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Money Follows Mindset!

Money follows mindset. Sad but true OR very good news. That means when you get your mindset, your thinking and attitude right then everything else can fall into place. Most people haven’t learned this. I recently answered a person’s question and decided to share it.

Most people are taught or learned that they need money and things first and THEN they will be happy or positive. It is exactly the reverse. When you are positive and happy you are clearer and more resourceful than when stressed. Money comes more easily this way.

The truth is, most all people face the same challenge. That is how to learn to manage thoughts and feelings when things aren’t going well. If you thought about it for a second you’d realize that is the ONLY time you can really learn to manage their thoughts and feelings.

If Everything Were Already Rosy There’d Be No Need To Change

The time to change is right now. If you want things in your life to change, you must change things in your life. If you always do what you always did, you will always get what you have always got. There is never a better moment than right now. You change, things change.

Learn how to take charge of your thoughts and feelings. When you do, the future is yours. You can learn to be, do and have anything you desire. The key is to become it, then you will do the things that bring you what you want to have. Most everyone has this backwards!

The think having things will make them happy. They think if they do things they will have things and then be happier. Nope. You be happy, first and then everything else follows. This is why I write this blog. I write so you and I can learn to manage our thoughts and feelings.

Whether You Think You Can Or Your Think You Can’t You’re Right

This is why I have dedicated 2/3rds of my life to assisting others in making positive changes. If any one person can do it, then you can. Have faith. Start believing in yourself and begin to realize you can transform. Once you start it gets easier and easier.

You begin by imagining a better life.  Believe in yourself to make it happen and then YOU bring it about. Mindset is everything. Your attitude determines your altitude! Fill your mind daily with positive thoughts and create daily positive rituals. This is how it works!

It may take some time but it does work! Persist and you will discover how incredible you already are! Look for everything you already have in your life and feel grateful. Express your gratitude! Keep a journal. Look for the good in life and appreciate it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Have A Wonderful Life Part 4

“Take charge. Stop focusing on what you don’t yet have and focus on all the good you do. Many people miss out because, for example, they want $100, but they do so because they are aware of not having it. They put it out to the universe but then notice its absence.

They wait and want and focus on $100 daily but they don’t seem to get it because what they actually are focused on is not having the $100 yet. Get it? The knack is learning to decide to make the $100 and then think and feel and take action to get it. Don’t wait.

Act! Become creative in positive ways as to how you can increase your wealth by the $100 honestly and legitimately. You think and become the kind of person who can create and make $100, not one who sits and waits for it. You transform yourself and you get it.

Your Decisions And Excuses Determine The Quality Of Your Life

It isn’t a magic wand that you wave and ‘poof’ magically money and all good things appear. It is a transformative process that enables you to make yourself and your life whatever you want it to be. It is you doing it, not magic happening, though it can seem like it.

You develop the knack for creating what you want. I had dinner with a gentleman and his wife 3 nights ago. He is worth over 50 million and had just bought a marina. He said making money was easy for him, it was part of his mindset. He is good at it. He enjoys it.

He’s been doing it since a kid. you know, lemonade stands and more. He is enterprising and looks for ways to succeed. He doesn’t think he can’t. He focuses on what he wants and continues with it until that, or something better, comes along to make it happen.

If You Are Not At Cause 100% Responsible You Are At Effect

Mindset is everything! Where you place your attention, how strongly you place it, and for how long, all matters. If you decide to make $100 dollars but doubt that you will, or remain disappointed by not having it yet, you most likely won’t make it happen, soon.

I really hope you get this! Focus! Concentrate! Spend your time creating and thinking positive thoughts. Believe you can do it. If you don’t believe it, you won’t make it happen. Great news again! You can come to believe anything you set your mind, time and energy on.

Create yourself as someone who believes it is possible, and not only possible, but one who does what one intends to do. Create and think yourself to be a successful, happy person who makes things happen because you are good at it. If you aren’t yet, you soon can be.

Victor Or Victim Is Up To You – Winner Or Loser Is Your Choice

Make it happen. Don’t wait. Don’t whine. Create and become it. Focus on what you have already. Focus on the good in your life. Focus on your strengths and improve your weaknesses by focusing on your strengths. Get it? Be thankful and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Can’t Handle The Truth!

“I know most people won’t like what I am about to say, but it is just the way it is. No punches pulled. It is time you face up to it, whether you like it or not. If you own it, you can transform your entire life. If you don’t, you will continue as you have. If that’s okay with you, then.

Everything you are and everything you have, and all of your circumstances, you have created. You have always been creating your own experience. You have always been creating your own reality. No one, but you can create your reality. Only you can.

You have. You have been all along. If you take responsibility for it you can make it different. Up to now, you have been haphazardly creating. You have been doing it all along but didn’t know you were, nor were you deliberate about it. You get what you think about.

Thoughts Are Things – You Get What You Think About

Your present is a reflection of your thought life. If you don’t like it then change your thoughts. Most people don’t like their circumstances and get busy trying to fix the circumstances. That is trying to treat the symptom but does nothing about the cause.

All the busyness and effort does little to change things. You just work harder. The goal is to work smarter, not harder.  Get your mindset right first and the rest falls into place. Become a deliberate creator of what you want, instead of what you do not want.

Take charge of your mind. Decide to make things happen. Work on getting your mind set right. I keep sharing with you the protocol. If you don’t apply what you are learning, nothing much will change. There is learning, knowing and doing or being. You must be it.

You Are Where Your Thoughts Have Brought You

You must do it. Knowing is not enough. Information changes nothing. The application of information can. So become an intentional, deliberate creator and claim your life. Decide what it will be and settle for nothing less. Make it positive for you and for others.

Create good things. Have fun. Love more. Get financially free. You can be, do and have anything you desire when you determine you will make it happen. Only you can make it happen. It isn’t luck. You aren’t playing the lottery. Get in the game of life and decide to win it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Reason You Keep Suffering And How To Stop It!

“How do you create more happiness, abundance and success in your life? The way is, how you use your mind. What you think determines your reality, good or bad. Sad, but true.  Whether you get your goals or not is completely, and solely, up to you. It is true. Get it?

Whether you direct your mind, and whether it serves you or not, is the question. If you aren’t deliberately taking charge, then your mind is running you. You have all the reasons, stories, words, excuses, blames, whines, and more, for why you, and your life, are is it is.

Once you start directing your mind you begin to make changes. Either you are driving the car,  going where you want  to go, or someone is taking you for a ride. Which is it? Which will it be? You are either the driver or you are not. Which is it?  Get it? It’s up to you.

You Create Every Moment Of Your Life

When you begin to ask, ‘what do I want’ you shift your focus from what  you don’t want to what you do. Some people long, and yearn, after things they never attempt to get. That’s wishing and hoping, but that’s not what I am talking about. I am talking about decisions.

When you decide to pursue, to go after, to think about, your dreams and goals, and what you want to include in your life, you begin to change your words, your stories and your reasons. You begin to shift from what is wrong to what is right. This is a huge moment!

Often, it is subtle. Subtle, but profound. Eventually, that little change amounts to incredible progress. Your future depends on what you think right now. You aren’t just experiencing this moment you are creating the next moments by what you do inside your head. Get it?

Your Choices Determine Your Results

You determine what you, and your life, will be like days and weeks and months from now, by what you entertain between your ears, this moment. Whatever you predominantly, routinely, automatically, consistently think about most, is what you create and perpetuate.

There is no escaping this. You create your reality whether you want to believe it or not. Either you are or someone else is. Which is it? Take charge and live as someone who knows where they’re going and is determined to get there. Be positive and persistent. Do it!

Live the dream. Imagine it. Decide to make it happen. That is how nearly everyone else has accomplished their goals. A rare person is born to it or lucks into it. The rest make it happen working together with others. Mindset first and friendly co-operation, is the means.

Your Responses Determine Your Outcomes

Take control of your thoughts. Direct your mind. If you haven’t yet watched my discussion on Tonya’s Fabulous TV Show about using questions to direct your mind, and live more abundantly, then do it today. It’s brief. Here is the link, click on it now:

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Put into practice what you learn. The door will open and you can be delightfully surprised with the positive changes you make. Practice gratitude. Begin to feel wonderful! Do it today! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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That One Or Two PerCent!

“You are the creator of your life. Mindset determines what you create. You create based on your thoughts and your feelings. Your actions matter. They are important but not as important as you might think. The key is to work smarter not harder. It’s important.

Many people are busy but not productive. They confuse activity with accomplishment. This is because they focus in the wrong area. They focus on how to do things and what to do rather than the mindset that gives rise to the right, inspired actions. You must get this!

Actions matter not as much as your thoughts, attitude or mindset. Your thoughts and mindset pave the way. It is hard for people to grasp this concept. Your mindset is 98-99% what you need to focus on. Your actions are the 1 or 2% that you do. Pay attention to this.

Your Attitude Determines Your Direction And Your Altitude

What you think creates how you feel. How you feel determines what you think and your actions. What you think, feel and do create your results. The starting point of your results is your thinking. Your mindset. Get that right and the rest falls into place. Get it?

Your mindset is the cause. The results are the effect. Get it, cause and effect? Sadly, when things don’t go right, most people start trying to change the results. They try to change the effect. They get preoccupied with what isn’t working and what to do next. 

Instead of being focused on the effect, you must work on the cause. You must improve the mindset that determines your feelings, actions and therefore your results.  Positive feelings stem from positive thoughts. To change your results change your thinking!

To Guarantee Success Act As If It Were Impossible To Fail

Get it? More positive thoughts stem from the positive feelings. When those are correctly aligned you take inspired action. The actions feel right because they stem from right thinking and great feeling. Actions for action sake doesn’t get you anywhere.

There’s being productive, then there’s being preoccupied. It’s not what you do, it’s what you think and feel that determines how far you go. That’s why Napoleon Hill titled his book, ‘THINK and Grow Rich’, not Work Harder and Grow Rich. Mindset matters most!

This is why I keep suggesting you read and listen to audios. Attend events, live and online. Hang out with mentors, coaches and positive people. Do daily affirmations and visualization. Keep a success journal and practice gratitude. Get the mindset right so you succeed.

Do these things repeatedly, long enough, consistently and then your actions will matter. They will increase the likelihood of your success. You’ll be surprised with the results you will be getting. Actually, you won’t be surprised at all, because you will deliberately create them. Do you get that? Be thankful and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Successful People Do This Deliberately Or Not

“People who are successful do specific things to get that way and stay that way. They either ‘luck’ into discovering what to do, meaning they discover it on their own, in time, OR, they are taught, or ‘lucky’ enough to be raised in a family that emphasizes these.

Get it? The people, who are successful and people who live a happy life, already do these things on purpose or they have learned to do it unwittingly. Some do what I have been describing in these blog pages, with or without, realizing they do these things. It is fortunate.

What do they do. They read positive and inspiring material everyday. They seek to learn to be in charge of themselves.  They commit to daily improvement to be the best person they can be. They commit to their purpose. They invest in themselves and their future. Get it?

Stay Positive – Be Strong – Feel Your Best – You Can Do It – Do It

They live in the present, inspired, feeling gratitude and help inspire and encourage others. They maintain a positive attitude. They apply what they learn from reading, mentors, workshops and experience. They feel good and take inspired actions. They do it! THEY DO IT!

They listen to inspiring talks and audios. They keep their mind fit and conditioned with a healthy, hearty, mental diet designed to help them get to the top of their game. They hang out with other positive people. They celebrate the success of others. They add value to all.

If they get mad, they get mad at circumstances, enough to want to change things. Then they turn from the problem and spend their time focused on what they want to create. They don’t let hard times take the wind out of their sail. They know, hard times helps them.

You Get What You Focus On Energy Flows Where Attention Goes

In adversity are lessons and seeds of opportunity. They take 100% responsibility for everything in their life, good or bad. However, they don’t consider the bad, bad. They consider trying circumstances as incredible opportunities, that will all work out in the end. Get it?

They attend live seminars and online events to network, share and learn from others. They share and contribute generously. In doing so they learn, and evolve more, and get back much more than they give. They don’t focus on what they don’t have, but what they do have.

As stated, some stumble into doing this along life’s pathway. Others were brought up instructed in what’s important. Daily, they are thankful and grateful. They don’t focus on the how ,but believe they are resourceful enough to make it happen, in time. They trust.

You Make It Happen – You Create It – You Attract It – You Do It

They write down their goals. They journal. They keep a success diary. They visualize and affirm their desires with enthusiasm. They have a zest for life and are passionate about their projects and dreams. They learn to work smarted not harder. They know it is 99% mental.

They are beacons in the dark. They attract others to them because they vibrate and transmit positive energy. You can feel it when in their presence. They love life and are grateful for everything. They consistently and automatically manifest what they want. They do!

Successful people learn how to make things happen. They practice and conditioning themselves, repeatedly, long enough, consistently, to master the abilities. It is habit for them to make good things happen. Successful people do some or all of these things. And you?

You Will Always Be Out Of Your Comfort Zone If You Are Growing

All this can be yours too, when you commit to making yourself, and your life, the best ever. Do these things and you will be happy and successful, too! Savor the seconds, make marvelous the minutes, delight in the day! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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This Determines Whether You Stay The Course Or Drop The Ball!

“Will you make it or will you flop? What will be the end result, success or failure? Is there anything you can do to make success more likely? Will you succeed or won’t you? What do you think the answer to that question is? Your success depends on your answer.

It begins, within us, as an idea we conceive of. From within, we move it, to without. We translate the idea into reality. We think, take action and get results. Napoleon Hill said, ‘What the human mind can conceive, and bring itself to believe, it can achieve.’  So we can.

Hill stated, he would not say, ‘we will achieve’ because he had no way of knowing what each individual will do or not do. Some will take action and do it. For others, it will remain a nice quote. Whether or not we succeed is up to each of us. You and I are responsible.

Whether You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

You must become unstoppable. Persist in spite of any odds. Stay committed to your goal. Remain certain you will prevail. Developing and maintaining certainty is one of the secrets. So, how does one become certain? You must develop faith in yourself. Here’s how.

The process of conceiving or imagining and creating has been called ‘out picturing’. Out picturing is what allows us to manifest what we want in the outer world. It’s a fairly good description. We picture on the inside and make it happen on the outside. We out picture.

A couple of times, recently, I referred to the sculpting process.  The end result is the out picture the sculptor envisioned. To create we must remove any resistance. Much of what rises to prevent us, are our own doubts and fears. Our limiting beliefs must be dealt with.

What You Consistently Hold In Your Mind Is What You Experience

We must replace non-supportive beliefs with supportive ones. We replace limited, ‘I can’t’ thinking with ‘I can’ thinking. We do this by exposing our minds to positive material; through daily reading and listening to inspiring and motivating material. We feed our minds.

We remove limitations through reciting our affirmations, daily, numerous times, aloud, with positive, enthusiastic emotions and feelings. We use cadence, similarly to how the military uses it. We hang around with other positive ‘can do’ people. We do workshops.

We attend events. We go to recognition ceremonies and notice, those who succeed, so we can begin to think,’ if THAT person can do it, I CAN do it!’ We visualize our success and we feel as if we have already succeeded. We use the ‘act as if’ principle. All this helps.

You Life Is A Living Reflection Of What You Are Out Picturing

We keep our eyes on the prize. We clear our minds of all distractions and negative thinking by sharpening and maintaining our focus. You maintain a vivid mental picture of what it is you want. A vision board helps greatly. Keep pictures and reminders around. Look at these.

The personal goal, besides succeeding, but in creating that success, IS TO REMAIN positive about the inner world goals you have, regardless of what you encounter in the outer world. This is the secret key, no matter what you encounter, stay the course. Believe!

Remain confident. Feel certain you will accomplish your goal no matter what the universe hurls at you. The person who can do this is the person who does arrive. Release your attachment to the physical world. Let go of the outer resistance, as well as, the inner resistance.

We Become What We Think About – What We Focus On Expands

The sculptor removes whatever is not the sculpture. The sculptor chips away at the stone to release the visualized creation from within. The medium may be difficult but, through belief and persistence, the sculptor unleashes and realizes the goal. We do too.

Understand that the picture in your mind, and the positive feeling you have for it, are real! What you encounter in the world is what you encounter. HOW you respond is what makes a difference! Some buckle and whine, complain and excuse. Others make it happen.

What will you do? Can or will? It’s completely up to you! That’s why Hill said, you can achieve it, if you will conceive it and bring yourself to believe YOU are able to.  Condition yourself for success. Remove the obstacles of your own thinking and feeling. Make it happen!

Condition Your Mind For Success Daily And You’ll Breakthrough

Gratitude is one of the most important means to a successful conclusion. Learn to live in, and with, and express gratitude moment to moment. Fill yourself with awe and wonder and thanks. When you do all of life transforms because you transform. So celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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