Category Archives: Allow

Stop Doing This! just Stop It! Stop It! Your Life Will Be Much Better!

“Stop trying to control everything! Stop trying to control the people in your life. Stop insisting they be different. Stop insisting they agree with you. If there is one thing you should have learned in life it’s that it’s impossible to change others!  So give it a rest. Allow them to be.

Letting loved ones and friends be who they are, in all their glory and in all their imperfections, is a great way to love and respect them. Each of us is who we are. Love yourself for who you are with all the good and not so good. Do the same for those around you. Let go!

‘The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves and not to twist them to fit our own image.’ – Thomas Merton. It is foolish and folly to try. It is futile. If you want changes, change yourself. You are the only one you can truly control. Improve yourself and let others be. Love, delight and be grateful they’re in your life. Be glad! Be happy! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Stop It Drop It Let It Come To You!

“How do you get ahead and succeed? What kind of mindset do you need? These questions plague many people. The answer is quite simple. For most people, the problem is they don’t do what they should to be effective. They don’t do what is necessary to succeed.

They don’t commit nor persist. You must learn to maintain focus on your desired result and not waver. Locked on laser like focus is necessary. Focus on the dream or goal as completed. You are already it. You are doing it. You have it. Focus on this and feel good.

Feel how good it feels! Don’t be concerned with ‘how’ to make it happen. Stop attempting to dictate ‘how’ you bring it about, ‘how’ you manifest or attract it. Focus on the incredible feelings of having it. Vibe high. Let go of ‘how’. Stay focused on it already as yours!

Get Out Of The Way – Stop Preventing Yourself From Having

Yes, take steps toward getting it but let go of insisting on how it comes to you. It could come in expected or unexpected ways. Most likely, you won’t even see it coming, but it will. If you stay focused and dedicated it will surprise you how it shows up. So, let go and allow. Keep the faith. Stay focused and do not waver. Enjoy and delight. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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When You Resist You Push Away All That Is Coming To You

“In order to receive you must be open. I can’t put anything into your tightly held fist. Be open and allow yourself to receive good things. You must accept. Stop resisting. When you resist you push away the good things coming to you. Let go. Invite. Allow and accept, now!

Stop focusing on circumstances you don’t like or wish were different. Live the future now in your imagination. Imagine all the good things, now, as already yours. Focus on what you want to be reality, instead of the reality you wish wasn’t here. Get it?

Then allow it. People want change. They seek it. They put it into motion. The good they seek begins coming their way. The waiter is bringing them their food. Then suddenly things change. They get weird about it and send the waiter away. How do they do this?

Allow Yourself To Receive The Richness And Fullness Of Life

They begin by focusing on what is wrong. They attend to what they don’t like and don’t want. How everything isn’t perfect. They complain their order isn’t there yet. They notice the absence. Instead of waiting patiently they freak out. They worry and fear.

So before they get their divine order they drive it away! Who wants to deliver to a curmudgeon? They lose out because they whine and complain. Stop complaining. Stop resisting. Welcome, allow and invite your good in. Stop and receive. Have faith it is coming. Be patient and let it come. Let go and let it come to you. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Open Yet Hidden Secret To Learning And Transformation

“The secret to learning and transformation is hidden in plain sight. It’s something nearly everyone knows about but doesn’t actually know, apply, and transform from it. It isn’t intellectual at all. It is experiential. You must do it to benefit by it. Knowing is not enough.

The secret is to be willing to change! The secret is to be open to the possibility of changing and transforming. The secret is to be willing to let go of long-held limiting habits and beliefs and explore something new. The secret is a willingness to learn and be teachable.

The secret is flexibility and flow. Every moment of every day presents opportunities to go beyond what we have done before. Each second there is the possibility to let go of past garbage and conditioning. Yet few do, because they are comfortable as is.

You Go Where Your Thoughts Take You – Skill Comes Of Doing

Unless you are willing to become more of who you already are within, you remain the same. Within you is a vast treasure-house of resources that you miss because you do the same old thinking, feeling and actions every day. Change is possible! Get it?

You can go beyond the past chronic limiting condition and live life so much more easily, effortlessly and blissfully when you are willing. Willingness means you actually do it. You let go. You trust. You explore, you live in the present moment, flow and are flexible.

If you always do what you always did you always get what you always got. Now is the time to do anything else that is positive. Do anything differently. Smile and laugh more and make it a habit. Do things in new ways. Take a different way to work or school. Explore.

If You Really Want To Do Something You Will Find A Way

Use your thinking differently. Ask Directed Questions ™ and do affirmations. Set new positive routines. Read and fill your mind with positive thoughts more frequently. Live with enthusiasm. Dance, sing, skip, vibrate high. Jump with joy. Try it. Try these. Be grateful.

Try new things. Build something wonderful for yourself. Create your best life ever. Be willing. Have fun. Be playful. Look for the good, the lesson, the opportunity and the blessing in all circumstances and with all people. Fraternize with positive, uplifting people.

Help someone. Uplift others. Be a light! Express your enthusiasm, affirmations, your life and daily stories, positively and vibrantly! Stop focusing on problems and circumstances. Let go of negativity and lack. Focus on abundance and well-being.

The More We Do The More We Can Do – The Easier It Gets

Trust that everything will eventually work out. Realize it is all up to what and how you think, feel and act. Your results begin and end with you. Come Alive. Only you can do it for you. Stop blaming others and circumstances. Take 100% responsibility for yourself. Be willing to learn. Be willing to change. Be willing NOW. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Destination Is The Journey Not Something Different PT 2

“Do you remember as a child, how long the wait for your holiday or birthday seemed to be? Many children ask repeatedly during travels with family or friends,  ‘when will we get there? When will we be there?’ They missed out on enjoying the journey! They’re in pain.

They suffer for the duration of the trip because they want the destination too much. As a result they miss many incredible things all along the way. I know I did. I didn’t appreciate the sightseeing sounds, the stops and side trips. Did you ever do this? Many have.

I missed all the good in the journey because I wanted so desperately to get to the destination. Then everything would be good, I thought. Do you do this now? Do you think when I have enough money, or health or the love of my life, then all will be okay? It won’t. Yes I know you think it. Instead, YOU must change!  We’ll continue in the next post.: Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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I Will Do This Today And Perhaps Everyday!

“Today, I am going to love and accept myself. Yes, I should do it everyday, but today, I am really going to do it. I am going to shower myself with love and acceptance. I will be open and allow myself unconditional love and unconditional acceptance. I am, who I am.

I, for at least today, am going to live from my heart instead of my head. I stop intellectualizing and simply be. I listen to my heart not my mind today. My emphasis is on being at one with myself, not engaged in thinking about me, or problems, or life. I Let it all go!

Today, I celebrate myself. I decide today, everything IS as it should be. I accept all of it now. At least, for this moment. When able, I will continue to accept it. One day at a time. Drop by drop the tub fills. One step at a time. If I continue I will get there. I will persist.

It Gets Easier The More We Do It – Perfect Practice Makes Perfect

I refrain from judging myself, or my situations, as good or bad, I allow it all to be as it is. If I don’t know how to love myself, or if I am not good at letting go or loving myself, I will learn.  I seek the blessing in all. Today, I truly decide to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Actually Help Others

“Someone dear to you is troubled and needs help. How might you best help him or her? What positive thing can you do when you may not be able to do anything else? The person my ‘resist’ you, or may be far from your influence so what can you do for them and you?

Hold the person in positive esteem. Harbor no ill will. Think positive thoughts. Imagine them already as you want them to be. Hold this in your heart and mind. Shower the person with love. Forgive and let go of any resentment. Allow yourself to feel peace and love.

Treat the person you want to help as though that person has already made the changes you hope to see. See him as already what you want him to be. Hold a positive image and she can grow into that. If you think otherwise he will grow into that. You get back, remember?

The Greatest Good We Can Do For Others Is To Expect Their Best

You get what you put out. The Pygmalion Effect states people tend to become what you expect them to become. People rise to the level of the expectations set for them. Therefore expect the best, not the worst. Get it? Expect the positive and they can become this.

Be it in advance of becoming it. Think, talk, walk and behave as if you are already that which you want to be. Allow others to grow into your positive expectations by expecting the best of them. Imagine them already healed, cured, rich, loving, good, free, honest. Get it?

Plant the seed for the person to grow into. Nurture that seed. Love it. Help it grow. You cannot grow it. You can’t do for the person. You can only allow the person to become their best version. You can’t control them or change them. You can only keep the faith.

Respect Others – Love – Allow – Accept – Hold In High Esteem

So imagine the best. Allow them room to grow. All them room to make mistakes. Be grateful for them. Love them. Accept them no matter what. Surrender and give up trying to micromanage. It isn’t your job. It is god’s or the universe’s job. Let go. Feel grateful. Feel blessed. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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