How You Can Make Things Easier On Yourself

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“What do you suppose it means, you become what you think about most? How do you understand, what you focus on expands; or, what you focus on you get? Focus on negative or positive; it doesn’t matter, you get whatever you think about, you know that, right?

Do you think change is easy or hard? Transformation, can it happen quickly or slowly? Do you have a say in things or not?  Do you appreciate that you are the author of how things go? Do you agree only you determine the results and circumstances you get?

Yes, change can happen in an instant!

Will it? Who knows? It depends primarily on what your beliefs are about it. Think about that. We get what we focus on. We become what we think about. So if you think it takes hard work; you have to struggle; it is painful and a slow process, then it will be. Your Reticular Activating System will deliver you the proof.

‘If you think you can or you think you can’t you are right,’ said Ford. If you think change can happen suddenly; you can be blessed beyond belief in unexpected ways; good things always happen and things work out in the end, then that is the proof you get.  If you think it is difficult to change, then it will be. If you think it is be easy, it will be!

Yes, we have old habitual thinking, outdated, but still running on and on. Old habits die hard some say. It will be true if you believe it to be. Whether change happens fast or slow the larger question is how you go through the journey? Will you enjoy it or not?

Wouldn’t it be more desirable to have fun, expect the best, feel the best, anticipate wonderfulness each moment, than to fight and claw and inch your way forward. Yes, there are those who prefer to fight and claw but  wouldn’t you like it that way much better? Well?

There are those that, no matter what is said here, will fall back into habitual patterns of thinking. Then, there are those for whom the lightbulb will turn on, who realize ‘I determine how I travel. I call the shots. I am in charge. I am not a victim I am a victor, a champion and I will decide how much fun I will have.’ And then they do.

‘If it is to be it is up to me,’ is another important saying. Everything is always up to you. You determine how you respond or you can remain one who only reacts to what happens to and around them. Which do you want to be? If you want to be in charge, the master of your fate and the captain of your soul, you can be.

Whether change occurs for you in an instant or not will you have a marvelous time? You decide if you will delight or not. If you determine to see it through,  come what may, regardless of how long it takes, then you are on the right path. You will persist when and if you must. You can also relax be open and be ready to receive a miracle.

Your mindset, your attitude, your beliefs determine how you live and walk in the world. These determine what you discover and what you see. Your thoughts are the framework from which you live and learn. This is why it is said, we become what we think about most. We become and we get what we think about most.

Do you need new and better serving thoughts? Yes, we all do. Then get them. Change the old ones. Don’t whine and complain, instead act. Then and only then will you discover how easy it may be to change them. It may seem tougher at first, that is true, BUT if you work at it things will get easier and quicker.

All is good and you will discover an incredible world for yourself, if you haven’t already. You will find out how remarkable and amazing you truly are. Anything and everything can be yours. Dream big and then create it. There is no need to suffer or lack anything.

It is all up to you and what you think about it. Change fast or slow, easy or hard? That is for you to decide. Oh, wait, you already have. Long ago. If that decision does not serve you well today, change it. Only you can. No one can change you for you, but you! You decide how it is going to be. C’mon, live as an emperor, cuz you deserve it!” Rex Sikes

What if you could do half a dozen pleasant things for yourself and others today!

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Horizons photo used with permission of Phil Koch.

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