Category Archives: Beliefs

What Do You See And What Are Your Missing?

“What are you missing out on because you don’t see it? You don’t realize it is there because you miss it? We see what we expect to see. We often find what we assume is there. Often, we miss that which is right there in front of us. We miss the obvious. Have you noticed?

I’ll provide a simple example. I proofread my blog. I proofread my blog numerous times. I read it out loud and I still I miss mistakes. Fortunately, I have a wonderful person,  Lindsey, who goes through it after I do. She, too, reads it. She catches mistakes that I’ve missed.

You should know this process takes place after the blog has been published and sent out. She emails me the corrections. I correct the already published blog. It doesn’t correct the one sent but corrects the blog at the website. I write in the early AM hours.

Don’t Miss Out On Something That Could Be Amazing

Because I do, I write, review, publish.  She gets it and emails me what I missed. The ideal process would be for her to review and edit first, but that doesn’t work with our schedules. I hope you understand.
I hope you are okay with typos and grammatical errors.

The  point of this example IS that I’m looking for the error but I’m not always seeing them. I miss them. Usually, words like ‘you’ and ‘your’ or ‘the’ and ‘they’ get missed. Sometimes it is an added ‘s’ or even a misspelling. There is a reason why I miss these simple errors.

I wrote it. I know what I wanted to say. My mind knows what the word should be. Even though I read it, out loud twice, I may not catch it. My eyes or my mind deceive me. I miss the typos. This is really cool in some ways because it illustrates what the mind can do.

We Don’t See Things As They Are – We See Things As We Are

Perception is everything. What we believe shapes our reality. What we expect to discover is what we discover. What we expect will happen, often does. This is true whether we look for blessings or for problems. We know what we think so we are likely to find that.

Or, miss that! If we can miss simple things like grammar and spelling errors, imagine what else we might be missing because our brain expects something else.  You might be missing  all sorts of good because you’re focused on the problem in front of you.

This is why mindset is important. This is why attention is important. Where your attention goes, energy flows. If your mind is focused on debt, your likely to find it. Your likely to miss out on abundance. If you are focused on what’s wrong, you might miss all that’s right.

What I Am Looking For Is Not Found Out There – It Is In Me

The mind can miss little things or big things. Just as when you put down your keys and then can’t find them. Even though they’re right in front of you! If you want to manifest better health, focus on health. Stop paying attention to illness. You get what you focus on.

Stop paying attention to debt. Stop paying attention to what’s wrong and start paying attention to what’s right. Put your focus on the positive and you’ll discover more positive. Put your attention on what you are grateful for and you will find more to enjoy. Stop worrying and start celebrating. In fact, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Handle Unexpected Bad Events

What to do when unexpected bad happens? Something comes along, out of the blue, that is less than glorious. How can you best handle it so  you don’t create more problems? How can you begin to create more opportunity and manifest good things for your future?

It is all depends on what you think and what you say to yourself and to others. Keep in mind the notion I frequently promote here. Speak only to bless, heal and prosper. Don’t repeatedly tell, and relive, the ‘negative’ story. Stop doing that! Instead, tell one that supports you.

Say, ‘well I didn’t expect that. Some people might say they had a problem. I have a new opportunity presenting itself to examine and utilize my resources. I don’t know what to do about it, yet, but I know everything always works out well for me in the end.’

Train Yourself To Find The Blessing In Everything – Feel Blessed

‘I also know that in adversity is the seed of opportunity. This situation will help me get clear on what I want. Getting really clear about what I want will help me make it happen.’ Don’t judge or label it bad.  Simply say, it’s something you didn’t expect.

Don’t get negative. Don’t speak in less than glorious terms. Do not ignore it. Don’t lie about it. Don’t say it is ‘all fabulous’ if you don’t feel that. That only creates internal conflict. Don’t create a conflict. Simply, reframe how you think and speak about all of it. Get it?

Simply say, ‘I have a situation and I don’t know how it’s gonna work out. Ultimately, it’s gonna work out for the best. Things always work out for the best. I’m gonna celebrate the learning and all the opportunities that are now before me. This is an opportunity.’

Count Your Blessings Not Your Problems – Think Differently

‘I have an opportunity to think, feel, be, do and act differently than I had planned. All of it is an opportunity. All of it will work out. I just don’t know how, yet, so I’m going to get clear on what I do want. I’m going to work on what I can make happen.’

Things never work out the way you think they will. There’s always twists and turns and surprises, so you might as well get used to that. Accept it. Life is an adventure. You can plan but, almost always, your plans will change. Life is ups and downs. Life provides contrast.

Adversity helps you. Perhaps, you really do need what is occurring in order to get clear and focus intently on what you want. Perhaps, you  have to intensify your pursuit. Use it to your advantage. It is a good and positive thing that happened. Get clear on your goals.

Be Grateful For Small Things Big Things And All In Between

You can never know how things will turn out. Adventures are filled with good times and challenges. All of them are a blessings. Sadly, you and the rest of us, have been previously conditioned to accept some and reject others. You have beliefs about what is good and bad.

Until now, you may not have believed that these events can be blessings. Most of us were conditioned to dislike the unexpected. We whine, blame, excuse. and accuse. So we lose out and we suffer. We suffer because of our chronic, old conditioned mindset.

Now you have opportunity to go beyond your beliefs and evolve as a person. You can go to a higher level. When everything is a blessing your life becomes incredible! You didn’t get the outcome you expected. So what? Celebrate. It is a gift and a blessing! Get it?

Perception Is Everything – Believing Is Seeing – It Is All Up To You

Still, you may not yet believe this. These kind of experiences, these lessons, these opportunities, will happen over and over again until you learn that this IS how it works. Everything is a blessing. Give yourself room to accept this. Until you do, expect the unexpected.

Begin to believe that everything happens for your good even though you may not be able to see what that is right now. Don’t let defeat define you. Don’t succumb to negativity because ‘crap’ hits the fan. What anything IS is whatever you DECIDE it is. It’s all up to you.

Things happen to you. It can all be good. You just haven’t believed that before. Give yourself permission to. Accept and allow it and your life can transform. Find the silver linings. Consider everything an opportunity, a lesson and a blessing. Give yourself permission to shine! Feel grateful. Express your gratitude. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Your Eyes Always Deceive You

“Your eyes will always deceive you. So will your ears. In fact, all of our senses deceive us on a regular basis. Still, people insist they will believe something only when they see it. This, is a sad state of affairs. Our neurology deceives us. Our brains see, our eyes really don’t.

We interpret what we see. The mind does the real seeing. We pay attention to limited amounts of information. Our brain filters much of the incoming data. We make associations and connect memories to what is going on. We miss much of what else may be there.

We have biases. We have habitual ways of noticing things and of missing things. What we pay attention to determines much of how things go. We can miss opportunities right in front of us because we are paying attention to something else at the time. What to do?

Expect The Best And Get It – Expectations Shape Your Results

If you want to see something, believe that you will. This is how it actually works. Expectations can shape our results. Expect it to be a good day, no matter what, and you are more likely to have one. Expect the best and you are more likely to find it. Believe it!

Things may come along that throw a wrench into the day, but if your expectation is that you can have a good one, no matter what, you can handle it, all will ultimately be fine, you are far more likely to. Your attitude determines what you pay attention to. Mindset matters.

Expect to be healthy, rich, loving and kind. Expect your best. Expect the best of others. Expect the best outcome in any situation and you are more likely to make that happen. You marshall your resources when you think positively and optimistically. Put yourself in charge.

Attitude Is Everything – You Get What You Focus On 

Believe miracles are possible and you are more apt to discover one. What you focus on expands. Energy flows where your attention goes. Manage your thoughts and your expectations. Believe everything always works out for the best. Believe in yourself.

Be thankful for the opportunities each day to discover how blessed you actually are. Count your blessings. Discover your blessings. The more you look and are grateful, the more you will find. Delight in all of it. Everything can be wonderful. It really can. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Are You Attracting What You Want Or What You Don’t Want?

“What is the biggest mistake people make in thinking about the Law Of Attraction (LOA)? What is the main reason people don’t attract what they want? How come it works for some but not for others? If you have questions or concerns like these then read on. I’ll answer.

People erroneously think that you use the Law Of Attraction to attract what you want, but that is a mistake. The principle that applies is ‘like attracts like’. So, you attract what you are, already, like. You do not attract what you aren’t, even if you want that.

I’ll rephrase that. If you are broke and you want to be rich, you will continue to attract broke, because like attracts like. Yes, you want to be rich but you can only attract back to you what you already are. Like attracts more of the same back. Do you understand this?

The More You Are Grateful – The More You Will Be Given

It doesn’t attract something different. It attracts the same. This is why you do mindset work. This is why you correct your thinking and feelings. Napoleon Hill said you trick your subconscious mind in certain ways. How? By thinking and acting as if you already are it.

You think and act and speak and feel as if you are already rich. You stop acting broke and start acting as if you have plenty of money and abundance. As you do this, daily, you begin to actually take on those thoughts and feelings. You convince yourself. You begin to believe.

When you believe you are rich, worthy, deserving, abundant and feel wonderful about it you attract that back into your life. You get more of the same. You do not attract what you want. You attract what you are! Do you now understand? You can make the LOA work for you.

Gratitude Is The Open Door To Abundance 

To do so, you must do some work, first. You prepare the soil for planting seeds. You do the same with the LOA. You act as if, you think it, speak it, feel it fully, first.  That IS preparing the soil. Once you believe it, you have planted the seeds. So yes, prior work is required.

Like attracts like.  If you are happy, you attract more happiness. If you feel rich, you attract more riches. You get more of what you already are. Most people are not what they want to attract yet, so they continue to attract the old stuff.

They focus on debt but want riches. They end up getting more debt. They focus on sickness but want health. They end up staying ill. They focus on what is wrong with their life partner but they want the perfect relationship. Do you see the pattern here? Do you get it?

If You Focus On What You Don’t Have You’ll Never Have Enough

You attract what you ARE presently. Whatever that is, good or bad, positive or negative. So what are you attracting? Look around you, examine your life. If it isn’t what you want you have some changes to make.  It’s cool we have this feedback that let’s us know what to do.

If you don’t have the results you want, then, you must make changes so that you can start getting them. If you want your life to change you must changes some things in your life. Change your thinking and feeling. Act as if you already have the success you desire. Go first!

Gratitude for what we presently have is the key. The more grateful you are, the better you feel. The better you feel the more good things you attract. Be grateful for finding a penny on the street. Why? Because that is finding money! You just found some money!

The More You Celebrate Your Life The More There Is To Celebrate

The brain and universe doesn’t care if it is a penny or a million dollars. It is money! Celebrate finding money. Celebrate being lucky. Celebrate whatever comes to you.  Your gratitude for money brings you more money. Appreciation adds value to everything. It does!

Your gratitude for health brings you more. Your gratitude for happiness brings you more happiness. When you vibrate high you attract much more. Remember, we get what we are! We do not get what we want.  If you really want it be grateful.

Appreciate the present and you’ll have a better future. How you feel right now determines how you will feel later on. You get back more of what you are. Live with delight. Live with ‘yes’. Live with fun, passion, enjoyment, enthusiasm. Live playfully. Live, love and laugh. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Can’t Create Abundance! Anyone Who Says You Can Is Lying

Anyone who tells you that you can create abundance lies! Either they are deliberately lying to you or they are misinformed. You cannot create abundance. The notion is wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong! You have been duped, if you think you can.

Abundance is our natural state. It is the condition of the universe we are all born into. You cannot create abundance. You can demand it, declare it, intend it, accept it, allow it, invite it, and resist it but you cannot create something that already is! However, you do create.

You create limitations. You create resistance. You create not having. You create excuses, whines and blames. You create reasons and needs and wants. Consider this. The universe already is abundant. That IS what the universe IS. According to this you have everything.

The Secret To Having It All Is Believing You Already Do

You already have everything you want and need. However, if you don’t have it in your physical reality THAT is an indication you are resisting having it. What resists persists. If you don’t have money and wealth now, then somehow you are resisting it.  Get it?

It is already there for you. Perhaps, you haven’t declared it, or allowed it or accepted it or received it. You resist having it or you would already have it. This is great news because it begins to inform you what you need to to enjoy what you already have.

Your wanting and needing it may be pushing it away. Your doubt, worry, fear, sadness, anger depression, may be  keeping it from you. Abundance is yours already. If you don’t have what you desire, perhaps, you have to let go of that which keeps it away. Let it go!

You Tune Into Abundance – You Don’t Acquire Abundance

Drop it and allow. Celebrate having it. Appreciate having it. If you really did have it you would feel good about it, wouldn’t you? For you to ‘manifest’ it in the here and now you ought to be feeling good; as if you already have it. Act As If! Celebrate and enjoy. Give thanks.

We give thanks for what we have! When you give thanks you allow room for more. You act generously, too. That doesn’t mean you have to give away your last dollar bill. It means you think and act more generously. Maybe you tip larger or compliment more frequently.

Happiness doesn’t come to those who aren’t happy! Happiness comes to those who celebrate life. It IS the journey not the destination. Abundance in all things IS already yours. Why live as a pauper? Live as if in the garden of paradise. Make your life grand.

Abundance Is A Celebration Of Life – Celebrate Everything

Don’t wait. Celebrate now. Stop resisting. Start living. Live fully. Allow, accept and enjoy! Encourage and give. Act like one who has it and you will discover the many more ways you already do have it. AND you will get more of it. Delight. Live joyously! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Watch Your Words: You Get What you Say You Will

“You have been talking to yourself and saying things to yourself for years and years. You have been repeating many of the ‘same old things’, perhaps, for decades. You have been telling others, too. You have, haven’t you? You have been repeating a story you tell to all.

Your story is what you think you and life are all about. You tell yourself and others your limitations, problems, setbacks, dashed hopes, worries, anxieties and everything else! Don’t you? My guess is, while some things change, much of your story remains the same.

It is consistent. It is why you are stuck, broken, limited and unable in to move ahead. Yes, at times you may mention your personal resources. Regardless, you, I and everyone, have been repeating stories about ourselves since our childhood. We need to watch it.

What You Say Is What You Get – What You Focus On Expands

The stories may or may not be real. I say they aren’t. Some will argue that. These stories are our reasons, our ‘becauses’, our ‘whys’ for what is. They’re explanations we got from others when we were too young to know the difference. We’ve lived with these for years.

Now, is the time to change your story. If the one you tell doesn’t support you in being the person you want to be, doing the things you’d like to do and having what you want, then it is time to stop telling the old non-supportive story. Swap it for a supportive one.

Make up a new one. The old one was made up. It’s just a fairy tale you believed. Make up a better one; one that is positive, productive, supportive and which helps you live the life you want to live. Change your story for one that works for you, instead of against you.

If You Say What You Have – You Will Have What You Say

The time to do this is right now. There is no better time. Now, is the only time. Do it. Don’t wait. Waste time, no more. Get into it and create the story and the life you want to be living. If you won’t, no one will do it for you. Create your life and make it happen. Yes!

Then you will live the life you design. You will live life on your terms. Tell it the way you want it to be. Tell it as you want it to unfold. Speak it into existence. Re-write your history and fashion your future. Create what you want instead of accepting someone else’s version. Do it! Live, love, laugh. Learn to enjoy. Be grateful. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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