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How To Get Along With Others

“A lot of us have friction with family and friends. Many get into unwanted and unnecessary, even terrible, arguments. Would you like to know how to get along better? Nothing will change unless you do something different from what you’re currently doing. Get it?

You may or may not like the answer BUT it works! It actually works great but there is a caveat. It doesn’t work if you don’t implement it. If you want your life to change you must change some of the things you are thinking and doing in your life! You must put this to use!

Getting along begins with you! You must go first. You make the effort. Never expect the other to go first. They follow your lead if they are willing. This way you put an end to your unrealistic expectations and you are in control of yourself.

Respect People’s Feelings It Could Mean Everything To Them

You can only be in charge of you. The mistake people make is thinking they can control others. If they don’t think it, somehow they still attempt it. Let go of control. Let go of manipulation. Be the kind of person people naturally want to get a long with.

Just the other day I was at a gathering. There were a couple of people there who were in support groups. An older gentleman and a younger woman. Both were absolutely delightful. At one point the young woman shared an exciting new group she discovered

She very gladly told this gentleman during the discussion. He immediately dismissed her comment by stating, ‘I don’t like that group. It does nothing for me.’ I remained silent as I was not party to the conversation and merely overheard a portion of it.

Control Your Emotions And Your Mouth And Respect Others

However, I could see the young woman take the ‘hit’ immediately. I felt for her. She is enthused. She is eager to share. She made an exciting new discovery for herself and this gentleman squashed it no sooner than she spoke it. I get that he did not intend to. Still, he did.

He was not aware of what he did nor how it affected her. He was just being himself. My point? Be sensitive. Be aware. You win more bears with honey than with vinegar. He could’ve simply said, ‘marvelous you found a group you enjoy.’ He didn’t have to express his opinion.

But that is what WE do. We express opinions. We even do it when others aren’t interested or when they are looking for some support. There is nothing wrong in having an opinion as long as one realizes, that is all it is. An opinion is not gospel. It is not a fact. It’s opinion!

Listen With Your Heart And Your Ears – Accept And Respect 

People argue opinions as facts on social media all the time. They unfriend people who they get upset and disagree with. That’s their choice. My point? Don’t go there. Stop creating friction. Learn tolerance. Learn patience. Learn how to support others. Be kind.

We cannot change their minds. Hence, the truism, ‘you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make the horse drink’. Yes, you can influence others and they may change their OWN mind, but you can’t change it for them. Instead of attempting control, be nice.

BE caring. Be supportive. Be kind. Be the kind of listener you hope to get at times. Stop inflicting your opinions and you will get further, faster, with some people. An author friend, opened his book with a very powerful statement. I read it in my teens or early twenties.

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‘You can please 50% of the people 50% of the time. The other 50% you will never please. So, you might as well learn to please yourself.’ I include it to say, know the odds of your influence. The percentages may not be correct, that isn’t the point. Stop trying to control others.

Be the change you want to see in others and the world. Be accepting. No, I am not saying accept hatred and violence. You know better than that. I am saying, in the course of normal conversation with family, friends and even strangers, have integrity and be respectful.

Be thankful and appreciative. Say ‘how wonderful’ and ‘how marvelous’ instead of raining on their parade. Attempt to not correct them but allow others to find their own way. Some people want to be happy sharing good news without being one upped or dissed. Get it? If you are grateful for your family and friends, and the opportunity to share, approach them differently. Be kind and giving. Be receptive. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Once You Learn It You Can Do It

“The journey is designed so that you learn about yourself. It’s your journey. Lessons are your lessons. Experiences that come your way, all experiences good and not so good, are for you to learn you have choices in how you view them. You have opportunities open to you.

Your life path is designed to help you learn that you create everything in your life path. Good and not so good are all your doing. Yup, you don’t believe it. One day, perhaps you will. Everything is designed so you can learn to point your power the way you want.

Instead of creating what you don’t want, which so many people do, you create what you do want. You learn how to aim your power and make the good you want to happen consistently. You master manifesting. To get there you must journey and develop confidence.

It Isn’t The Destination That Is Important It Is How You Journey

When you are confident you can manifest anything you want, you will manifest anything you want. Funny, how this works. When you were a  baby you didn’t know you couldn’t crawl or walk. You tried it and kept doing it. You succeeded. Now you can walk anywhere.

That is how it works. It takes some people a lifetime to learn this. The universe is very patient. Some believe it takes many times. I don’t know, that is all up to you. Whether you get what you want or not is in your hands. It is completely up to you. Believe it or not!

Learn how to get good at manifesting what you want, enjoy, delight in and intend to! That would be worth it, would it not? Learn how to stop creating frustration, struggle and what you don’t want. Then life would be more incredible, a lot more fun and profitable! Wouldn’t it?  In the meantime, this will help you do that; you’ll grow faster when you celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Better Respond To Others

“Sometimes we have difficulty with the people we love most.  Other times, we come up against friends, bosses, employees, co-workers and even strangers. Wouldn’t it be nice to more effectively communicate, love and support to these important people?

An important way to effectively respond to others is to learn to effectively respond to yourself! You can learn to respond to yourself with empathy, love, respect, caring, and honesty. You can do so even when you are confused, angry, resentful, worried, and fearful.

Put yourself in the hands of a higher power. Whether that is your inner wisdom, infinite intelligence or the god you have a relationship with. Trust your source, based on whatever your positive beliefs are. Surrender, and learn to be gentle with you. Learn to understand.

Mirrors Are There So We Can See What Needs To Be Changed

We all have imperfections. If we can better accept and love ourselves, we can better love and accept others. If we can understand we have imperfections and accept that, we can accept that in others, too. Stop hurting yourself. Stop hurting others. Get it?

Appreciate yourself, your imperfections. Realize these are there for you to learn from and transform. Everything is a blessing when you recognize the positive opportunities within even the most difficult or dire situation. All is good. Everything big and small is a blessing.

Even your imperfections and those of others. Love it all. Accept it all. You will immediately begin to transform, in incredible and dynamic ways, when you learn to be grateful and celebrate all of it. So, do it. Thank yourself. Thank your higher power. Surrender, trust and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Do This To End Resentment!

“Stop envying others. Stop resenting others for what they have. Let go. Those feelings don’t help you. They harm you! When another does well in life, it should remind you that good can happen to anyone at any moment. Appreciate who you are and what you have!

Stop acting like a victim. Stop wallowing and complaining. Stop and drop the resentment of others. Where you are today IS where you are. Accept it. You and others are on different paths. You have everything you need right this moment. Remember this! You do!

You have all the resources you need within you to make any change you want, if you but look inside and discover them. If you want to feel better, think better! Focus on the good, the positive. Focus on what you have right now that you CAN appreciate and appreciate it.

If It’s To Come True It’s Up To You – Only You Can Change Yourself

When you’re thankful for what you have, instead of what you lack, you feel good about life.  Focus on what makes you feel good! Stop dwelling on what makes you feel bad. Get it? Change your mindset. Only you can change YOUR mindset. Once you do, everything is different! When you are truly grateful life becomes blissful. So celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Who You Are And Who You Can Be PT 2

“Leave hurt, and disappointment, anger, fear and worry behind. Let it all go. Opt for a change. Be different. Do different. Hang around with uplifting positive people who accept you as you are, and who will support you in being who you are, and who you want to be. Do it!

Become new. Become your own very best friend. Stop judging and criticizing and regretting and guilting and love yourself. Commit to being lovable. Commit to enjoying your life. Commit to making positive, good things happen for yourself and others. Allow!

Flow, accept, love, appreciate and delight. Have more fun. Be less serious. Get playful. Get thankful. Find the blessings in you and your life. Recognize all is good even if you haven’t thought so. Do it now! Fill yourself with joy! Become enthused. Be passionate. Celebrate you! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Universe Constantly Holds A Mirror Up To You: Use It!

“We are mirrors for each other. Each person you meet or encounter reflects back who and what you are. That person is your reflection. You can learn from this person if you are wise and ready. It is what is meant by, ‘when student is ready the teacher appears.’ Understand?

When you are ready to recognize that you meet your self, source, god or the universe in each person you will become free. The awareness necessary to develop is that when you feel your buttons pushed it is NOT the other person, it is you reacting to you.

You react to the reflection. Your patterns and buttons and resistance are mirrored back to you so you CAN when you are aware and ready to choose to, let go and release them, so you can be free and move forward. Conflict is this regard is absolutely a blessing.

What We Find In Others Originates In Ourselves – Become Aware

We get feedback about ourselves from others, from events and circumstances. These let us know who we are, what we are focused on. We get feedback in the same way from our feelings. Everything is an opportunity when we realize it and recognize it in the moment.

What we see, like or hate, in another is what we are being reflected back to us. Every person, every moment, every circumstance is your teacher. Stop blaming, excusing, whining and complaining and  you can learn something wonderful about yourself. You can transform.

If you focus on what to transform instead of blaming the mirror or making excuses an entire new positive world opens up to you. When you stop judging outside yourself, and when you stop judging yourself, you become free. Stop blaming the mirror for what you see!

End Blaming – Excusing – Complaining – Judging – Become Free

Simply, realize in the moment, that the heat you feel, the anger, the resistance, the push back, the sadness, the fear, whatever it is in the moment, is a loud alert signal, to stop, and let go. Stop pushing back. Release. This isn’t about the other person so don’t think it is.

It isn’t about whether they are right or wrong, it is about turning the flashlight on yourself so you can see what has been keeping you bound. You need to recognize what is holding you captive and drop it. You can end suffering instantly, when you release all of it.

Be thankful for all people. Be thankful for all circumstances. Be thankful for all challenges. It is through these you grow. You recognize what the issues are for you and can put an end to them through awareness and acceptance. When you become grateful for all you transcend all of it. So celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Overall Secret To Living Happily And Successful!

“To everything there is a season. Things come and go. There is a rhythm to life. Ying and yang. Hot and cold. Tall and short. The tide comes in. The tide goes out. There are opposites and there is balance. There are causes and there are effects. Life is a process.

There is flow. Like a river there are straights and bends. Smooth water and rougher water. Life is flow. You are not just a part of life, you are life, too. Your are not just part of the process. You are process. You are connected to everything and everything you.

Life supports you. Everything you need is within you and without you. Trust life. Trust the process. Trust flow. Be flow. All is good. The rough and difficult water is as good as the easy, smooth water. Life brings you only positive experiences. Understand this and flow.

Whatever You Focus On Expands – Let Go And Let God – Flow

It is all good. The universe, source, you expands. When you realize who and what you are suffering ceases. Resisting the flow and the process, calling things bad, is how suffering occurs. It is all part of it too. Whether you suffer or not, whether it is easy or not, it is good.

Get it? Let go and let god. Trust the process, the flow, yourself, source and find the positive. Find the blessings. Express your gratitude in all of it. Find abundance all around you and within you. In all things you grow and expand. Allow it. Whether you realize it or not, what is, IS. Become aware and bliss showers you. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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