“When you decide to move forward all of your inner resources align to make that happen. When you make a congruent decision everything can positively change for you. Tremendous power, positivity and potential combine the instant you truly decide.
You set in motion forward movement. Once you decide, anything, it is important to take some action steps towards fulfilling it within 24 – 48 hours. Taking some action, no matter how small, tells your brain you are serious about the decision you made. So, follow through.
At the same time, all of your subconscious beliefs, limitations, conflict or issues rear their ugly head. This is why doubts occur. You make a decision to change and then face doubt. Don’t worry. Relax. It is a normal part of the transformation process. It really is.
A Decision Has The Power To Transform Your Life In An Instant
For example, you think, ‘I’m going to be more loving to my children, or partner, no matter what.’ As soon as you make that decision, the subconscious, the universe, infinite intelligence, or god, whatever you call it, gives you every opportunity to adhere to that decision.
You may get every kind of behavior from them, or circumstances or event that seems to challenge your ability to remain loving. Conflicts arise. Issues now face you. You just want to be loving no matter what and now the shit hits the fan. What is up with that? What gives?
Well guess what? You face these ‘dilemmas’ in order to learn how to remain loving no matter what. These are situations for you to learn, develop, evolve and grow by because, otherwise, what would your decision or pledge be worth? Your ability to remain loving is tested.
Everything Changes – Become Aware – Delight In The Process
The universe conspires to make you the best you there is. In order to be the best at what you decided you have to clear out those blocks, those issues, those limiting beliefs, those negative thoughts and doubts that prevent you from being loving at all times. Get it?
If it were easy, you never have to make the decision. You get that? You get the experiences you need as a means of educating you, teaching you, and assisting you in becoming the better person you decided to be. Resistance makes muscles grow stronger.
It doesn’t matter what you decide. If you decide you want to become rich, you can bet you will most likely face every issue about poverty and money difficulties and lack that you harbor within you. They’ll come flying up in your face. This is a good thing! It really is! Get it?
If You Always Do What You Did You’ll Always Get What You Got
How else will you ever get rid of, or drop, that old prior conditioning that has held you back. You encounter it so you can let it go and move forward. Whatever you decide, the counter side of it will come at you. Most people run from this. They complain. They whine.
They blame god, the universe, the economy, other people, and claim the universe sucks and nothing to is working. BUT it IS totally working! It’s helping make you a better you! It’s a blessing in disguise! It IS an opportunity. Please, understand this. Please!
It appears to suck but it is offering you everything you need to move forward and go higher. It is assisting you. It’s helping you live from your decision and the commitment you made. Yes, you’ll be challenged. You’ll be tested. This is a good thing! Feel grateful.
You Always Have The Power To Choose
You are blessed. Be thankful! You have the opportunity to let go and transform. Diamonds are created under pressure. When those moments come, even if you succumb to them, even if you aren’t loving every moment, this is how you learn to be. Fall, get up!
You get tested. You pass. You get tested. You fail. You fall. You get up and get tested again. You pass or you fail. It is a process. In this process IS how you become more loving, or become rich, or whatever it is you want. You grow by being challenged.
You evolve through being forced to be loving, or maintain the faith, in situations when it would seem reasonable to not be. When you get this, and if you understand this point, so much of your life will change. There is great power in making a decision! It’s good!
You Are Choosing Every Moment Whether Or Not You Realize It
Just know, that when you do, you’ll have the opportunity to encounter the opposite of what you’re hoping for, as a clearinghouse, to become the best you possible. You should be grateful. Be happy and celebrate all of it. Appreciate the process.
Lessons keep coming until you actually get it. Once you have learned and you have altered you’re mindset, your feelings, and your behaviors; once you have transformed, you don’t need the lessons anymore. You only need them until you get it. Do you get this?
These circumstances, issues and doubts come up, again and again, so that you can see them, recognize and become aware of them and drop them. They are flashlights illuminating what otherwise would be left in darkness. They arise so you can move past them.
I Am A Product Of My Decisions Not Because Of Circumstances
It is a blessing that won’t seem like it unless you make it a point to recognize it as a blessing. If you say, ‘oh my god it’s happening again! Why is it happening? Why do these things always happen to me? What’s wrong? Why am I doing these crappy things?’
Then you’ll stay that way because what you focus on is what you get more of. If you blame yourself, or others, and whine and complain about yourself, and your behaviors, or theirs, the challenges you get, you will never get past them. Instead, you will perpetuate them.
Because you will spend all your time with whining and blaming and complaining. In order to get past this and evolve you need to accept the process, recognize it for what it is and be thankful. It truly is a blessing helping you release old crappy conditioning.
Your Destiny Is Shaped By The Decision You Make – Celebrate
Your decision triggered it. Be glad! Contained within adversity are seeds of opportunity. You get that which seems ‘not so good’, the challenges, along with all the real cool things that can occur as a result of your decision. Move forward boldly and with compassion.
Make decisions. Follow through. Accept the process and enjoy all of it. Your entire life can now transform for the positive in incredible ways. Transformation means you trans-form. Things change and become different. You rise from the ashes a Phoenix. Love yourself, be grateful and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes
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