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How To Live Your Best Life Most Easily

“When it comes to learning there are four phases we go through. The first is Unconscious Incompetence which means you don’t know you don’t know. Before you ever saw someone ride a bike you were not conscious it was possible, and you were incompetent to do it.

Next we become aware. We become Consciously Incompetent. We know we can’t do it and we can’t do it. From here we eventually move into Conscious Competence. We are doing it, albeit imperfectly as neophytes. We talk our way, struggle, though it.

We spend the longest time in Conscious Competence talking our way through it, celebrating the changes or criticizing the frustrations. Most people aren’t very positive learners, having gone through our educational system public and private. We suck.

You Go Where Your Thoughts Take You – So Stay Positive

We suck at learning. We think we should be further along than we are. We want to be perfect right from the start. We pressure ourselves while learning which makes it more difficult. More than that, learning is not just knowing, but successfully doing things.

HOW we go through this phase determines, to a large extent, how soon we get to Unconscious Competence. Unconscious Competence means we make the new behaviors reliable habits that are automatic so we don’t have to think about doing it any longer.

We go through this sequence learning everything  For example,  learning to drive a car. You talk your way through it consciously. One day you find yourself driving while doing other things. You get lost in thought, converse, bop to music, and more, all the while driving.

The More You Do The More You Can Do – Skill Comes Of Doing

If you want to get to Unconscious Competence sooner get out of your own way. Realize the more  fun, discovery, and celebrating of ‘wins’, and even the goofy moments, with joy and enthusiasm, and high vibe, allows you to learn much more quickly. You get it faster.

You learn, not only more quickly but easily, when your attitude is right. Accept there will be plateaus and setbacks on the learning curve and you learn it easier. The more you enjoy the process, the more readily you transform, all while living more fully as you do.

AFTER all, why suspend living your best life presently while you are learning how to do it? The more high vibe and joy you do everything the more your life qualitatively transforms from okay to marvelous. Plus, you become Unconsciously Competent in living your best life ever. It is a marvelous and unprecedented opportunity to live well and live large even while learning how to do it. So celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Stop It Drop It Let It Come To You!

“How do you get ahead and succeed? What kind of mindset do you need? These questions plague many people. The answer is quite simple. For most people, the problem is they don’t do what they should to be effective. They don’t do what is necessary to succeed.

They don’t commit nor persist. You must learn to maintain focus on your desired result and not waver. Locked on laser like focus is necessary. Focus on the dream or goal as completed. You are already it. You are doing it. You have it. Focus on this and feel good.

Feel how good it feels! Don’t be concerned with ‘how’ to make it happen. Stop attempting to dictate ‘how’ you bring it about, ‘how’ you manifest or attract it. Focus on the incredible feelings of having it. Vibe high. Let go of ‘how’. Stay focused on it already as yours!

Get Out Of The Way – Stop Preventing Yourself From Having

Yes, take steps toward getting it but let go of insisting on how it comes to you. It could come in expected or unexpected ways. Most likely, you won’t even see it coming, but it will. If you stay focused and dedicated it will surprise you how it shows up. So, let go and allow. Keep the faith. Stay focused and do not waver. Enjoy and delight. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Do This Without Fail. You Will Be Glad You Do!

“Be sure to spend time with high vibe, positive friends and family. Savor the relationships with people you can uplift, and whom can uplift you. Do not neglect the people who surround you. People are the greatest resources we have. Not things. Not events. People!

Love people. Enjoy those who are important to you. Make people around you feel important. Treat them well. Help them smile more. Inspire and encourage them. What goes around comes around. Go the extra mile and others will do the same for you. Enjoy all. Your relationships are important. Love, forgive, allow, accept! Nurture them. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Be Here And Now Instead Of There Then And You Can Have Everything!

When it comes to vibes there is always an interplay between where we are now and where we want to be. The here and now and the over there, then. This causes some distress because we aren’t really here, now, we are busy thinking about where we want to be instead.

We should focus on vibing high, as high and as positive, and as feeling good, as we can right now. As a result, we attract and create and bring all the good stuff from ‘then’ into this moment. When we are completely it, we ARE completely it! Get it? I mean, do you?

When we feel it and live it right now; when we feel the wonderful feelings we would feel then, right now, there is no difference, or distance, between what we are now feeling and doing and what we want to come to us. Get that? We ARE it. Therefore all is good. We are already THAT which we want to create. Imagine how incredible this is. This is how to live your best life right now. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What You Can And Should Do Today

“Don’t let the source of a quote prevent you from enjoying the principle behind the quote. Apply this thought and you can transform your life. It is the adherence to a powerful mindset that will see you through all trouble and onto victory. Apply and benefit.

‘This is the day the lord has made. We will rejoice and be glad in it’ Be thankful. Rejoice in this day. It is the only day you presently have. It is a day of completion! Miracle shall follow miracle. Fill your heart with joy. Feel blessed. Celebrate the day. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Quote Psalm 118:24 NKJV

No Joke: You Have To Do This!

“If all you did was work, work, work, life wouldn’t have much meaning, would it? You can’t spend all your time working at making money, working on your health and well-being, working on your relationships or on improving yourself, can you? Would you?

Is it worth it? No! Absolutely not! Life is for living, loving, having fun, relaxing, letting go and having some peace. If you can’t enjoy your life then it probably is all work, or it is all stress. That’s not good. If you aren’t enjoying your life then you need to make some changes.

Add some smiles and laughter. Add in some playtime and have some fun. Play with an animal or a child. Let go and do something silly. Sing, dance, skip, jump and enjoy life. Go camping, have a cook-out, throw a party, sneak away and safely skinny dip. Live a little, a lot!

I Have To Sing Dance And Ha Cha Cha – Let Go And Live Large

All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy. If all you do is work on yourself , things or your job or career, you are out of balance. You may get ahead but not live long enough to enjoy the fruits of your labor. Instead, find a way to add humor into your days and nights.

Take circumstances and your life lightly! Crack a smile. Tell a joke. Listen to some jokes, some wonderful music, watch some funny movies. Just do things that make your experience more enjoyable. Gift yourself. If you don’t enjoy your life NOW, when will you?

If you put it off for some day, remember, some day never comes. It is not a day of the week. Today, is all we have. Live your life now! You can still work, just add in enjoyment so it makes all the work worth it. Stop taking yourself so seriously. Get it? Live, love, laugh and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Get Along With Others

“A lot of us have friction with family and friends. Many get into unwanted and unnecessary, even terrible, arguments. Would you like to know how to get along better? Nothing will change unless you do something different from what you’re currently doing. Get it?

You may or may not like the answer BUT it works! It actually works great but there is a caveat. It doesn’t work if you don’t implement it. If you want your life to change you must change some of the things you are thinking and doing in your life! You must put this to use!

Getting along begins with you! You must go first. You make the effort. Never expect the other to go first. They follow your lead if they are willing. This way you put an end to your unrealistic expectations and you are in control of yourself.

Respect People’s Feelings It Could Mean Everything To Them

You can only be in charge of you. The mistake people make is thinking they can control others. If they don’t think it, somehow they still attempt it. Let go of control. Let go of manipulation. Be the kind of person people naturally want to get a long with.

Just the other day I was at a gathering. There were a couple of people there who were in support groups. An older gentleman and a younger woman. Both were absolutely delightful. At one point the young woman shared an exciting new group she discovered

She very gladly told this gentleman during the discussion. He immediately dismissed her comment by stating, ‘I don’t like that group. It does nothing for me.’ I remained silent as I was not party to the conversation and merely overheard a portion of it.

Control Your Emotions And Your Mouth And Respect Others

However, I could see the young woman take the ‘hit’ immediately. I felt for her. She is enthused. She is eager to share. She made an exciting new discovery for herself and this gentleman squashed it no sooner than she spoke it. I get that he did not intend to. Still, he did.

He was not aware of what he did nor how it affected her. He was just being himself. My point? Be sensitive. Be aware. You win more bears with honey than with vinegar. He could’ve simply said, ‘marvelous you found a group you enjoy.’ He didn’t have to express his opinion.

But that is what WE do. We express opinions. We even do it when others aren’t interested or when they are looking for some support. There is nothing wrong in having an opinion as long as one realizes, that is all it is. An opinion is not gospel. It is not a fact. It’s opinion!

Listen With Your Heart And Your Ears – Accept And Respect 

People argue opinions as facts on social media all the time. They unfriend people who they get upset and disagree with. That’s their choice. My point? Don’t go there. Stop creating friction. Learn tolerance. Learn patience. Learn how to support others. Be kind.

We cannot change their minds. Hence, the truism, ‘you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make the horse drink’. Yes, you can influence others and they may change their OWN mind, but you can’t change it for them. Instead of attempting control, be nice.

BE caring. Be supportive. Be kind. Be the kind of listener you hope to get at times. Stop inflicting your opinions and you will get further, faster, with some people. An author friend, opened his book with a very powerful statement. I read it in my teens or early twenties.

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‘You can please 50% of the people 50% of the time. The other 50% you will never please. So, you might as well learn to please yourself.’ I include it to say, know the odds of your influence. The percentages may not be correct, that isn’t the point. Stop trying to control others.

Be the change you want to see in others and the world. Be accepting. No, I am not saying accept hatred and violence. You know better than that. I am saying, in the course of normal conversation with family, friends and even strangers, have integrity and be respectful.

Be thankful and appreciative. Say ‘how wonderful’ and ‘how marvelous’ instead of raining on their parade. Attempt to not correct them but allow others to find their own way. Some people want to be happy sharing good news without being one upped or dissed. Get it? If you are grateful for your family and friends, and the opportunity to share, approach them differently. Be kind and giving. Be receptive. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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