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Who Or What Is In Charge Of Your Circumstances?

“From the beginning of time humans have asked,  ‘who is running the show?’ From the beginning, people have sought answers and answers have been forthcoming. Not everyone appreciates the answers, nor do all agree. Some think it is determined from outside.

That luck, god, nature or the universe determines what comes your way. Perhaps, they are correct. It could be possible. What isn’t answered, or addressed, in this query is, what part do you play? Do you have a role in making things happen?  If so, how much of a role?

Some will say 100%. Some give a variety of other answers. One thing is certain. Whether you, or someone else creates your circumstances, whether you react, or respond, IS 100% up to you. How you negotiate, navigate and weather circumstances is all you.

Perception Is Everything – Perception Makes It So 

Given that your response determines what you do with what you have been presented, I share this thought with you. James Allen authored a very wonderful book titled. ‘As A Man Thinketh’. It is worth reading if you haven’t. It is worth reading again and again.

James Allen, reminds us that our minds are like a garden  which we can wisely and intelligently cultivate, or allow to run wild. It brings forth either way. Seeds grow. Results come forth. Some things will happen. Nothing, will not happen. The garden will grow!

Our minds grow whatever seeds are planted. Plant a positive seed, and that will grow. Plant a negative one, and that will grow. The mind is the growing medium and doesn’t care which type of seed is planted. How you respond to circumstances is your responsibility.

What You Say To Yourself And Others Is What You Manifest

If you respond positively, you have the opportunity to influence circumstances or adjust yourself as need be. You can overcome all sorts of difficulty, if you believe you can. You get back more of whatever you focus on . It expands. ‘I can’, expands as does, ‘I can’t.’

Whether you create all of your circumstances or something else does, you alone are accountable, and responsible, for what you end up doing as a result. All of the power is in you. If you make excuses, whine, complain and blame others you miss the power. You lose.

You won’t notice you have power because you distract yourself by placing the emphasis elsewhere. Energy flows where attention goes. We become what we think about. Champion or loser, victor or victim? It is all in what you think, and what you focus on, most often.

Speak Only To Bless Heal Prosper Inspire Motivate And Transform

The choice is always yours. Don’t ask who is responsible for circumstances, but how quickly, and easily, you can discover your resources, and be a victor no matter what comes your way. Ask yourself how easily you can be positive. Focus on what you want.

Place your focus on the positive and you become more of it. When you choose to consider everything a blessing, everything becomes one, even if it doesn’t appear that way at first. Learn how to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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When You Look Outside Yourself What Do You See?

“When you look at others what do you see? What do circumstances reveal to you?  What do you notice? How do you feel? What do you pay attention to? How do you react? Have you ever thought about what is going on outside of you and why it might be going that way?

Do you realize every thought you think, every experience you have, each and every relationship, every ‘thing’ and everything in your life is a reflection of what goes on inside you? It is all a mirror to what is within you. ‘As within, so without’, ‘As above, so below’. It is all you.

It is all me. It is each of us. Our thinking, feeling, speaking and behaving reveals who we are within. We reflect and radiate who we are to the world and those around us. Instead of thinking it is others, or  circumstances responsible for our lot, look inside. Discover!

Life Is A Reflection Of What We Allow Ourselves To See

You can’t learn other people’s life lessons. They must do that work for themselves. They will only do it when they are ready. This applies to you too. When ready, you will learn the lessons and make the changes YOU are supposed to. Look within. See. Become aware.

Look at the lessons the mirror provides. Don’t blame the mirror. Become aware of what is reflected and what you may wish to change. The more willing you are to look and to learn every day, at each opportunity, the more quickly you will transform. Get it?

Stop judging others and circumstances. Look for the lesson provided you. Look at how you can change in response to others and circumstances. It can burn. It can be difficult. The truth can hurt but when you do seek to be better, you can become better. It’s up to you.

Life Reflects Your Choices – What Are You Choosing Each Moment

You won’t see better wearing blinders. You need to see your blind spots. You need to see what you have missed. You need to recognize those things you blame others for. Your need to notice how you react. You need to see these things, so you can get free. Let go!

Look at those things that hold you back and drop them. Release and let go of the weight of your problems. Release the blames and excuses, the judgements and resentments. Release and be free. Stop blaming the mirror. Be pleased you have mirrors around. Be glad the mirrors are here to help you. Evolve yourself and transform. Be grateful for all of it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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A Big Reminder For Today and Everyday!

“Actions Speak Louder Than Words!”

Celebrate everything! Rex Sikes

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Be Impeccable!

“Be impeccable in all you think, say and do! Make the effort to stand head and shoulders above the rest. Add value. Be generous. Be filled with integrity, honesty, trustworthiness and compassion.

Apply rigor to all you do. Be a champion and rise to the highest of standards. Be exemplary and others will notice. Be a leader. Be a role model. Don’t be a role model to be a role model!

Simply live your life so positively and productively others want to do the same, too. Transform yourself and you help transform the world. Go first! Then others will follow.” Rex Sikes, Mind Design™

Celebrate everything!

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What You Must Do To Make It Happen!

“Your do your part. That means, you do it. You think it, feel it and take action.  You do what you can do. You have faith that it will happen. You trust and continue  doing those things that move you forward. You know what you are responsible for your success!

You also know you are only responsible for what you can control. You know there are things you can’t control. You don’t put your faith in luck or mysticism, or winning the lottery to succeed, you put it in yourself, your abilities, and what you can control. And then, let go.

Trust! You trust that your thoughts, feelings, vibes and actions have instigated the process and you follow through, adjusting the plan, being flexible as needed. Just as you plant a seed in the ground and water it, you do your part. The plant growing, is not up to you, Get it?

Skill Comes Of Doing – Let Go And Let God – Develop Certainty

You trust nature to take care of the seed growing, You can’t control it. You can only plant and nurture it. Growing is out of your hands. So you release that and only focus on your part. The same is true with your success. You don’t do more than your part. You can’t. Get it?

You align with others who succeed and help nurture their success. You appreciate and cheer them on. You don’t envy. It isn’t a zero-sum game that some like to play. There are no losers. A rising tide lifts the whole boat. You never succeed alone. No person is an island.

Do your part. Co-operate with others. Enjoy life. Live, love, laugh. Be flexible. You can always find or create a way. Adjust as necessary and continue. If you don’t quit eventually you’ll get there. So do your part, trust yourself, let go of control, and trust the rest will happen.

The More We Do The More We Become Capable Of Doing – Trust

Let go. All of it is a blessing. Learn from mistakes. Forge a will of steel and enjoy. Delight in the process. Them more you enjoy it, the easier it is. Step by step you get closer and closer. Keep the faith. Develop yourself. Help others. Grow your gratitude. Keep learning and you will do it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Work And Trust: Tether Your Camel Then Pray To God

“There is the tale of the mystic and his disciple traveling through the desert by camel. At nightfall the mystic instructed the disciple to tether the camel, say prayers and go to bed. Upon arising in the morning the camel was gone. It was nowhere in sight. WOW!

When asked by the mystic what happened the disciple said, he didn’t tether the camel, but prayed to god to watch the camel. The mystic scolded him, saying ‘tether your camel and then pray to god.’ What do you suppose the mystic meant? Shouldn’t trust have worked?

Shouldn’t it have worked. If you trust god or the universe for everything, why couldn’t you just put it in god’s hands? You may not like the answer, but, ‘You tether your camel and then pray to god.’ Do you get it? There is your part. Do it!Then, there is god’s part.

Skill Comes Of Doing – The More We Do The More We Can Do

The Bible seems to emphasize work and prayer. Do your part and god does god’s part. What you put out you get back. Ask and you shall receive. Seek and you shall find. Knock and the door shall be opened. You do your part and god or the universe does the rest.

You think positive, visualize, affirm and make forward progress toward your goals. Do what you can do to advance. Trust the universe and god for the results. You can’t manage results but you can manage what you do. Consider the following analogy.

You order food in a restaurant. The order taker gives it to the kitchen. You wait while the kitchen prepares your food. You expect it to arrive. You don’t doubt, fear or worry about it. You don’t micro manage the process. You don’t cook, nor do you deliver the food.

Know What You Can Control – Know What To Trust And Let Go Of

You trust! You did your part. The kitchen, god or the universe does theirs. You want to get results? Do your part! Trust, be patient and let the universe or god do the rest. Tether your camel and then pray to god. Get it? Let go of insisting it come your way. Trust. TRUST!

Be grateful. Be positive. Be optimistic. Be faithful. Be persistent. Be happy. Be willing to allow it to come to you. You put your order in, now, let it come. You asked. You will receive. You did the seeking then you will find. You knocked and the door will be opened. When you have done all in your power, then trust and wait patiently. Hooray! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Demand The Changes You Seek!

“Do you want to know how to make things happen? Many people want to make the Law Of Attraction work for themselves. Do you? Seems people try things only to give up. Then they claim whatever it was they tried did not work. Have you done this? I have, for sure.

Often, it isn’t that what we try doesn’t work, it’s that we didn’t do it long enough to learn how to make it work. We dabbled instead of diving it. We tried it, but we weren’t committed. Those who determine to do it, no matter what the cost, most often do succeed.

Mindset is everything. Decide you will do it now! Some people say, ‘I will’ but never get around to it. Say instead, ‘I must!’ Then do it now. Then you can say, ‘I am doing it. I am making it happen. If it is to be it is up to me.’ Be a leader. Become a leader of yourself. A champion!

If You Really Want To Do Something You Will Make It Happen

Become a commander and command it into being. Stop hoping, and wishing, and dabbling and begin doing it right now. Think, ‘I can do this. I am doing this.’ Then lead yourself the way a good leader leads others. Inspire and motivate yourself. Take positive action. Persist.

Command it! Demand It! ‘In the beginning was the word’. Speak only to bless, heal, prosper, inspire and motivate and transform. Speak to create. Plant a seed and allow it to grow. Stop concentrating on the harvest and focus on living fully between now and then. Get it?

Act as if you already have the harvest. Live the benefits, right now on the inside. ‘Command ye me’ said the Lord of the Bible. “Prove Me and I will make the invisible visible.’ Trust yourself and the process. It is doubts and fears and comparison that create suffering. STOP IT!

If You Really Want To Do Something You Will Find A Way

Let go. Focus on being the dream. Speak it into existence. Speak it! It will be there at the appropriate time. Meanwhile, live with trust and faith, love and peace, gratitude and delight. You will transform yourself and your world when you do. It is all a process of becoming.

When you consider everything IS A BLESSING, in your heart and mind, everything WILL be a blessing. So look for the good in every circumstance and person you encounter. Find it. Be thankful for the lesson and the opportunity. Celebrate each moment. Celebrate right now. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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