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How We Can Change Our Perceptions Of Reality

Believing is seeing. Perception is everything. Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you are right. You have heard these thoughts before. Energy flows where attention goes. A change of thinking changes our perception of the world.  You create reality.

Our brain, our RAS, actually looks for matches in reality to our predominant thoughts. We see and find opportunity, otherwise missed, when we are focused on the positive. Enjoy this article on how open-mindedness and meditation affects our perceptions.

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I’d venture that personality is comprised of numerous thought habits. It is not static but dynamic and we can change it by directing our minds. When we do we perceive differently. I’m not sure research into personality is as meaningful as is how we are able to alter perceptions. Still, we can affect our perceptions. What do you think? Meanwhile, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How You Can Get Good At Anything

“Do you have to be born talented or can you develop it? How do you get good at acting? How about golf, swimming, juggling or cooking? How do you get good at anything? What is it that you must do to become the best? How does one master their skills? Here is how.

Remember the famous question, ‘how do you get to Carnegie Hall?’ The answer, ‘practice, practice, practice.’ You can develop or learn any new habit through correct repetition, consistently, over a long enough period of time. You aren’t born with it but you develop it.

Any skill! Mental, emotional, or physical can be wired in at the neurological level through this method. You can replace any old, non-supportive habit with a new positive supportive habit by conditioning yourself this way.

Any Skill You Wish To Learn And Master You Can If You Practice

Mastery may differ from person to person, but you can become your personal best, if you are willing to do what it takes. Think about it. And yes, that too is the answer. Mindset first! Get your thoughts right, feelings will follow and then your actions leading to results.

The more you practice the better you become. The same is true about creating and attracting. Practice creating. Practice believing. Practice making things happen and you get better at it. Start small and build up, as you would with any skill. Think about this!

It is true AND it is up to you! Do it and you will get better. Begin now. Don’t wait. Practice gratitude! Practice feeling marvelous! Practice expressing it. Practice communicating well with others. Practice supporting others and letting them support you. Practice solving problems. Practice unconditional love and acceptance. Practice celebrating everything!” Rex Sikes

It is a new day. Yes, act like it!

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Don’t Ever Let This Stop You!

“Why do most people quit? What makes them quit pursuing their goals and dreams? Somehow, they let a thought stop them. A mental packet of energy. A thought or thoughts that run counter to what they want is enough to prevent them from getting their goals.

Wow! Consider that. A thought stops them! Not any physical giant. Not an army. Not anything in the real world. Most people are stopped by a thought, a worry, or a fear. They don’t think they can succeed. They doubt. So they give up. I mean, really? They quit.

If a thought is that powerful it makes sense then to cultivate positive, powerful thoughts that see you through, doesn’t it? It would be desirable to make oneself unstoppable and invincible. Create the thoughts that propel you forward into your future. Make it happen.

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

Right? If you can let a thought stop you, you can let one help you. This is called good taste. Good judgement. This is called being wise and acting in one’s own best interest. If you don’t think you can, that IS being stopped by a thought. Change it! Switch to the positive.

Things are always much more possible than you think them to be. Get out of your own way. Create the affirmations and positive declarations. Repeat them with strong emotion until you believe them. It will work! You just have to do it. Fill yourself with gratitude.

Appreciate yourself. Appreciate everything about your life. Be thankful and express it. Think it and speak it. Feel it fully. Start loving your life and approving of yourself. Enjoy and delight. Have fun. Smile more. Love more. Feel thrilled. Feel eager. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

Great Things Are Coming!!

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How To Create Your Best Life Ever! Video

“Today marks my 1,096th daily consecutive blog. That is 2 normal years and a leap year of blogs.  3 full years of daily, uninterrupted, consecutive posts. To celebrate I include a video blog. Recorded live on FB yesterday June 15. I post it here as today’s blog.

I share a lot of powerful, life changing information that will make a real difference for you in your life as you apply it. I recorded this yesterday evening and have already heard from people who have watched it more than once. Study it. Take notes. Listen and learn.

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The blog arrives today later than usual,  because I had to wait for the video to upload to youtube. I apologize. I am glad that on this celebratory day I can offer you this video as my official 1096th daily post.

Either You Run The Day Or The Day Runs You – Choose Wisely

Stay tuned for more details. I am rolling out so many new things. After many delays we are moving forward. Soon at youtube we will have a link to website. Perhaps, later today. I’ll even give you a free gift when you go to the website. That will arrive a little bit later.

Still, I will gift you with something special. I also have a Facebook group I invite you to. Click Here To Visit Create Your Best Life With Rex Sikes Facebook Group.   I invite you to join us there too. I’ll share more great things with you.

Plus, you can meet and share and be shared with other great people!

Lot’s of exciting things coming up. Stay tuned. Keep reading. Watch video and change your life for the better. Be grateful, have fun and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Today is a wonderful day to celebrate!

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Your Greatest Power Is In Making Decisions

“When you decide to move forward all of your inner resources align to make that happen.  When you make a congruent decision everything can positively change for you. Tremendous power, positivity and potential combine the instant you truly decide.

You set in motion forward movement. Once you decide, anything, it is important to take some action steps towards fulfilling it within 24 – 48 hours. Taking some action, no matter how small, tells your brain you are serious about the decision you made. So, follow through.

At the same time, all of your subconscious beliefs, limitations, conflict or issues rear their ugly head. This is why doubts occur. You make a decision to change and then face doubt. Don’t worry. Relax. It is a normal part of the transformation process. It really is.

A Decision Has The Power To Transform Your Life In An Instant

For example, you think,  ‘I’m going to be more loving to my children, or partner, no matter what.’ As soon as you make that decision, the subconscious, the universe, infinite intelligence, or god, whatever you call it, gives you every opportunity to adhere to that decision.

You may get every kind of behavior from them, or circumstances or event that seems to challenge your ability to remain loving. Conflicts arise. Issues now face you. You just want to be loving no matter what and now the shit hits the fan. What is up with that? What gives?

Well guess what? You face these ‘dilemmas’ in order to learn how to remain loving no matter what. These are situations for you to learn, develop, evolve and grow by because, otherwise, what would your decision or pledge be worth? Your ability to remain loving is tested.

Everything Changes – Become Aware – Delight In The Process

The universe conspires to make you the best you there is. In order to be the best at what you decided you have to clear out those blocks, those issues, those limiting beliefs, those negative thoughts and doubts that prevent you from being loving at all times. Get it?

If it were easy, you never have to make the decision. You get that? You get the experiences you need as a means of educating you, teaching you, and assisting you in becoming the better person you decided to be. Resistance makes muscles grow stronger.

It doesn’t matter what you decide. If you decide you want to become rich, you can bet you will most likely face every issue about poverty and money difficulties and lack that you harbor within you. They’ll come flying up in your face. This is a good thing! It really is! Get it?

If You Always Do What You Did You’ll Always Get What You Got

How else will you ever get rid of, or drop, that old prior conditioning that has held you back. You encounter it so you can let it go and move forward. Whatever you decide, the counter side of it will come at you. Most people run from this. They complain. They whine.

They blame god, the universe, the economy, other people, and claim the universe sucks and nothing to is working. BUT it IS totally working! It’s helping make you a better you!  It’s a blessing in disguise! It IS an opportunity. Please, understand this. Please!

It appears to suck but it is offering you everything you need to move forward and go higher. It is assisting you. It’s helping you live from your decision and the commitment you made. Yes,  you’ll be challenged.  You’ll be tested. This is a good thing! Feel grateful.

You Always Have The Power To Choose

You are blessed. Be thankful! You have the opportunity to let go and transform. Diamonds are created under pressure.  When those moments come, even if you succumb to them, even if you aren’t loving every moment, this is how you learn to be. Fall, get up!

You get tested. You pass. You get tested. You fail. You fall. You get up and get tested again. You pass or you fail. It is a process. In this process  IS how you become more loving, or become rich, or whatever it is you want. You grow by being challenged.

You evolve through being forced to be loving, or maintain the faith, in situations when it would seem reasonable to not be. When you get this, and if you understand this point, so much of your life will change. There is great power in making a decision! It’s good!

You Are Choosing Every Moment Whether Or Not You Realize It

Just know, that when you do, you’ll have the opportunity to encounter the opposite of what you’re hoping for, as a clearinghouse, to become the best you possible. You should be grateful. Be happy and celebrate all of it. Appreciate the process.

Lessons keep coming until you actually get it. Once you have learned and you have altered you’re mindset, your feelings, and your behaviors; once you have transformed, you don’t need the lessons anymore. You only need them until you get it. Do you get this?

These circumstances, issues and doubts come up, again and again, so that you can see them, recognize and become aware of them and drop them. They are flashlights illuminating what otherwise would be left in darkness. They arise so you can move past them.

I Am  A Product Of My Decisions Not Because Of Circumstances

It is a blessing that won’t seem like it unless you make it a point to recognize it as a blessing. If you say, ‘oh my god it’s happening again! Why is it happening? Why do these things always happen to me? What’s wrong? Why am I doing these crappy things?’

Then you’ll stay that way because what you focus on is what you get more of. If you blame yourself, or others, and whine and complain about yourself, and your behaviors, or theirs, the challenges you get, you will never get past them. Instead, you will perpetuate them.

Because you will spend all your time with whining and blaming and complaining. In order to get past this and evolve you need to accept the process, recognize it for what it is and be thankful. It truly is a blessing helping you release old crappy conditioning.

Your Destiny Is Shaped By The Decision You Make – Celebrate

Your decision triggered it. Be glad! Contained within adversity are seeds of opportunity. You get that which seems ‘not so good’, the challenges, along with all the real cool things that can occur as a result of your decision. Move forward boldly and with compassion.

Make decisions. Follow through. Accept the process and enjoy all of it. Your entire life can now transform for the positive in incredible ways. Transformation means you trans-form. Things change and become different. You rise from the ashes a Phoenix. Love yourself, be grateful and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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A Secret You Need To Know: Your Expectations Sometimes Hold You Back

“What gives? What  is going on? Sometimes, the things, we think, help us the most, actually don’t. We strive, we effort, we maintain a positive attitude and yet we don’t get what we want. We neither make it happen or attract it, as we hope. Why does this happen?

It is important to focus on the positive. It is important to expect things to work out for the best. It is good to have positive expectations about people, situations and your future. Focusing on the positive is great. It helps you think and feel and act better.

When it comes to your goals and dreams. The small ones and, especially the large ones, your Definite Chief Purpose or Aim, focus on the positive and feel great about accomplishing it. Imagine it as though you already have what you want. Feel it. Then let it go.

Start Loving Yourself For Everything You Already Are

Release the expectations of how and when it will work out. Stop yearning and hoping and needing. Let it go. Drop it. Have faith it will work out. Develop that certainty. Know that issues will resolve and your good is yours. Stop trying to make it happen. Let it happen.

Still, visualize and affirm each day. Continue to focus on your goal. Don’t be attached to the outcome. Give up on the time line. Allow it to unfold. People get in their way of making what they want happen by overdoing it. When you need it, you don’t get it. Odd, right?

Needing it, or needing it a certain way or a certain time, means you don’t have it. You notice not having it. You are focused on the lack of it so you subconsciously continue to create more lack. Get it? Get out of your way. When you don’t need it, or insist on it, you’ll get it.

Needing It Pushes It Away – Let It Unfold Naturally – Yes Want It

Again, this is why gratitude is so powerful. When you are thankful for having it, and you are delighted in having what you don’t yet have in reality, you open the door to it. You are focused on the feelings of having what you want. You are enjoying the great feelings!

You are vibrating at a high level. Your inner resources can readily align to go after what you want because you feel great and are thankful for it. Everything is working together in one accord. You get it when you release needing it and feel like you already have it. Do the work and then open yourself up to receive it. Become a great receiver! Believe and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Secret To Transforming Your Problems Into Opportunities

“When times are difficult many people struggle with fear and worry. They imagine dastardly, negative scenarios, again and again, in their head. There is a way to move past this and get relief. Instead of derailing oneself, there is a means of getting back on track.

When troubled by people, events and circumstances, one of the useful things you can do is ask yourself, ‘What is the worst that can happen?’ Granted this sounds like a question you might want to avoid but it is important to consider. ‘What is the worst’?

Why on earth do you want to ask that? Because most people already see bad things. They imagine the world crumbling around them. What they don’t see is the ultimate bad thing. The reason you want to this is because, typically, the worst thing never, ever happens.

Don’t Let What You Fear Interfere With What You Are Able To Do

It just doesn’t. They simply live in worry and fear. They perpetuate the difficulties by focusing on them. Worry is actually negative programming. People program their minds. The more you worry and fear the more likely you are to bring those things about. Quit it!

Someone once said, everyone should go through bankruptcy. Again, why on earth wish this for anyone? Because, when you go through it you realize life isn’t over. People who are bankrupt still have a place to live, a car to drive, places to go, things to do and enjoy. They do!

It isn’t over! WE tend to think it will be, but it isn’t. I’ve had numerous friends go bankrupt and while not pleasant always, their lives did not change much. There may be some exceptions. For most who go through it, they  learn it is not as bad as thought, prior to it.

There Aren’t Obstacles In Your Path – Obstacles Are The Path 

When you deliberately ask, ‘what is the worst that can happen’ usually, you discover whatever ‘the very worst thing is’ you still survive. You are still okay, and you can, if you worked at it, handle it. Life isn’t over because of your imagined fears and worries.

They loom larger in the mind when not confronted. Once confronted the sting is gone. YOU took out the sting. You reduced the mountain to a mole hill. NOW You can break the problem down into bite size, manageable, steps or tasks, you can more easily and readily resolve.

It is the imagination running wild that is the difficulty. Gain control. Reign it in and you can again be on your way to being more productive and happy. You can resolve most any problem this way. Most of us, fear things that will never, ever happen. Stop it. Let go.

Strength Comes From Overcoming You Worries And Fears

Take control of your thoughts. Then you take control of your feelings. Yes, there are other things you may also do. I have discussed these in previous blogs. Read through and find them. I could share where but it is good to study and reread. It benefits.

Anytime confronted by problems consider them blessings and be grateful. This powerfully transforms them quite quickly. You don’t fear or worry about blessings and good things do you? Problems are their to teach you something and for you to discover what that is.

They are roadblocks slowing you down, to get your attention, so you can learn to be a better you. Be grateful. Be thankful. Feel truly blessed. Inside the obstacle is the seed of opportunity. You may have to look to find it, but that is why the obstacle is there. Trust. Let go. Enjoy. Delight. Feel blessed. Everything transforms when you celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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