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Are You Sabotaging Yourself In This Way?

“Say to yourself, ‘hello’. Now ask, ‘how are you?’ Do you hear an answer? I bet you do. That voice inside that says ‘hello’ and answers your question is your self-talk voice. Perhaps, one of many. Guess what, you talk to yourself all the time. You argue with yourself.

Self-talk is a continuous stream of thoughts, mental conversations, you have all day in and day out. It is the voice that says, ‘I should talk to Sue,’ then says, ‘I can’t stand Sue.’ Then again says, ‘still I should talk to her.’ It argues both sides. It can be positive or negative.

It is endless. Realize this: whatever dominates your mind determines who and what you are. If your thoughts are mostly negative YOU will be mostly negative and attract and create mostly negative experiences and people to you. Get it? Is you and how you live?

The Mind Is Only As Strong As Your Weakest Think

You are whatever mostly dominates your thinking. Remember, you become what you think about. This is the reason you want and need to monitor and manage your self-talk. What you think about you bring about. If  you are mostly positive you will have a positive life.

You cannot have mostly negative thoughts and live a positive life. You need to change your self-talk and design your mind. You need to take charge of your thinking in order to create your best life ever! If you do nothing, nothing will change. If you keep doing what you have been doing, nothing will change. To change, you must change some of what you are doing. Get it? I hope so. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Only Think You Think

“Thoughts are really, mostly, just past old tapes of self-talk, pictures and feelings people identify with. They are old movies. Reruns mostly. This is why you think the same thing over and over again. You have habitual, patterns of review that get triggered. New? Hardly!

Most people don’t think at all. They just run the old tapes and movies and think they are thinking. They aren’t. It isn’t new, creative, thought. It is past, conditioned habitual thoughts. People argue with themselves because they have both sides taped.

This is why people have difficulty deciding. They have both sides and they repeatedly, obsessively go back and forth. People are not these thoughts. They are not thoughts at all. They are running the old programs in new situations. You might have noticed this yourself.

You’re Where Your Thoughts Brought You And Will Be Tomorrow

It is reaction not response. It is habit. It is patterns playing over and over. This is why the statement, if you always do what you always did but expect different result it is insanity.  AND, if you always do what you always did you will always get what you already got. Get it?

It is sad but we all go through this. You can become aware of your thought habits. You can learn to direct them and shift from non-productive, negative, non-supportive thinking to productive, powerful positive thinking and begin to get better results.

You can learn to think. It takes re-education and rewiring. Transformation is possible. Stop using borrowed maps. Create new updated ones. You can become aware. You can change thought patterns and manage thoughts. You can even transcend thoughts!

The Brain Is As Strong As Its Weakest Think – Learn To Think Now

Then your entire life can begin to change for the positive. Stop living from the outdated and update and upgrade your thinking. Design your mind, your experience and your life. Learn to create your best life ever. I’ll help you. Nothing will change however, until you do. Meanwhile, practice gratitude and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Make Your Inner Voice Work Powerfully For You!

“We talk to ourselves. Most people have nagging thoughts and voices in their head. Often we complain about others and circumstances or we are self critical.  We may even catch ourselves talking out loud, some times even embarrassing ourselves. Right?

Well, these streams of conversation stem from our unconscious past conditioned, programmed mind. It is mostly negative and repetitive. Not much changes except day to day topics. The tone, the manner, the less than glorious thoughts and feelings the same. It sucks!

If this happens to you you can change it. Here’s how. Deliberately choose to talk to yourself. Talk out loud. Talk about how good things are. How grateful you feel. How marvelous things always work out for you. How incredible it feels to be rich and have money.

The Mind Is As Strong As Its Weakest Think – Think Positive

Talk about how healthy you feel and how great you look. Speak about how loving you are, the great people in your life and how loving you is easy. Emphasize how talented, unique and magnificent you are. While it may seem silly, pretend all of it is real. Get it?

Act as if. Speak out loud. Re-program your self talk positively. Be powerful and enthusiastic. Practice throughout the day. While driving safely, walking  or sitting somewhere. If you feel conspicuous put on a pair of headphones. Others will think you are on the phone.

The more often you take charge and promote goodness, positivity and wellness in a light, fun manner the quicker you will notice the results. Have fun. Feel thankful and grateful. Speak with enthusiasm. Be optimistic. This is a powerful practice. It wires in the changes.

The More You Do The More You Become Capable Of Doing

Speak only to bless, heal, prosper, motivate and inspire. Delight in all things. Talk about them. Make up positive stories about you daily life and how you live the life of your dreams. Keep it up. Speak and act the part! When you converse with others keep these principles in mind. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Stop Screwing Everything Up!

“When considering you, circumstances, other people, all events and your life there is something you must stop doing if you want to get ahead and accomplish you goals and dreams. If you want to make your dreams come true you need to make some important changes.

First, you absolutely must stop victim mentality! Stop putting any energy or attention on your “story” of why things are tough, bad, not happening or causing you problems. Drop this thinking like a hot potato! It perpetuates the problems! It doesn’t lead to achievement.

Stop it! Let it go. Put a guard before your thoughts and lips. Speak only what you want and about what is positive. Put your energy into describing what you want to bring about, not why you can’t. Control your self talk and what you tell, share or discuss, with others!

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

Problem thinking is self-defeating and it is self-fulfilling. Get it? Stop creating more of the problem life you want to eliminate and start creating the life you want. Accentuate the positive. Energy flows where your attention goes. Speak only to bless, heal and prosper!

Tell a new and different story. Stop blaming and excusing and living as a victim. Live as a victor! Life is a process, not frozen. Reframe events and circumstances. Assign a different meaning to behaviors you don’t appreciate in self or other. You are learning and evolving.

Focus on what you want. Talk about it as if you are already making it happen and you already have it! Learn to live, speak and ‘act as if’ it is already your reality. What you think about you bring about. Start finding the silver linings and blessing in all. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Every Word You Speak Determines How Happy You Are

“Happiness is directly correlated to what you say inside yourself and what you say to others. Happiness is correlated to the story you tell and believe about yourself. If you want to be happier change your personal story. Put a guard before your lips. Watch what you say.

Speak only to bless, heal and prosper. Stop complaining, whining and excusing and start affirming and celebrating what you want to include more of in your life. Emphasize the good. Accentuate the positive. Stop talking crap and gossip and distractions. Let go.

Put an end to negative news and negative reports. Stop negative self talk. Repeat only that which you want to increase. Let go of and stop that which you want to decrease. Build the positive. Shrink the negative. This is how it works. Do it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Stop Worry And The Negative Planning: Become Effective!

“Worry is thinking about what you don’t want to happen. Whatever you focus on and spend time on is what you end up getting more back of. It means most of your time is spent on negative things not working out, instead of on solutions and making solutions happen.

You are programming your mind when you worry. You are programming your mind when you focus on the positive. Either way you get what you focus on. You plan for it. You plan for the worst, or you plan for the best. Get it? It is how you use your mind. It matters!

It is always a choice. Even though, for some people, it doesn’t seem like a choice.  One of the best ways to counteract worry is through gratitude. Gratitude can, and does, change everything! When you begin to appreciate anything and everything, everything changes.

Whether You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You’re Right

Your thoughts and feelings change. Your energy changes. Your behaviors change.  When you are able to find the sliver lining or the golden nuggets in  all situations, you transform yourself from one who worries and attracts negativity to one who is positive.

You go from in-effective to effective. You get ‘at cause’. You  take charge and no longer let unconscious habits run you. You create a new habit of positivity, power and solution focused thinking. Not only that, but you win because YOU did it. Learn how to do it! Then do it! Then celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What’s The First Thing I Should Do When Crap Explodes?

“Let’s face it. Crap happens. Okay, I could have chosen a stronger word. It does. What to do when it happens? What can you do? What might you do? What should you do? How can you go from crap to creating something wonderful. If not wonderful, at least better?

Something happens. It sucks. If you, or I, think ‘I don’t want this…’ then what should my next thought be? If I feel yucky or discover I am thinking negative thoughts, what should my next step be, once I notice this is not at all what I want. I absolutely don’t want this!

What is the question I need to ask? Obviously, it is ‘WHAT DO I WANT?’ ‘What do I want instead of this?’ I know what I don’t want so let me get absolutely clear on what I do want. When I know for certain what I do want, I can work to begin to bring that about.

If What You’re Doing Isn’t Working – Do Anything Else – Anything

Get it? I can shape my mindset, sharpen my tools and go after what I want. Focus on what I want to make that happen and stop thinking, or worrying, about what I do not want. Energy flows where attention goes. Put all of the attention on what I do want. Make that happen.

Keep asking. ‘What do I want?’  Don’t settle for less. Let, ‘what do I want’, guide you in all situations. Think of it as a guide. ‘What do I want from this experience?’ ‘ What do I want to get by going to this party?’ ‘What do I want in this job?” Let it guide you positively.

As you routinely and regularly ask this question, and focus on what you want and making that happen, you build a powerful new thought habit. Realize, you not only ask the question, but take steps in making changes. Any positive step, is a step in the right direction.

If You Always Do What You Always Did – You Get What You Got

If what you are doing isn’t working, then do anything else! Decide what you want, and move in that direction. Inch by inch, if necessary. CHANGE what you have been paying attention to. Begin to positively look at creating something good. Get it?

Stop making the crap happen and make the good stuff happen. It is all in your hands and within your abilities. You are already a powerful creator, as evidenced by you, manifesting everything you don’t want. Now, switch it to manifesting what you do want, instead. Get it?

Be grateful as you realize, more and more, you create, and are responsible, for everything in your life. You may not create the weather or the economy, but you are responsible for how you react, or respond, to outside influences. Recognize this, and become even more grateful. Gratitude will change it all. Celebrate everything!” RexSikes

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