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You Are Missing Out Big Time If You Don’t Do This

“What might be the most important thing you can do? Things are as they are. Perhaps, circumstances could be better. What do you make of all of it? Should you accept things as they are or do you try to change them? Why or why not? What can you do?

With all this talk about positive change and transformation never forget to love and appreciate yourself. You are exactly who you are and who you are meant to be in this moment. Celebrate yourself. Everything you have ever done has brought you to this moment.

You can love yourself and be grateful even while seeking to improve. It simply means you approve of you. You accept and love yourself, unconditionally.  Let go of past regret, hurt, disappointment and celebrate yourself. All the past is part of you. You, are this moment.

You Owe It To Yourself – To Love – Approve And Accept Yourself

How you’ve been blocked or caught up in the past, IS part of your journey. If you’ve decided to let it go, over come it and move forward, that too, is part of your journey. It’s ALL good. Celebrate all of it. Everything IS a blessing. Drop all criticism and judgement.

Don’t judge others. Don’t condemn yourself. Learn to be free. Soar like the eagles. Everything that happens on your path happens for a reason. It is there to learn from AND to serve you. LET IT serve you AND LEARN from it! Cherish who you are AND keep evolving.

Evolution is natural. To desire to be you best, is natural. To change and excel, is natural. ALLOW IT. Support it. Stop supporting blockages, less than glorious thoughts, feelings and limitations, and promote positive, powerful changes. Take it step by step. Enjoy you! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Live And Feel More Abundantly

“There is the story of the of the poor widow who had nothing but gave from her limited supply, versus the uber wealthy, who gave little in comparison. The widow gave generously from her meager supply. The wealthy gave stingily from their plenty. Hmmmm.

The widow is the role model for giving. She would be get back or be rewarded. That is the example set forth in the story. Giving comes from the heart not the pocket. If you want to live abundantly, you need to feel abundant. Your mindset should be on plenty not on lack.

The widow gave generously from the little she had. She is bound to get more. The wealthy ones gave little from their wealthy supply. Their hearts were more closed. Hers was more open. When you are open you are bound to discover opportunities and receive more.

Giving Opens The Way For Receiving – Enjoy Giving – Delight

At a  restaurant, do you order based on the price or by what you are hungry for. Do you get what you want or do you limit your choices by cost? When shopping do you limit yourself because you can’t afford items? When you give to others, do you limit your gifts?

There is nothing wrong with being frugal. Many millionaires live below their means. They look for bargains and discounts. Saving your money and wise investments are smart steps in becoming financially free. The wealthy don’t buy everything either.

The point is, do you feel wealthy or not? Some very rich people may not feel wealthy while some with far less may feel very rich. It is a mindset, a belief, a practice and a habit. Some people are generous givers, others withhold and are not. Abundance is a mindset!

Become A Generous Giver And An Excellent Receiver – Enjoy

Try giving more. That may mean you tip a little better. You tip more frequently. You don’t qualify your giving but give it freely. You don’t have to go nuts, you just do a little bit better than you would have. You don’t even have to give money. Give more smiles. Anything!

Give compliments. Give a hand. Help someone else. Share some tips and suggestions. Turn someone on to a new restaurant, a new shop, and new service. Give referrals. Share some tips and advice. Recommend some books or blogs. Give someone a ride. Help out!

Give of your attention. Give of your time. The point is to practice being generous, to feel good about giving. When you give, you open the doorway for getting back. Give to give. Give to put a smile on someone’s face. Give with no expectation of return. Simply give!

Energy Flows Where Your Attention Goes – Feel Blessed

Give because you can, as the poor widow did. It isn’t the size of the gift. It is the heart of the giver that matters. If you give because you feel blessed and are thankful and grateful for whatever little or plenty you have, you are operating abundantly. Get it? I hope so.

You create more abundance when you feel abundance. When you feel blessed and grateful. When you enjoy life so much you want to help others feel good too. Share whatever you can share to help others move forward. Share and allow others to share with you.

A closed mind and a closed heart generates little. An open, generous mind and heart, generates a lot. This is why it is said your return is 10 times or more. What you give, can exponentially return to you. Allow it. Accept it. Receive it by giving it. Welcome it, when it returns.

Practice Abundance – Feel Like You Already Have Everything 

Practice gratitude. Inspire yourself and others. Seek to feel your best. Delight yourself. Delight others. Share. Give. Share blessings and give thanks. Enjoy assisting others because you are helping yourself too. From abundance to abundance. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Patience Please! How You Wait Determines What And When You Get

“Things don’t always work out when we hope they will. Isn’t that right? Have you noticed? They still work out but not according to your time line. Well, perhaps, sometimes, but mostly, not. Guess what, you might as well get used to it and develop some patience.

After all, you aren’t in charge of the timelines. Okay, yes, you think you are, if you are like most people. You really aren’t though and I hate to have to be the one to break that news to you. BUT I will be sinse it is best for you to realize that. See, it isn’t what you know.

It is what you don’t know. AND you don’t know what you don’t know. You can’t know everything. SO let it go. Relax, trust and allow while you continue to create and attract. You plant the seed then nature takes over. You do what you can and you allow it to unfold.

There Is A Season For Everything – Drop By Drop The Tub Fills

Get it? You will have everything when you need it in its perfect time. It will unfold as it will. Your job is to do what you do and to trust. Expect. Don’t push it or rush it. You put your order in with the cosmic waiter, now the kitchen prepares it, and will deliver soon.

When it is ready you will get it! How you wait for it is how you spend your life. You determine the quality of now by what you do. Enjoy. Expect. If you notice how long it takes, and that bothers you, you are creating more distance, time and lack. Stop noticing not having it.

When you notice you don’t have it, it takes longer. What you focus on, give your attention to, is what you create and get back. If you don’t have it and you feel ‘bad or ‘negative’ you actually push it away. If you don’t allow it, you resist it. That too, pushes it off more.

Make It Your Habit Not To Be Critical Of Small Things Or All Things

You attract what you are. If you are fun loving, carefree, having a great time, no matter what, that is what you get back. Like attracts like. You get back what you focus on. You become what you think about. If you think it isn’t here yet, and it sucks, guess what?

Consider, what you are creating each moment, and ask yourself, ‘is this what I want?’ If it isn’t, shift your thinking to think about what you do want. Shift your feelings and behaviors and activities to what you do want. Create more of what you do want. Get it? GET IT?

Feel  the best you can. If you think, ‘I can’t feel good, it ain’t here yet’. Guess what you are creating? Guess how you get to live. STOP IT! Change it. Breathe, Take a walk. Move around. DO whatever positive actions you must to shift your thinking to the positive. SHIFT!

Whether You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You’re Right

While it is coming to you, trust. Believe. Live the best life ever! Enjoy each moment. Feel grateful. Say thanks. Feel great. How you feel is how you are vibrating. Your vibes are your feelings! Feel  the best you can. It is coming. Be patient. Celebrate everything.” Rex SIkes

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Everything Happens For A Reason Or Does It?

“It is whatever you claim it is. Reality is of your own making. I used to think this notion was BS. I now think, whatever you think, is important. The notion that everything happens for a reason does not have to be true. People think things have to be true or false.

All it has to do is fill the need. Minister to the moment and beyond. It may not be true but it may be useful to adopt. It is a reframe.  If we get past the notion of what is true or not we can begin to see how many things can benefit us in a variety of ways.

I choose to think about it as, is it supportive or is it not supportive? Does it allow a person to move forward and improve? Can the person improve their life? By changing their thinking about something, can they move forward? What does it serve to do?

To Me – Everything Is Wonderful – Life Is Wonderful

Can they move from hopeless to hopeful? Will they get over and on with it and not have to carry a wound around? The goal is not to live with open sores but to heal completely and experience great health. Some people promote surviving I support thriving. Thriving!

What might we do to become free? How to get there? Some people get over the most devastating events and are able to move forward. Some never recover from a mere stumble. Hopefully, friends, families, and strangers learn to act with compassion and support.

However, anything is possible. A major thought to keep in mind is ‘it isn’t over until it is over’. Keep the faith. Many people look back on the worst point in their lives and find they are grateful. That point, while painful then, brought them to a better place now.

Happiness Is About Loving What You Have – What Is 

One just never knows everything because we only see part of the picture. Some people attempt to help, but hinder, while hoping to be supportive and freeing. It is what it is. There are many maps and viewpoints or beliefs about ourselves and the world we live in.

I suggest we choose ones that are most supportive of us. Choose those which help you move forward and evolve as a person. There are endless possibilities. How many can you see? How many possibilities can you entertain? We need not be limited.

We need not remain victims. The road may be long or short. Life is filled with joys and sorrows. We need to learn to find the best in life and focus on that to live. To only remember sorrow sucks. To get up from a major fall and continue, is to our benefit. Live free.

What You Focus On Is What You Get – It Expands

You don’t have to believe anything happens for a reason. If it helps utilize it. If it does’t let it go. It may help if you believe, in the larger context, there is a purpose or a being guiding you, even if there isn’t. Even if there is. Reality is what we make it. What do you want?

How will you choose to live? Gratitude is an incredible healer. So is forgiveness. We need to forgive ourselves, others, circumstances and events. Others may include god or the universe. We need to appreciate ourselves, others, circumstances and events.

When we forgive, when we are grateful, we can become free. We can let go. We can see and feel things differently. Each comes to it in their own time. Some may never, in this life time, know the release they might be able to know. It is as it is. Be patient, loving and kind. Life is truly better, in all ways, when you can celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Your Greatest Power Is In Making Decisions

“When you decide to move forward all of your inner resources align to make that happen.  When you make a congruent decision everything can positively change for you. Tremendous power, positivity and potential combine the instant you truly decide.

You set in motion forward movement. Once you decide, anything, it is important to take some action steps towards fulfilling it within 24 – 48 hours. Taking some action, no matter how small, tells your brain you are serious about the decision you made. So, follow through.

At the same time, all of your subconscious beliefs, limitations, conflict or issues rear their ugly head. This is why doubts occur. You make a decision to change and then face doubt. Don’t worry. Relax. It is a normal part of the transformation process. It really is.

A Decision Has The Power To Transform Your Life In An Instant

For example, you think,  ‘I’m going to be more loving to my children, or partner, no matter what.’ As soon as you make that decision, the subconscious, the universe, infinite intelligence, or god, whatever you call it, gives you every opportunity to adhere to that decision.

You may get every kind of behavior from them, or circumstances or event that seems to challenge your ability to remain loving. Conflicts arise. Issues now face you. You just want to be loving no matter what and now the shit hits the fan. What is up with that? What gives?

Well guess what? You face these ‘dilemmas’ in order to learn how to remain loving no matter what. These are situations for you to learn, develop, evolve and grow by because, otherwise, what would your decision or pledge be worth? Your ability to remain loving is tested.

Everything Changes – Become Aware – Delight In The Process

The universe conspires to make you the best you there is. In order to be the best at what you decided you have to clear out those blocks, those issues, those limiting beliefs, those negative thoughts and doubts that prevent you from being loving at all times. Get it?

If it were easy, you never have to make the decision. You get that? You get the experiences you need as a means of educating you, teaching you, and assisting you in becoming the better person you decided to be. Resistance makes muscles grow stronger.

It doesn’t matter what you decide. If you decide you want to become rich, you can bet you will most likely face every issue about poverty and money difficulties and lack that you harbor within you. They’ll come flying up in your face. This is a good thing! It really is! Get it?

If You Always Do What You Did You’ll Always Get What You Got

How else will you ever get rid of, or drop, that old prior conditioning that has held you back. You encounter it so you can let it go and move forward. Whatever you decide, the counter side of it will come at you. Most people run from this. They complain. They whine.

They blame god, the universe, the economy, other people, and claim the universe sucks and nothing to is working. BUT it IS totally working! It’s helping make you a better you!  It’s a blessing in disguise! It IS an opportunity. Please, understand this. Please!

It appears to suck but it is offering you everything you need to move forward and go higher. It is assisting you. It’s helping you live from your decision and the commitment you made. Yes,  you’ll be challenged.  You’ll be tested. This is a good thing! Feel grateful.

You Always Have The Power To Choose

You are blessed. Be thankful! You have the opportunity to let go and transform. Diamonds are created under pressure.  When those moments come, even if you succumb to them, even if you aren’t loving every moment, this is how you learn to be. Fall, get up!

You get tested. You pass. You get tested. You fail. You fall. You get up and get tested again. You pass or you fail. It is a process. In this process  IS how you become more loving, or become rich, or whatever it is you want. You grow by being challenged.

You evolve through being forced to be loving, or maintain the faith, in situations when it would seem reasonable to not be. When you get this, and if you understand this point, so much of your life will change. There is great power in making a decision! It’s good!

You Are Choosing Every Moment Whether Or Not You Realize It

Just know, that when you do, you’ll have the opportunity to encounter the opposite of what you’re hoping for, as a clearinghouse, to become the best you possible. You should be grateful. Be happy and celebrate all of it. Appreciate the process.

Lessons keep coming until you actually get it. Once you have learned and you have altered you’re mindset, your feelings, and your behaviors; once you have transformed, you don’t need the lessons anymore. You only need them until you get it. Do you get this?

These circumstances, issues and doubts come up, again and again, so that you can see them, recognize and become aware of them and drop them. They are flashlights illuminating what otherwise would be left in darkness. They arise so you can move past them.

I Am  A Product Of My Decisions Not Because Of Circumstances

It is a blessing that won’t seem like it unless you make it a point to recognize it as a blessing. If you say, ‘oh my god it’s happening again! Why is it happening? Why do these things always happen to me? What’s wrong? Why am I doing these crappy things?’

Then you’ll stay that way because what you focus on is what you get more of. If you blame yourself, or others, and whine and complain about yourself, and your behaviors, or theirs, the challenges you get, you will never get past them. Instead, you will perpetuate them.

Because you will spend all your time with whining and blaming and complaining. In order to get past this and evolve you need to accept the process, recognize it for what it is and be thankful. It truly is a blessing helping you release old crappy conditioning.

Your Destiny Is Shaped By The Decision You Make – Celebrate

Your decision triggered it. Be glad! Contained within adversity are seeds of opportunity. You get that which seems ‘not so good’, the challenges, along with all the real cool things that can occur as a result of your decision. Move forward boldly and with compassion.

Make decisions. Follow through. Accept the process and enjoy all of it. Your entire life can now transform for the positive in incredible ways. Transformation means you trans-form. Things change and become different. You rise from the ashes a Phoenix. Love yourself, be grateful and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Do This To Start Succeeding More Quickly

“There is another reason why you might not succeed as quickly and as easily as you could. Most of us, at one time or another, have been guilty of this. In order to move forward most swiftly, you have to be willing to do somethings that seem counterintuitive, at times.

Stop trying so hard! Stop trying at all. This doesn’t mean you abandon your goals or give up.  You stay true to your ‘definite chief purpose’. You continue to be passionate about it. It stays a ‘white hot burning desire’ but you stop over thinking. You stop struggling.

You let go. Start trusting. Start having peace. Become certain about making it happen. After all, if it is going to happen at all, you are going to be the one making it happen. Trust yourself. Believe. Have faith. Trust your resourcefulness. Know in your heart you can do it.

Trust Is A Decision You Make – Allow Things To Happen – Trust

Expect the best. Let go of worry. Stop trying to figure it out!  Relax. Listen to the still small voice within. Follow your gut. This all comes about by taking charge of your thinking. The results you get and the inspired actions you take come from managing your mindset.

Be positive. Affirm. Stop speaking about your problems and worries. Begin speaking about making it happen. You don’t need to know the details but you do need to expect it will happen. That is faith. Be enthused. Be eager. Have some fun. Play, delight, enjoy the process.

Don’t furrow your brow. Smile more. Laugh more. Put an end to the struggle. Commit to ease. Do little things that move you ahead. Take some action. It need not be massive. Get into the gratitude habit. Enjoy the process. Be glad for the learning and the challenge. Count it all a blessing and you will move ahead more. Get out of your own way! Celebrate everything.”

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Surrender to the moments!

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Consider Your Family And Friends

“Just a reminder. Appreciate your family and your friends. Consider yourself blessed. Find a way to celebrate each person important to you. Love more. Laugh more. Share more together. One thing you can never get back is your time. Spend time with those you love.

You are fortunate if someone likes you. You are fortunate if you are loved. Give love freely. Allow others to like and love you. Receive it fully it. Expect the best of them. See the best in them. Respect, value, treasure them. Delight in them. This is just a reminder. Call someone.

Reach out connect. Count your blessings. Express your love and gratitude. Edify and uplift those around you. Smile more. Smile more at strangers, too. Be less afraid. Be more willing to look someone in the eye.  Speak truth directly with compassion and care. Be honest.

It Is Not About Having Time – It Is About Making Time 

Remember, you live in a world of people. Lend a hand. Be able to ask for help. Support others. Allow them to support you. Enjoy it. Enjoy them. Enjoy yourself and your relationships. Make more friends. Keep your family close. Treat them well. Celebrate! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

PS Why the gravestone photo? Because nothing lasts forever. Appreciate what you have, while you have it. Love.

ENJOY!

Stop and smell the roses, today. Take the time to love and enjoy!

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