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Stop Reacting From The Past! Learn To Respond Instead

“Currently, neuroscience points out that our feelings and emotions, come on, affect us, and last only 90 seconds. The actual feeling subsides. We, however, have been conditioned to entertain it for as long as we do. The good news is, ‘this too will pass,’ is valid!

It has always been the case only recently confirmed by science. I point that out because some people see to need that extra validation. The point is your feelings come and go and without your involvement. Your involvement keeps them longer.

This is true of positive and negative feelings. If you were to stop and think about it you’d realize how accurate this is. That said, if you will allow yourself to let go and simply sit with the feelings you will come to notice this. You will feel them and then watch and feel them go.

Observe – Witness – Become Aware – This Too Will Pass – It Does

Take 20 or 30 minutes. Do not react to the feeling. Simply watch it. Sit and breath and let it be. Yes, it is more difficult when you first start than as you progress, so be patient and kind to yourself. Give yourself the time to change. You will as you stick with it. Get it?

Simply notice. Stop, breathe don’t get hooked! Allow, watch and allow to go. Let go. Every moment becomes a new moment. Every breath is new. So let the feeling be and let it ebb away. Acknowledge and be grateful you can observe. Observe that ‘this to will pass’.

Everything is a blessing. Even the not so good times. We just have coded them as troublesome. We react that way from past conditioning. This is an opportunity to get free and to learn how to respond. Don’t deny or suppress anything . Acknowledge and be grateful. Everything passes. Let it become new. Let go and allow. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What To Do When Friends Disappoint And Hurt You

“It sucks when friends, or family, let you down or betray you. It sucks and it hurts. Yet, it can be a good thing, although this is a lesson, not everyone will appreciate, understand or agree with. Be glad the light has been shown on the person and their behaviors. Yes, be glad!

You’re aware now. You feel the sting. If you’ re able, don’t react from past conditioning. If you don’t react out of anger, hatred or vengeance you’ve an amazing opportunity.  You’ve an opportunity, to cut loose, let go, and rid yourself of it. Even if you don’t like it.

We clean our house. We weed our garden. Sometimes, we have toxic relationships we’d be better off without. This may be the time to let the person go. Send them off on their own, but do it with peace, love, blessing and forgiveness. You may bristle at the thought of this.

Action Is The Proper Fruit Of Knowledge – Skill Comes Of Doing

Don’t wish bad on them. Remember, what you put out comes back to you. To wish them injury of any kind is to aim that same injury at yourself. If you frown into the mirror the mirror person frowns back. Rise above. This is an opportunity to get free. Stop wanting revenge.

Release them. Forgive them. Forgive yourself. Let them go. Turn the entire situation over to a higher power, the universe, your subconscious, whatever you choose to believe or call it. Cast your burden on the divine mind so you can go free. This is important!

When you weed your garden you don’t hang onto the weeds. You don’t even hate the weeds. You simply remove them. This person or persons, this situation, was in your life for you to benefit from, even if the benefit comes from a ‘hard’ lesson. Get it? This IS for you.

The More We Do The More We Become Capable Of Doing

You have the opportunity to learn to release, and let go of, resentment to persons and events, past and present. You have the opportunity to get free. Speak and act only to bless, heal, prosper, inspire, motivate and transform. Stop running negative narratives.

Keep your sight and your attitude aimed high. Take the higher road. Release. Stop hanging on. Recognize the blessing in the lesson of the pain. Learn the lesson and let go of the hurt. Forgive yourself and the person. Move forward. What you focus on is what you get! Let go.

It is simple but not necessarily easy. You may have to let go again and again. You may have to release resentments over and over until you actually drop them. You may have to keep affirming the good and the blessing a great number of times. DO IT! Let go and let god! Do it!

Let Go And Let God – Make Letting Go A Positive Habit – Let Go

Focus on the good things in life. Allow and receive good to come to you. This is HOW you will transform. Going through this will make other things easier to move through when encountered. If you avoid it, or do what you always done, you’ll keep you perpetuating it.

You will live over and over again the same painful, victim-centered resentment cycles. Stop pushing it away. Stop living from old programs. Start living free. Do something different. Take positive actions. Think positively! Allow yourself to be filled with love.

Until you actually do it, you may think this is hogwash. I know I have. Do it and you will discover the difference!  You will transform. Life is for living well. Life is for abundance, joy, health, loving relationships and all the best. Life is too short to perpetuate problems.

What You Think About Most Frequently You Become – Be Positive

Still, problems, when properly understood enable us to move forward and live a wonderful life. Live with gratitude. This lesson helps you learn to transform yourself. When you are able to consider everything a blessing, when you are able to let go and get free, everything changes. This is WHY I keep saying ,celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Isn’t It Time To Feel Good About Yourself?

“Many of us, for whatever the reasons, have gotten down on ourselves. We treat each ourselves harshly. We are critical and we judge ourselves and past choices and behaviors. We regret. We live in victimhood. Isn’t it time you decided to feel good about yourself?

Isn’t it time to realize you did the best you could with what you knew at the time. Those days are over. Let them go. Before you do, decide to forgive yourself for whatever you did or whomever you were back then. Forgive and let go. Now, forgive yourself for being cruel to you.

Forgive yourself for judging and treating yourself without respect. Let it all go. Let all the doubts and personal injury slip away, fade away. Let go of all the negative thinking about yourself. Put an end to it. Start to recognize your positive characteristics and attributes.

You Go Where Your Thoughts Take You – You Create Reality

Emphasize these. Emphasize the good in you. Emphasize your positive accomplishments,  You are only human, after all. Cut yourself some slack. Accentuate the positive. Eliminate the negative. Every time you notice a limitation or defect in yourself, stop!

Stop, drop and let it go, Then find a positive trait or asset to feel good about. Stop wallowing in pain and suffering, start being thankful, feeling blessed and feeling the good you can come to enjoy when you do this. Make a list of all your positive characteristics. List them!

List your talents and abilities. List what you are learning to do. List all that you are thankful for about yourself. Praise and encourage and nurture yourself. Find things in your life, experiences, people, events and circumstances to be grateful for. Consider all of it a blessing.

What You Focus On Expands – You Reap What You Sow

Realize you are a gift to the universe and you have the gift of life. Enjoy both! Treat yourself with love, compassion, respect and kindness. Discover your good. Look for it and find it! Discover your light! Let your light shine! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Every Now And Then I Tell The F’ing Mirror Off!

“Recently I wrote: Do you realize every thought you think, every experience you have, each and every relationship, every ‘thing’ and everything in your life is a reflection of what goes on inside you? It is all a mirror to what is within you.” If you read it you know this.

Every now and then I have told the mirror off. I have let loose on another person, screamed at circumstances, or wailed on myself. I have, it is true. I have blamed the mirror, accused the mirror, resented the mirror, hated the mirror, you name it, I probably did it.

My point? We are human. We have feelings. Sometimes, these get ‘the better of us’ as the saying goes. We succumb, we let loose, we unleash. You know what? It is okay. It is human. Don’t get down on yourself for it. Why beat yourself up for beating yourself up?

Awareness Doesn’t Stop You From Making Mistakes …

If you harmed another with your words, you can ask for forgiveness or make amends. If that person is no longer living you can resolve it within yourself. My point? Take it easy on yourself for being human. We all mess up. We all stumbled and fell while learning to walk.

Okay, you got angry. You said things you meant or didn’t mean. Now you feel ashamed, embarrassed, hurt, angry or whatever. Notice it. Realize you may not want to feel this way again. Notice it. Forgive yourself. Accept that you are a human. Let the rest go. Move on.

Move on once you have actually let it go. When you release it you can be free of it. If you stuff it down and suppress it you will face it again sometime. What we resist, persists. So take a deep breath and drop it. Shrug your shoulders and release it. Feel free of it. Let go.

… Awareness Allows You To Learn From Mistakes 

Allow yourself the ability to ‘f’ things up. As long as we live we will make mistakes. Just attempt not to keep making the same ones. Make new mistakes instead. It is okay to be human because that is what you are. Most of us try to be perfect. We aren’t. Or, perhaps…

We are perfectly imperfect. We are beautiful with all of our flaws. Each ‘f’ed up time is a blessing and opportunity to let go. Challenges are blessings. The mirrors are blessings. Our mistakes are blessings. Everything is a blessing. When we can see that we are truly free. So, be glad. Be grateful. Learn to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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When You Look Outside Yourself What Do You See?

“When you look at others what do you see? What do circumstances reveal to you?  What do you notice? How do you feel? What do you pay attention to? How do you react? Have you ever thought about what is going on outside of you and why it might be going that way?

Do you realize every thought you think, every experience you have, each and every relationship, every ‘thing’ and everything in your life is a reflection of what goes on inside you? It is all a mirror to what is within you. ‘As within, so without’, ‘As above, so below’. It is all you.

It is all me. It is each of us. Our thinking, feeling, speaking and behaving reveals who we are within. We reflect and radiate who we are to the world and those around us. Instead of thinking it is others, or  circumstances responsible for our lot, look inside. Discover!

Life Is A Reflection Of What We Allow Ourselves To See

You can’t learn other people’s life lessons. They must do that work for themselves. They will only do it when they are ready. This applies to you too. When ready, you will learn the lessons and make the changes YOU are supposed to. Look within. See. Become aware.

Look at the lessons the mirror provides. Don’t blame the mirror. Become aware of what is reflected and what you may wish to change. The more willing you are to look and to learn every day, at each opportunity, the more quickly you will transform. Get it?

Stop judging others and circumstances. Look for the lesson provided you. Look at how you can change in response to others and circumstances. It can burn. It can be difficult. The truth can hurt but when you do seek to be better, you can become better. It’s up to you.

Life Reflects Your Choices – What Are You Choosing Each Moment

You won’t see better wearing blinders. You need to see your blind spots. You need to see what you have missed. You need to recognize those things you blame others for. Your need to notice how you react. You need to see these things, so you can get free. Let go!

Look at those things that hold you back and drop them. Release and let go of the weight of your problems. Release the blames and excuses, the judgements and resentments. Release and be free. Stop blaming the mirror. Be pleased you have mirrors around. Be glad the mirrors are here to help you. Evolve yourself and transform. Be grateful for all of it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Who Are You And Who Can You Be?

“Life is a process. It flows in all directions. You are a process. Your body and mind are processes that are ongoing, taking care of you, keeping you upright and alive. Everything is in flux and in flow. Nothing is permanent. Change is constant. What is past, is past.

The only moment we have is now. Let go of the past, and the future, to enjoy the present, now. You have come from the past, you will move into the future. Appreciate this moment for a change. Change can happen this instant. You are a process. You are in flux and flow.

Let go of anything that holds you back. Drop every limitation. Let it go. Become your own best friend. Since you are in process this is possible. You let go and become new. Take a deep breath, shrug, move, do anything different. Dance, skip, jump, sing. Let it all go.

Live Love Laugh – Learn – Let Go – Flow – Allow – Accept – Delight

Celebrate now! Celebrate you are in process, flowing. As a river flows to the ocean so you flow. Appreciate you! Appreciate your past, your present and the future you are building. Recognize you are a blessing and a gift to the planet. Accept and love yourself. Be grateful. Look for blessings. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Have You Been To The Mountaintop And Found What You’re Looking For?

“Too often it happens that  people journey far. They leave the city to find peace and quiet, to reflect and meditate. They travel to the cave, the mountaintop, to learn to meditate peacefully. They may spend weeks or months there. Perhaps, even more. Meditating. Peaceful.

They return to the marketplace, their town or city. They have been with the guru. They are expert meditators. They do their yoga. They practice their devotion. They light their incense and inside they go. They go into their room, their temple. and go within for peace.

BUT when someone makes a noise they get upset. They exclaim, ‘Quiet! Respect others! Can you not see I am meditating?’ They get distracted. Their peace disturbed. The inner journey put on hold while they reprimand the noisemaker. Have you ever noticed this?

You Can Attempt To Change Others Or You Can Change Yourself

If others disturb your meditation you haven’t learned to meditate yet! If you had to escape to meditate you went nowhere. Meditation is a quality. The goal is to meditate surrounded by the noise and distractions. When able, you have gone inside. Get it?

Actual meditation cannot be disturbed. Your practice can be interrupted but the meditation goes on. You have found the peace that passes all understanding. The drop of water has returned to the ocean. You are filled with bliss and joy no matter what. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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