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You Will Never Have The Good Life Doing This!

“Stop and consider this. Why on earth would you ever get what you want while focused on what you don’t want? I mean really. If you wanted to come and visit me, but focused on every place I wasn’t at, how would you ever expect to get there? You wouldn’t, would you?

Yet, this is what people do all the time. They think, speak and affirm all the difficulty and issues they experience. They gleefully share bad news with family and friends. They out do each other with stories of woe. Do you think this leads to a more positive and productive life?

There is a reason for the statement, ‘misery loves company’. There is a reason for the statement, ‘birds of a feather flock together’. You get more of the same, whatever you are focused on. You don’t get its opposite. You don’t get to Milwaukee, talking about Texas.

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t – You Are Right

You must focus on where you want to end up regardless of where you are right now. That is the principle behind the GPS. It knows where you are and where you want to get to. It assists you in choosing the quickest path, and in some cases, avoiding blocks.

That is what affirming, what you want, does for you. It keeps the destination in  mind while you journey. If you want more good things in life, you must put and keep your attention on those. Energy flows where attention goes. You get what you think about most often!

You don’t get what you love, focused on what you hate. So, why do you persist? Habit. It has been a habit and you must learn to change the habit. That is why I write this blog to help you. That is why I have products and seminars for many years assisting people. Get it?

You Become What You Think About Most Often

Stop focusing on what your problems are and begin shifting your attention to what you want to be, do and have! No matter what circumstances present themselves, no matter where you are on the journey, stay focused. This is how you make it happen. Get it? Focus on what you want. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What Really Is The Law Of Attraction?

“The Law of Attraction is only a name and a bad one. Actually, the name isn’t the problem, it is what people think the name means. Many people think it means sitting in your room fantasizing for wealth and things. This is the issue with the concept. It is not that.

The same is the case with Positive Thinking. It too, has gotten a bad wrap. Positive Thinking does not mean going naively through life, wearing blinders and ignoring things that are happening, in favor of airy fairy platitudes. It isn’t about that at all.  Not at all! NOT at all!

Positive Thinking is maintaining a positive, ‘can-do’ mindset in the face of difficulty. It is solution focused. Someone always says, ‘yeah, you can think you can fly all you want, but gravity will prove you wrong.’ That is the issue. That isn’t positive thinking. It is foolish.

Believe In What You Want So Much You Actually Make It Happen

Positive Thinking is not thinking, ‘there are no weeds’. It is recognizing that you can take care of them. It is recognizing that you can successfully tend the garden. You can find the tools, and learn how if necessary, and enlist others too, if needed, but, you can do it.

Gravity is a law, as is the Law of Attraction. We work with the laws not against them. Laws mean they operate whether you believe they do or not. Hence, whether you think you can fly or not, gravity has an answer for you. However, positive thinkers were able to fly.

They worked with gravity and the principle of lift to overcome gravity’s force and propel a vehicle into the air. Had they not thought positively, that they could do this, that it might be possible, it would have never happened! They found solutions. They persisted.

Whether You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Rigth

The Law of Attraction, is one of a number of laws about the nature of human kind and consciousness. Together, these laws represent a system and a science for making thing happen. It is Cause and Effect, another law, and not airy fairy magic. If you work it right, it works.

Just as the Wright Brothers were able to work a plane up into the air, my explantations are the nuts and bolts to transforming yourself, shifting what you are doing on the inside, to get the results you want on the inside and the outside. Apply them and you will transform.

Do nothing and nothing will change, much. In order to change your life you must change things in your life. There is also the Law Of Action. Together with Positive Thinking and the Law Of Attraction you can become powerful and unstoppable. You can do it. Truly!

Thoughts Become Things – What You Focus On Expands

You can make things happen. You can be, do and have, anything you want, within reason, for yourself. As Napoleon Hill said, ‘If you can conceive it, and believe it, you can achieve it.’ That means you are doing it. Conceiving, believing and achieving are action steps.

Why do I say within reason? Because you don’t circumvent the Law of Gravity as  suggested in the previous example. Be realistic! Work with the laws. Put the laws to work and you will discover and incredible universe opens up to you. Do it! Discover for yourself! AND celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Can’t Have It Both Ways!

“Some people try and noticeably fail. You just cannot have it both ways. Instead of being focused and putting their attention into what they want to include and keeping it there, they get distracted. They focus on what they do not want. They end up wishy-washy.

That ambivalence is keeping you stuck, if that is what you do. You can’t have one foot on the dock and another on the boat and feel comfortable and well off. You can’t want wealth, while thinking and telling stories of scarcity, lack and hardship. It just doesn’t work!

You can’t have health, focused on illness. Nor, can you have love while focused on loneliness or resentment. You can’t have it both ways. You can’t have peace if you are a warmonger. Energy flows where you attention goes. The story you tell, is what you live from.

Singular Focus Creates Success – Divided Attentions Prevents It

In order to have what you want, you need to think, speak and act like you already have it. Pretend it in your mind. Feel all the good feelings of enjoying it, now, on the inside. As a kid you used your imagination. Successful, happy people still do! They know how to focus. Get it?

They know what to focus on. You can to! Do it today. Focus on what you want without paying any attention to not having it yet. Create an inner world where it is already yours. Stop telling stories to yourself and others of woe. Speak only to bless, heal and prosper!

Let go of the bad and focus only on the good. Let go of the scarcity and lack of anything, and only focus on including what you want. Be grateful for what you already have, whether it is little or a lot. Feel the appreciation. As you do, your energy will change. It really does!

Focus On Opportunities And You’ll Have More Opportunities

Be grateful. Gratitude works wonders. When you stay true to what you want and let go of the rest, you open doorways to create  it. When you stay true to one side, your mindset, your feelings, your energy and actions align. You align yourself totally with making it happen. That is power! Do it! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Who And What Are You Inviting Into You Life

“How is your life going? If it is not what you want it to be ,you want to consider what you are inviting or allowing in. Whatever you focus on, you give your attention to, your energy to, and you continue to enhance or amplify or perpetuate it. This is crucial to understand!

Whatever you focus on, you invite. You amplify. You perpetuate! Where your concentration is, where your mind is most of the day and night and how you feel, determines how you move through the world. It determines whether you get more goodness or not.

You don’t have to think in terms of Law Of Attraction. It isn’t anything ‘woo woo’. It is actually based in science. One simple example is the Law Of Cause and Effect. For every cause there is an equal and opposite effect. Your thoughts have an effect.

You Are Today Where Your Thoughts Have Brought You

If you push someone the person’s body responds. They may push back. Water under concentrated pressure can cut through rock. There is always an effect. If you think negatively, you will get more of the same. If you think positively, you will get more of the same.

What you aren’t likely to get is this: If you think negatively you won’t get positivity. Consider your thinking an invitation. Whatever you think, you invite more of. If you think ‘I am broke. I want money.’ You are essentially thinking, ‘Money doesn’t come to me.’

You aren’t inviting it by thinking of what you do not have. You aren’t attracting or creating money by thinking about what you don’t have or don’t want. Do you get this? You must think, concentrate and focus on that which you do want, without inviting the opposite.

Tomorrow You Will Be Where Your Thoughts Today Take You

If you think, ‘I want money because I don’t have any’ you’re thinking about what you don’t want. You’re thinking about the scarcity or lack of money. The same is true of love, romance, friendship, health or anything you desire. You attract or create what you focus on.

In order to get what you want, you need to focus on what you want and feel good about it. The good feelings drive the show. You want more good feelings. Feel good now. Think and do those positive things that help you feel your best, right now, in the present!

Good feelings create more good feelings. Get it? So celebrate what you have. Enjoy and delight in it. Feel good about it. Be thankful and appreciative. Be lighthearted. Live carefree. Know that all is well. This is how to create more goodness. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How Powerful Are You? Are You This Powerful?

“Are you making your career, your relationships, yourself and your life what you want it to be, or not? If not, what holds you back? What stops or prevents you from being, doing and having anything and everything you want? Have you ever considered this?

If you have, what are your answers. They’ll reveal much about what you think you’re able to do or not. Your answers will show you where you place control. You’re either in charge, or you’ve placed someone, or something outside yourself, in charge. GUESS WHAT?

If you have put others, or circumstances, in charge of you, and what you accomplish, you will mostly lose out. If you aren’t the captain of your own ship, someone, or something, is taking you for a ride. You may have never claimed your power before, but it is time to do so.

Happiness – It Is All Within Yourself – It Is In Your Way Of Thinking

Henry Ford’s statement, ‘If you think you can or you think you can’t, your right’ is a useful and powerful thought to embrace. If it is to be it is up to you. Your thoughts determine whether you will make it or not. Your mindset determines your chances. It’s all what you think!

You create and build what you want. This is what you must embrace. It is you doing it. You create and build what you want or you are creating and building what you don’t want. Get it? Either way, you are doing it. Don’t believe that, yet? Most likely, that’s the issue!

Instead of reacting and perpetuating what you do not want, it is either up to you, and within your power, to do something and pursue an objective, or you don’t think it is. In either case you are right. The results will be up to what you believe and do. Get it? Up to you!

The More You Do The More You Can Do – Success Breeds Success

Take charge. Get in control and steer the course of your life. You are so powerful, but you don’t even know it, if you haven’t claimed it. Learn to claim it and exercise your power to make marvelous, positive changes in your life.  Take control and make things happen.

Don’t wait.  Don’t expect others or luck to change. Learn to manage your thoughts, feelings and actions and create the best life you can. Study these blog posts and apply what you learn. You abilities and life can dramatically improve when you do! Get it? Meanwhile, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Live Your Dreams By Overcoming Limitations!

“Why do people get stuck? What stops them? Why do you stop yourself? What stands in your way? What are your reasons? Learn how can you overcome limitations, break through blocks and positively live your best life, being, doing and having what you want?

I’ll not only cover what can limit you and what to do get free, but will share powerful tips, strategies and practices you can use to achieve your goals and live the life of your dreams. This podcast is a journey and exploration, rooted in discovering how to be your best you!

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I wanted to share this with you today! Enjoy the show. Learn lots and share what you learn. Sharing pays it forward AND it helps you remember it.

Podcast hosts: Tony Petrozza  & Rex Sikes

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Have a fabulous day! Learn to be, do and have what you want most. Learn how to create your best life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How You Define Success Could Hold You Back? Consider This!

“Sometimes people don’t succeed because of what success means to them. How we define success, can determine whether we are successful, or not. Whether we have realistic goals, expectations and time frames, matter greatly. It also matters what is important to us!

What do we focus on? What is it we value? Where do we put our attention? Are we mostly interested in things or in people? Do we consider relationships and what we can do for others, or do we only think, what is in it for me? This quote, is a great definition.

‘Success: To laugh often and much, to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children, to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others, to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition, to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.’ Ralph Waldo Emerson

I love it. What about you? Perhaps, you’d like to try that on. Not only is it lovely, it is practical and achievable. If you succeed in doing those things, you will feel good. Feeling good and succeeding breeds more of the same. Perpetuate goodness and it is returned to you. Have a blessed day succeeding. Enjoy, delight and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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