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Decision, Get Rich, Take Charge, Take Positive Action

Odds Are You Won’t Change And Will Likely Die Broke!

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“People ask, why him or her, why not me? Why do things always suck? How come I can never get ahead? These and more questions plague many people. Estimates are 95-98% of us will die poor or broke and unhappy. Truly dire statistics! You must decide to change!

Instead of wallowing or disputing, which you can do, use the statistics as a wake up call to get your life and affairs in order so you can live the life of your dreams and leave the legacy you desire. No reason to die broke and unhappy if you can do otherwise. Is there?

Stop being a victim of circumstances and others. Learn to take charge of your life and make it what you want it to be. If you don’t, you will always live someone else’s dream or vision, but not your own. That is sad when you can create your best life ever!

Today You Are Where Your Thoughts Have Brought You

One of the reasons people die broke and unhappy is because they invest in things, purchase things, instead of investing in themselves and their future. This is a big mistake! You can’t take things with you but you will always have your self around you. Become the best self!

You buy things, but don’t buy what is most needed because you can’t, yet, imagine how life would be different if you actually transformed yourself.  The future is invisible, right? The car or dishwasher you can touch right now. You need to shift this.

You won’t end up moving forward and will remain in debt and unhappy, for that very reason. True change comes when you invest, in you and make the invisible future your visible present. This is what each of us needs to do. Invest in you! Invest in having a better future.

Tomorrow You Will Be Where Today’s Thoughts Take You

Do what you need to in order to grow and transform your mindset, feelings, behaviors and results. You must not leave it to chance if you want to be certain you will have enough for your golden years and be happy too. Having more now, and later, requires you to change!

If you want to leave something behind for your kids you must not wait. You must invest in you right now, today! Take care to do what is right for you and you can buy all those things. You can be debt free, even wealthy, if, and when, you decide you want to be.

It takes courage and it takes right action. If you do nothing, nothing will change. If you change some things right now, everything can change for the better. It is up to you how you live now and how you live the rest of your life. Stop procrastinating. Act now. When you invest in yourself, you will celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Responsibility, Results, Right Action, Take Charge

Absolutely Do Not Confuse This For Results

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“‘Do you know how many hours I put in?’ ‘I worked and worked and for almost no money!’ ‘Do you know how much effort and time I put in on this project?’ Yup, you did a lot BUT what are the results? You were very active but what did you actually accomplish? Not much!

People confuse being busy with getting things done. It is not the same! It would be far more impressive if you got the results you were after! Some people work for months and get very little accomplished. They’re busy bees. They’re not productive bees.

If you always do what you always did there is no change. Sadly, most people are blind to this. They continue doing the same thing over and over again thinking they are doing something different. They are blind to their own patterns. They perpetuate a myth. Get it?

The Brain Is A Strong As Its Weakest Think

They don’t set targets or deadlines. They don’t work the next step. They are too busy trying to make sure everything is in place.  ALL you can work is the step right before you. Working that step is the key to success! Instead, they work lots, but produce little!

This is why you commit to the 48 hour rule. This is why you begin right away and work to complete it! You stop letting things hang or pile up. You commit and create results. If you aren’t creating positive results you aren’t creating anything of value! Your wasting time.

If other people are relying on you, you are letting them down. You are letting yourself down. You have a pattern that is not productive and you need to see your own patterns to begin to make some positive, and much-needed changes. Take action. Get things done!

If You Really Want To Do It You Will Find A Way

When you start accomplishing things you can begin to make it look easy, like an Olympic athlete makes it look easy. WOW! That would be impressive. Then you can transform your life and your business! Have a plan. Have a target date. Don’t wait for things to be perfect. Work the step before you. Step by step a journey of a 1000 miles is made. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Commitment, Responsibility, Results, Take Charge

Your Word Has Power!

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“Your word is powerful! That’s your word to yourself and your word to others. Know that you are only as good, and as positive, and as true, and as reliable, as your word, your promises to you, and your promises to others. Keep your commitments! Your word is law!

Remember the 48 hour rule. That states that whenever you decide to do something, anything, begin it within 48 hours. Act as soon as possible. Take steps toward making it happen. Why? Because your brain learns you mean business when you act on your decisions.

WhenEVER you decide to undertake a new project or program, whenever you say to self, or others, you are going to do something, do it! Begin to do it right away! Commit. Stop delaying and start acting. THEN ACT AND GET IT DONE! Completion IS the point!

Tell Me You Are Going To Do Something But Don’t – I Remember

Finish it. Take steps to put it into action. Then act on it and then complete! Why? Because completion is what you seek. Not doing, delaying, things on your plate, hanging over your head cause stress. So begin it as soon as possible and complete it as soon as possible.

Keep your word to yourself and to others. This is important. You train your brain that you mean business. Being vague, saying sometime this week, is not a specific target. Your brain doesn’t know what to do so it does what it always has. Most likely nothing positive.

You feel incomplete. You let yourself or others down. It is a pattern of behavior you can change. How? Set deadlines and hit your deadlines. WHY? Because, as I pointed out things that remain undone create unconscious stress for you and others!

Your Word Is Law – Keep Your Commitments To Self And Others

Because you train your brain to work for you. You want your brain to work positively the way you direct it to. You should be in charge of your brain and your brain should not be in charge of you. Learn to eliminate unproductive prior conditioning! Get it? You need to!

Your vague ‘whenever’ is what you get when you attempt to use the Law Of Attraction to create your best life ever. You don’t get what you want easily or effortlessly because your brain isn’t aimed at a target. It’s similar to saying, ‘I want more money’. A penny is more!

Is that enough for you? One cent?  If you can’t do it within a specified timeframe, 48 hours or whatever deadline you set, then why should you expect to get what you want within a certain time frame. You get back what you put out. You must go first. Then you get back! Get it?

You Lose Credibility When You Don’t Keep Your Word

It is true seeds are planted, The planter of the seeds knows what is being planted and when the harvest is! The planter knows the seasons! It doesn’t occur randomly or at different times. Each seed  has a deadline for the growing season. This is important to know.

The season ends with the harvest. The harvester reaps the results of the sowing. The harvester doesn’t need to check back everyday to see if the harvest is ready. The harvested knows when to expect it. You should too. Others, who rely on you, should too! Get this!

You must do the same with your plans, your projects, your creations. Whether that is cleaning your room, learning new material, undertaking a task for yourself, or at work, learn to act and act until you finish! Set deadlines you and others can depend on. Get it done!

You Lose Credibility When You You Don’t Make A Commitment

This is how successful people act. They don’t dangle projects in front of others. They say this is what needs to be done and by this time. Then they expect themselves and others to carry it out. Complete it on time and you feel good. Ahead of schedule and you feel great!

Get it done! Create and complete is the creative process. There is a definite beginning, middle and end. The better you get at hitting deadlines the better a creator you become! The weakest link in the system is vagueness. We’ll discuss this more in the future.

For now realize being vague and not committing to a deadline and successfully completing your work delays everything for you and everyone else. It prevents the universe from giving to you, too. Remember, you are only as good as the promises you make.

Reputation Precedes You – Your Actions And Words Matter

By the way, don’t act like a child and say, i didn’t use the word promise, or I crossed my fingers. Your word is law. You either live by your word, and others can count on it and you, too, or you do not. If you don’t and your life isn’t what you want it to be you must change!

If you don’t know when to expect it to be complete how would anyone or anything else know? YOU create your reality. Get it? If things aren’t happening swiftly enough examine what you have been doing to prohibit it. How is your life going? Examine what you do!

Once you know, don’t blame. Instead, resolve to be different and change it! Keep your word. Aim you positive mindset and behaviors at it and make it happen. Realize YOU create results. You are either moving closer to what you want or further away. Decide which it is!

Your Word Is Your Bond – Do What You Say – Keep Your Word

Be honest, don’t deceive yourself. Make whatever adjustments you need to move forward positively. If you aren’t getting the results you want, if you aren’t living your best life ever, if you have lot’s of loose ends and stress, it is time you take this seriously and change it.

These are points which many people gloss over but these are incredibly important. I speak on these many times. I have watched people through the years ignore these and get no where fast. It is always people who think they know better.

I have watched people take these principles to heart and implement them and enjoy incredible transformation! Whether you get nowhere fast or enjoy incredible transformation is entirely up to you and what you do or do not do. Get it?

People May Hear Your Words But They Feel Your Attitude

When you live by your word. When you keep promises to yourself and others you become invincible!! Then you’ll notice how easily you create and make your best life ever and your dreams come true. All of life can change when you do. Do it today. Then celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Love, Responsibility, Speak to bless, Take Charge

A Big Reminder For Today and Everyday!

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“Actions Speak Louder Than Words!”

Celebrate everything! Rex Sikes

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Champion Mind, Deliberate Creation, Take Charge, Take Positive Action

How You Make Things Happen

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“Students ask me, ‘what kind of attitude must I develop in order to be happy and succeed?’ ‘Is there something I should do to get what I want?’ ‘Am I doing something wrong?’ First, let me say, in regards to doing something wrong, yes and no. Better to say, no and yes.

No, you are simply doing what everyone does. You are getting some results, okay results, sucky results, haphazard results, but you are doing everything correctly, sort of. You are manifesting exactly what you are thinking about, and feeling, the most often in your life.

You are getting more of the same. You don’t realize, nor, do you take responsibility for what you are creating and manifesting. This is what you first need to understand and change. Take charge. Take 100% responsibility for everything that happens. 100% everything!

If You Think You Can’t Or You Think You Can’t You Are RIght

Whether you believe it or not. Take responsibility! Put yourself in charge of being a deliberate creator. Next, change your focus! Stop focusing on what you don’t want or wish to exclude. Stop focusing on problems and negativity. Stop whining and blaming. JUST STOP IT!

Start focusing on what you want AND want to include. Spend most of your thinking and feeling time on these things. Correct, repeated repetition is how you condition your subconscious mind to go after what you desire and focus on most. Repeat positive. Repeat, repeat!

Otherwise, you sometimes get what you want accidently. Most of the time you get what you DON’T want. You are like a cork bobbing in the water driven by the changing winds. STOP IT! Become deliberate. Take responsibility for creating what you want in life.

You Go Where Your Thoughts Take You – Make It Happen

Then, work to create it. Feel passionately about it. Have fun. Delight! Celebrate it. Move towards it bit by bit every day. Move past the hardships. Commit and persist. Stop doubting. Believe you can do it. Transform yourself into a person who makes things happen!

Don’t wait for things to happen. Determine to make them happen! Put your energy into creating wonderful, marvelous things. Get excited. Feel it happening. You are doing it. Vibe high. Be enthusiastic. Create these feelings in yourself deliberately. Delight and feel gratitude. Jump with joy. You are making your dreams come true! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Command, Deliberate Creation, Speak to bless, Take Charge

How To Make Good Things Happen!

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“How do you make things happen? How does the military?  How does anything get done in the corporate world? Someone issues an order. They put in a command. How do you get your computer to do things? You hit enter or put in a command. How do you get fast food?

You place an order. When it comes to the universe place your order. Command it! Demand It! You need not be rude or offensive. Simply act with authority. Speak with authority. Declare what you want there to be. Assert what you are going to create. Consider the bible.

In the beginning was the word. And the word said ‘let there be light and there was light.’ The word created. The word spoke existence into being. All that is was created by the spoken word. The power of intention and deliberate creation is what this is an example of.

Speak Only To Bless Heal Prosper Inspire Motivate And Create

Speak only to bless, heal, prosper, inspire and motivate. Speak to create.  Plant the seed. Speak it into being. Act as if you already have the harvest. Live the benefits now inside. ‘Command ye me’ said the lord of the bible. “Prove Me and I will make the invisible visible.’

Trust yourself and the process. It is doubts and fears and comparison that create suffering. Let go. Plant a seed and allow it to grow. Stop concentrating on the harvest and focus on living fully between now and then. Drop worry, fear and doubt. Trust yourself. Create.

Create and follow through !Focus on being the dream. Speak it into existence. Speak it. It will be there at the appropriate time. Meanwhile, live with trust and faith, love and peace, gratitude and delight. You will transform yourself and your world when you do. When everything IS A BLESSING in your heart and mind everything will be a blessing. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Commitment, Responsibility, Take Charge, Trust

You Won’t Succeed If You Can’t Do This!

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“I’d rather tear my hair out than twiddle my thumbs. Completion is the sign of genius. Any fool can start something. It takes one with dedication and commitment, follow through and will to complete what one began.

If you committed to something, someone or yourself, KEEP your commitments. That is how you get back more good stuff from universe. You can’t feel good if you let yourself or others down. You get back what you put out.  You get back is more of the same!

Universe doesn’t care whether you are right or wrong, good or bad, positive or negative, you get back what you are! Now, substitute subconscious for universe and you see it is all the same. It doesn’t matter whether you believe in law of attraction or not. It doesn’t!

A Promise Means Everything – Once Broken It Means Nothing

For every cause there is an effect. Are you at cause or are you at effect? Too many people spend too much wasted time not completing things. Hence, they end up with more things they never finish. You don’t win or get the prize unless you cross the finish line!

Others won’t trust you if you fail to do what you say. You won’t trust yourself much if you don’t complete what you start. It is important you to do things without excuse or blames. Take responsibility for getting it done or not getting it done. Just own up to it all!

Don’t waste people’s time by making excuses. Don’t waste your time with excuses. Own up to your word. The best thought to think is: ‘My word is law! Whatever I say I make happen.’ So never break your word. Keep your word and you will have greater success.

People With Character Keep Their Word – Keep You Word

One reason why people don’t get what they want is because they vacillate between doing and not doing, faith and doubt, wanting and avoiding what they don’t want, positive and negative. We become whatever we think about most. What we think and say, we get.

If you can’t trust yourself, nor can others to keep your word, what value have you? Consider your word, regardless of whether or not you ‘promise’, as an oath. Live with honor and integrity. When you complete what you set out to do you will see you get more rewards that you could imagine! Think, ‘this is a day of completion. thy will be done!’ then go do it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Habit Formation, Rehearsal And Practice, Subconscious Processes, Take Charge

How To Take Charge And Build Success Habits That Work!

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“In order to get to subconscious mastery, unconscious competence, we must first apply conscious will and direction. We must first set the mental intentions, make decisions, and follow through in practicing and repeating these. You don’t get good doing nothing.

Present conditions are always the result of previous thoughts, feelings and actions. We create out future in advance then it comes to fruition, just as we plant a seed and then later harvest. In order to get good at manifesting what you want you must practice it first.

You don’t get good merely reading about it. You don’t get good at it only by thinking about it. You must feel it as you think about it. To get good at any sport you must engage in it repeatedly, and feel the good feelings, as you advance in it. You get better by positive repetition.

Take Charge Now – Whatever You Want To Do With Ease…

As you feel good, you want to do more. The more you do the better you feel. The more you feel good and repeat what you are doing for a long enough time builds positive success  habits. You are taking your conscious skill and wiring it into your unconscious.  Get it?

Do it correctly and you become it. First, decide to be it. Then affirm and visualize it with great positive feeling and enthusiasm. It is not enough to think or say, ‘I feel strong.’ You should feel the feelings of strength and declare it powerfully. Be genuine and honestly feel it.

That is how you make thoughts work. It may seem stiff or unreal at first but you will get better at it. Anything you first learned seemed, at first, impossible. Still, you accomplished it and got better if you properly stuck with it. If you gave up and quit, certainly you didn’t.

… You Must First Do With Diligence – Take Charge Now

Mastery comes through application and nothing else. Build positive success and happiness habits. Use this proven system for making positive powerful changes. Create your best life ever because the only person who can do it for you is you. Understand this!

Neurons that fire together wire together. When you deliberately choose to create you success, and you continue to follow through as necessary, creates new positive neural pathways in your brain. You make the changes more easily. Your inner resources work together.

You are already successful at what you don’t want. You got there this very same way. Whatever you focused on, whatever problems plagued you, were reinforced by your thoughts and feelings through time. Use the same system to now make positive changes instead!

You Are Making The Unconscious Conscious And Vice Versa

You already know how to do it. Now apply it. If you do not take charge you will forever remain the same until you do. It is silly to think you would be otherwise. If conditions suck it is up to you to learn how to change them and triumph over them. Get it?

The reason gratitude is so important is it is a marvelous high vibe positive feeling. The more often you feel it deliberately the more you begin to master it. Fill your life with positive good feelings, happiness and success by looking for and recounting these frequently every day. Discover that all is a blessing and ALL will be a blessing. You must go first. You must first plant seeds. Get it? Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Letting Go, Openess, Take Charge, Unconscious Thinking

How To Stop Being Dick-Headed

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“There are those who are open and skeptical. There are those who are skeptical and closed. There are those who are closed, skeptical and cynical. These are the one’s we typically call ‘a dick’. Or we call them something worse. Bottom line: Stop being a dick! Yes, you!

Me too! Stop being a dick. Drop dick-headedness and seek to be a new and different, open person. I prefer the term agnostic. Why agnostic?  Because we really don’t know what we don’t know. We only know what we THINK we know and that is not very much.

We don’t know how things might turn out but we often fear the worst. We could expect the best, yet only a few do. We just don’t know how much we don’t know either. It is true fools think they know everything. They think they have the only correct version.

We Don’t Know What We Don’t Know And We Don’t Know That

Those foolish people are closed minded. They refuse to see the many sides of every proposition. Don’t you think it odd many of us claim to know everything. Not only that we claim to know what is best for everyone else too. Pretty sad when you think about it. Narrow!

Yet, that is the way of the world. That happens when people create societies. We end up pursuing norms more than we pursue exceptions. We swallow the cultural kool-aid on how we are limited, broken, victims and worse. We can think otherwise but don’t/

We don’t because most don’t fully realize they could. So instead of discovering new ways of being they defend to old vehemently. They don’t need to but they feel as if they do. We could argue over objective versus subjective ‘truth’ endlessly. We’d waste time.

Stop Defining Yourself By Your Limits – Have A Parachute Mind

There are militant minded people of all persuasions. I prefer staying as open and educated and enlightened as possible without taking any of it too seriously. I prefer to learn and continue to learn, to discover and to grow and expand what I think is possible. Don’t you?

So stay open. Decide to become aware when you react instead of respond. Decide to learn how to master that tendency so you can become freer. Seek to find the good in all situations. Stop being quick to judge and allow things to unfold without bias. Let go. LET GO!

When you stop defending the old you have more energy to nurture the new. Look for the blessings, the positive. Speak to bless, heal and prosper. Focus on gratitude and joy. Be happy. Find moments and make them magical. All moments are! Every moment you have is the only moment you  have. Don’t squander the moments. Savor them. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Intentional Thinking, Respond, Self Control, Take Charge

How To Make The Most Of Your Life

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“Part 4 in this series. I create the future I want to manifest. This was an incredible leap forward for me. Instead of living life looking back, I started looking ahead. Instead of letting things happen to me, I decide what I wanted to have happen. I took control of myself!

I took control of my mind, my life and the results I was getting. Instead of driving down the road looking in the rearview mirror, I began to focus on my destination and how pleasantly I could get there. I decided, I shouldn’t ignore the present that would be silly.

I just don’t have to react to it as if I were a Pavlovian dog salivating to a ringing bell. I decided I would celebrate and appreciate the present. To do this I had to think that it was worth it even when it may not seem that way. I’d look for the good within the bad.

Mind Stretch To A New Idea Never Returns To Original Dimension

I made it a point to look for whatever good I could find in whatever was going on and I would accentuate it. If I experienced calamity and problems, I’ d find whatever was good in the situation and accentuate that. Anyone can learn to do this. Even the reader!

Certainly, accentuating the problem or bad feelings didn’t make me think, feel or do any better. Focusing on the good did. I learned I could chose what I paid attention to. Even if my first thought was to find the bad, my second thought became,  ‘what is good about this?’

I learned I could direct my thinking. I found as I did this things changed for me. No, not over night but gradually. I became a different person. I became positive, confident, happy, free, and powerful. Things that would have bothered me no longer did.

Skill To Do Comes From Doing – You Get What You Focus On

I became more flexible. I could adapt more easily. I got much better results than I had. I didn’t try to change the world around me, which is what many people attempt to do. Instead, I changed myself and discovered when I did, the world, somehow responded too.

The coolest thing was and is, even if nothing changed in outer reality, other than me and my relationship to reality, actually everything did change. It’s kind of like nothing changed BUT everything changed. That may be a difficult sentence or concept to grasp right now.

So I’ll share more next time. For now. Focus on the good and the new. Focus on what you are grateful for and appreciate about you, your experience, the people around you, and all circumstances. Mine for the gold and dig for the diamonds. They may be difficult to find at first but keep looking. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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