical vacation. Leave the situation alone, completely. Get away from it. Camp, hike, swim, play golf, tennis, do anything to create that space to renew your mind and spirit. This is so important I am reiterating much of what I have previously said.

Discover The Magic That Surrounds You Through Playing

‘I don’t know how it is going to work out, but it will and I am grateful.’ Keep this thought in mind. ‘Everything will be fine’. Remember, you can’t see around the bend. Unless you take inspired actions, much of your activity is wasted and does not help. Let go!

You can’t take inspired actions in you aren’t inspired. If your mind and feelings aren’t working together to feel the very best, you are most likely only making things more difficult by trying to figure things out. You are occupied with busy work that is not productive.

Cultivate an attitude of play. You can do this anytime. It is great to spend time doing this when not in crisis mode. Then you have it available if difficult times present themselves. First off, difficult times are nothing but a blessing, if you are wise enough to know.

You Are Either Open And Free To Play Or You Are Not

Second, play increases your high vibes and good feelings. Play with abandon as a little child. Actually have fun. Don’t play to beat someone and make it another job. Play for fun, delight, enjoyment. Let go into wonderful feelings and frivolity. Play enhances learning.

You learned so much as a child through play. You imagined, you pretended, you modeled. You were and are free to play without goals. Simply play. Play games to enjoy. Allow the play to lift your spirits because it will when you abandon concerns and just play.

Be grateful. You can do this anytime, even if it has been a long time. Develop the habit of spending time in play. When you do you clear and free your mind and your spirit. You become more resourceful. You can later, return to circumstances refreshed and renewed.

Never Put Off Fun Until Tomorrow – You Can Have Fun Today

You can get more productively done with a clear mind and clean heart than you can through toiling and worrying. Drop seriousness. Drop the drama. Drop the garbage baggage you have carried for so long and play. Find fun. Then you can bring play to solving problems.

You will fare far better when you do. So play, wildly free and wholeheartedly. Become as a little child again no matter your age or crusty spirit. Become fascinated and adventurous. Let outdoors and wildlife captivate you, while you marvel. Appreciate it all and celebrate everything.” Rex Sikes

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It Is All BS! You Don’t Have To Do Anything To Change!

“Do you have to do anything to change? Can’t I just be the way I am and the world change for me if I wish hard enough? Must I really do something to make it different? I try lots of things but nothing really seems to work. It’s all BS, positive thinking, airy fairy stuff, right?

With that attitude one is bound to remain the same for a long time. The good news is you don’t have to do anything to change, you are always changing. That is the law. Things change for better, perhaps for the worse. Evolution is constant. It isn’t if, the question is when.

Given a long enough time, you and, your situation will be different, even if you do nothing. You are entitled to wait it out. However, if you want to change, within a realistic time frame, most likely, you will need to do something. Remember the definition of insanity?

I Am In Charge Of How I Think And Feel Today I Choose Happiness

People do the same thing over and over again expecting different results. I’ll add, people, who  do nothing over and over again expecting different results, are just as insane. If you always do what you always did, you always get, what you always got,  remember?

Positive thinking, is not about having glazed over eyes and a permanent fixed smile while uttering platitudes. It is about taking control of the gray matter that is running your show. Your thoughts affect you and this you already know! Don’t con yourself.

If you are feeling angry or depressed, you are thinking thoughts that, make you, or perpetuate the feeling bad, whether or not, the source seems to come from the outside.  It is your thoughts bothering you if you are complaining or blaming or others or the world! Thoughts!

To Change Your Life You Need To Change Your Thinking

If you are bothered in the morning, through the day and into the night because of trouble with a loved one, some work related issue or a ticket from an officer, your mind is on autopilot and you need to take control. Yet, some won’t because they don’t believe in it.

You don’t have to believe in it. That, BTW , is another thought or set of thoughts. It helps to believe in it because you may want to do it but you don’t have to. If you do it long enough, correctly, you will get the results and then you will have your own evidence for it.

You will know it. Knowing is different than believing. Some don’t engage in it because they fear they will become glazed eyed, perpetually smiling, positive zombies. Their own fear or apprehension for change prevents them. People do what they do.

Whether You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

Positive thinking is a powerful, realistic approach to living life more fully. Either we master our thoughts or they remain the master of us. We are either in control of our thinking process or it controls us. Which would you rather be the case?  Positive or not, your choice.

I prefer feeling good, positive and powerful. Don’t you? I like knowing I can handle anything that comes my way, somehow, regardless, no matter what, with help or alone. I like finding the best of everything and the best in everything. But, you can stay the same.

Don’t do anything. Someday, perhaps in this lifetime, you will get what you want. Simply stay as you are. That isn’t so bad, unless your situation sucks. Keep in mind, it is your choice. You are always choosing, even when you choose to do nothing. It is your decision.

Your Decision Keeps You The Same – Or It Moves You Forward

Your decision keeps you the same or helps you move forward. If you want to move forward you can. Decide to. Take charge. Manage your thoughts and feelings. Begin by focusing on what you can and what you are grateful for. Gratitude makes an incredible difference. Begin feeling thankful. Adjust your attitude. Things get better when you do. Things get better as you celebrate everything.” Rex Sikes

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