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What To Do When Someone Rags On You!

“Far be it from me to tell you what to do or how to live. There are numerous choices and responses when someone is verbally wailing on you or creating a hassle. You have to choose. This option has worked for me. I am happy to share. It is quite simple.

It is not always easy. When some assaults you verbally, warranted or not, I find the best response is to hold my tongue. Adopt the attitude that they are correct and have useful feedback for to learn. It is really an opportunity. The verbal attack will pass eventually.

I forgive them and myself for harboring any thoughts of revenge. What I discovered long ago, is that, when someone unleashes their fury on you, and blames or accuses you, typically it is misplaced anger or some emotion. Firing back only exasperates it.

How Others Judge You May Be More About Them Than You

Responding in kind, or attempting to defend, only brings more as it pushes them into fight or flight. So hold you tongue. Simply say, ‘Okay, thanks. I hear you.’ or something to that effect. Watch your tone and your non-verbals.  You can’t look menacing and say this.

You have to really convey that you get it. It is all okay. Thanks for the feedback. ‘I’m sorry’. I do not mean you assume as passive role or give in to them, but if the relationship is meaningful to you, it is best not to cross swords, but let their fury pass. Then discuss it.

Honor the person with love and acceptance. Your behavior may not make any difference to them. They may still unleash but if you are smart, you will take what they are saying as an opportunity to self-reflect and see if there isn’t some merit to what they say.

Be Open To Feedback – Be Willing To Learn And To Change

There usually is, even if it isn’t as exaggerated as they make it. The most important thing to do is look for the gold within the other person and not get caught up in negativity. Accentuate the positive and shower the person silently with love. This helps you the most.

As long as their behavior doesn’t constitute a pattern of verbal or physical abuse,  but the occasional ranting of a loved one, this can work wonders. It can help heal and smooth over disruptive or explosive arguments. Be grateful. Be compassionate.

Be kind and loving. Allow them to be who they are, even when  you may not like it. Hopefully, they will learn to do the same for you. BUT if not, you have chosen a higher road. Believe it or not, they may actually be correct in their assessments, too. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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When Will You Stop Stopping Yourself?

“What holds you back from being, doing and having everything you want in life? If there weren’t something you’d already be it, do it and have it, wouldn’t you? So what stops you from living your dreams? Discovering the answer and eliminating that can change everything.

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I asked some questions in the audio blog, from the Virtual Summit and I’d like to go over those with you. These are important questions to consider. If you give actually ask, entertain and reflect on these  they can help you to create the kind of life you want to live more of.

What do you want? Clarify it. Be specific. If you say you don’t know what you want, then what is it you absolutely do not want? Once you know what you don’t want, reverse it. What do you want instead of that? Get to the bottom of what you want. Get clear about it.

What stops you from having it right now? Something must or you would already have it, right? So what is it? Why don’t you have it? Once you know that it is some block or limitation or experience from your past, you can begin to get over it. Be honest with yourself.

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

When will you stop, stopping yourself? When will you  move forward on what you want? When will you do this? Will you begin now? Decide. Only you make decisions for your life. No one else and no experience from the past decides for you. You must choose!

YOU decide. So when will you go for it? If you don’t know how or need help, that is why I write this blog. I am here. I can help you but I can’t do it for you. I can be a guide but you have to take the steps. Get clear about what holds you back and where you want to go.

You may not know how to get past the blocks yet,  but decide  you will. You don’t have to know how. You just have to really want to, as a first step. You must also know where you want to end up. That is why I asked you what you want. Get clear in your own mind. Get it?

Our Only True Limitations Exist In Our Thinking 

If everything in your life is okay, keep doing what you are doing if you are living a fabulous, joy-filled life. If not, and life could be better, but it isn’t yet, are you open to some options? If yes, fantastic. If no, you are not, that is okay too. It is always your decision. Which is it?

If you are open there are options. You can email me regarding some of these at createyourbestlifewithrex@gmail.com I can let you know some of what is available. Meanwhile, practice gratitude. Ask and answer the questions. Do some real soul-searching and be glad.

You can get clear and move forward and begin to make your life more of how you want it. An important step is practicing gratefulness daily. The more grateful and appreciative you are the better life becomes. So take some time each day to count your blessings and really focus on them and how good it feels. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Parable Of God The Farmer And The Wheat Crop

“So many readers responded favorably, I thought I’d share another story. God was minding his business when approached by an old, weathered farmer who had an axe to grind. God could see the man was not pleased. ‘ What gives?’ Asked God. ‘Need something?’

The man said quite angrily, ‘You may be the  big guy, you may be top dog, god, yada yada yada ,who flung the stars into the sky and created the world, but you don’t know the first thing about farming. You are not a farmer at all! You have got a lot to learn, pal!’

God asked, ‘What do you suggest I do? The farmer said, ‘Give me a year! One bloody year. Leave everything to me. Don’t interfere. Let me run it. I’ll take care of everything. You do what I say because I know what works. You’ll see how it works. You big enough to do it?’

What We Call Failure Is Necessary –  Through Struggles We Learn

‘At the end of a year there will be no poverty at all. You will see!’ God was game. He gave the farmer one year. The farmer asked god for the best of everything. Great weather. No storms, no lighting or thunder. No high winds. No high heat. Everything was perfect.

When the farmer wanted rain it rained. When he asked for sun he got sun. The wheat crops were growing fast and high. They grew taller than they ever had. Everything was perfect and comfortable. Everything was easy and the farmer was thrilled and delighted.

He approached god and said, ‘What did I tell you. Take a look at these crops. Bigger and better than ever. Did I tell you, or what? We have a bountiful harvest coming that will feed people for a decade! Aren’t you glad you put me in charge? You learned something I bet.’

Man Needs Difficulties – They Are Necessary For Health

When the crops were harvested there was no wheat inside. Empty! The farmer was shocked and dismayed. He asked god, ‘What happened? What went wrong?’ God said, ‘Because there was no conflict, no storms, no challenges to the crops, they didn’t grow’.

‘You avoided everything that would cause them to grow strong. You wanted everything perfect and comfortable which made the wheat impotent. Storms, high winds, dry spells, lightening all challenge the crop and help it grow strong and firm and vital. You avoided that.’

“Struggle is necessary for it to be vital. Challenge is good for the soul of the wheat.’ Don’t be like the farmer. Don’t try to escape challenge learn that it is as necessary as night is to the day. Muscles grow through resistance training. So do we. Understand this and you will grow strong and move forward faster. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Are You Cut Out For Happiness And Success?

“‘Success is the steady progression toward the realization of a goal,’ said, Earl Nightingale. Some give up while still progressing. They quit, throw in the towel on their career, romance, business or life goals. When quitting isn’t an option, most people can succeed.

Statistics demonstrate that most people quit right before they would have succeeded. Most businesses fail within a couple years. Had they been able to stick it out, they’d have soon succeeded. Are you cut out for success? Will you do what it takes to get to the top?

Mindset is the key factor that determines how far you go. You either decide you are all in, or you decide to opt out. No one can tell you when to cut your losses and change direction, but you. Of course, you can take advice from worthy mentors. That might be wise.

Winners Never Quit – Quitters Never Win – Which Are You

Choose someone one who has what you want and started out as you did. This mentor should be successful and knowledgeable in the lines you desire to get mentored about. Don’t go to a farmer about banking or a banker about farming. Get it? Go to a qualified expert.

When it comes to mindset, you can make awesome progress in your evolution alone, and especially with a good mentor.  Mindset determines how far you go, your level of commitment and persistence. Make it a point to daily work on your attitude.

Commit to positive, powerful thinking. Take charge. Learn how to direct your mind to go after your goals; to make happen what you want to make happen. Stop wishing and hoping things change and change them yourself. You can, when you realize you can.

Winners Fail But They Don’t Quit – Winners Fall But They Get Up

It is all up to you. Champions know this. It’s time you learned it, too. Champions aren’t born. Champions are made. They condition their mind and body and finely hone their mental and physical skills. They invest in themselves; their time, energy, even money, in making it so.

Don’t you think you deserve to be a champion? I do. I believe you can. You must believe it, too, because it doesn’t matter what I believe about you. Take hold of your thinking and feeling power and begin to make these work for you. When you do, truly, you will celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Stop Stopping Yourself! Keep Going!

“What is it that stops most people? A thought, a belief.  What is a belief? A thought you repeatedly think over again. What stops most people? A belief, a thought, repeatedly thunk (sic ;))  that limits you. A mental package of energy is what stops most people!

People don’t THINK they can. They think they don’t have enough money, love, free time, fun, of whatever. They believe that someone or something prevents them; the government, their parents, their upbringing, the weather, others, their own self, you name it.

They whine, complain, blame and excuse. STOP enough already!

Sometimes you just have to push on through! Be a warrior.  No matter what the obstacle is, decide you are bigger than it.  Let nothing stop you, not even yourself. Go for it. Make it happen. Act in spite of your mood or your fear. Act! Push through. Don’t be a wimp.

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Stop, stopping yourself. Quit, quitting. Never give up. Forget about wallowing and whining. Let go of distress and put your chin up, your chest out and stand tall. Feel your backbone and imagine you’re a giant. Marshall your resources and do something positive. Anything!

The overall goal is to feel your best most of your time. Make it a point to do that, no matter what you are facing. Resolve to be happy, healthy, wealthy, and successful. Be happy! Delight and consider everything a blessing. Practice gratitude and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Stop Being So Petty And Your Life Will Change!

“Life is filled with woes and challenges. So are the games we play. If we weren’t challenged in sports or board games of any kind, they would be dull and not worth the time spent. Life is filled with ups and downs. You can moan about it, or decide it is an adventure to enjoy!

Believe you can handle any situation that arises. You are bigger than any obstacle or challenge. You can learn from adversity instead of buckling under it. Focus your mind on what you want. Let go. You can’t control everything, but you can appreciate everything!

Give yourself room. Know that, believe with certainty, that things will always turn out for the best, given enough time. With the right attitude and focus you can over-come doubts and fears. You can overcome anything that prevents you from living your dreams

Obstacles Do Not Block The Path They Are The Path  – Enjoy All

Stop being petty and stingy with yourself. Start being your biggest fan. If you have to be selfish, determine that will include being, doing and feeling your best, and making the wisest use of your choices and time. Give generously to you, and others, and you’ll get more back.

Look for the good. Notice abundance all around you. Feel the good. Feel blessed. Feel healthy, wealthy and happy. Savor and enhance the good feelings. Vibrate high! Keep a gratitude journal. You will begin to notice more coming to you. Mindset is everything!

Your mindset and attitude determine what you create and attract. Keep in mind, even more than attraction, it is what you create that matters most. Some people just focus on the wrong things. Begin focusing on what you can do. You want to live the best life ever then enjoy everything, be grateful, feel blessed and celebrate everything! Rex Sikes

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