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Your Expectations Screw You Or Bless You!

“Your expectations can screw you. You expect something to cost two dollars. You find out it cost three dollars. You’re bummed out. If you found out that it only cost one dollar you’d be thrilled. What we  believe and expect can determine if we are excited or bummed out.

Your expectations determine much of what you experience and what you find. If you’re focused on finding problems, if you expect something to be difficult, if you expect it to be boring or depressing or dull then it’s likely it will be. Expectations shape our reality.

If you expect it to be fun and thrilling and exciting then it likely will be. However, if you expect too much you’re bound to be disappointed.  Realize, regardless of whether you’re thrilled or disappointed it’s your expectations causing you to feel as such.

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are RIght

Your thoughts, your beliefs, your expectations, are your mindset. In order to live better, feel better, and get better results you need to manage your mindset. Gain control of your thinking and make it work for you in positive and powerful ways. Don’ t let it run you.

Otherwise, you’ll continue to get the ‘less than glorious’ results you’ve already always got and don’t want. You want it better?  It’s a bitch  thinking from a negative habitual mindset while wanting things to improve. It won’t as long as you do things the same old way.

People think, ‘OK, today it’ll be different.’  Unless you actually make the effort to shift your thoughts, it doesn’t change. It won’t change. It can’t change because it is habit you live from.  In order to actually change you have to actually change the things you do. Get it?

If You Always Do What You Always Did You Get The Same Results

You can’t do the same thing again and again and expect anything to be different because it won’t be. Your mental habits govern what you think, see, feel, say to yourself, experience and the results you get. Everything will be the same as long as things remain the same.

You need to learn new, positive, powerful productive habits that lead you in new directions. You need to shift your thinking. When you shift your mindset to the positive you’ll begin to feel new feelings and get better results. You will discover great things!

The old way doesn’t work to get you new things. Stop doing what you’ve always done, and expecting it to be different, and start doing things you’ve never done. Do this! Then you’ll  know it can be different. As you master new habits a, you transform.

Don’t Like What Results You Get – Only You Can Change Them

You will discoverer yourself becoming unconsciously competent, thinking in positive, powerful, productive ways the more you practice, repeatedly, thinking positive. The more you do it the easier it becomes and the more you will do it naturally. Get it? It’s habit! Develop new habits and your life will improve. Do nothing and you will remain the same. One important, life changing transformational habit is to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How You Can Know You Will Be Happy And Successful!

“You can set yourself up for greater happiness and success. You can position yourself to have more. You can enjoy more of life. So let go! Allow yourself to have some fun. Stop being so serious about your goals. Know you can have everything you want. You can get it!

Expect to make it happen. Expect to have it. Expect it! When you exercise daily you can expect that you will get more fit. You will condition you body and experience better health. You know it is happening because you are doing something about it daily.

So expect life to be good. Do those things. Think and feel delighted. Have fun. Look for the good in all circumstances and people. Feel blessed. Stop being serious and start being alive and grateful. It will all come about. You will make it happen when as you begin to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Read This If You Aren’t Getting What You Want In Life

“Are you tired of not getting what you want? Perhaps you need or want money, a new car or home, better health, an improved relationship? Whatever it is you want, you wish for it, pray for it, hope for it, you seem to do everything but nothing much happens.

Why? What is going on? There is a formula that works. I have repeatedly shared it in these blog pages. You can’t hear it or see it until you are ready to. Only when the student is ready does the teacher appear. It is here! Study, review. Repeatedly read. LOOK!

Be open. When you finally get it, it will all become clear. Then manifesting becomes easy. The you can create your best life ever! I share these principles and practices here and in my programs for you to benefit BUT you must do the work. Seek and you will find.

Sow Little Reap Little – Sow Big Reap Big

When it comes to making things happen, getting your goals and making you dreams come true you must dedicate yourself. You must spend the preponderance of your time visualizing what you want, affirming it with positive emotions and managing your mindset.

The more you put into it the more you get out of it. The Law pf Cause and Effect is you reap what you sow. If you sow little you will reap little compared to if you sow big. The Law of Increase dictates you will always get back more than you put into it. Effort multiples.

One seed can result in a tree that produce bountiful fruits or flowers. Fruit and flowers is not the increase. It is the producing life cycle of that tree that was born by one seed. That tree could continue to produce for 50 or more years. That is increase!

The Size Of Your Harvest Depends On What You Sow

So you ‘work’ hard, diligently, to plant the seeds and nurture them to fruition. You must spend most of your hours in positive mindset, believing, expecting, you will make what you want happen. Your desire is not enough. Plenty of people desire and don’t get.

People pray, they ask, they beg and still nothing. In order to make it happen you must make it happen. You must imagine what you want with clarity. Visualize and affirm. Feel good about getting it. Feel excited and KNOW that you will. Be certain and don’t waiver. Get it?

Expect to get it because you will make it happen. Persist until you do. Never give up. Adjust if you must and continue BUT with all that hard work you must also relax. Let go and allow it to happen. You can’t push a rope. You need to plant the seed and wait in good faith.

If You Can Conceive It And Believe It You Can Achieve It

You need to know how to receive. You do your part, universe, god, your subconscious, infinite intelligence, source, whatever you want to call it, will do it’s part. You sow and you reap the harvest. You can’t force the harvest. You allow it to unfold. So relax, too! Let go. Enjoy and along the way learn to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What To Do About Your Worst Fears

“Sometimes things turn sour and we handle it okay. Other times we go to extreme negative thinking. We think the worst case scenario over and over. We let it affect us and we spiral down. It is normal and natural for us to think this way. Most of us were conditioned to.

What we frequently find is after a day or two, weeks or longer what we feared most did not come to pass. The worst fears we lived over and over didn’t manifest as we expected. We feel relieved. We dodged a big one and we resume our lives. Whew! But then what?

It happens again another time. Over the same subject or another one. TWe repeat the worst case scenario lifestyle for awhile. We go dark. Again, it resolves. Usually, our worst fears NEVER come to pass. That’s the funny thing about it. Our fears don’t come about!

Don’t Let Fear About What Could Happen Make Nothing Happen

What we  did is get worked up, fearful, angry, depressed and worse. We spiraled into negativity, for a time being, only to discover things worked out better than we thought they would. Did we learn our lesson and decide never to do this in the future? Nope. Sadly, nope!

To enjoy enduring success, so the saying goes, one must travel a little in advance of the world. This means get out ahead of it. We can do that if we learn from our ‘worst fears’ example. Since our worst fears almost never, very rarely, ever come about, stop thinking they will!

Use your mind and energy differently! Stop repeating failure. Stop repeating negative thinking and begin to shift away from the worst case scenarios. Begin to think ‘things always work out’. ‘I don’t know how this will but I know it will work out for the best’. Get it? Do it!

There Is No Greater Illusion Than Fear – It’s Only A State Of Mind

Think and behave differently. Learn from your mistakes and move forward. If you don’t you are doomed to repeat. Stop it. Start doing something productive instead. Don’t just be relieved. Learn to live and respond differently to life, when it throws you a curve ball.

Enjoy life more. Stress out less. Learn to think positive instead of going to dark negative places. Shift away from your fears. Live with courage. Live lighthearted and carefree. Begin to express gratitude and delight. Be thankful for all. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Always Find What You Look For

“How you arise in the morning sets the tenor for your day. If you arise positive and happy and intend to have a great day, it is far more likely you will. If you arise with dread, not wanting to face the day, more than likely, the day you experience is one you will dread.

It is always possible, in either case, you could be pleasantly, or not pleasantly, surprised, but that is just how life, and things, are. Anything is possible. Still, if you get up looking for smiles you are bound to find them sooner than if you are looking for frowns.

Whatever you look for is what you will tend to find. When you look for your keys you may find all sorts of other things along the way to finding them. Still, your mind is focused on keys. Your brain works by intention, expectations and beliefs. That’s what your brain does.

Seek And You Will Find – Knock And The Door Will Be Opened

Whatever you expect to find, you will. Your brain seeks a match for it. What ever you believe is the case, your brain looks for a match for it.  Since we tend to find what we look for, decide to look for the very best. Look for the good. Look for the delightful. Look for the blessings. When you do you tend to find these. So remember to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Tale Of A Mystic God And An Old And Young Man

“Indian mystic Narada was off to see god. As he journeyed he played his veena, a stringed instrument. In the midst of a forest he encountered an aged monk sitting against a tree. The old monk asked Narada to ask god a question when Narada saw him.

‘Please tell him I have been making great efforts for three lives now. When, oh when, will he see fit to allow me to be enlightened and free?’ Narada agreed that he would ask and continued on his journey to meet up with god.

Turning a bend in the forest path he found, under another tree, a young man dancing and singing. Narada, being a man of humor, asked the young man, ‘Would you like to ask god a question?’ The young man kept dancing. He didn’t reply. Narada thought he’s deaf.

Trust And Let Go – Celebrate Everything – Be Grateful And Play

He asked again. The young man continued to dance, sing and play on his ektara as if he had not heard. Narada journeyed on. After a few days he returned. Seeing the old monk again, against the tree, he told him god’s news. ‘He said, ‘three more lives.’ The old monk raged.

He got so angry he shook his fists at the sky, threw down his scriptures and prayer beads and exclaimed, ‘this is too much! Three more lives! So unfair!’ Leaving him Narada again encountered the young dancing and singing man. He continued to dance and sing.

‘Although you did not ask, I asked god for you. How many more lives will this young man have to live before his liberation? God replied, ‘tell him he will have to be born and lead as many lives as there are leaves on the tree he dances under. ‘ The young man danced more.

Drop And Release The Old Limitations And Become Totally New

He danced more enthusiastically! He seemed in ecstasy. ‘Really, so few? So fast? There are so many trees in all the world and I only have to live this many more lives? Next time you go to see god give him my thanks!’ It is said the young man became enlightened right then!

Dance, play, sing, enjoy life. Delight. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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A Secret You Need To Know: Your Expectations Sometimes Hold You Back

“What gives? What  is going on? Sometimes, the things, we think, help us the most, actually don’t. We strive, we effort, we maintain a positive attitude and yet we don’t get what we want. We neither make it happen or attract it, as we hope. Why does this happen?

It is important to focus on the positive. It is important to expect things to work out for the best. It is good to have positive expectations about people, situations and your future. Focusing on the positive is great. It helps you think and feel and act better.

When it comes to your goals and dreams. The small ones and, especially the large ones, your Definite Chief Purpose or Aim, focus on the positive and feel great about accomplishing it. Imagine it as though you already have what you want. Feel it. Then let it go.

Start Loving Yourself For Everything You Already Are

Release the expectations of how and when it will work out. Stop yearning and hoping and needing. Let it go. Drop it. Have faith it will work out. Develop that certainty. Know that issues will resolve and your good is yours. Stop trying to make it happen. Let it happen.

Still, visualize and affirm each day. Continue to focus on your goal. Don’t be attached to the outcome. Give up on the time line. Allow it to unfold. People get in their way of making what they want happen by overdoing it. When you need it, you don’t get it. Odd, right?

Needing it, or needing it a certain way or a certain time, means you don’t have it. You notice not having it. You are focused on the lack of it so you subconsciously continue to create more lack. Get it? Get out of your way. When you don’t need it, or insist on it, you’ll get it.

Needing It Pushes It Away – Let It Unfold Naturally – Yes Want It

Again, this is why gratitude is so powerful. When you are thankful for having it, and you are delighted in having what you don’t yet have in reality, you open the door to it. You are focused on the feelings of having what you want. You are enjoying the great feelings!

You are vibrating at a high level. Your inner resources can readily align to go after what you want because you feel great and are thankful for it. Everything is working together in one accord. You get it when you release needing it and feel like you already have it. Do the work and then open yourself up to receive it. Become a great receiver! Believe and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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