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How To Change It When Everything Sucks!

“You want to make your career, your finances, your relationships, and overall life much better, right? You’d like to think and feel better more of the time, too, I bet. Is there any thing you can do, overall, that will make everything better, easier, smoother and more fun?

Yes. Overall, you can do one thing that will make all the difference in the world for you. First, understand that you must learn to MANAGE your thinking. You must take control of your thoughts. You must realize ‘thinking’ is something you do, but IT isn’t, actually, YOU.

Your thoughts are not you. YOU think thoughts. Mostly, you think conditioned, chronic, repetitive thoughts you’ve always thought, with some new ones thrown in. You may feel that isn’t quite accurate, but if you really look into it, you’ll notice, it is. Get it?

Life Isn’t What Happens To You – Life Is What You Create

Awareness is the key to change. If you aren’t aware you need to make a change, you won’t. If you sleep through a fire, the results of the fire are the same, whether you know it or not. Get it? You must become aware and make some changes. So, which change to make?

Make it a point to feel no matter what! DO whatever it takes, in a positive fashion, that is GOOD for you and others, that helps you feel good. Walk, exercise, sing, dance, get a massage. Get outdoors, spend time in nature. Go barefoot, connect with the earth. Anything!

Practice gratitude! Keep a journal. Be really thankful for small and large things; the people in your life; ALL of life lessons and circumstances; your current, ongoing situation. EVERYTHING! Take inventory and FEEL BLESSED! Jump up and down with joy. Do it!

Because You Smile And Laugh You Can Make All Of Life Beautiful

When you FEEL GOOD and vibrate high energy, everything else falls into place! If you can feel good, in spite of whatever may be the current situation, you’ll become the master of your circumstances. You won’t be a tiny boat tossed about by the wind and the sea.

When YOU are the master YOU make the difference in your situations, instead of them running you. You need to take charge and be in charge. You never will, doing things the same old way. You must CHANGE what you do. Read positive material. Get and stay inspired.

Manage your thoughts and you feel better and think better! Manage your feelings and you FEEL BETTER and think better! Good feelings promote well being and you get more of it. You get better and better as you go. Find the tiniest thing to feel good about and do it.

Take Charge Of Yourself – Decide To Make The Day Marvelous

Feel good about it. Accentuate it. FOCUS on it. Make it bigger and better. AMPLIFY it. Do those things that are fun, good for you, and you enjoy! Make all of your life a celebration. That change in attitude will make all the difference. Hang out with positive people! BEGIN!

Begin somewhere. Begin, even when you don’t feel like it. If you wait until you do, you will never start. You always must begin right where you are! It starts with a decision. You either DECIDE TO, or you are deciding not to. It is always, all up to you, whether you do or don’t.

Take hold of your good feelings and enhance them.  Make tiny things bigger. Most of us make mole hill problems into mountains, so reverse it. Make tiny mole hill blessings into mountains of blessing. When you do, everything does CHANGE. If you don’t, nothing does.

Mastery Is  A Process – It Takes As Much Time As It Takes – Enjoy

Sometimes, things change instantly.  Mostly, things change in time as you gain mastery of the process. Things change as you EVOLVE YOURSELF into a positive, powerful, confident person. Get it? This is why I encourage, and implore you to CELEBRATE EVERYTHING!” Rex Sikes

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To Live Abundantly You Need To Notice Abundance Now!

“Have you ever noticed that when you choose to recognize abundance around you, celebrate it, and feel abundant within, more and more good, just naturally and easily starts to come into your life?  When you acknowledge and celebrate you open these doors.

If you haven’t noticed it, yet, it is an indication your attention is not where it is most beneficial for you.  You will want to make some changes. If you’re experiencing lack, and troubles, it indicates that is where your focus is. You’re paying attention to circumstances.

This can be difficult at first to understand and to change. It is absolutely possible to do so. We’ve grown up conditioned to pay attention to events, people and times that are upsetting. From the media to our parents the focus typically is on the ‘bad news’.

You Get What You Focus On – What You Focus On Expands

We entertain it. We talk about it. We share it with our family and friends. We moan, fret and lose sleep over it. When someone comes along and says, ‘you don’t have to just change your focus’ it can be difficult to receive, but it is possible and it is necessary. Get it.

If you always do what you always did you always get what you always got. You will get more of the conditioned same that you always have. Results will be haphazard and life will be tougher. Energy flows where your attention goes.  Gotta change!

People create more lack and adversity when they choose to see what’s lacking and what is wrong. You get what you focus on. It does come back to you in a variety of ways. People focused on lack and problems are never satisfied. They always need more and more.

Energy Goes Where Attention Goes – Focus On What You Want

When you ‘need’ you create more needing. You get more of whatever you are focused on. Concentrate on what is good and what you have. Focus on abundance. Stop noticing what you don’t have now, and concentrate on what you do have now. Be grateful.

Appreciate where you are in life, on your journey. Stop focusing on how you aren’t at your destination yet. You get whatever you focus on whether what you focus on is positive or negative. SO focus on the positive. Focus on abundance, on health, on love, on peace.

I repeat:  Look for the good. Notice abundance all around you. Feel the good. Feel blessed. Feel healthy, wealthy and happy. Savor and enhance the good feelings. Vibrate high! Keep a gratitude journal. You will begin to notice more coming to you. Mindset is everything!

Renew Your Commitment To Abundance Mindset Each Moment

Your mindset and attitude determine what you create and attract. Keep in mind, it is what you create that matters the most. Begin focusing on what you can do! Do you want to live the best life ever? Then enjoy everything, be grateful, feel blessed and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What To Do When Support Is Needed

“It isn’t cool to gloat over the trials and tribulations of anyone. Nor is it cool to further kick someone when down or when they screw up. We all can stand to learn this. Hopefully, we can be sensitive to others when they are going through tough times, friends or foe.

It isn’t for us to judge.  Most of the time, the worst moments of our lives are our most powerful, defining moments. We only discover this when looking back on them. Unless, one is wise enough to realize everything is a blessing, if we choose to view it that way.

Speed bumps in individual life and collective lives are evidence of evolution and change. Not much more, really. We change, we grow, we rise, we fall. Hopefully, we get up again, because we can. It is in getting up that we learn our strength and our tenacity.

Encourage Believe And Love Yourself – Never Lose Faith In You

Prevail by persisting. Face the demons. Face Goliath and conquer him. Whatever holds you back, whatever the limitations in thought, feelings, actions, know how or skills, won’t stop you if you don’t let it. Keep moving in the direction to getting your goals. Make it happen.

Help others when they need it. Be willing to lend an assisting or supportive hand to friend, stranger or foe. Do the same for yourself. Be your own best, non-judgmental friend. Encourage yourself. Give yourself a friendly pat on the back and a kind word. Do the same for others, too. Consider all a blessing and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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This Lie Can Help You. This Lie Can Help Others!

“Are you born smart or can you be made smart? Is genius an inner trait or does environment matter? What if, by your words and actions, you could influence your son or daughter to greater heights? Would you? Can a genius be made? It seems the answer is yes.

Here is one brief example I share with you. Click the link to watch this video. It is less than 2 minutes. Watch it. THEN use the back button to return here.

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Okay, okay… It isn’t true. It never happened, according to some. BUT it could have. Plenty of times the opposite occurs. Someone injures another person by their words or actions. Let this, short, untrue, video story, stand as an example. Remember it. Apply it. Live it!

Uplift and edify others. Emphasize their strengths in your mind and theirs. Diminish their weaknesses for them, in your mind and theirs. Be glad you know them. Be glad you can help inspire. Be thankful. Be grateful for everything about them. Feel blessed. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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It Is Important To Give The Gift Forget The Recipient

“When you give, you get back. Your primary intention is simply to give, to add value to others. When you freely give, you get back easier and quicker. When you freely give, you are more open to receive and you don’t block the process with your wants.

You allow. You give your best. You go the extra mile. You vibrate high and you create and attract people, events and circumstances that favor you. You plant the seed. Remember, you must GO FIRST! Without planting the seed, no plant would grow. You plant it first.

You give first. You give. You go the extra mile. You keep the faith! In the back of your mind you know givers get. However, that is NOT the primary reason you give. You give TO give. In doing this you are implementing many important principles and practices.

Giving Is The Secret To Abundance – Give And Receive

Napoleon Hill, and others, way back to the ancients, have pointed this out. Give and it shall be returned. Your needs will be taken care of when you take care of the needs of others. It is the act and spirit of giving freely that is important. Not what the recipient does with it.

It doesn’t matter if you give to a fake charity or a phony religious leader and they benefit from your money or your gift. It doesn’t matter if they don’t use it as you had hoped. That is on them. You gave freely. You gave from your abundance. That is what matters.

Give with a pure heart  and mind. Never let their actions poison your intentions.  Your intentions were to give, to help, and to assist others. That is what is important. When you give freely, there are no, strings or conditions to the gift you give,  whether, money or time.

If You Want Love And Abundance In Your Life – Give It Away

When you give, whatever you give, once given it is theirs to decide what to do with. Some people believe you should take a homeless or disadvantaged person to lunch, or buy them food, so they don’t spend it on drugs or alcohol. This is not freely giving. It’s judging.

It is making assumptions about another which may or may not be true. It is conditional. It isn’t up to you to determine how they use your gift. Unless you give with conditions, but that isn’t what tithing or this practice is about. Certainly, you’re free to do what you want.

Parents give to their children in conditional ways. Partners do the same with each other. People are people. Practice unconditional giving. Give and let go. When you are the recipient, receive and enjoy! Give up control. Allow others and allow yourself freedom.

Stop Judging Start Giving Freely Without Constraints – Live Large

Give up control and allow your gift to go out there. Give from the spirit of giving, ‘I am blessed.’ ‘I am abundant.’  ‘I’m giving without strings, without attachment, without expecting return or payoff, without insisting somebody do something in particular way’.

It’s letting go. It’s letting go of how you should give and receive things. Become an excellent giver.  Become an excellent receiver. That is with tithing is all about. Feel blessed. Feel blessed to give. Feel blessed to receive. It is about feeling abundant. Feel abundance.

When you do everything changes. You come from a different place, a different mindset altogether. It isn’t just about money. It is about feeling fulfilled. When you help others you are helping yourself. You can begin to recognize the miracles all around you. You can begin to see how truly rich you are. Delight in it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Handle Unexpected Bad Events

What to do when unexpected bad happens? Something comes along, out of the blue, that is less than glorious. How can you best handle it so  you don’t create more problems? How can you begin to create more opportunity and manifest good things for your future?

It is all depends on what you think and what you say to yourself and to others. Keep in mind the notion I frequently promote here. Speak only to bless, heal and prosper. Don’t repeatedly tell, and relive, the ‘negative’ story. Stop doing that! Instead, tell one that supports you.

Say, ‘well I didn’t expect that. Some people might say they had a problem. I have a new opportunity presenting itself to examine and utilize my resources. I don’t know what to do about it, yet, but I know everything always works out well for me in the end.’

Train Yourself To Find The Blessing In Everything – Feel Blessed

‘I also know that in adversity is the seed of opportunity. This situation will help me get clear on what I want. Getting really clear about what I want will help me make it happen.’ Don’t judge or label it bad.  Simply say, it’s something you didn’t expect.

Don’t get negative. Don’t speak in less than glorious terms. Do not ignore it. Don’t lie about it. Don’t say it is ‘all fabulous’ if you don’t feel that. That only creates internal conflict. Don’t create a conflict. Simply, reframe how you think and speak about all of it. Get it?

Simply say, ‘I have a situation and I don’t know how it’s gonna work out. Ultimately, it’s gonna work out for the best. Things always work out for the best. I’m gonna celebrate the learning and all the opportunities that are now before me. This is an opportunity.’

Count Your Blessings Not Your Problems – Think Differently

‘I have an opportunity to think, feel, be, do and act differently than I had planned. All of it is an opportunity. All of it will work out. I just don’t know how, yet, so I’m going to get clear on what I do want. I’m going to work on what I can make happen.’

Things never work out the way you think they will. There’s always twists and turns and surprises, so you might as well get used to that. Accept it. Life is an adventure. You can plan but, almost always, your plans will change. Life is ups and downs. Life provides contrast.

Adversity helps you. Perhaps, you really do need what is occurring in order to get clear and focus intently on what you want. Perhaps, you  have to intensify your pursuit. Use it to your advantage. It is a good and positive thing that happened. Get clear on your goals.

Be Grateful For Small Things Big Things And All In Between

You can never know how things will turn out. Adventures are filled with good times and challenges. All of them are a blessings. Sadly, you and the rest of us, have been previously conditioned to accept some and reject others. You have beliefs about what is good and bad.

Until now, you may not have believed that these events can be blessings. Most of us were conditioned to dislike the unexpected. We whine, blame, excuse. and accuse. So we lose out and we suffer. We suffer because of our chronic, old conditioned mindset.

Now you have opportunity to go beyond your beliefs and evolve as a person. You can go to a higher level. When everything is a blessing your life becomes incredible! You didn’t get the outcome you expected. So what? Celebrate. It is a gift and a blessing! Get it?

Perception Is Everything – Believing Is Seeing – It Is All Up To You

Still, you may not yet believe this. These kind of experiences, these lessons, these opportunities, will happen over and over again until you learn that this IS how it works. Everything is a blessing. Give yourself room to accept this. Until you do, expect the unexpected.

Begin to believe that everything happens for your good even though you may not be able to see what that is right now. Don’t let defeat define you. Don’t succumb to negativity because ‘crap’ hits the fan. What anything IS is whatever you DECIDE it is. It’s all up to you.

Things happen to you. It can all be good. You just haven’t believed that before. Give yourself permission to. Accept and allow it and your life can transform. Find the silver linings. Consider everything an opportunity, a lesson and a blessing. Give yourself permission to shine! Feel grateful. Express your gratitude. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Universe Is Always On Your Side: Are You On Your Side?

“Imagine a game, similar to what we played as children. Let’s play  hide and seek. Only in this version, you hide yourself. You take on a disguise and then you forget that is what you did. You have amnesia for who you actually are. You only remember the disguised persona.

Think of it this way. You are the ocean. You pretend you are a droplet of ocean. Then you forget you are the ocean. You only think you are the droplet. Separate from the ocean. Limited by who you are and what you can do. You forget you are the powerful ocean. Imagine!

Yet, that is what many ancient mystics and philosophers allege. We are source, playing a game with ourself. We hide that we are source so we can find ourself once again, sometime. We make the game challenging so we have fun discovering who we truly are.

The Universe Is On Your Side – Always Working In Your Favor

If true, this means that everything that happens is for a reason. Everything is designed to wake us up to who we actually are underneath the disguise of self. This means, everything, no matter what it is, IS a blessing. It’s helpful to us even when it doesn’t seem it.

Every little thing right or wrong, every big joyous moment or horrendous disaster is all for our good. It’s there to help us; allow, and accept and remember, who we are inside. When we fight these moments or circumstances or people we remain unaware. Asleep.

When we learn from them and embrace them we have an opportunity to wake up, to become aware. Even if this is not actually the case in the universe, it is a great reframe to evolve and transform yourself. It helps us remember to look for the good in all things.

When You Want Something The Universe Conspires To Help You 

If the universe cares enough to fashion all the experiences so you can wake up to the truth, what about you? Do you care enough to wake up? If the universe is on your side, what about you? Shouldn’t you be on your own side, too? Seems that makes the most sense.

If you can find within yourself a way to be happy and contented, to feel grateful, no matter what is occurring around you, then you are becoming free and beginning to be able to design your own life. You aren’t the victim of any people, events, or circumstance. Get that?

You no longer are the victim! Whatever life hurls at you, you can handle. You are bigger than any obstacles. You can go with the flow. You adjust and continue. You find or create a way. You don’t blame, or excuse or whine, you celebrate and live joyously and victoriously.

Be Mindful Your Self Talk Is A Conversation With The Universe 

I say, recognize who you are. Wake up. Learn from everything that happens to you in every moment of the day. You always have choice points. You can react from prior conditioning or you can learn to respond from awareness. You choose which you prefer to live by.

Make your life the life you want by appreciating everything you have, don’t have and all that happens to you. Imagine that it is the Universe’s way of getting your attention so that you delight more, find the good more, and feel grateful more often. When you do this, you are able to celebrate everything. When you can do that, you are truly free! So celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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