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Attitude, Creating The Future, Positive Thinking, Success

Work On Yourself And You Can Make A Fortune!

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“If you work on your job, you’ll make a living. If you work on yourself, you’ll make a fortune.” Jim Rohn. This is an incredibly important concept to understand and embrace. Understand this, do what is necessary to change yourself and you can transform your life!

Sadly, most people work hard on most everything, except themselves, to get ahead. Develop yourself first and everything else falls into place. It isn’t what you do. It is WHO you become! Become the kind of person for whom life works together well. It is possible!

A problem is never solved at the level of the problem according to Einstein. Yet, when people run into problems they work harder on solving the problems. They get busy. They get serious. The create a flurry of activity but accomplish little.

You Are Where Your Thoughts Have Brought You

In order to transform the situation you must transform yourself. Then you are bigger than any obstacle or problem. When you change yourself things in your life can and will change. If a person is lost and doesn’t know what to do, doing more of that, doesn’t help, does it?

Mindset is everything. Your attitude determines your altitude. Stop majoring in minor things and major in being the best you, you can be. Create yourself as someone who can and does design and create your best life ever. No one can do it for you, but you can do it! Take charge. Decide now. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Responsibility, Results, Right Action, Success

You Will Never Have Or Succeed If You Never Do This!

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“I want to emphasize a principle from an important recent post. All the principles shared here are crucial to your success. They are the foundational material for being, doing and having anything you want in life. Your building can only go as high as the foundation is deep!

You must decide what you are worth! Establish your value. What are you worth? What do you deserve? Decide. Are you worth having the life of your dreams?  What is having the life of your dreams worth to you? What you are willing to do and give to become what you want?

Decide now! Act on it within 48 hours! Why 48 hours? You should act even sooner. 48 hours is the outer limit. When you decide to take an important step the sooner you implement the better. You make a commitment to yourself and act. You follow through on it! Get it?

The Major Value In Life Is Not What You Get But Who You Become

You keep your word. Someday never arrives. Today is the day. Now the only moment you have! 48 hours is a window for you to take action and prove to yourself that you do what you say and that you make things happen. You prove to yourself YOU are in charge!

THEN keep at it. Keep doing it. Persist and continue to follow through no matter what. Have courage and a steel will. Let nothing deter you from being, doing and having what you want.  Make yourself the person you want to be. Start living the good life.

Be, do and have what you want on your terms! Create your best life ever.  Remember, nothing is free. Cheap is cheap. You get what you pay for. Go for the best you allow yourself to have. Go first class in your mind and life. Expect good things. Have good things! Do it!

You Should Think – My Word Is Law – So Be It – I Make It Happen

Remember, you don’t go into the grocer and say, ‘give me food.’ You have to pay for it first! There is an exchange of money or energy.  A wood stove doesn’t give heat until you first load it up with wood, strike a fire and get it going. Your car doesn’t run on empty!

You fill it first. You had to do something first to get the money, to give to the gas station to fill your car, so you can drive it to where you want to go. Without your first actions you won’t get there. Get it? They won’t just give you free gasoline because…

There is no such thing as free or a free ride when it comes to personal change. You must pay first to get back. You give and receive. The Law Of Attraction says the same. You become what you think about most often. You get back what you first put out.

He Who Is Not Courageous To Risk Will Accomplish Nothing In Life

WHAT are YOU willing to do for yourself? What will you do to be, do and have anything and everything you want? What is it YOU WILL do? If you do little, then  expect little in return. YOU will determine the salary the universe returns to you based on your merit! Get it?

If you give nothing, you will get nothing. Losers only become bigger losers until they stop losing and determine to win. The decision to win carries with it the responsibility to act. Give to get! Get it? You must act in order to receive. Stop waiting and star initiating!

What are you willing to do? What are you willing to give? What price are you willing to pay to make your dreams come true? What are you willing to give up? What are you willing to sacrifice? What is it? You must determine what you will pay for what you want to get!

You Always Are Right Where Your Thoughts Take You

Some people won’t give up their favorite TV show. Would you? Would you say, I won’t watch streaming shows until I have what I want? Would you give up concerts? What about fishing? How about giving up gambling? How about dining out less or grabbing coffee?

What will you give up in order to get what you want? Money; how much will you spend to have? If you aren’t willing to change and pay the price then don’t expect to receive. Don’t expect to change. Stay the way you are because you will. Nothing much will be different.

Many people say they want things better but don’t do anything to make things better. They complain they cannot afford it. They don’t have time. The truth is you can afford anything you want when you prioritize. You will have to sacrifice for a while, but it is worth it!

What Will You Give – Pay – Sacrifice – To Become The Best You

People demonstrate what is important to them everyday by how they live, what they spend money, time and energy on. Everyday people let you see how serious they are about making their life glorious or living stuck or less than gloriously. What about you?

What is important to you? What is so important you will do anything positive and legal to make it happen? How will you allocate your resources differently? These are important questions! If you want new friends you don’t get them hanging around the old ones!

You have to change things in your life if you want things in your life to change! You must put gas in your car in order to get where you are going. YOU must pay someone for the gasoline. SO what will it be for you? Are you important enough to you to get what you want?

Mistakes Are More Honorable And Useful Than Doing Nothing

Do you understand this? You aren’t entitled to anything. You won’t luck into it. You can create it and make it happen. If you want to make dinner decide what you want to have, travel and shop, pay the grocer, gather the food and spices, your supplies and pay for them.

You must pay to travel; your means of transportation. You must pay for what you traveled in and what you wear out to the store. Your groceries, the utensils, cooking medium and where you cook. If you live in a jungle much is still the same. You still gather and create.

It doesn’t mysteriously happen without your effort.  You must commit your time, energy and money, to make things happen. People want free stuff all the time. They whine and complain they can’t afford things. They live in lack and stay there rather than changing.

Don’t Fear Dying – Fear Living With Nothing To Die For – Live Fully

I hope by now you are not one of them?  However, as I said before, if you’re happy where you are at, god bless you. If not, then DO something to make a difference for yourself. Stop missing out, stop excusing or blaming and pay the price! Pay what it costs!

Pay whatever it costs to make your life what you want it to be. Make your life incredible! If you don’t known  how YOU CAN LEARN HOW AND YOU CAN LEARN HOW TO DOIT! Everything worth having is worthing fighting for and making it happen. Become it!

Decide what you are worth! Keep asking yourself! What are you worth? Do you love and care enough for yourself to make good things happen? What can you do to get what you want? What are you are willing to do, and give, and sacrifice to become that?

Commit To Create Your Best Life Ever – Live Your Dreams – Today

Henry Ford said, when he knew what he wanted he never let ‘no’ or ‘I can’t’ interfere. You need to decide. Decide now! Then act on it within 48 hours! Make yourself the person you want to be. Start living the good life. Be, do and have what you want on your terms. Create your best life ever. Celebrate now! Celebrate then! I am here to help. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Creating The Future, Overcoming Limitations, Procrastination, Responsibility

If Not You Then Who?

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“If you don’t run your mind and brain, if you don’t take charge of your thoughts and feelings, if you don’t take charge of your life and make it what you want it to be, then who will? If you aren’t living YOUR dream you are living someone else’s dream. Is this what you want?

How do you want to live? If you aren’t working for yourself you are working for someone else? If you aren’t managing and thinking the thoughts you want to think, then someone or something else is running your show? Are you the driver in your life or passenger?

Why be a victim of your own negative programming? Learn to design your mind and your life. Design the inside of your head to be sumptuous, savory, and incredible. Make your inner world rich and full. Consider these next statements very, very carefully.

The Present – You Are Where Your Thoughts Have Brought You

Napoleon Hill said, ‘If you can conceive it and believe it you can achieve it.’ He further said, ‘When riches come, and they will come, it will never be the result of hard work.’ That is why the book title is, ‘Think and Grow Rich’. Learn to take charge of your thoughts.

When you do your entire experience can be transformed. When you put yourself in the driver’s seat of your life’s vehicle you can steer it anywhere you want. As a passenger you only get taken for a ride. It is your choice. How do you want to live your live? Decide now.

Take action. Change! Transform yourself into the person you always wanted to be. Stop waiting and start doing. Now is the only time you have. Stop putting off. Stop making excuses. Start acting and doing those things, inside and outside, that make you who you want to be.

The Future – You Will Be Where Your Thoughts Take You

Live your life to the fullest. Stop being okay and become fantastic! Let yourself be filled with delight, love and joy. Learn and grow. Evolve yourself! Stop being stuck and start moving ahead.  A plant is either growing or dying. Which are you? What do you want? Begin now. Celebrate everything!”

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Responsibility, Results, Right Action, Success

What Would You Give Up To Get What You Want?

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“Nothing is free. Cheap is cheap. You get what you pay for. You don’t go into the grocer and say, ‘give me food.’ You have to pay for it first.  A wood stove doesn’t give heat until you first load it up with wood, strike a fire and get it going. Your car doesn’t run on empty. Get it?

Napoleon Hill, and others, have stated, there is no such thing as free when it comes to personal change. You must pay first to get back. The Law Of Attraction says the same. You become what you think about most frequently. You get back what you first put out.

So my question to you is, what are you willing to do for yourself to be, do and have anything and everything you want? What is it YOU will do? If you do little, expect little in return. You will determine the salary the universe returns to you based on your merit!

Nothing Is Free – You Must Pay The Price To Understand The Value

If you give nothing, you get nothing. If you give frustration, sadness and anger you will get that back. Losers only become bigger losers until they stop losing and determine to win. The decision to win carries with it the responsibility to act. Give to get! Get it?

What are you willing to do? What are you willing to give? What price are you willing to pay to make your dreams come true? What are you willing to give up? What are you willing to sacrifice? What is it? You must determine what you will pay for what you want to get!

Some people won’t give up their favorite TV show. Would you? Would you say, I won’t watch streaming shows until I have what I want? Would you give up golfing? What will you give up in order to get what you want? Money, how much will you spend to have?

Everything Is Energy – Money Is Energy – Time And Focus – Flow

If you aren’t willing to change and give and pay the price then don’t expect to receive. Don’t expect to change. Stay the way you are. You must put gas in your car in order to get where you are going and you must pay someone for the gasoline. SO what will it be for you?

Do you understand this? You aren’t entitled to anything. You don’t luck into it. You create it and make it happen. If you want to paint or sew or build a piece of furniture you must gather the materials, supplies and tools and then craft and fashion it. You do first!

It doesn’t mysteriously happen without your effort, without your time, energy and even income, invested in making it happen. People want free stuff all the time. They whine and complain they can’t afford things. They live in lack and stay there rather than changing.

You Never Really Value It – Unless You Earn It – And Pay For It

Are you one of them?  If you are happy where you are at, god bless you. If not, then do something to make a difference for yourself. Stop missing out, stop excusing or blaming and pay the piper. Make beautiful music! Learn how. Great news YOU CAN LEARN AND DO!

Decide what you are worth and what you are willing to do and give to become what you want. Decide now! Act on it within 48 hours! Make yourself the person you want to be. Start living the good life. Be, do and have what you want on your terms. Create your best life ever. Celebrate now! Celebrate then! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Creating The Future, Deliberate Creation, Positive Thinking, Procrastination

The Trouble With Waiting To Take Action

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“People who wait do one thing. They wait. Then, they continue to wait. You must realize the only time you have, is this moment. This moment is all there is. The next moment may never come. Opportunity can slip away. Act now. Stop procrastinating. Do it!

Don’t wait to make your dreams come true. Conditions will never be perfect. To think they may be is a great deception. Climates change, conditions change. There are highs and lows. Waiting for the right moment will cause you to loose out many, many times.

I’m not speaking of gambling or risk taking behavior, I am talking about making your life what you want it to be. Create your best life ever. Don’t put it off. I knew a guy who never dated because he didn’t want to bring a woman to his ‘crummy little home’. So he missed out.

30 years later is remains without a lover in his life because conditions were never right. It is sad, because he wishes it were otherwise. STOP! Make what you want to happen right now. Learn to behave in new ways. Act in your own best interests.

Say ‘YES’ to life and take charge. Live! Learn something new. Do something new. Create something you want. Make it happen. Experience the joy of action. Live love, laugh and enjoy! Right this instant. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Creating The Future, Letting Go, Living In The Moment, Positive Thinking

Savor The Seconds: Create Your Best Life!

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“Savor the seconds. Make your moments magical. Create your best life ever every instant. Live life to the fullest. Never let anything prevent you from positive good for yourself and others. Deliberately create your life. Make your dreams come true. Begin today!

Each step you take in the right direction gets you closer to where you want to go. With each step be sure to stop, smell the roses and appreciate where you are. Don’t miss the journey for the destination. It is what it is. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Creating The Future, Getting Over The Past, Overcoming Limitations, Responsibility

Stop Being Ruled By Your Excuses!

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“Stop being ruled by your excuses! Stop being ruled by negativity. Stop being ruled by debt or lack. Stop being ruled by lack of confidence. Stop letting yourself whine, complain or excuse yourself. Tough love here. Step up to the plate and take responsibility.

The calvary ain’t coming. No one will rescue you. Only you can change your life for the better. Nothing will change if you don’t proactively change it. You need to be reading inspirational material everyday! The correct inspirational material. Choose wisely.

You need to be engaged with making your life better. You need to be visualizing and affirming. You need to manage your thoughts and feelings and overcome the limiting beliefs and excuses that hold you back. You need to be listening to inspirational audios.

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

You need to be attending events, and workshops. It is said you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. Well, perhaps you need to seek some new higher vibe friends. Still, love the old ones, but level up. It is completely in your hands.

You have all the resources to make any change. You may not have discovered this yet for yourself, but it is an accurate statement. You may be blinded by your chronic, habitual limited thinking that has always held you back. It’s time to get over that! Don’t you think?

If you want your life to change you must change things you are thinking, feeling and doing! If you always do what you always did you will always get what you have always got. Be different. Invest in yourself. Go the extra mile. Leap into newness. It may be scary.

The More We Do The More We Become Capable Of – Do It!

All change may be scary and uncomfortable. It means stretching outside of your comfort zone. You need to develop an unstoppable attitude and unshakable confidence in yourself. You need to develop a love for new ways of being. You need to stop stopping yourself!

Stop holding yourself back. When you engage in what I have just shared with you, you will get new positive and powerful results. Join in with others who are making a difference and can assist you, but you still have to do it! When you do, you can surprise yourself.

Life gets good when you stop interfering and move forward. Allow yourself to dive into life deeply and positively. It can be safe and yet scary. It can be scary AND you can do it safely too. Be grateful. Engage. Get enrolled in life. Get going on creating your best life ever! Stop waiting and take some action. Today is the only today you will ever have. Don’t miss it! Transform yourself and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Happiness, Living In The Moment, Positive Thinking, Responsibility

Moments Matter! How Do You Spend Them?

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“There is one simple thought you can keep in mind that will help you through the doldrums, when life is ‘boring’, which it should never be, but some people allow it. When life is upsetting there is something to remember that can make a big difference for you, when applied.

‘Make the most of each moment!’ Time is all we have really. Time keeps slipping away. Moments become months, months become years. Don’t miss out on all the great moments you can have. Make your moments count. They don’t happen to you.

You happen to them! ‘If it is to be it is up to me,’ the saying goes. People who wait for things to happen to, or for, them will be caught waiting when ‘the big transition’ comes. Don’t wait, make! Make good things happen. The goal is to always feel a little bit better.

If It Is To Be It Is Up To Me – Make The Most Of Each Moment

Do anything that helps you feel better and makes the moment more enjoyable. Then you will. When you consistently do this, repeatedly over a long enough time, you develop the habit and your life become richer. Why? Because you made it so. Be grateful. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Anger, Boundaries, Challenges, Conflict

What To Do When Someone Rags On You!

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“Far be it from me to tell you what to do or how to live. There are numerous choices and responses when someone is verbally wailing on you or creating a hassle. You have to choose. This option has worked for me. I am happy to share. It is quite simple.

It is not always easy. When some assaults you verbally, warranted or not, I find the best response is to hold my tongue. Adopt the attitude that they are correct and have useful feedback for to learn. It is really an opportunity. The verbal attack will pass eventually.

I forgive them and myself for harboring any thoughts of revenge. What I discovered long ago, is that, when someone unleashes their fury on you, and blames or accuses you, typically it is misplaced anger or some emotion. Firing back only exasperates it.

How Others Judge You May Be More About Them Than You

Responding in kind, or attempting to defend, only brings more as it pushes them into fight or flight. So hold you tongue. Simply say, ‘Okay, thanks. I hear you.’ or something to that effect. Watch your tone and your non-verbals.  You can’t look menacing and say this.

You have to really convey that you get it. It is all okay. Thanks for the feedback. ‘I’m sorry’. I do not mean you assume as passive role or give in to them, but if the relationship is meaningful to you, it is best not to cross swords, but let their fury pass. Then discuss it.

Honor the person with love and acceptance. Your behavior may not make any difference to them. They may still unleash but if you are smart, you will take what they are saying as an opportunity to self-reflect and see if there isn’t some merit to what they say.

Be Open To Feedback – Be Willing To Learn And To Change

There usually is, even if it isn’t as exaggerated as they make it. The most important thing to do is look for the gold within the other person and not get caught up in negativity. Accentuate the positive and shower the person silently with love. This helps you the most.

As long as their behavior doesn’t constitute a pattern of verbal or physical abuse,  but the occasional ranting of a loved one, this can work wonders. It can help heal and smooth over disruptive or explosive arguments. Be grateful. Be compassionate.

Be kind and loving. Allow them to be who they are, even when  you may not like it. Hopefully, they will learn to do the same for you. BUT if not, you have chosen a higher road. Believe it or not, they may actually be correct in their assessments, too. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Attitude, Focus, Habit Formation, Overcoming Difficulty

Learn How To Put Your Success And Happiness On Automatic!

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“If you feel like you need more time or money, you’d be better served if you stay focused on what you love, enjoy and can do, than the shortage you experience. Keeping your mind tuned to the positive and creating positive feelings is far more productive. Uplift yourself.

Focusing on what you need, and don’t have, only makes one feel worse and spiral down. You don’t want to do that. Stop thinking about lack. Start thinking, and keep thinking, about what you enjoy, and what you can enjoy. Stay focused. Stay grateful. Stay focused.

It may not make sense to you, if you aren’t yet ready to hear this, but remaining positive in the face of difficulty, IS your best option. It is the best plan, and the best choice, you can make. Whenever you find yourself thinking otherwise, shift back to the positive.

What You Focus On Is What You Get 

Many things are accomplished when you do this but I will simply site two. Your awareness increases. You recognize when you are thinking and feeling less than glorious and you do something to change it. You are claiming your power and making things happen.

It first must begin within you. You get your power back and you become aware of how and when you use it, or when you don’t. You become the captain of your own ship. You are in charge. You set the course and navigate it. Get it? You become more awesome!

When you are more awesome you begin seeing, and finding, other incredible opportunities around you. Your outlook changes and your life, and experience, begins to transform. You will only notice how absolutely mind-blowing it is, after you make these changes.

Speak Only To Think Heal And Prosper – Manage Your Thoughts

Once you make managing your thoughts and feelings a reliable automatic habit, everything changes. You stop living from unsuccessful, non-productive and non-supportive, habits and begin living from successful ones. Change your mind and you change your life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Horizons photo used with permission of Phil Koch