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How To Stop Screwing Everything Up!

“When considering you, circumstances, other people, all events and your life there is something you must stop doing if you want to get ahead and accomplish you goals and dreams. If you want to make your dreams come true you need to make some important changes.

First, you absolutely must stop victim mentality! Stop putting any energy or attention on your “story” of why things are tough, bad, not happening or causing you problems. Drop this thinking like a hot potato! It perpetuates the problems! It doesn’t lead to achievement.

Stop it! Let it go. Put a guard before your thoughts and lips. Speak only what you want and about what is positive. Put your energy into describing what you want to bring about, not why you can’t. Control your self talk and what you tell, share or discuss, with others!

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

Problem thinking is self-defeating and it is self-fulfilling. Get it? Stop creating more of the problem life you want to eliminate and start creating the life you want. Accentuate the positive. Energy flows where your attention goes. Speak only to bless, heal and prosper!

Tell a new and different story. Stop blaming and excusing and living as a victim. Live as a victor! Life is a process, not frozen. Reframe events and circumstances. Assign a different meaning to behaviors you don’t appreciate in self or other. You are learning and evolving.

Focus on what you want. Talk about it as if you are already making it happen and you already have it! Learn to live, speak and ‘act as if’ it is already your reality. What you think about you bring about. Start finding the silver linings and blessing in all. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Every Word You Speak Determines How Happy You Are

“Happiness is directly correlated to what you say inside yourself and what you say to others. Happiness is correlated to the story you tell and believe about yourself. If you want to be happier change your personal story. Put a guard before your lips. Watch what you say.

Speak only to bless, heal and prosper. Stop complaining, whining and excusing and start affirming and celebrating what you want to include more of in your life. Emphasize the good. Accentuate the positive. Stop talking crap and gossip and distractions. Let go.

Put an end to negative news and negative reports. Stop negative self talk. Repeat only that which you want to increase. Let go of and stop that which you want to decrease. Build the positive. Shrink the negative. This is how it works. Do it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Secret Revealed: To Stop Screwing Things Up You Must Do This First!

“All the actions in the world won’t make up for a crummy mindset. You can do and try anything and everything and still your results will be haphazard and mostly less than effective and poor. Actions does not replace mindset yet that is what most people attempt to do.

Most people try to make things happen. Mostly, they spin their wheels. They try to fix things or make problems go away or be better but they miss the key ingredient for doing that. You can be very busy with problem solving activity without accomplishing anything!

Einstein pointed out, ‘We cannot solve our problems with the same level of thinking that created them.’ Mindset must come first. You must learn and develop and maintain the proper positive, powerful mindset. From mindset come the right actions. Mindset rules!

You’re Where Your Thoughts Take You Thoughts Become Things

Without having the right mindset, all the actions in the world won’t make up for it. Yet this is the key most people miss. Why? Because we have been conditioned to ‘do things’. We have been told, ‘get educated, get a job, work hard.’ We haven’t been told ‘attitude first’.

Once you have the right mindset in place everything else follows. We have been told to put the cart before the horse. Change this and you begin to change everything! Get the right mindset and then you will be led to right actions by your feelings. You use your inner GPS.

The actions you then take, step by step are those that feel right. From the right mindset follow the right feelings. From the right feelings come the right action steps leading to the positive results you desired in the first place. Right mindset leads to right results.

The Brain Is As Strong As Its Weakest Think – Think Positive

You must design and maintain your mind to be more effective and get the results you want in your life. You transform yourself first and then all the right actions follow. When troubles come you are better equipped to naturally, effectively and easily resolve them. Get it?

Do you? When you evolve yourself you make good things happen. Why? Because you aren’t wasting your time, spinning your wheels in activity, but you are productively creating what you want to happen, bit by bit all along the way. Create yourself and your best life ever!

Take charge of your mindset! Focus on the positive. Be grateful and express your gratitude. Discover how everything IS a blessing. Stay focused. Stay the course. Remain optimistic. Let go of blocks and limiting beliefs. Enjoy life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Stop Giving Your Mind Your Power And Your Rights Away!

“We live in confusing and chaotic times, according to some. We also live in very good and wonderful times. Elements counter and combat each other. The world has always had sunshine during great catastrophes. Both exist simultaneously.

There is no judgement until a human renders one!

All is good is a perception. All is bad is a perception. Judgements on both sides. As an individual we need to choose which we want to be our predominant mindset. This makes all the difference in how we experience life. If we don’t choose, we already have chosen.

We must come down on one side or the other. We can focus primarily on all that is good, while not ignoring the bad, we can work to create what we want. We don’t succumb to the bad but we focus our efforts on solutions and creating what we want instead.

Whether You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

We know we don’t want the bad so we work on creating what we do want. It is a simple concept. Some focus mostly on the bad and try to escape from the harm. They keep running from that which they don’t want. Sadly, they may not know where to run to. This is a problem.

This is why we utilize the bad, what we don’t want, to clarify the good and what we do want. We specify what we want and they work to accomplish it. We do so without blinders but we shift our attention away from what we don’t want TO what we do want!

This makes all the difference. Energy flows where attention goes. One gets exhausted running from the bad. One may get invigorated creating something beautiful. Where you focus and put your attention and energy determines what you get back and experience.

Energy Flows Where Attention Goes

Which do you want? Especially in these confusing days. We have so much hurled at us moment to  moment. Social media, news, our culture, our family and friends. We are constantly bombarded by distractions, negative thoughts, energy and activity all day long!

We seem to be lead by chaos and confusion. That is a principle way to divide and conquer. Half truths and lies perpetuated for effect.
Governments have ruled this way. It appears the way we are being led. It is time for people to wake up, seek accurate information.

Get accurate information when and where you can find it. Stop swallowing everything that happens in a news cycle. The instantaneous nature of our internet life is mind numbing and dulling. Learn to wait and see. Evaluate before swallowing.

What You Focus On Expands – You Get What You Think About

Stand up for yourself and your rights. Be vigilant. The great distraction is instant news. Just as it is instant text and phone calls. It is great you can be reached anytime and anywhere AND it also has a downside. How often are you distracted by your own phone.

Interruptions rule our day. Subliminal messages in songs, and shows and news and billboards. I don’t mean the nefarious kinds but those can be included. Learn to think and feel and act for yourself with the great good for all in mind too. We have become too selfish.

We are too self absorbed. If there are nefarious forces they will rule over us because we are too busy to notice our rights and privileges being stripped away. We are too  busy seeking after and obtaining the next shiny object. Like fish we are lured astray. Hooked!

Seek Accurate Information – Don’t Be Swayed By Opinion

Caught! Stop. Claim your mind back. Claim your life back. Help make the world better for yourself and your family and neighbors. So not be led astray. Lemmings follow lemmings right over the edge. Stop! Think, and act wisely! ACT!

Don’t be caught up in advertising and social media. Some of it is good. Some not good. Focus on what you want to build that is better while aware of what you want to avoid. Turn your focus to creating the best life and along the way celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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This Is The Only Act That Results In Success

“What is the most important thing you can do? I even bet you know what the answer is. If you are like many people, you know what to do but you don’t do it. That is a major part of the problem. That IS the problem. That is why you are stuck and don ‘t get results you want.

You know what to do but you don’t do it! The most important thing you can do is take action. Knowing what is right but not doing it means you  don’t actually know. You won’t get results. If you know you should think positive  but don’t, why expect positive results?

If you don’t act on the good information you have nothing will change. People say they WANT to do things but then they wait for conditions to be right. This is the big lie. Conditions are always right, right now, OR they are never right. Down the road doesn’t matter.

Drop By Drop The Tub Fills

If you put things off, for whatever reason, lack of money, lack of time, problems mounting, whatever it is, it is an excuse and only perpetuates your procrastination. You must act in order to change. You must change things NOW for things to change. Get it?

They won’t change on their own. The time, other than now, will never be better. If you have issues, now is the time to resolve them. If you think negative and hold yourself back, now is the time to stop stopping yourself and begin to move forward.

It’s okay if you’re afraid. Courage comes from acting anyway. It doesn’t come by waiting for fear to disappear. Sometimes you just have to do it. Decide and act on your decision. Commit. Otherwise, the longer you wait the more you will talk yourself out of it.

The More You Do The More You Are Capable Of Doing

You will believe your own lies. You will swallow your own excuses. You will perpetuate the same ole, same ole, story and never get out of your debt, your rut, your mess, your mire. Act and make a difference for yourself. Even a tiny step is better than none.

Tiny steps in the right direction get you out quicker than no steps. Stop waiting. Put off your procrastination and take action. Act in your own best interests. You reasons, blames, excuses, finger pointing, your story, all  keep you stuck. Stop and take charge.

You never will, until you will. Face it! You won’t, until you do it. If you like being stuck so much, stay there and be quiet about it. Stop complaining. Enjoy it or do something about it. Doers do. Talkers talk. Which are you? You can transform yourself, but will you?

Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How Willing Are You To Change To Get What You Want?

“Never swallow your own BS . Everything and everyone, every situation and circumstance is an opportunity to get feedback. If one is open enough, and empty enough, messages come from everywhere. People and the world are your mirror. Your teachers.

Let intuition be your guide. Ask more questions than give answers. Seek not answers or reasons but seek to BE. Dwell within your presence. Silence is golden, especially when empty. When your cup is full, more can’t be added to it. Seek to be empty. Be quiet inside.

Be at peace with yourself. Allow the wise to counsel. Be smart enough to be open and teachable. Be willing to change. Allow yourself to be receptive. Know who to listen to. Listen to those who have what you want and have been where you are.

When The Student Is Ready The Teacher Appears

How much you learn and transform depends on how willing you are to be teachable. It depends on how willing you are to change. If you are not open to being taught, nor willing to change,  forget it. The teacher only appears when the student is ready. Openness matters.

Pay attention to the Universal Principles. Give that which you wish to receive. Become the eye of the hurricane, the center. Be peaceful, regardless of anything. Determine what you want and where you want to go. Navigate the way. Step by step enjoy the journey.

Parts of your journey may be easy. At times it will be clear.  Other parts, may be confusing. Other parts, may be downright difficult. Keep your  destination in mind, while being aware of where you are. Enjoy all of it as it is. Enjoy all parts of the journey. All of it is valuable. Stay open and you can transform in miraculous ways. Discover that everything IS a blessing. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Difference Between The Haves And The Have Nots

According to sources there is a disparity in the thinking between rich and the not so rich. For example, Robert Kiyosaki of Rich Dad Poor Dad fame,  says the rich have feeders and the poor have eaters. The rich invest in things that bring them more money, the poor don’t.

The poor buy things they think will make them happy. The rich know things don’t make them happy so they tend to invest in themselves. They better themselves and make themselves worth more. The poor spend money buying things that don’t improve themselves.

That is a big difference. The rich invest in their education and personal betterment. The poor do not. When the rich want to do something they decide to make it happen. Frequently, the poor complain about how they are held back from doing what they want.

Attitude Matters – Mindset Is Everything 

Mind set is everything. If you decide you can’t you most likely won’t. If you decide you can, you may not succeed but at least you attempt it. You continue to grow and expand, to reach and excel. The more excuses as to why you can’t the less you get to enjoy.

Simple but profound differences. The rich attend functions, events, seminars, and hang around with other rich people discussing how to make things happen. The poor don’t attend events and mostly talk about how they have problems and how the world is against them.

Please understand this is not an indictment on the poor. As with any group of people there are fine, wonderful and positive people worldwide. This is a general difference between those who have taken the initiative to make life great and those who have not.

The Quality Of Your Life Is Determined By The Actions You Take

Many poor people think only of having a job and work hard to get ahead. Yes, some of the poor are the hardest of all workers. They just don’t get paid much and remain poor. They work for others. Instead, they could create businesses where others work for them. Get it?

It is mindset. A very wealthy friend told me recently, ‘I make money! It’s in my DNA. It comes easy. I  do things that make money. I create. I have always created. Ever since I was a child I found and created ways to make big money. It is fun, easy and I love it. It’s energy.’

Not everyone thinks like this. Not everyone has his wealth. They could, but it would mean changing their thinking. Hard work doesn’t make one rich because if it did all the hardest laborers would be wealthy. Traditional education doesn’t either, or more would be.

Only You Can Make Your Life What You Want It To Be

Many fabulously rich people dropped out or didn’t even go to high school or college. They invested in themselves in other ways. Remember, birds of a feather flock together. If you want get rich you must do what they rich people did, and do, to get rich. Get it.

Hang out with forward, positive people who are pursuing their dreams. The people who attend events and seminars. You will meet them there. They go to meet others and learn some things. Associate with people who are winning the money game. Become one of them.

Stop spending on items. You don’t need a bigger better car, or TV or Starbucks everyday. Cut back on your expenses. Save money.  Invest in yourself. Invest in your self-improvement and personal, and professional, development. Take charge of your thinking and feeling.

Take Charge Of Yourself – Your Thoughts – Feelings And Actions

Learn to believe you can do anything you set your mind to. Develop your mind. Design it and design your life. Never let anything hold you back. Move forward. Learn and grow and expand. See a brighter bigger day. Determine to make it happen. DO these things and you will begin to be on your way. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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