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It May Not Be Easy But It Is Almost Always Simple.

“It may not be easy but it is almost always simple. One reason why it seems difficult is people overthink and complicate things. They needn’t, but they do. This has been part of the conditioning process while growing up. It is also something we can overcome and change.

Most things are innately simple. We don’t believe it can be as easy as it is, so we get in our own way. We think it must be tougher, ‘I will never be able to do this’. We ask questions like, ‘why must it be so hard’? ‘How come shit always happens to me?’ We complain.

We think others have it easier. Hell, we KNOW they do, or so we think. Get it? What we often accept as true, our assumptions based on limited observations, are generally inaccurate and only part of the picture. We operate mostly on limited info. We don’t see it all.

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

We operate off of maps and those, by virtue of being a map, a representation of the territory, are incomplete. A partial representation at best. Our own neurology filters what is available to us so we don’t even know what we don’t know. Get that?

We aren’t aware that we aren’t aware. We operate as if the info in our head is truthful and accurate. None of it is. Some of it is supportive and some of it non-supportive based on what you want to accomplish. It is what it is. Filtered info about reality.

We mistake it as reality. We think it is, as we think it is. It isn’t but we will fight tooth and nail to prove it is what we think it is. So when someone says, ‘I can’t do this’, while it isn’t true at all, it is true for the person who thinks it is. It is gospel. They are sure of it.

You Go Where Your Thoughts Take You – Choose Thoughts Wisely

Until, they decide differently. Once they decide, it could be possible, they begin to open up new avenues of thought, feeling, behaving and being. Once a possibility exists there is new hope. What most do is rush to the new hope in the old way with old beliefs and limitations.

If you always do what you always did you will continue to always get what you always got. Then, they try the new thing, determine it is hard, and they can’t do it. Get it? It is a cycle that needs to be broken. You really do need to think new thoughts and live from new ones!

If you live from old conditioning you will always continue to get the same results you were getting before. If you want different, better, more positive and productive results you need to think, feel and behave in new ways. This is the first possibility to become aware of.

Skill Comes Of Doing – Repetition Is The Mother Of Success

Pitfalls and plateaus are part of the climb. It doesn’t mean something is impossible because it is difficult or because you have never done it before. Get out of your own way. Realize there will be challenges. Learn to embrace them. Enjoy the challenges. Accept them.

Keep moving toward the goal. Step by step you get there. JUST stay out of your own way. YOU can learn to do that, too. Learn to think differently and you will learn to feel differently. You will transform from someone who can’t to someone who can! You will transform!

You will become someone who finds Opportunity where none seemed to exist. You will learn to recognize when you are BS’ing yourself and stop it. You will discover change is simple and can be easier than you ever thought before. You’ll get better results.

Awareness Is The Key To Change – What You Focus On Expands

You’ll find that you can more easily overcome the tough times. You’ll understand the purpose of the less than glorious, or uncomfortable feelings and difficult obstacles, and use these to break loose from the old limitations that bound you. You will learn to think positively and powerfully to overcome fear, worry, doubt and procrastination.

You will take charge. You will discover you can build a champion mindset and skyrocket the positive results you want to get. You can be, do, and have anything you decide to make happen, because you go from victim to victor and you persist in your pursuits, no matter what. You find reasons to feel blessed and be grateful. You will and do celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What About Those Nasty People And Circumstances?

“Who do you listen to? Who do you pay attention to? Who are your teachers? When it comes to learning how open and available are you? How easily do you learn? Do you dabble? It is all up to you. Are you willing to do whatever it takes to master the material?

There are important teachers and mentors but those may be the subject of another blog post. I have already addressed these important influences. More importantly is another realization. When you realize this you entire life can instantly transfor,m.

Everyone IS already our teacher. Until we open our hearts we don’t realize it. We are blinded to that as a possibility.  Because we are so sure we know, we miss most everything. That is because we don’t know what we don’t know. We can’t see around the corner!

Awareness Can Lead To Massive Positive Transformation – Let Go

Every circumstance is our teacher. All the nasty, rude, difficult people and horrible circumstances provide lessons, opportunity and blessings, if we only become aware, open ourselves up to look and find them. We must be willing to look, to seek, in order to find.

All of our experience can teach us. Learning to be open, available , and see the good in everything is crucial to our happiness and success. Without the ability to let go and surrender we place most of our happiness on people, things and circumstances outside us.

We make the outer the key to our success and happiness when it comes from within instead. We need to correctly make attributions and as long as out focus is on people, places, things, events outside ourselves we miss out. We can’t know what we can’t know.

What We Focus On Expands – We Become What We Think About

We need to develop trust and faith that it is all good and all is there for our ultimate benefit whether difficult or easy. Our thinking determines how we feel about those things that happen to us. Our thinking makes happen, or at the very least, contributes to the same.

When we learn to change our thinking from negative to positive, when we learn to seek the good, the lesson and blessing in all things, when we learn to be truly grateful for all of it and let go of resistance but instead trust and surrender, our lives become blissful!

We become free. We enjoy a peace beyond description. This is available to you when you are ready to let go and learn from all. Let go and let god is an important saying to adopt. Invite the higher power, infinite intelligence, source, god, the divine, whatever you call it, to help you let go and learn. Learn to  Be. Learn to be present and thankful. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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If You Don’t Do This You Are An Idiot Manifestor!

“Manifesting is creation. You make it happen. You create the results you want. You are 100% responsible. Either you work at accomplishing your goal or you do not. Wishing won’t get you there but a positive and powerful mindset will. Mindset matters.

Everything begins with a thought. A chair, spoon, computer, product, book, piece of music or movie did not exist prior to someone thinking about it and then working to make it real. We translates ideas into physical reality through our actions. We make it happen.

This is true whether you are getting positive, ‘good’ results or living in chaos, fear, sadness or troubles. What we focus on we create more of. If your attention is on problems you get more problems. If your attention is on the good you want to create, you create that.

If You Really Want To Do Something You Find A Way And Do It

What the positive manifestor needs to learn to do and make a powerful habit is to withdraw energy and attention from the circumstances and put the energy and focus on the wanted, intended results. This is what all great leaders must do.

Gandhi had to do this when facing opposition by the British army. He couldn’t let the circumstances prevail.  He needed to keep his sites set on what he wanted to come true. People focused on circumstances often give up. Those focused on the dream, don’t.

Learn to manage your mindset. Learn to take the energy off the problems and keep your focus on what you want to make happen instead. It isn’t always easy but it is simple when you know what to do. It gets easier in time as you train yourself. It does. Stay focused on gratitude. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Powerfully Deal With Negative People And Circumstances

“I think everyone is who they are. People are who they are choosing to be, whether aware of that or not.  It is up to each of us to learn the lessons available to us by choosing to be around them and interact with them. Whether they are nice or not, it is what it is. A choice.

Lessons abound, whether we consciously realize the opportunity or not. As the saying goes, ‘the kite rises highest against the wind.’ People who push our buttons are actually blessings for us. We have the opportunity to become aware and release that which triggers us.

Are their people you may wish to avoid? Sure.There is nothing wrong in wanting to protect oneself and protect one’s energy. What you choose is what you choose. Accept responsibility for your choices without blaming yourself, or anyone, complaining or excusing.

I Am Choosing This – I Am Choosing This – I Am Choosing This

Are there people who exude one form of energy over another? Yes but again, there is a learning, a blessing and opportunity in resistance. Resistance makes your muscles grow. It makes you transform and evolve when you willingly to allow it to. Get it?

There is learning and blessing and opportunity in being challenged by people and circumstances. This is why I say, whenever I am confronted by people or circumstances,  ‘I am choosing this’. Being with this person or this circumstance IS my choice for the moment.

I choose to go through this and learn whatever it is I need to learn. I don’t know how it will work out, but I know it will work out for the best. I turn my attention away from the person or circumstances to what I need to learn to be a better person. I let go of all else.

Your Power Is In Your Awareness And In Your Choices – Focus

I attempt not to make gospel my beliefs and choices. I try not to act as if some authority dictates anything I think or say or do is ‘true’ but rather, it is useful for transformation and moving into higher realms. Opportunities are tools for change. I utilize them. You can too!

Consider that the enlightened individual is forever dealing with the unenlightened all the time. The unlenlightened surround the enlightened person. The saint is forever dealing with the non-saint. It is what it is. It all is a matter of labeling, judging and perception.

If you don’t call it a problem, it isn’t one. The situation still exists but it is however you perceive it and whatever you define it as. Get it? All your problems are YOUR problems. They are of your own making even if they come from the outside. Examine your perceptions.

Speak Only To Bless Heal Prosper Inspire And Motivate

Face your beliefs and your filters. Problems are the result of you calling it that. If you called it something else, you could think about it and respond to it differently. If you called it an opportunity or blessing you’d think and feel differently about it.  Get it?

If you honestly called a major disappointment a mere annoyance you would not be affected by a major disappointment. You could and most likely would feel differently and handle it differently. Everything is what you say it is, when you think about it. Get this!

It’s what you think about it, consider it, and believe it to be. Your thoughts, reaction, judgement or response keeps you trapped or brings you freedom. It is completely up to you whether or not it is a problem, whether it’s a circumstance or person you’re dealing with.

It Is What You Say It Is – What You Say It Is – Is What You Get

Perceive everything as a lesson! If everything is good and it’s an opportunity you may not have discovered, yet, but could if you looked, you would have a different experience. If you believe it to be a blessing and are grateful for it, your life would be different.

You’d be free. You’d be more resourceful. You’d vibe higher. You’d have  every reason to celebrate and delight in all. You’d live from a higher source, a higher power. You can do this! You can transform yourself by learning to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Have A Wonderful Life Part 2

“In my last blog post I shared how anyone can learn to have a more glorious and wonderful life. If you haven’t yet read that post I invite you to stop and read that one first. I’ll continue now to discuss the important power of your attention and your focus.

What you focus your attention on and for how long you focus on it matters mightily.  I repeat, what you focus on and the amount of time you spend focusing on it makes a critical difference as to the results you get. The strength and intensity of your focus is also crucial!

If you give passing thought to the good things but mostly concentrate on what is wrong, and what you don’t want, during your day, you get back precisely what you give most of your energy and time to. If you’re worried about crap, you will remain in the crap!

Accentuate The Positive – Eliminate The Negative

Get that? I mean do you get that? You must understand. Whatever you focus your flashlight of attention on is what you see and get. If most of your time is negative you will live mostly a negative life. To have a good or great life you must shift the balance to the positive.

Intensity makes a big difference! Some people focus strongly with great emotion for long hours, or days, on their problems and what they absolutely do not want. 20% crap gets you an 80% crap life!  That doesn’t lead to happiness and success! Get it? Do you get it?

What leads to a positive life is a positive, passionate, powerful, long term focus on the positive and productive aspects you want more of in your life. Focus on the good things with energy and  great passionate emotion! Focus on positivity most of your time! I repeat.

Celebrate Everything – Be Grateful – Find Blessings In All 

Focus on positivity for most of your time. Feel good most of your time, and your life changes. Mindset rules everything else. Most people keep missing this important piece. It isn’t hard work to change your life. Focus on the good to have a good experience!

If you don’t already do this naturally, then you MUST learn to if you want to live a wonderful life. The great news is ANYONE can learn to think better and create a better, even fabulous life. You simply must decide to being to do it right now! If you will, you’re on your way!

Is effort required? Sure, but as Napoleon Hill stated, when it came to being fabulously well off, in Think and Grow Rich, ‘When money comes, it is never the result of hard work.’ It is the result of having your mindset right. That is the truth about happiness too!

Whatever You Focus On Expands – You Get What You Focus On

How do I spend my time? In the present, as much as possible, savoring what IS, imagining and manifesting more of the future as I intend it to be, while enjoying all of it as it unfolds. It is a beautiful experience we all can have. So, pay attention. Focus your thoughts!

Make your mindset magnificent. Shift! Develop a positive powerful attitude. Become excited. Become passionate. Become positive. Feel grateful and practice gratitude. Delight more. Mope less. Do the thinking that makes a difference! Take action and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What To Do When You Get Gobsmacked By A Block

“You feel stuck. Something holds you back. You aren’t enjoying or achieving the happiness and success in your career or life. Frankly, it sucks! You’d like to change it. Here is what you can do when you hit a block in your personal or professional life. Here is what you must do.

While blocks aren’t fun nor enjoyable, they can be downright awful, be glad you hit a block. ‘What?’ you exclaim. ‘I should be happy I encountered a block? ‘ Yes, exactly. We all have them. We all encounter them. Many were fashioned early in our lives.

They were created or adopted outside of our awareness. We didn’t choose them but we got them through exposure, experience and repeated messages, intentional or otherwise, from others around us. We have them and they lurk inside. We encounter them in change.

Don’t Let Obstacles Bring You Down Learn To Bounce Back Better

When we change, or situations change, they arise. They are limiting beliefs, negative thoughts and feelings. They are doubts, fears, worries, anger and sadness. They arise to keep us the same. We repeat them again and again in life, so we remain consistent.

Seems silly, but it is true. Our brain attempts to protect us and keep us alive in a number of ways. One of them is by attempting to keep us the same. It doesn’t know we want to update ourselves and change and that we will be fine. Blocks are there to keep us safe. BUT, yuk!

So the best we can do is appreciate them and embrace them. Allow them to surface. They will anyway, but don’t fight them. Fighting them only amplifies their yuk factor. What we resist, persists. When we feel blocked, this is what you need to do, and here is why.

Whether You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You’re Right

When you discover or encounter a block you have an opportunity to discover how to refocus your attention and energy and move forward. It is not really a problem, but a blessing. It is attempting to keep you safe in the first place. Your brain does what it learned to do.

It is reliable. That is why it will keep you overeating, feeling afraid, smoking or living out any number of ‘bad’ habits because that is what it learned to do. So it does it! It ‘thinks’ that is how things should be. You and I need to re-educate our brains to new things.

Some people have yet to learn this concept but anyone can eventually learn it. Given they hit enough blocks to begin to become aware of why they are there. Blocks get our attention. Instead of thinking something is wrong celebrate! You noticed the signal,

Don’t Give Up – Make Today The Best Day Of Your Life Anyway

A block is an opportunity for you to pay attention. It is a signal or a message. Once you notice the block AND actually get the message, you can change it. You may not have thought so in the past. You have lived with any number of them for a long while. There is good news!

The good news is you can learn to move through them. You can learn to recognize them for what they are, not succumb to them, but move beyond them into new, wonderful realms of being! I’ll share more in my next blog. Keep the faith. Know good things are always in store for you. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You’ll Keep Getting Crap Magnet Results Until You Learn This!

“Some people have difficulty making affirmations work. They just don’t do it correctly. Then they give up. There’s a way to make it work. When you do you can expect wonderful and powerful results.  It can be incredible! I wrote an article about this many years ago.

I was one of those who had difficulty. I tried many times and quit many times. In 1980 I developed a method, Directed Questions™ that skyrockets the power of affirmations and results one gets. Since then, a number of people have re-published aspects of my work.

They’ve had good success, too. However, those I’ve seen missed the heart of my work for getting the most benefit from the process. Questions are incredible. They work amazingly well. I use both. I write about both, usually at different times, for different reasons.

Everything Remains The Same If You Don’t Control Your Mind

I use both. Sometimes you want to go around blocks that have stopped you. Other times you want to power through blocks. You learn different things by doing different things. There is a reason for learning both. Everything can work. I use both for greater effect.

Sadly, most people affirm negative things. They get things they don’t want! Worry is negative planning. Many people ask wrong questions and get disastrous results. It is important to know the right way of doing things. That’s why I write about each. Get it? You can learn it.

You must learn how to take control of your mind and your mental habits, if you want to make yourself and your life better. You must change some things, if you want things to change. It won’t happen if you do nothing. You remain the same. Start acting in your own best interest. Learn how to do things. Practice gratitude and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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