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No Joke: You Have To Do This!

“If all you did was work, work, work, life wouldn’t have much meaning, would it? You can’t spend all your time working at making money, working on your health and well-being, working on your relationships or on improving yourself, can you? Would you?

Is it worth it? No! Absolutely not! Life is for living, loving, having fun, relaxing, letting go and having some peace. If you can’t enjoy your life then it probably is all work, or it is all stress. That’s not good. If you aren’t enjoying your life then you need to make some changes.

Add some smiles and laughter. Add in some playtime and have some fun. Play with an animal or a child. Let go and do something silly. Sing, dance, skip, jump and enjoy life. Go camping, have a cook-out, throw a party, sneak away and safely skinny dip. Live a little, a lot!

I Have To Sing Dance And Ha Cha Cha – Let Go And Live Large

All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. If all you do is work on yourself , things or your job or career, you are out of balance. You may get ahead but not live long enough to enjoy the fruits of your labor. Instead, find a way to add humor into your days and nights.

Take circumstances and your life lightly! Crack a smile. Tell a joke. Listen to some jokes, some wonderful music, watch some funny movies. Just do things that make your experience more enjoyable. Gift yourself. If you don’t enjoy your life NOW, when will you?

If you put it off for some day, remember, some day never comes. It is not a day of the week. Today, is all we have. Live your life now! You can still work, just add in enjoyment so it makes all the work worth it. Stop taking yourself so seriously. Get it? Live, love, laugh and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Who Are You And Who Can You Be?

“Life is a process. It flows in all directions. You are a process. Your body and mind are processes that are ongoing, taking care of you, keeping you upright and alive. Everything is in flux and in flow. Nothing is permanent. Change is constant. What is past, is past.

The only moment we have is now. Let go of the past, and the future, to enjoy the present, now. You have come from the past, you will move into the future. Appreciate this moment for a change. Change can happen this instant. You are a process. You are in flux and flow.

Let go of anything that holds you back. Drop every limitation. Let it go. Become your own best friend. Since you are in process this is possible. You let go and become new. Take a deep breath, shrug, move, do anything different. Dance, skip, jump, sing. Let it all go.

Live Love Laugh – Learn – Let Go – Flow – Allow – Accept – Delight

Celebrate now! Celebrate you are in process, flowing. As a river flows to the ocean so you flow. Appreciate you! Appreciate your past, your present and the future you are building. Recognize you are a blessing and a gift to the planet. Accept and love yourself. Be grateful. Look for blessings. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What To Do When You Can’t Do Anything About It

“It is over and done. There is no more. Nothing can change it. Do you get this yet? The past is over and done. It is gone. Vanished. It has no power over you. It can not affect you. Unless, of course you let it. If you decide to be finished with it you can be finished with it. Let it go.

Begin to be free right now. This moment. In this, the present moment, you can be free. You can become absolutely free. Realize you are in charge not the past. Yes, I know you have thought otherwise for so long, but the past does not control you. Get it?

You are in charge. Take back your power. The past can’t harm you. You are free from the past. You are safe. Realize your thoughts make all the difference. You are the thinker of your thoughts. You are in control. Take charge. Own your power. Manage your thoughts.

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

Right now, this present moment, is the apex, the high point of your power. Own this moment. Control your thoughts. What you think today determines your tomorrow. Think positive. Be powerful. Feel grateful. Express your thankfulness. Transform. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Destination Is The Journey Not Something Different PT 4

“Is that what you want? You get what you focus on. It’s important to know what you want and where you want to go. Yes, have a destination but focus on it as if you already have it. Think of it as already yours. Stop feeling bad by noticing you do not yet have it!

You can’t feel bad and think negative and have a positive life. If you miss the journey you miss all that contributes to you having a great future. Your future IS in your present! It is now. Celebrate and enjoy now. Be glad and be grateful for all of it! Seek and find the good.

When you do you transform everything! This is where the power of manifestation is! Let go of not being there yet. Instead, be thrilled with where you are each step of the journey. Every second along the way blessings and miracles and good abound. You will find it, if you only look and acknowledge and celebrate that it is HERE. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Destination Is The Journey Not Something Different PT 3

“Then, I will be happy. Here is an important point. Then, either comes when it comes, or it doesn’t come at all. There is no actual, then. There is only, now! If you put off your enjoyment until, then, when you think it will be perfect, you will only find it eludes you.

Once there, you will have another ‘then’ that you seek. So many people report their dissatisfaction with getting ‘everything I ever wanted’ because that isn’t what fulfills us. Enjoy this moment. Find miracles and blessings in this moment, then the next will be filled!

You get what you focus on. Then, is always a distance away. If your focus is on not being there yet, you will never get there. You will continue to pursue the elusive fulfillment of the future only to find you robbed yourself of all the good times in the meantime. STOP! Instead, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes – Continued next post.

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The Destination Is The Journey Not Something Different PT 2

“Do you remember as a child, how long the wait for your holiday or birthday seemed to be? Many children ask repeatedly during travels with family or friends,  ‘when will we get there? When will we be there?’ They missed out on enjoying the journey! They’re in pain.

They suffer for the duration of the trip because they want the destination too much. As a result they miss many incredible things all along the way. I know I did. I didn’t appreciate the sightseeing sounds, the stops and side trips. Did you ever do this? Many have.

I missed all the good in the journey because I wanted so desperately to get to the destination. Then everything would be good, I thought. Do you do this now? Do you think when I have enough money, or health or the love of my life, then all will be okay? It won’t. Yes I know you think it. Instead, YOU must change!  We’ll continue in the next post.: Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Destination Is The Journey Not Something Different PT 1

“Drop by drop fills the tub. It happens in time. If you keep moving forward you will get there eventually. Keep growing and keep enjoying.. What else is there to do? Hate the journey? Do you wish to be miserable all along the way until you get there?  That sucks!

That is a waste of your present. You are living too much in the future if you are noticing you aren’t there yet. You aren’t in the present enjoying how glorious it can be right now. You’re mentally elsewhere and it is robbing you of your life and your peace and happiness!

Whether you focus on the past and carry around pain or you focus on the future worried about it or upset that the good you desire hasn’t manifested yet, you are keeping all the good away. You get back what you focus on. Instead focus on how marvelous now is! I’ll continue in the next post. Learn to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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These Changes You Can Make Will Create An Incredible Difference!

“Some day I will take another form whatever that may be. I will no longer walk the planet. I won’t be around to comment on whether events are good or bad, right or wrong. They will go on without my commentary or criticism. Just as they did before I arrived here.

Since that’s the case why should I waste my time judging now? Isn’t there a better, a wiser, use of my time? Wouldn’t I be better off not digging in despair whether the events are personal or global? Life is short. Instead of labeling events good or bad, is there another way?

Life is way, way too short, as far as I am concerned, so I want to find a way to maximize the little time on the globe as best I can. Years ago, I decided that if I was going to live on the planet I deserved to live in paradise. Whatever the situation is I wanted it to be paradise.

Life Is Too Short Not To Enjoy It And Celebrate Everything

I found, when I told others this, many said it was not possible given the world and current state of affairs. They’d say things like, ‘well there will always be suffering’. They said many things and I heard from many people through the years.

Their attitude seemed to be, ‘ life is short, you struggle, try to be happy live a good life, hurt no one and die. Then hope there is an afterlife and that you may be rewarded’. I knew this is not the way I want to go through my days. If they wished to that was up to them.

Not I. It took me some time, a lot of time actually, but one day I decided to decide how I wanted to think about things. I decided, whether it is accurate or not, that I create my experience. There is alot scientific supporting the premise that we create our reality.

Why Give Up Your Time On Earth Feeling Down And Out

Regardless, of whether it is true or not, I decided that I create my experience. I determined I had created a lot of crap in my life and some good things. I looked at me, my life, and it occurred to me that I always got what I wanted and what I thought about. I really did.

My worst fears often came true. If I was anxious or depressed about something it was harder to move through the world. If I worried about money I never seemed to have enough. Perhaps, it was a chicken and egg thing, and I wasn’t sure what came first.

Did I not have money so I worried about it or because I worried about money I never had any. I wasn’t certain, but I decided not to care. I decided that I would control my thinking. I would endeavor to think the best about myself, my circumstances, and my future.

Let Go – Have Fun – Discover The Blessings And Celebrate

I’d think positively about the people around me, my  family, friends, and even strangers. I would strive to maintain a positive focus. I would concentrate on finding the good in everything as much as I am able. I would find the best in everything and everyone.

It was not always easy. It still isn’t always easy. Sometimes there are challenges and it seems like I may lose my way. I get sidetracked or off course, caught up, and I forget what is important and I get hooked. At some point I realize, that too, is my decision.

It’s  like a guilty pleasure, but without the pleasure part. You know, when you know you shouldn’t be doing something but you do it anyway. Whatever it is,  maybe you shouldn’t have that extra helping but you just have to, or you sneak an extra piece of chocolate.

You Go Where Your Thoughts Take You – Manage Your Thoughts

You feel guilty. Maybe, guilty isn’t exactly the right word.  It isn’t guilt sometimes it is just that you just know there is a better way of being or thinking or behaving.  It is like that, at some point, I become aware that I am off base and I need to get back on.

I know it is up to me.  Sometimes I don’t feel like correcting myself, but I do it anyway (because I have since learned how to). I course correct. There is so much incredible power in learning how to shift from the negative to the positive. It is absolutely freeing!

I learned, just because things are going on around me that are not to my liking, even if everything is crumbling, I do not have to think negative thoughts, or feel bad or respond as I would have in the past. That was something else i did a lot of.  I used to live in the past.

Live In The Present – Celebrate – Learn To Be Here Now

I used to aggrandize  the good old days and lament what was or what never came to be. I gave that up to. I developed a plan to change myself. I create daily rituals. I put my attention, focus, energy and time on thinking better and feeling better. AND IT WORKED.

I’ll share more in the next post. If you are a regular reader you know how important these things are. You understand mindset comes first and determines how we feel, behave and the results we get. You know if you want better results manage your mindset. BOOM!

That is what you must do. Gratitude is a powerful way to shift your focus and feel better. Focusing on what is good, new and different in this moment brings you back to the moment where you can count your blessings, feel good about everything, validate yourself and celebrate. You truly transform when you can celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Pursue Your Goals And Not Be Attached

“How do you live without desire? How do you reconcile this concept with Napoleon Hill’s principle that one must have a burning white hot desire or obsession for accomplishing one’s goals in order to achieve them. Conceive, desire, believe, persist, and achieve.

Here is how you do it. You do everything Napoleon Hill suggested you do. You develop the mindset, the attitude, the faith that you WILL, come what may, or no matter what, achieve your goal and fulfill your destiny. You will live your vision. You work it and persist.

However, how it unfolds, what it ultimately looks like you are not wedded to. You do whatever it positively takes without harming yourself or others, no stepping on toes, with faith that it will happen and let go of how it actually happens. That is not within your control.

Relax  Let Go  Enjoy  Delight Appreciate  Accept Celebrate 

This is where you give it over to the ‘universe’ to accomplish it. This is why you can confidently say, ‘I will be X, I don’t know how I will but I will be and I am glad.’ You allow anything to happen along the way and you adjust and continue without attachment or judgement.

You know in your heart that it will be whatever it will be and that everything will, because it always does, work out for the best. You don’t get caught in the details. You continue optimistically without getting hooked or caught up. You enjoy the journey each moment.

No matter what happens it is what it is. Everything is a blessing even opposition, hardship, challenge, obstacles and temporary defeat. It is all part of the adventure and you are a willing and able an explore with a positive mindset. You do what you can and you let go!

Life Is Available Only In The Present Moment – Live Each Moment

Get it? You don’t try to control things you simply do things. The results you get are always feedback. If it didn’t work you do somethings. You fail forward and learn from it, adjust and go happily on your way, having learned, having changed, having been blessed.

When everything all along the way is a blessing, no matter what it is, you live happier and healthier. You take the feedback and go on. Your attitude is aligned and congruent with who you are and what you are doing. You live in the moment. You allow each moment its magic.

Your focus is the present. You do what you can do. Your focus and concentration is being here not. A flower takes in nourishment and grows without caring or toiling.  You live happily in gratitude and with appreciation for all. You enjoy, delight and are able to, and do, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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All Work And No Play Makes You Dull: Have Fun!

“All work and no play makes Jack and Jill dull. While it is important to focus on your goals, have white-hot obsession and persistence in pursuit of making these happen, it is equally important to play and have fun. Delight! Let go. Enjoy the many magical moments daily.

Play serves useful purposes. We learn while we play. While off doing other enjoyable activities our brains continue to process, work on, review and incorporate our learning and efforts. Muscles need a break from work out to grow and we do to from ‘striving’. Get it?

Have fun. Play. Become fascinated. Be curious. Be a little kid. Feel thrilled, delighted and enthused. Vibe high. More magic happens when you enjoy being blessed and live passionately. Live as if every moment is a miracle. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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