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How To Stop Being Dick-Headed

“There are those who are open and skeptical. There are those who are skeptical and closed. There are those who are closed, skeptical and cynical. These are the one’s we typically call ‘a dick’. Or we call them something worse. Bottom line: Stop being a dick! Yes, you!

Me too! Stop being a dick. Drop dick-headedness and seek to be a new and different, open person. I prefer the term agnostic. Why agnostic?  Because we really don’t know what we don’t know. We only know what we THINK we know and that is not very much.

We don’t know how things might turn out but we often fear the worst. We could expect the best, yet only a few do. We just don’t know how much we don’t know either. It is true fools think they know everything. They think they have the only correct version.

We Don’t Know What We Don’t Know And We Don’t Know That

Those foolish people are closed minded. They refuse to see the many sides of every proposition. Don’t you think it odd many of us claim to know everything. Not only that we claim to know what is best for everyone else too. Pretty sad when you think about it. Narrow!

Yet, that is the way of the world. That happens when people create societies. We end up pursuing norms more than we pursue exceptions. We swallow the cultural kool-aid on how we are limited, broken, victims and worse. We can think otherwise but don’t/

We don’t because most don’t fully realize they could. So instead of discovering new ways of being they defend to old vehemently. They don’t need to but they feel as if they do. We could argue over objective versus subjective ‘truth’ endlessly. We’d waste time.

Stop Defining Yourself By Your Limits – Have A Parachute Mind

There are militant minded people of all persuasions. I prefer staying as open and educated and enlightened as possible without taking any of it too seriously. I prefer to learn and continue to learn, to discover and to grow and expand what I think is possible. Don’t you?

So stay open. Decide to become aware when you react instead of respond. Decide to learn how to master that tendency so you can become freer. Seek to find the good in all situations. Stop being quick to judge and allow things to unfold without bias. Let go. LET GO!

When you stop defending the old you have more energy to nurture the new. Look for the blessings, the positive. Speak to bless, heal and prosper. Focus on gratitude and joy. Be happy. Find moments and make them magical. All moments are! Every moment you have is the only moment you  have. Don’t squander the moments. Savor them. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Deserve A Break Today So Enjoy It!

“Take a break. Relax yourself. Let go. Count your blessings. It is vital to refresh and rejuvenate. Do something marvelous for yourself. Celebrate. Enjoy and delight. Treat yourself well. Treat yourself to something special today. Do something extra nice for you.

When you can be truly thankful for all that you have in your life, when you appreciate it fully, something inside you changes. It as if you wake up. Something inside you awakens. You become more aware. You become conscious. Everything becomes new!

Once you live in gratitude you find much more to include. You discover more to feel happy about and thankful for. You make more room in your life for all good things to begin to come your way. You see with new eyes. Your heart sings a new song.

Happiness Is Whatever You Decide It To Be – Live Well

Each moment becomes a blessing. You open up.  You allow and become receptive. You are accepting, receiving, inviting, while giving thanks. It is really amazing how your life can change when you become filled with thankfulness. ‘Thank You’ are magic words!

In thankfulness allow yourself to be. Enjoy! Delight in the small and the large miracles in your life. Celebrate yourself. Delight in being you. Rest in who you are. Trust who you are.  Allow your self to simply be open. Allow wonderful things to find you. Receive all.

Make it a point only to find those things and those moments you appreciate. Do so fully! Take a walk, visit a special friend, take in the sights, have a special meal, take a bath or a nap but do something that makes you feel more wonderful. Celebrate everything.  ” Rex Sikes

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Live Without Desire! Let Go Of Attachments: Be Free

“Most people do not understand what non-attachment is or means. You do NOT have to give anything up, give anything away or be austere to live without attachment. One may pursue goals, dreams, fame and riches while being unattached. You do without attachment.

Many ‘meditators’ miss the point and seek to be unattached. They want no-attachment as much as others want anything. They desire to be un-attached. They miss and are attached to being unattached. To live in non-attachment is to celebrate everything. Be carefree!

Simply recognize that what is, is. Accept it. What is, is and celebrate it.  Be grateful. Live in appreciation. Live this moment! Live without judgement and comparison. Suffering comes from comparing with others, or comparing  where you are to where you want to be.

The Root Of Suffering Is Attachment – Let Go – Be Free 

Stop comparing. Start celebrating where you are right now. Be glad. You are on a journey. It doesn’t matter where you are on the journey, unless of course you make where you are important. If you do that you suffer. When you stop comparing you can find bliss. Blessings!

You can go with the flow in a canoe and still steer the canoe. It doesn’t mean you helplessly drift. You act but whatever the outcome, is the outcome. You understand that. You can adjust and continue. You simply are not emotionally attached to the outcome.

All is good. All is learning. Anything is possible. Celebrate it! We don’t know what comes next. So stay open for whatever might come. You might fear the worst and it could be far better than you imagine. You just don’t know. So stop thinking you do. Let it all go and be!

You Get There By Realizing You Are Already There

We don’t know what we don’t know. It isn’t over until it is over. So don’t render a judgement about whether the outcome is good or bad. It simply is. Get it? Everything is a blessing. Everything is an opportunity. We don’t know how things will unfold so there is no reason to get upset. Let it go. Be grateful and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Savor The Seconds: Create Your Best Life!

“Savor the seconds. Make your moments magical. Create your best life ever every instant. Live life to the fullest. Never let anything prevent you from positive good for yourself and others. Deliberately create your life. Make your dreams come true. Begin today!

Each step you take in the right direction gets you closer to where you want to go. With each step be sure to stop, smell the roses and appreciate where you are. Don’t miss the journey for the destination. It is what it is. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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A Great Way To De-stress

“With everything going on in the world, the media, political circus, the multiple distractions in social media, the limitations one makes up in one’s own mind, it is no wonder some people are overwhelmed, confused, not able to make ends meet, and simply down and out.

There is an answer. Manage your thoughts and feelings and you begin to get different results. When you mindset is right, you feel better, take inspired action, recognize more opportunity and get better results. When you are positive things just work out more.

Meditation is a great way to regain your composure. It helps relax, destress you and find your center. Through meditation you can grow in awareness, develop your ability to focus and even control your mind. When you bring your mind back from wandering you own it.

You Can Be Beyond The Mind And Watch It Like Watching Clouds

The same is true when you shift from negative to the positive. You are growing your mental, spiritual, emotional and physical muscle. The benefits of meditation are numerous. The benefits of learning to watch your mind, let go of your mind, and control your mind, are too.

The ultimate goal in life is to feel the best you can most of your time. People pursue things, believing those might bring them happiness. You can feel better right now if you do the what make you feel better. You don’t have to wait for happiness. You can be it now!

Take time, relax. Relax your mind and body. Let go and meditate. Even just a few moment can work wonders. Release negativity. Breath it out. Let it leave you. Seek to vibe high. Seek to find your joy now. Don’t put it off. Do it right now! I’ve shared many ways to feel better nearly instantly in these pages. Use them. Delight now and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Need To Eliminate Inner And Outer Clutter

“You know how sometimes your desk or room gets messy. Perhaps, it is the kitchen that is in disarray. Heck, it could be the whole damn house that needs a do-over. A cleaning and an organizing are in order. Have you ever faced this? Your mind needs decluttering too.

Eliminate mental clutter. Go ahead. Keep it simple. Release and let go of anything that isn’t supportive of the kind of person you want and intend to be. Drop it. Have you ever dropped anything you were carrying. It just dropped away. Drop the negativity and the rest.

Anything not supportive, anything that doesn’t serve you accomplishing your purpose and fulfilling yourself, release. You can use affirmations to affirm the new you. Chant these with positive, strong emotion. Journal, write out what you want to release.

You Can’t Hate Yourself Happy – You Can’t Criticize Yourself Thin

When finished tear it out and safely burn it up. Talk it out, out loud. Write out what you want to let go of and burn it. Write out what you want instead and keep it. Affirm it. Read it out loud three or more times a day. Clean out and clear negativity from your brain space.

If you clean your house, room or office every once in awhile, even rarely, then you want to be sure to clear and clean your inner space too, every now and then. Whatever you release ,replace with the positive opposite. Affirm what you want. Don’t leave a vacuum.

Free up your energy to serve you better. Allow yourself to create flow and high vibrations. Feel wonderful instead of drained. Move your body. Get out and about. Focus on feeling magnificent. End the distractions and the frustrations and release it all. Really, do it!

Real Change Begins With Self-Love and Self-Care

Get outside. Refresh and renew in nature. Walk, enjoy your surroundings. Breathe and enjoy. Take time to relax. Delight in the simple things you find. Notice how good fresh air is and how wonderful the earth on your feet feels. Enjoy and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How You Spend Your Time Determines How It Goes

“When you order food at a restaurant, do you doubt that you gave the waitperson your order?  Do you hope and pray and worry they will deliver your food? Are you concerned you may not get it, nor get it in time? What do you do after you have ordered your food?

This actually is an important example. Similar to, what do you do when you plant a seed. Do you dig it up every few days to ensure it is growing? Do you fret and worry? Do you focus on how it isn’t growing yet or do you know it will show up in time? What do you do?

You know you gave your order. You know you planted the seed. What can you do? Wait. Wait and enjoy the time you are waiting. You never get your time back. You can fret and waste it. You can be distracted and focus on the less than glorious other things.

Patience Is All About The Attitude You Maintain While You Wait

Or, you can enjoy the time you have. You can do something positive. You can read. You can talk about or think about wonderful other events and things. It’s your time. How do you want to spend it? As for the plant, consider your joy as the nutrients it needs to grow.

How do you make muscles grow? You work out. Then you rest. You don’t grow them consciously. They grow on their own with proper rest and nutrition. You don’t grow the plant. Nature does. You don’t cook and serve your food, the restaurant does. Know your part!

Let go. When you enjoy and feel your best you reduce resistance. You allow. You’re receptive. Receive all the good things. Your food, and the plant, will be there in the time it takes to get it to you. Don’t micro manage the restaurant or the universe. It is not your job.

Blessings Can’t Come If You Are Not Willing And Ready To Receive

You can’t anyway. You can only do your part! Do what need to do to put in a clear, concise order. Determine what seed you plant. Then do it. Do your part, your work, then rest. Then wait. Allow your work to come to fruition. Attitude is everything. How you wait is the key!

Waste or ruin your time or wait joyfully. Plant another different seed or involve yourself in a different project. Let the current one come to you. Get it? Enjoy YOUR time. Have fun. Do anything else that fulfills you. Keep the faith. You did what you could do. Relax, let go. Wait.

When you get your food, accept it. Be delighted when the plant shows up. Feel good about the muscles you grow. You did your part and you get the results you get. All you can and should do is wait wonderfully while nature takes care of everything else. Accept it graciouly. Enjoy it. Delight.  Now, until and after you get what you want, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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