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You Must Choose Every Moment!

“Every day, every moment, you must make a choice. Faith or fear? Which do you live from? Choose. Will you look for the good or the bad? Choose. Will you speak only of the good, the blessing, the healing and prospering or will you speak of bad, lack and ill?

Choose! It is always, only your choice. No one else can choose for you. No one can force you to pick. You choose each moment what to put your attention on. Whatever you attend to most you end up creating or attracting or getting. What you focus on expands.

Time to stop choosing lack, fear, anxiety, sadness, and worse. Time to choose to focus on joy, peace, love and abundance. Concentrate on that which you already have to be grateful for and you will get more. Look for the blessings. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Exist To Be Happy And Prosper!

“‘The rose exists to express beauty’, stated Ernest Holmes. You were born to express the divine. You were born to have a fabulous life. The only thing that truly prevents you are your beliefs. If you do not believe this, it most likely will never happen.

You only see what you believe. Your conscious and unconscious beliefs rule the show. Your prior past conditioning, much of what you may not even be aware of, dictates what you notice and don’t. They dictate what you will do and not do. They rule your circumstances.

You should rule them instead. It requires bringing consciousness to them. It means becoming aware. If it is too hot in your room and you don’t know there is a thermostat causing the heat, you may not be able to do much about it. Once aware you can re-set it. Get it?

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

You need to become aware. You may never know all that you have been conditioned to believe while growing up. You don’t have to. You do need to decide to believe differently and begin to recondition yourself for living a divine, happy, successful, healthy love-filled life.

You need to develop a spiritual attitude. You need to come to believe that is is all good. There is more than enough. All problems are only temporary. God, source, the universe is infinite supply. You deserve to be happy, healthy, loved and successful. You are magnificent.

Never use your words to voice limitation or lack. Speak only to bless, heal, prosper, inspire and motivate. Put a guard before your tongue. Only describe things as blessings and good not as problems or bad. Say what you want it to be, not what it temporarily is. Learn this!

You Get What You See Say Feel It Is – Thoughts Become Things

Form the habit of seeing everything as wondrous. Consider everything a blessing. Live as if you have an incredible life. Develop  faith that all is good. Everything ultimately works out for the best. See yourself in your minds eye happy, healthy, successful, loved.

Come to know each moment as divine and magical. It is either delightful or a needed lesson. Learn that everything IS divine. It is what it is. It is all a blessing. Be thankful and grateful for every experience. Train your eye and mind to always see the good in every person, event and situation. Do this and transform. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Visualize Your Goals And Dreams

“Did you make your Vision Board? If not, don’t waste time with why not, just go make one. Don’t feed excuses or blames. Just take action and make a nice one for yourself. Get it? Reviewing why you didn’t isn’t worth the time. Acting now and getting it done is positive.

Not only is it a positive step, but a powerful one. Act in your own best interests. Put off putting off and get it done. When you decide to do something, anything positive and good, act on it right a way. Make beginning and follow through a habit. You transform this way.

You can make a Vision Book using a 3 ring binder. The pages display your favorite pics and mantras. This is a great tool to carry with you. Look through it frequently day and night. Imagining already being, doing and having the goals and dreams pictured there.

Visualization Is Daydreaming With A Purpose – Concentrate 

Use these to internalize what you see on the outside. You can trace the pictures in your mind as you gaze on them. The reason most people don’t get what they want is they don’t focus, concentrate or think about it frequently enough. They’ re distracted. Stop and focus.

It is most effective when you use it repeatedly daily. Use it first thing in morning when waking up. Meditate, spend time in positive visualization and affirmation and gazing at vision board. Then before bed and numerous times, anytime, during the day. Get it!

These tools are useful to keep your mind focused on what you want to create. I’ll share some more in another blog. Meanwhile, find delight and things to feel grateful for. Practice gratitude. Spend time silently enjoying all things.  Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Old School Way Works Powerfully!

“Some readers may be old enough to recall a particular punishment or learning method applied when they were young and at school. You were told to write 100 times ‘I will not talk during class’. ‘I will not tease Sally.’ ‘I will not fight on the playground.’ Remember this?

If you ever had to write it out, most probably you will. Repetition is the very effective way we learn new behaviors, create habits and extinguish old, negative behaviors by replacing them. Repetition works wonders. It is proven to work, without question.

What is questionable are the instructions as listed above. We have known for many, many decades, that the brain does not process a negative but works only with affirmative commands. What do I mean? I mean the ‘not’ isn’t noticed in the sentence or command.

Don’t Think Of A Blue Elephant Wearing A Pink Hat

While we can understand what is intended and operate on it, it takes a few extra brain steps to do so. Think of it this way. If the brain ignores the word ‘not’ or ‘don’t what does it notice, remember and act on. Imagine this sentence, ‘Don’t forget your watch!’

If ‘don’t’ is eliminated or ignored, what is left? ‘Forget your watch!’ If you say, ‘I will not talk in class.’ What is remembered if ‘not’ is ignored? ‘I will talk in class’. You know you are not supposed to but what do you write 100 times over and over. ‘I will talk in class.’

That is not the complete sentence, but the ‘not’ is ignored. So, ‘I wont tease Sally.’ or ‘I won’t fight (or will not) fight during recess’ emphasizes the very behavior you want the child, or person, to eliminate or avoid doing. So what should they write instead?

Affirm What You Want – State It Positively – Focus Focus Focus

If you want them to do a particular behavior or learn something positively phrase it. Say or write, ‘I will remember to take my watch.’ ‘I will treat Sally nicely and with respect.’ ‘I will sit quietly and pay attention during class.’ ‘I will be friendly and play nice during recess.’

Get it? Affirm what you want and stop affirming what you do not want. State things in the positive. ‘I am confident.’ or ‘I am learning to be confident.’ Or ‘I am in the process of becoming more confident.’ Get it? Say what YOU WANT to manifest. BECAUSE…

Whatever you say is what you get! If you say, ‘This will be tough.’ you are setting yourself up for it to be difficult. If you say, ‘I have trouble remembering names,’ guess what you have difficulty with? Say what you want. Mean what you intend to mean. Drop negative phrasing.

You Are Where Your Thoughts Take You – You Create Your Reality

When you do so much becomes easier. You may say well, ‘That’s hard. I have difficulty phrasing things positively.’ Yes, in fact you do. You just said so. You affirmed and validated it. OKAY, so what if it is tough? Do you really want to stop there or would you like to change?

If you want to change, you could say, “It was difficult for me to think positively about myself but I am in the processes of learning to think powerful, positive new thoughts about me.’ ‘Each time I affirm that I am wonderful I begin to believe it a little bit more.’ Get it? Do it!

Start phrasing things, describing things, talking about and thinking about things in positive terms of what you want to create, make happen, manifest or attract. Eliminate that which you want to avoid, or eliminate. Get it? “Yes, I am beginning to understand this!’

Learn To Aim Your Thoughts And Language At What You Want

‘I am in the process of learning how to speak positively. I am beginning to speak only to bless, heal and prosper myself and others. I am learning to only discuss what I want to enjoy more of. I am in the process of discovering I create my reality by what I think and say.’

Get it? You can do this. Affirm what you want. Drop the rest. Look for the good and that which you can be grateful for and emphasize these things, people, and moments. Take the sting out of circumstances by deliberately choosing where and what to focus on. Look for the blessings and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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To Succeed You Must Tell A Different Story!

“Stop telling the same old story of why things don’t work they way your would like. Stop it. Zip your lips. Stop thinking it. Stop speaking it. Enough already. You create your life circumstances through the stories you tell. How so? You get what you focus on! Get it?

While you may not wish to own up to this, your present life experience, the results you are getting, favorable or not, are due to your previous thoughts, words and actions. What you think determines what you do or not do. Get it? You create everything!

Until you get this major point you are bound to perpetuate a lot of what you’d rather not have. If you are getting a lot of what you don’t want and not enough of what you do want, then you need to make some real changes. They can be small but you need to make them.

You Become What You Think About Most Frequently

First change to make is to begin telling a brand new story. Think and speak only of how things already are the way you want them to be.  Stop reinforcing old things you want to change. Begin reinforcing the positive change you want to have.

Stop speaking about what is wrong. Begin speaking, with enthusiasm and passion and excitement, about what is right!  ‘Act As If’ you are already do have the future good you want in your life. You can pretend anything and master it. You can fake it till you make it.

Act As If that future you, does all the things necessary to succeed. You think right, feel good and take the right actions. Start telling that story of how you do positively accomplish things. Repeat the story over and over to yourself. Write it out. Share with others.

What You Say Is What You Get – What You Focus On Expands

You aren’t lying you are in the process of making it happen. You are bringing it about with your positive attitude and actions. Get it. You can share how you are learning to make good things result! JUST stop talking about all the crap, negativity and distractions. Get it?

Talk about nothing else. but what you want more of. Create a new story for the person you are. Put an end to the old story you have told for so long. Think, ‘I’ve had enough of that crap already!’ Tell the new story. Create it and live it! Think it, write it, live it and be it

Little bit by little bit your life and circumstances will improve. When you improve your story you will get better results! Be glad. Be grateful. Have fun. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What You Do Now Determines What Happens Next

“Always remember that the thought you think now determines the next thought. It creates and attracts what follows it. Our thoughts lead to our feelings. What we think now determines how we feel. How we feel determines our next thought. It is cyclic. It is a loop.

A negative thought leads to negative feelings and other negative thoughts. A positive thought leads to positive feelings and other positive thoughts. You either spiral down into more negativity and bad feelings or up into positivity and good feeling. It is a direction.

Get it? You set a direction by the thoughts you think. Either positive or negative. You determine what happens next by what you think right now. This is why it is important to learn to control, take charge of, and manage your thinking. You get back what you put out!

Positivity Is A Choice – Your Destiny Is Shaped By Your Decisions

As you deliberately think more frequently about what you want, as you consistently think more positively, as you think and speak in this way, and think less and speak less of what you do not want, you will discover yourself feeling and acting better. You get what you put out.

You will feel better, think better, and as a result act better and wiser. You will transform yourself and your life. Remember, we become what we think about most of the time. How you spend your time thinking is the difference that makes the difference for you.

Stay positive. Stay consistently positive. Focus on what you want that is good and that you desire. Stop thinking about what is negative, bothering you. and what you want to exclude from your life. Choose which you will do most. It is completely up to you.

Your Happiness In Life Depends On The Quality Of Your Thoughts

Your decision determines what happens next. Step by step along the way. You will discover life extremely pleasing when you become predominantly positive. Discover the joy that awaits you by taking charge of your thinking and therefore your life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Must Stop First Before You Move On!

What can you ask yourself that makes an incredible difference and sets you in the right direction to create, and attract, your goals and dreams? I  provided two answers in my recent blog. Now I’ll share with you some more powerful suggestions to utilize daily.

Questions direct the mind. In order for them to direct your mind in a positive way YOU actually have to STOP and then ask the question. Do this whenever you notice yourself thinking, feeling or behaving in less than positive, glorious, good ways. Stop and ask.

It isn’t about getting an answer. Forget about seeking the answer. It’s ALL about asking the right question. It’s all about directing your mind. It’s all about becoming aware of whether you’re moving closer or farther away from what you want, while taking right action.

Change Your Mindset And You Change Your Life

You have to stop asking negative questions. Stop asking, ‘why things don’t work out?’ Stop asking ‘why you can never get ahead, or are broke, or unlucky in life and love’! Stop asking questions that cause you to feel worse. Do you get it? You really need to shift mindset.

Ask ones that cause you to become positive, powerful and change! I gave you two last time. Use them. I’ll share one or two more. For now, ask the positive questions that direct your mind in powerful and positive ways. Spiral up into positivity, not down into negativity!

Not everything is positive or supportive. We react to ‘hot buttons and triggers. We’re conditioned; habitual. The only way you break free and transform yourself is to become aware. You have to notice when you are caught up and acting from old, chronic programs.

You Won’t Change And Make Progress Without Making Decisions

You must stop. Take a break, a pause, a breath and then start the new program. Think of driving your car, When you realize you are moving in the wrong direction, you stop, and turn around. Get it? You discontinue traveling in the old way. You stop, and shift or turn.

You begin moving in the direction you want to be traveling in. Same thing with training your mind to work for you instead of against you. You must become aware. Awareness is the  doorway to change. You must BECOME AWARE, notice what isn’t working, and change it.

Change it to something that works better. Think, feel, and act better by asking yourself the questions I have been sharing with you. You stop and DECIDE to be, do and have things differently, YOU make A decision and follow through with it! That is how you TRANSFORM!

Distance Yourself From Negativity And Beautiful Things Happen

In my upcoming blogs I share other powerful questions you can ask to make an incredible difference for you. Stay reading. Keep using the material I have shared with you. Practice gratitude. Stay feeling appreciative and blessed by all of it. Be thankful. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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