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How You Start Your Day Determines How Your Day Unfolds!

“Waking up is an incredible opportunity. First, celebrate! You have another day! This in itself is great! Since it is great take a moment and appreciate how fortunate you are. Remember, to love yourself and your life. First thing in the morning while still sleepy.

Before you get out of bed. Linger in feeling grateful. I think, ‘I love my life!’ I also know it will be, and I intend for it to be an incredible day. Whatever comes to me that day is awesome. That is true whether it is awesome or what others might say are difficulties. It’s a blessing.

It is a blessing to be able to handle challenges. Some can’t. Some are dead. They don’t have the opportunity to transform not so glorious moments into better moments. What is, is. We are fortunate to be able to experience it. Sadly, most people are conditioned otherwise.

You Are Where Your Thoughts Have Brought You

Many people dread the day and what it will bring. They don’t look forward to what is available because they worry or fear what might happen. Realize this and this IS important! It is always your choice, and your choice alone, how you approach and greet the day.

It is your choice whether you see something as an opportunity or not. If all you see are problems then you might want to change that. It is all up to you. Your conditioning, your chronic negative thought habits can be change to a powerful, positive mindset. If you do it.

You must take charge. For things in your life to change YOU must change things in your life. You can’t continue doing the same thing repeatedly and expect it to be different. That IS crazy. For it to be different you must become different. AND you can! Start now!

You Will Be Where Your Thoughts Take You

Begin to do things a new way. When you do, bit by bit, you will transform yourself. BUT in order to transform you must take action. Take charge of your thinking. When you do you will transform how you feel and what you do. You’ll start getting the results you want.

Don’t wait. Start right now if you haven’t. If you already have then continue. Persist. Follow through. Add in those daily rituals proven to make a difference. How you begin your day determines how your day may unfold. It sets you up to handle anything that comes to you.

Begin with gratitude and appreciation. Delight you have the day to enjoy. Enjoy it. Make a point to be happy. Determine to look for smiles and to put smiles on your face and on others. Laugh and have fun. Be grateful. Express your thankfulness. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Many Are Called But Few Are Chosen. Are You?

“‘When the student is ready the teacher appears.’ I am always willing to invite people to a party but they determine whether they show up or not. I prepare a buffet. They choose what to eat. I leave it to them. I can expose them to a variety of ways to think about things.

I can lead the horse to water and show the horse a variety of great drinking sources. I can even suggest to the horse, it might wish to try one of the old, the new, or the different choices, but I can’t and won’t and don’t force them to consider what they aren’t able to consider.

The decision to listen, learn, and to apply is up to you. It is an inner job. It is all within you. I don’t judge if one is ready or not or worthy or not. When one is ready the lesson one is learning is revealed with or without an outer teacher. We can learn from all circumstances.

If You Think You Can Or Your Think You Can’t – You Are Right

No one can save a fool from oneself either, so the saying goes. That means, I leave them alone after the invite is made. I can’t and don’t judge, nor can I force, nor will I force them to come to the party. I was invited and didn’t go for years. One day I decided I would go.

I am glad I did! The Bible says, ‘Many are called but few are chosen.’ In this instance, I take that to mean, showing up after the invitation is made. I don’t use it to suggest someone is actually chosen. You can decide that for yourself. My point, it is up to you. Get it?

Everyone sleeps. Everyone eventually wakes up but not all at the same time. If someone still sleeps while I am awake, so what? I was asleep once. They’ll awaken too. You can’t push a rope. Let sleeping dogs lie. Don’t poke them with a stick! Enjoy them and love them.

Seeing Yourself Or Another As A Friend Or A Foe Is A Choice

Accept them. Listen to them. Don’t try to convince. Don’t berate them with your reasoning. Invite them and let them decide whether or not they will show up. Let’s learn to live without judging. Let’s learn to allow and go with whatever the flow is. Wherever it goes.

Concern yourself with your own transformation. Let others do the same. Live and let live. Learn to realize everything is a blessing when you choose to view it that way. That means everything is good and there is opportunity within all circumstances if you decide it is so. Never lose faith. Stay positive and delight in all. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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So Much Wasted Time David Cassidy’s Final Words

“‘So much wasted time.’ Those were the last words of pop star, idol David Cassidy. Sadly, David passed away at the age of 67. His daughter shared the family’s gratitude for the outpouring of love and condolences and his final words. Those are words to remember.

Stop wasting time and start living in a way that matters. Stop being distracted. Start living fully. Enjoy the moment. This moment is the only moment we have. The next is not guaranteed. Yes, we take the next moment for granted, but it is not assured. Live and love now!

Cassidy said earlier, in regards to why he stopped performing,  “I want to focus on what I am, who I am and how I’ve been without any distractions. I want to love. I want to enjoy life.” Without any distractions. Get that! Without distractions. WOW this is important.

Be Here Now – Be Here Now – Be Here Now – Be Here Now 

Nearly everything out there is either designed to be a distraction or IS a distraction. Social media, news, toys, bright shiny objects, gossips, phones, you name it, if it takes you away from this moment and living fully, by seeking something else, it is a distraction!

Katie Cassidy said, given her father’s last words, ‘This will be a daily reminder for me to share my gratitude with those I love as to never waste another minute….thank you.” It could be yours and my reminder too. Live now, Love now. Be now. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

Peace, blessings and condolences to those he left behind.

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Stop Seeking Happiness For Happiness

 

“Sadly, people want to be happy. They think if they have another brighter, shinier object it will make them happy. If they get an award or a promotion they will somehow be better and consequently be happier. More of something elusive is what they think will work.

It doesn’t and it won’t. From most all reports through eons of time having more, or accomplishing, much isn’t the base of lasting or true happiness. So, what is if you can’t become happy this way? True happiness comes from a sense of being happiness right now.

Humans become dissatisfied with what they want. The shiny object becomes dull in time and so we want more. We seek something else to fulfill us. This becomes an endless pursuit. It seems we are only happy when we have something new and better to brag about.

You Are Where Your Thoughts Have Brought You

Since these feelings of satisfaction and happiness come and go, is there something one can do that is more permanent or longer lasting? Yes, is the answer. Start living in the present moment and appreciate what you already have. Be happy now. Right now!

Some people complain they don’t know how. That is because they have practiced being happy through accumulation. It is time to practice being happy for who you are and for what you have right now. Recognize the good in your life. Notice and become aware of it.

It is not just things. It is who you are and how you feel. It is the people in your life. It is the circumstances surrounding you. It is the moment right now. It is the beauty of the earth right now, today, that matters. Stop seeking and start being. That makes the difference.

The More We Do The More We Are Capable Of Doing

Stop wanting to be happy and start accepting the now. Look for the good in you and all around you. Discover that blessings abound. Stop putting off for tomorrow what you have today. Stop making your conception of happiness an ideal. It isn’t a thing to have. Get it?

Happiness isn’t some state you enter. Happiness is a process and a choice. You won’t always feel blissful. You don’t have to either. People get screwed up by their definitions of happiness. They miss it because of what they think it means and what it is. It is a thing!

Happiness is not the absence of everything else that isn’t happiness. Happiness is a process. It is a sense of well-being. It is contentment. Happiness is emphasizing the good. Energy flows where your attention goes. Stop pursuing a thing. Be in a process. Be in flow.

Skill Comes From Doing – Repetition Is The Mother Of Skill

The river isn’t static. It is moving, flowing. Life flows and changes. We feel differently from time to time. Happiness is a choice not a thing! It is a decision as to where you place your attention and what you determine to focus on. The goal is to feel the best you are able.

This doesn’t mean you always need to be amped up and a ten on the glee meter. It means you feel a bit better than a moment ago. If you are down and out you do whatever is necessary to feel a bit better. You move yourself in a more positive and optimistic direction.

Drop by drop the tub fills. It needn’t be now or never. All of life is process. Accept it. Tides come and go. Feelings ebb. Allow for changes while steering your boat in the river of life. Go with the current but steer away from the rocks. Navigate and enjoy.

You Get What You Focus On – What You Focus On Expands

The easiest way to be happy is to appreciate the moment. Feel grateful and accentuate the positive. You don’t ignore the negative or problems but you place them safely within context and don’t let them run you. You focus on what is good and delightful. Get it?

You choose to be bigger than any obstacle and you determine to live as a champion. You focus on what you can and will do. You focus on  that, which right now, is good. Fill your mind and being with wonder and awe and delight for what is YOU this moment! Tend to the beauty of the garden even while weeding it. Be happy and you will do and have more happiness. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Change It When Everything Sucks!

“You want to make your career, your finances, your relationships, and overall life much better, right? You’d like to think and feel better more of the time, too, I bet. Is there any thing you can do, overall, that will make everything better, easier, smoother and more fun?

Yes. Overall, you can do one thing that will make all the difference in the world for you. First, understand that you must learn to MANAGE your thinking. You must take control of your thoughts. You must realize ‘thinking’ is something you do, but IT isn’t, actually, YOU.

Your thoughts are not you. YOU think thoughts. Mostly, you think conditioned, chronic, repetitive thoughts you’ve always thought, with some new ones thrown in. You may feel that isn’t quite accurate, but if you really look into it, you’ll notice, it is. Get it?

Life Isn’t What Happens To You – Life Is What You Create

Awareness is the key to change. If you aren’t aware you need to make a change, you won’t. If you sleep through a fire, the results of the fire are the same, whether you know it or not. Get it? You must become aware and make some changes. So, which change to make?

Make it a point to feel no matter what! DO whatever it takes, in a positive fashion, that is GOOD for you and others, that helps you feel good. Walk, exercise, sing, dance, get a massage. Get outdoors, spend time in nature. Go barefoot, connect with the earth. Anything!

Practice gratitude! Keep a journal. Be really thankful for small and large things; the people in your life; ALL of life lessons and circumstances; your current, ongoing situation. EVERYTHING! Take inventory and FEEL BLESSED! Jump up and down with joy. Do it!

Because You Smile And Laugh You Can Make All Of Life Beautiful

When you FEEL GOOD and vibrate high energy, everything else falls into place! If you can feel good, in spite of whatever may be the current situation, you’ll become the master of your circumstances. You won’t be a tiny boat tossed about by the wind and the sea.

When YOU are the master YOU make the difference in your situations, instead of them running you. You need to take charge and be in charge. You never will, doing things the same old way. You must CHANGE what you do. Read positive material. Get and stay inspired.

Manage your thoughts and you feel better and think better! Manage your feelings and you FEEL BETTER and think better! Good feelings promote well being and you get more of it. You get better and better as you go. Find the tiniest thing to feel good about and do it.

Take Charge Of Yourself – Decide To Make The Day Marvelous

Feel good about it. Accentuate it. FOCUS on it. Make it bigger and better. AMPLIFY it. Do those things that are fun, good for you, and you enjoy! Make all of your life a celebration. That change in attitude will make all the difference. Hang out with positive people! BEGIN!

Begin somewhere. Begin, even when you don’t feel like it. If you wait until you do, you will never start. You always must begin right where you are! It starts with a decision. You either DECIDE TO, or you are deciding not to. It is always, all up to you, whether you do or don’t.

Take hold of your good feelings and enhance them.  Make tiny things bigger. Most of us make mole hill problems into mountains, so reverse it. Make tiny mole hill blessings into mountains of blessing. When you do, everything does CHANGE. If you don’t, nothing does.

Mastery Is  A Process – It Takes As Much Time As It Takes – Enjoy

Sometimes, things change instantly.  Mostly, things change in time as you gain mastery of the process. Things change as you EVOLVE YOURSELF into a positive, powerful, confident person. Get it? This is why I encourage, and implore you to CELEBRATE EVERYTHING!” Rex Sikes

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To Live Abundantly You Need To Notice Abundance Now!

“Have you ever noticed that when you choose to recognize abundance around you, celebrate it, and feel abundant within, more and more good, just naturally and easily starts to come into your life?  When you acknowledge and celebrate you open these doors.

If you haven’t noticed it, yet, it is an indication your attention is not where it is most beneficial for you.  You will want to make some changes. If you’re experiencing lack, and troubles, it indicates that is where your focus is. You’re paying attention to circumstances.

This can be difficult at first to understand and to change. It is absolutely possible to do so. We’ve grown up conditioned to pay attention to events, people and times that are upsetting. From the media to our parents the focus typically is on the ‘bad news’.

You Get What You Focus On – What You Focus On Expands

We entertain it. We talk about it. We share it with our family and friends. We moan, fret and lose sleep over it. When someone comes along and says, ‘you don’t have to just change your focus’ it can be difficult to receive, but it is possible and it is necessary. Get it.

If you always do what you always did you always get what you always got. You will get more of the conditioned same that you always have. Results will be haphazard and life will be tougher. Energy flows where your attention goes.  Gotta change!

People create more lack and adversity when they choose to see what’s lacking and what is wrong. You get what you focus on. It does come back to you in a variety of ways. People focused on lack and problems are never satisfied. They always need more and more.

Energy Goes Where Attention Goes – Focus On What You Want

When you ‘need’ you create more needing. You get more of whatever you are focused on. Concentrate on what is good and what you have. Focus on abundance. Stop noticing what you don’t have now, and concentrate on what you do have now. Be grateful.

Appreciate where you are in life, on your journey. Stop focusing on how you aren’t at your destination yet. You get whatever you focus on whether what you focus on is positive or negative. SO focus on the positive. Focus on abundance, on health, on love, on peace.

I repeat:  Look for the good. Notice abundance all around you. Feel the good. Feel blessed. Feel healthy, wealthy and happy. Savor and enhance the good feelings. Vibrate high! Keep a gratitude journal. You will begin to notice more coming to you. Mindset is everything!

Renew Your Commitment To Abundance Mindset Each Moment

Your mindset and attitude determine what you create and attract. Keep in mind, it is what you create that matters the most. Begin focusing on what you can do! Do you want to live the best life ever? Then enjoy everything, be grateful, feel blessed and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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