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Acceptance, Blessings, Creating The Future, Positive Thinking

How To Make Everything In Your Life Work Together For The Best!

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“The key to success and happiness is to know what you want. Then to make it happen. Create and attract what you want. Don’t wait for it to come for you. BUT be open enough to allow the results of your efforts to unfold as they will. Trust  and know it will happen! Get it?

You make it happen. It begins with you. You persist until complete. Attraction happens because your mindset, feelings, and ‘vibes’ are high. You take right actions. Like minds and like people attract one another. You are open and available to opportunity. You’re positive.

So you might as well affirm it. Affirm, ‘My life is perfect’. Think it, believe it. How? Think and repeat it over and over long enough until you do! That is how. Why? Because when you believe it you will make it happen. You accept it, know it and operate from it.

You Go Where Your Thoughts Take You

If your life is perfect then all is good. Problems become lessons and blessings to grow from. You create more of what you want. You get what you focus on. You operate from your highest source and positive intentions. You make more good happen because of this.

What is the alternative? Think life sucks? Life is just, okay? Is that what you want to create more of. It is always, and only, up to whatever you think and declare it to be. Our minds are filters to what we allow ourselves to see and experience. So experience the best. Feel blessed. Feel positive. Be thankful. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Anger, Awareness, Influence, Resistance

The Secret To Understanding And Stopping Arguing!

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“All your arguments are you resisting what is. You resisting the flow. You resisting the other, who is you. You are both connected. You are mirrors of each other. It is you projecting and you blaming. You are arguing with yourself over things that truly don’t matter. Get it?

Of course, you think you are right. The other, thinks they are right. You have your points, the other has their points. It is important to you and it is important to the other. It is all the same even though it appears different. It is anger, confusion, intolerance, negativity.

It is hot and passionate. It is all the same. It is one, thinking it is two, resisting itself. Resistance. Struggle. Delusion. The argument is an opportunity, beyond the important points each of the one both make, to go beyond the illusion, surrender and discover yourself.

Whatever You Focus On Expands – Let Go And Let God – Flow

Seek the higher. All argument is an emphasis on differences. Find a way to unite. Find a way to create understanding, agreement and harmony. Discover the lesson, the projection. Notice what the mirror is reflecting when you argue. Accept and allow the lesson.

When you do your relationships with your self and ‘others’ can improve. Stop insisting and start assisting you and others. Learn how to better communicate and get along. Everything is ultimately for your good. Learn from all of it. Celebrate all of it and grow. You will transform more quickly as you celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Boundaries, Circumstances, Healthy Choices, Overcoming Difficulty

Stop Tolerating Abuses!

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“Unless you want a Jesus like conclusion, I am not saying love your captors or stay with abusers. To let go and accept, love and forgive doesn’t mean you can’t seek safety. Don’t allow your comfort zone for the negative  to hold you in place when you should leave.

Yes, you can love, and forgive your tormenter but you don’t have to be within the proximity of the person/s to do so. You can get free, be free, and then resolve it within yourself. Forgiveness and acceptance isn’t about letting anyone other than you off the hook. Get it?

Make sure you are safe. I’m most certain your mission is not Jesus like.  So when you need to be safe, secure, and protected, seek safety, security and protection. Letting go letting god, and accepting doesn’t mean you tolerate or endure abuses. Get it? If you are, stop.

Seeking The Highest Means Accepting The Lowest But Safely

It means you transform your mental, emotional and spiritual experience. Always seek the higher road, the highest self, the most positive options that result in yours, and others greater, well being, success, happiness and peace. Transform yourself to find the lesson.

Find the blessing and be grateful for the opportunity to learn and grow, but from a place of safety when necessary. Use wisdom and be wise. Be smart. Do not be a victim. Do not tolerate abuse of yourself or others. Find the positive and legal remedies when necessary.

Seek wise and positive counsel, not vengeful or negative. What you resist persist. So do the inner work of letting go, trusting and surrendering, without sacrificing your physical well-being or that of your family, friends or strangers. Live from your higher self.  DO you understand? Be grateful. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Focus, Learning, Letting Go, Trust

What About Those Nasty People And Circumstances?

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“Who do you listen to? Who do you pay attention to? Who are your teachers? When it comes to learning how open and available are you? How easily do you learn? Do you dabble? It is all up to you. Are you willing to do whatever it takes to master the material?

There are important teachers and mentors but those may be the subject of another blog post. I have already addressed these important influences. More importantly is another realization. When you realize this you entire life can instantly transfor,m.

Everyone IS already our teacher. Until we open our hearts we don’t realize it. We are blinded to that as a possibility.  Because we are so sure we know, we miss most everything. That is because we don’t know what we don’t know. We can’t see around the corner!

Awareness Can Lead To Massive Positive Transformation – Let Go

Every circumstance is our teacher. All the nasty, rude, difficult people and horrible circumstances provide lessons, opportunity and blessings, if we only become aware, open ourselves up to look and find them. We must be willing to look, to seek, in order to find.

All of our experience can teach us. Learning to be open, available , and see the good in everything is crucial to our happiness and success. Without the ability to let go and surrender we place most of our happiness on people, things and circumstances outside us.

We make the outer the key to our success and happiness when it comes from within instead. We need to correctly make attributions and as long as out focus is on people, places, things, events outside ourselves we miss out. We can’t know what we can’t know.

What We Focus On Expands – We Become What We Think About

We need to develop trust and faith that it is all good and all is there for our ultimate benefit whether difficult or easy. Our thinking determines how we feel about those things that happen to us. Our thinking makes happen, or at the very least, contributes to the same.

When we learn to change our thinking from negative to positive, when we learn to seek the good, the lesson and blessing in all things, when we learn to be truly grateful for all of it and let go of resistance but instead trust and surrender, our lives become blissful!

We become free. We enjoy a peace beyond description. This is available to you when you are ready to let go and learn from all. Let go and let god is an important saying to adopt. Invite the higher power, infinite intelligence, source, god, the divine, whatever you call it, to help you let go and learn. Learn to  Be. Learn to be present and thankful. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Creating The Future, Getting Over The Past, Letting Go, The Present

What To Do When You Can’t Do Anything About It

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“It is over and done. There is no more. Nothing can change it. Do you get this yet? The past is over and done. It is gone. Vanished. It has no power over you. It can not affect you. Unless, of course you let it. If you decide to be finished with it you can be finished with it. Let it go.

Begin to be free right now. This moment. In this, the present moment, you can be free. You can become absolutely free. Realize you are in charge not the past. Yes, I know you have thought otherwise for so long, but the past does not control you. Get it?

You are in charge. Take back your power. The past can’t harm you. You are free from the past. You are safe. Realize your thoughts make all the difference. You are the thinker of your thoughts. You are in control. Take charge. Own your power. Manage your thoughts.

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

Right now, this present moment, is the apex, the high point of your power. Own this moment. Control your thoughts. What you think today determines your tomorrow. Think positive. Be powerful. Feel grateful. Express your thankfulness. Transform. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Acceptance, Gratitude, Letting Go, Overcoming Difficulty

How To Win When You’re Not Winning

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“Don’t get discouraged when things go awry. Learn to stop and let go. Things go sideways a lot. Why spend your life with ups and downs? Why spend it frustrated? There is another way. You can find comfort and peace in the midst of turmoil if you choose to. You can!

Be open. Be available to what is. Let go. Let the universe, god, nature, your higher power have it. Trust that things will work out. We are always in process. We are always in the middle of things. How they turn out has a lot to do with our attitude and our thoughts.

If we resist and fight we create more of the very thing we are attempting to avoid or correct. If we adopt an attitude that there is a hidden opportunity or lesson in this, then we can look for the good and count our blessings. Surrender and let go. Do it again and again.

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t – You Are Right 

Stop trying to figure it out. Stop mulling it over in our mind. Let go of the thoughts and the feelings. Become aware. Shift from not being resourceful to resourceful. Trust your higher power. It may seem difficult to find good in the bad but it is there. Look and find it.

Let go continually until you genuinely let go. Stop fighting. Discover what you can be grateful for when there doesn’t appear there is anything and you will be the winner. You will find your higher power. Practice gratitude in the face of adversity and you will sometime soon find peace. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Focus, Positive Thoughts, The Present, Transformation

The Destination Is The Journey Not Something Different PT 4

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“Is that what you want? You get what you focus on. It’s important to know what you want and where you want to go. Yes, have a destination but focus on it as if you already have it. Think of it as already yours. Stop feeling bad by noticing you do not yet have it!

You can’t feel bad and think negative and have a positive life. If you miss the journey you miss all that contributes to you having a great future. Your future IS in your present! It is now. Celebrate and enjoy now. Be glad and be grateful for all of it! Seek and find the good.

When you do you transform everything! This is where the power of manifestation is! Let go of not being there yet. Instead, be thrilled with where you are each step of the journey. Every second along the way blessings and miracles and good abound. You will find it, if you only look and acknowledge and celebrate that it is HERE. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Focus, Letting Go, Living In The Moment, The Present

The Destination Is The Journey Not Something Different PT 3

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“Then, I will be happy. Here is an important point. Then, either comes when it comes, or it doesn’t come at all. There is no actual, then. There is only, now! If you put off your enjoyment until, then, when you think it will be perfect, you will only find it eludes you.

Once there, you will have another ‘then’ that you seek. So many people report their dissatisfaction with getting ‘everything I ever wanted’ because that isn’t what fulfills us. Enjoy this moment. Find miracles and blessings in this moment, then the next will be filled!

You get what you focus on. Then, is always a distance away. If your focus is on not being there yet, you will never get there. You will continue to pursue the elusive fulfillment of the future only to find you robbed yourself of all the good times in the meantime. STOP! Instead, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes – Continued next post.

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Acceptance, Allow, Attention, The Present

The Destination Is The Journey Not Something Different PT 2

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“Do you remember as a child, how long the wait for your holiday or birthday seemed to be? Many children ask repeatedly during travels with family or friends,  ‘when will we get there? When will we be there?’ They missed out on enjoying the journey! They’re in pain.

They suffer for the duration of the trip because they want the destination too much. As a result they miss many incredible things all along the way. I know I did. I didn’t appreciate the sightseeing sounds, the stops and side trips. Did you ever do this? Many have.

I missed all the good in the journey because I wanted so desperately to get to the destination. Then everything would be good, I thought. Do you do this now? Do you think when I have enough money, or health or the love of my life, then all will be okay? It won’t. Yes I know you think it. Instead, YOU must change!  We’ll continue in the next post.: Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Focus, Letting Go, Living In The Moment, The Present

The Destination Is The Journey Not Something Different PT 1

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“Drop by drop fills the tub. It happens in time. If you keep moving forward you will get there eventually. Keep growing and keep enjoying.. What else is there to do? Hate the journey? Do you wish to be miserable all along the way until you get there?  That sucks!

That is a waste of your present. You are living too much in the future if you are noticing you aren’t there yet. You aren’t in the present enjoying how glorious it can be right now. You’re mentally elsewhere and it is robbing you of your life and your peace and happiness!

Whether you focus on the past and carry around pain or you focus on the future worried about it or upset that the good you desire hasn’t manifested yet, you are keeping all the good away. You get back what you focus on. Instead focus on how marvelous now is! I’ll continue in the next post. Learn to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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