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How You Make Things Happen

“Students ask me, ‘what kind of attitude must I develop in order to be happy and succeed?’ ‘Is there something I should do to get what I want?’ ‘Am I doing something wrong?’ First, let me say, in regards to doing something wrong, yes and no. Better to say, no and yes.

No, you are simply doing what everyone does. You are getting some results, okay results, sucky results, haphazard results, but you are doing everything correctly, sort of. You are manifesting exactly what you are thinking about, and feeling, the most often in your life.

You are getting more of the same. You don’t realize, nor, do you take responsibility for what you are creating and manifesting. This is what you first need to understand and change. Take charge. Take 100% responsibility for everything that happens. 100% everything!

If You Think You Can’t Or You Think You Can’t You Are RIght

Whether you believe it or not. Take responsibility! Put yourself in charge of being a deliberate creator. Next, change your focus! Stop focusing on what you don’t want or wish to exclude. Stop focusing on problems and negativity. Stop whining and blaming. JUST STOP IT!

Start focusing on what you want AND want to include. Spend most of your thinking and feeling time on these things. Correct, repeated repetition is how you condition your subconscious mind to go after what you desire and focus on most. Repeat positive. Repeat, repeat!

Otherwise, you sometimes get what you want accidently. Most of the time you get what you DON’T want. You are like a cork bobbing in the water driven by the changing winds. STOP IT! Become deliberate. Take responsibility for creating what you want in life.

You Go Where Your Thoughts Take You – Make It Happen

Then, work to create it. Feel passionately about it. Have fun. Delight! Celebrate it. Move towards it bit by bit every day. Move past the hardships. Commit and persist. Stop doubting. Believe you can do it. Transform yourself into a person who makes things happen!

Don’t wait for things to happen. Determine to make them happen! Put your energy into creating wonderful, marvelous things. Get excited. Feel it happening. You are doing it. Vibe high. Be enthusiastic. Create these feelings in yourself deliberately. Delight and feel gratitude. Jump with joy. You are making your dreams come true! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Make Good Things Happen!

“How do you make things happen? How does the military?  How does anything get done in the corporate world? Someone issues an order. They put in a command. How do you get your computer to do things? You hit enter or put in a command. How do you get fast food?

You place an order. When it comes to the universe place your order. Command it! Demand It! You need not be rude or offensive. Simply act with authority. Speak with authority. Declare what you want there to be. Assert what you are going to create. Consider the bible.

In the beginning was the word. And the word said ‘let there be light and there was light.’ The word created. The word spoke existence into being. All that is was created by the spoken word. The power of intention and deliberate creation is what this is an example of.

Speak Only To Bless Heal Prosper Inspire Motivate And Create

Speak only to bless, heal, prosper, inspire and motivate. Speak to create.  Plant the seed. Speak it into being. Act as if you already have the harvest. Live the benefits now inside. ‘Command ye me’ said the lord of the bible. “Prove Me and I will make the invisible visible.’

Trust yourself and the process. It is doubts and fears and comparison that create suffering. Let go. Plant a seed and allow it to grow. Stop concentrating on the harvest and focus on living fully between now and then. Drop worry, fear and doubt. Trust yourself. Create.

Create and follow through !Focus on being the dream. Speak it into existence. Speak it. It will be there at the appropriate time. Meanwhile, live with trust and faith, love and peace, gratitude and delight. You will transform yourself and your world when you do. When everything IS A BLESSING in your heart and mind everything will be a blessing. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Won’t Succeed If You Can’t Do This!

“I’d rather tear my hair out than twiddle my thumbs. Completion is the sign of genius. Any fool can start something. It takes one with dedication and commitment, follow through and will to complete what one began.

If you committed to something, someone or yourself, KEEP your commitments. That is how you get back more good stuff from universe. You can’t feel good if you let yourself or others down. You get back what you put out.  You get back is more of the same!

Universe doesn’t care whether you are right or wrong, good or bad, positive or negative, you get back what you are! Now, substitute subconscious for universe and you see it is all the same. It doesn’t matter whether you believe in law of attraction or not. It doesn’t!

A Promise Means Everything – Once Broken It Means Nothing

For every cause there is an effect. Are you at cause or are you at effect? Too many people spend too much wasted time not completing things. Hence, they end up with more things they never finish. You don’t win or get the prize unless you cross the finish line!

Others won’t trust you if you fail to do what you say. You won’t trust yourself much if you don’t complete what you start. It is important you to do things without excuse or blames. Take responsibility for getting it done or not getting it done. Just own up to it all!

Don’t waste people’s time by making excuses. Don’t waste your time with excuses. Own up to your word. The best thought to think is: ‘My word is law! Whatever I say I make happen.’ So never break your word. Keep your word and you will have greater success.

People With Character Keep Their Word – Keep You Word

One reason why people don’t get what they want is because they vacillate between doing and not doing, faith and doubt, wanting and avoiding what they don’t want, positive and negative. We become whatever we think about most. What we think and say, we get.

If you can’t trust yourself, nor can others to keep your word, what value have you? Consider your word, regardless of whether or not you ‘promise’, as an oath. Live with honor and integrity. When you complete what you set out to do you will see you get more rewards that you could imagine! Think, ‘this is a day of completion. thy will be done!’ then go do it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Take Charge And Build Success Habits That Work!

“In order to get to subconscious mastery, unconscious competence, we must first apply conscious will and direction. We must first set the mental intentions, make decisions, and follow through in practicing and repeating these. You don’t get good doing nothing.

Present conditions are always the result of previous thoughts, feelings and actions. We create out future in advance then it comes to fruition, just as we plant a seed and then later harvest. In order to get good at manifesting what you want you must practice it first.

You don’t get good merely reading about it. You don’t get good at it only by thinking about it. You must feel it as you think about it. To get good at any sport you must engage in it repeatedly, and feel the good feelings, as you advance in it. You get better by positive repetition.

Take Charge Now – Whatever You Want To Do With Ease…

As you feel good, you want to do more. The more you do the better you feel. The more you feel good and repeat what you are doing for a long enough time builds positive success  habits. You are taking your conscious skill and wiring it into your unconscious.  Get it?

Do it correctly and you become it. First, decide to be it. Then affirm and visualize it with great positive feeling and enthusiasm. It is not enough to think or say, ‘I feel strong.’ You should feel the feelings of strength and declare it powerfully. Be genuine and honestly feel it.

That is how you make thoughts work. It may seem stiff or unreal at first but you will get better at it. Anything you first learned seemed, at first, impossible. Still, you accomplished it and got better if you properly stuck with it. If you gave up and quit, certainly you didn’t.

… You Must First Do With Diligence – Take Charge Now

Mastery comes through application and nothing else. Build positive success and happiness habits. Use this proven system for making positive powerful changes. Create your best life ever because the only person who can do it for you is you. Understand this!

Neurons that fire together wire together. When you deliberately choose to create you success, and you continue to follow through as necessary, creates new positive neural pathways in your brain. You make the changes more easily. Your inner resources work together.

You are already successful at what you don’t want. You got there this very same way. Whatever you focused on, whatever problems plagued you, were reinforced by your thoughts and feelings through time. Use the same system to now make positive changes instead!

You Are Making The Unconscious Conscious And Vice Versa

You already know how to do it. Now apply it. If you do not take charge you will forever remain the same until you do. It is silly to think you would be otherwise. If conditions suck it is up to you to learn how to change them and triumph over them. Get it?

The reason gratitude is so important is it is a marvelous high vibe positive feeling. The more often you feel it deliberately the more you begin to master it. Fill your life with positive good feelings, happiness and success by looking for and recounting these frequently every day. Discover that all is a blessing and ALL will be a blessing. You must go first. You must first plant seeds. Get it? Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Stop Being Dick-Headed

“There are those who are open and skeptical. There are those who are skeptical and closed. There are those who are closed, skeptical and cynical. These are the one’s we typically call ‘a dick’. Or we call them something worse. Bottom line: Stop being a dick! Yes, you!

Me too! Stop being a dick. Drop dick-headedness and seek to be a new and different, open person. I prefer the term agnostic. Why agnostic?  Because we really don’t know what we don’t know. We only know what we THINK we know and that is not very much.

We don’t know how things might turn out but we often fear the worst. We could expect the best, yet only a few do. We just don’t know how much we don’t know either. It is true fools think they know everything. They think they have the only correct version.

We Don’t Know What We Don’t Know And We Don’t Know That

Those foolish people are closed minded. They refuse to see the many sides of every proposition. Don’t you think it odd many of us claim to know everything. Not only that we claim to know what is best for everyone else too. Pretty sad when you think about it. Narrow!

Yet, that is the way of the world. That happens when people create societies. We end up pursuing norms more than we pursue exceptions. We swallow the cultural kool-aid on how we are limited, broken, victims and worse. We can think otherwise but don’t/

We don’t because most don’t fully realize they could. So instead of discovering new ways of being they defend to old vehemently. They don’t need to but they feel as if they do. We could argue over objective versus subjective ‘truth’ endlessly. We’d waste time.

Stop Defining Yourself By Your Limits – Have A Parachute Mind

There are militant minded people of all persuasions. I prefer staying as open and educated and enlightened as possible without taking any of it too seriously. I prefer to learn and continue to learn, to discover and to grow and expand what I think is possible. Don’t you?

So stay open. Decide to become aware when you react instead of respond. Decide to learn how to master that tendency so you can become freer. Seek to find the good in all situations. Stop being quick to judge and allow things to unfold without bias. Let go. LET GO!

When you stop defending the old you have more energy to nurture the new. Look for the blessings, the positive. Speak to bless, heal and prosper. Focus on gratitude and joy. Be happy. Find moments and make them magical. All moments are! Every moment you have is the only moment you  have. Don’t squander the moments. Savor them. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Make The Most Of Your Life

“Part 4 in this series. I create the future I want to manifest. This was an incredible leap forward for me. Instead of living life looking back, I started looking ahead. Instead of letting things happen to me, I decide what I wanted to have happen. I took control of myself!

I took control of my mind, my life and the results I was getting. Instead of driving down the road looking in the rearview mirror, I began to focus on my destination and how pleasantly I could get there. I decided, I shouldn’t ignore the present that would be silly.

I just don’t have to react to it as if I were a Pavlovian dog salivating to a ringing bell. I decided I would celebrate and appreciate the present. To do this I had to think that it was worth it even when it may not seem that way. I’d look for the good within the bad.

Mind Stretch To A New Idea Never Returns To Original Dimension

I made it a point to look for whatever good I could find in whatever was going on and I would accentuate it. If I experienced calamity and problems, I’ d find whatever was good in the situation and accentuate that. Anyone can learn to do this. Even the reader!

Certainly, accentuating the problem or bad feelings didn’t make me think, feel or do any better. Focusing on the good did. I learned I could chose what I paid attention to. Even if my first thought was to find the bad, my second thought became,  ‘what is good about this?’

I learned I could direct my thinking. I found as I did this things changed for me. No, not over night but gradually. I became a different person. I became positive, confident, happy, free, and powerful. Things that would have bothered me no longer did.

Skill To Do Comes From Doing – You Get What You Focus On

I became more flexible. I could adapt more easily. I got much better results than I had. I didn’t try to change the world around me, which is what many people attempt to do. Instead, I changed myself and discovered when I did, the world, somehow responded too.

The coolest thing was and is, even if nothing changed in outer reality, other than me and my relationship to reality, actually everything did change. It’s kind of like nothing changed BUT everything changed. That may be a difficult sentence or concept to grasp right now.

So I’ll share more next time. For now. Focus on the good and the new. Focus on what you are grateful for and appreciate about you, your experience, the people around you, and all circumstances. Mine for the gold and dig for the diamonds. They may be difficult to find at first but keep looking. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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