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The Difference In Rich And Poor Thinking Makes The Difference!

“The wealthy, tend to grow up with examples of privilege and prosperity, of having and of having more. Many grow up around deal making and accumulation. Their mindset, developed from early on is ‘If I want it, I can have it.’ They think, ‘it is mine, I deserve it.’ So it is.

The rest grow up in differing backgrounds. Some have more, many have little. They grow up with struggle. They learn, ‘work hard and try to get ahead.’ Get a good steady job and maybe you can retire with something  if you work hard enough. You can become self made.

Their mindset is often of poverty and lack. They didn’t have much and often had to limit spending or tighten their belts. They may resent the wealthy as much as the wealthy have disdain for the poor. The rich and the not rich are worlds apart, in mindset and practice.

Whether You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

Not all rich people are jerks. Not all poor people are lazy. Stereotypes abound. We must get past these. Where the rich have advantage we can learn from. Their mindset is truly one of entitlement. ‘I was born to this so I deserve this. I always get my way.’

When one can think like that and not be selfish or a prick one can make incredible things happen. If one can embody the idea that, ‘I can make things happen and I can get things because of the type of person I am’, one is more inclined to do so. It can be very positive.

Working hard and steady is very positive too. We should take the best attributes from both sides and apply them. Just eliminate the nasty bits. Maintain a positive ‘I can do it’ attitude. ‘I can make it happen. I am worthy. I deserve it.’ And you can.  Mindset matters.

You Become What You Think About Most Of The Time

Be generous too. Be kind and giving. Help yourself out and help others, Privilege sucks, if one thinks one is better than anyone else. That same attitude can exist with the poor, as well. Never imagine yourself as better than another. Simply be the best you, you can be.

I’ll add some thoughts in another blog. Meanwhile, practice gratitude. Be thankful for what little or lot you have. Enjoy yourself, your family and friends, your time, your place, your things. Be grateful for all of it. Delight in all your experiences. Your problems too. When you live with gratitude you can transform all of it. Celebrate everything! Rex Sikes

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That One Or Two PerCent!

“You are the creator of your life. Mindset determines what you create. You create based on your thoughts and your feelings. Your actions matter. They are important but not as important as you might think. The key is to work smarter not harder. It’s important.

Many people are busy but not productive. They confuse activity with accomplishment. This is because they focus in the wrong area. They focus on how to do things and what to do rather than the mindset that gives rise to the right, inspired actions. You must get this!

Actions matter not as much as your thoughts, attitude or mindset. Your thoughts and mindset pave the way. It is hard for people to grasp this concept. Your mindset is 98-99% what you need to focus on. Your actions are the 1 or 2% that you do. Pay attention to this.

Your Attitude Determines Your Direction And Your Altitude

What you think creates how you feel. How you feel determines what you think and your actions. What you think, feel and do create your results. The starting point of your results is your thinking. Your mindset. Get that right and the rest falls into place. Get it?

Your mindset is the cause. The results are the effect. Get it, cause and effect? Sadly, when things don’t go right, most people start trying to change the results. They try to change the effect. They get preoccupied with what isn’t working and what to do next. 

Instead of being focused on the effect, you must work on the cause. You must improve the mindset that determines your feelings, actions and therefore your results.  Positive feelings stem from positive thoughts. To change your results change your thinking!

To Guarantee Success Act As If It Were Impossible To Fail

Get it? More positive thoughts stem from the positive feelings. When those are correctly aligned you take inspired action. The actions feel right because they stem from right thinking and great feeling. Actions for action sake doesn’t get you anywhere.

There’s being productive, then there’s being preoccupied. It’s not what you do, it’s what you think and feel that determines how far you go. That’s why Napoleon Hill titled his book, ‘THINK and Grow Rich’, not Work Harder and Grow Rich. Mindset matters most!

This is why I keep suggesting you read and listen to audios. Attend events, live and online. Hang out with mentors, coaches and positive people. Do daily affirmations and visualization. Keep a success journal and practice gratitude. Get the mindset right so you succeed.

Do these things repeatedly, long enough, consistently and then your actions will matter. They will increase the likelihood of your success. You’ll be surprised with the results you will be getting. Actually, you won’t be surprised at all, because you will deliberately create them. Do you get that? Be thankful and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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‘How Come I’m So Stupid?’ Ever Thought That?

Would you like to learn to manage your thoughts and feelings, or would you rather ask “how come I am so stupid?” Who would ask that and why? Yet, people do all the time. They ask themselves terrible questions which don’t make them feel very good.

Your brain doesn’t care what you ask it. It doesn’t judge. It doesn’t even know how to judge or make discriminations. It just does what it is told. Well, actually, it just REALLY does what it has been conditioned to do. Yup, conditioning is automatic and reliable.

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That is why we think, feel and do things we don’t want to. That is why we feel stupid, unloved, and worthless. That is why we procrastinate or ‘sabotage’ our efforts. We don’t really sabotage we just do what we were programmed to do, until we change it, that is.

Your Attitude Determines Your Altitude 

And change it you must, if you want it get ahead. If you want to be happier, healthier, wealthier and wiser, even sexier and a whole lot more fun, then you must change your mental conditioning. You must re-program or re-condition yourself. You have to learn new habits.

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While learning to take control of your thinking, practice gratitude. Fill your mind and being with thankfulness. It is one of the quickest and easiest ways to make permanent, positive, changes. Fill yourself up with appreciation. Put your attention on everything you are and can be grateful for. Focus on these continuously. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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This One Thing You Have Makes All The Difference!

“You may not have anything. You may not have riches or even a car or home. There is one thing you have. You have your own word. Always keep your word. Keep your commitments. Never break a promise. Don’t be late. Always be prompt and  on time.

It may not matter to you, but it ought to. It may not matter to all others, but it matters to some. You have your own concept of your own self worth. You have your self image. If you physically have nothing, that might be temporary, but you always have you.

You always have your integrity. If you make a deal, and end up not liking it, honor it. You might seek to renegotiate, but if that doesn’t work, honor your promise. Don’t break your word to others, because when you do, you break your word to yourself. That really sucks.

Stay Loyal To What You Said Even After Your Mood Has Changed

You are known by whether you are reliable or not; whether you have integrity or not; whether you walk your talk or not; whether you are honest and trustworthy or not.  When all is said and done, YOU only have yourself. You came in with nothing, and will go out the same.

You only have yourself. What is yourself worth? It is worth what you place on it. You are only as good as your spoken and unspoken word. You make yourself more valuable by keeping commitments, being on time, adding value to others and going the extra mile. Truly, you do.

Give without expecting to get. Celebrate others’ successes even when you don’t have your own. Uplift and edify others. Recognize their efforts, encourage and enable them. Support others. Go first. Attitude is everything. Mindset makes the difference.

Stand By Your Word Don’t Give It If You Aren’t True To Your Word 

If you are genuine in your heart, honest with yourself, and in your dealings with others, your temporary disadvantage will give way. People of value rise to the top because they stand head and shoulders above the rest. Make certain you do. Be that person.

Be filled with gratitude. Feel marvelous. Think positively. Allow your positivity and positive vibes to be infectious. Be inspiring. Be motivating. Feel incredible. Be thankful. Be appreciative. Speak only to bless, heal and prosper. You will rise to the top. You will prevail. You will win overall when you feel blessed and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Life Won’t Change Unless You Change Things!

“Things will remain the same unless you change them. Of course, it is true that change is constant, but that is not the point I am making. If you do absolutely nothing, things may turn out better than you expect in the long run, but that could take many, many years.

Change happens regardless. However, how long it takes may matter to you. If you want things to change for the better in the nearer future, then you must implement some positive changes that move you forward in that direction. Are you understanding this? I hope so.

You can’t do things the old way and expect new results. If you don’t know what you do not know, and aren’t aware that there is more that you don’t know, or understand, then you always only function from the limited, conditioned understanding you have had. Get it?

Your Life Will Never Change Until You Change Something You Do

In order to change more easily and readily you need to open up to what else may be possible, even if you don’t know what that is, or believe it is possible. You need to open up to potentially life changing information and practices that may seem foreign to you. Get it?

You can’t do things the same old way, repeatedly, and expect to get new, better, different results. YOU have to change things. You have to change yourself, your mindset. You need to expand it to include possibilities you may never thought existed for you, previously.

You have to get out of your own way, and out of your own thinking box. We all do. We need to stop limitations from preventing us from exploring new pathways. We need to overcome the limitations of our old thinking, to awaken to new thoughts and possibilities.

Old Habits May Die Hard But You Won’t Change Until Those Do

We do this through awareness. We do this through practice. We practice and we notice. We use what we notice, to change. It is an evolutionary process that helps us wake up to new ideas and potential. Become aware of what stops you. That is only one step.

From there you must implement a means to get past being stopped. You must shift and put into action new thoughts, feelings and behaviors, that move you to where you want to go, AND in the manner you want to go. It is all up to you. Here is the good news.

Since you can’t know everything, you can’t know what you don’t know. You can only see, and move, as far ahead as you are able to see, and move, ahead. When you get to that point, you can then see further ahead, and move on. Step by step you make the journey.

To Change Your Life You Have To Change Yourself

I, sort of, repeat what I said in my last blog post:

What if you could develop the strong, certain belief that you always land on your feet, no matter what? What if you thought of yourself as  bigger than any obstacle? What if you were certain unexpected good always ends up coming your way? How might life improve?

What if you fully realized that in the end it always works out for the best?  If it ain’t the best, it ain’t the end yet. What if you knew for sure, you always land on your feet?  What if you could develop the strong, these positive strong beliefs? You can. Put these to work!

You do it the same way the old, limiting ones were created and made habit. You repeatedly think them over and over and over again until you believe them. You affirm with strong feelings! You imagine and visualize, and affirm with great feeling. You act as if it is all true!

To Change Yourself You Must Change Your Mental Thought Habits

That IS how it is done. There are other ways to include too, that I have already shared, and will again. Meanwhile, you need to understand it is mental conditioning and mental nutrition same as the physical kind. You progress through diet and exercise.

Feed your mind positive thoughts. Repeat it over and over, daily. When negative things come up, become aware, shift away from them and begin thinking the new positive, powerful beliefs. Condition yourself. You will have to do it again and again.

Get used to that! Practice gratitude and appreciation for everything. Delight in challenges because within all adversity are hidden seeds of possibility, equal good, and important learning that can move you forward. Feel wonderful, think positive and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Understanding Is An Amazing Thing: We Don’t Know What We Don’t Know!

“Most of us seek clarity and understanding. We want to learn and grow and develop.  Here is an amazing thing about understanding. We understand what we understand. Even then we may only partly understand or miss many things. We never know it all. Duh, right?

What we don’t understand, we DON’T understand. Most importantly, we may not even realize, we don’t know what we don’t understand. In other words, we only, always, have a partial picture. We never get or know all of it. All our understanding IS incomplete.

We tend, however, to think otherwise. We tend to think as if we know everything, when we don’t. One of the ways this manifests is when we face crises or bad times and are certain things will get even worse. We don’t think it will turn around. We focus on bad times.

Life Is Much Better When We Realize We Don’t Know Everything

Get it?  We don’t know what we don’t know about the ‘bad times’, and we can’t see the future, we can’t see, yet. Get it? It is not certain and it is unclear, but we may act, feel and think it is certain. We should not. We should remain open to the potential for change!

We need to recognize we don’t know everything! We only know what we pay attention to, and we can’t pay attention to everything. We only pay attention, for the most part, to the things we have been conditioned to pay habitual attention to. It’s Habits! Not only that!

We pay attention in the manner in which we were conditioned to habitually pay attention to things. That is why the saying, ‘if you want your life to change, you must change some things in your life’, is crucial to understand and implement. Things will remain the same.

Insanity Is Repeating The Same Thing Expecting It To Be Different

More next blog. Meanwhile, explore the possibilities that you don’t know everything about you and your situations. Be open to the possibility that you could transform everything for the better, now, instantly, or over time. Anything good, is possible. Consider this.

What if you could develop the strong, certain belief that you always land on your feet, no matter what? You are bigger than any obstacle. Unexpected good always ends up coming your way. In the end it always works out for the best. If it ain’t the best, it ain’t the end yet.

Try those on for a change! Practice gratitude and appreciation for everything. Delight in challenges because within all adversity are hidden seeds of possibility, equal good, and important learning that can move your forward. Feel wonderful, think positive and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Stop Being So Petty And Your Life Will Change!

“Life is filled with woes and challenges. So are the games we play. If we weren’t challenged in sports or board games of any kind, they would be dull and not worth the time spent. Life is filled with ups and downs. You can moan about it, or decide it is an adventure to enjoy!

Believe you can handle any situation that arises. You are bigger than any obstacle or challenge. You can learn from adversity instead of buckling under it. Focus your mind on what you want. Let go. You can’t control everything, but you can appreciate everything!

Give yourself room. Know that, believe with certainty, that things will always turn out for the best, given enough time. With the right attitude and focus you can over-come doubts and fears. You can overcome anything that prevents you from living your dreams

Obstacles Do Not Block The Path They Are The Path  – Enjoy All

Stop being petty and stingy with yourself. Start being your biggest fan. If you have to be selfish, determine that will include being, doing and feeling your best, and making the wisest use of your choices and time. Give generously to you, and others, and you’ll get more back.

Look for the good. Notice abundance all around you. Feel the good. Feel blessed. Feel healthy, wealthy and happy. Savor and enhance the good feelings. Vibrate high! Keep a gratitude journal. You will begin to notice more coming to you. Mindset is everything!

Your mindset and attitude determine what you create and attract. Keep in mind, even more than attraction, it is what you create that matters most. Some people just focus on the wrong things. Begin focusing on what you can do. You want to live the best life ever then enjoy everything, be grateful, feel blessed and celebrate everything! Rex Sikes

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