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Abundance, Creating The Future, Directed Questions™, Wealth Creation

Can You Create More Abundance Through Questions?

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“The power to create the life you want is directly related to the power to control your mind and manage your thoughts and feelings. If you are thinking about your problems more than about what you are creating, that is positive, you are losing a battle. You can win.

You won’t, until you gain control. You need your mind to serve you and you need to stop serving your mind. The same is true of money. The reason the rich are rich is they have learned, money needs to serve and work for you. You do not serve and work for money.

This is what you must learn. Take charge and take control. I share with you how you can do that every day, right here, in these blog pages. I share it in my online, radio and TV discussions. I share it in workshops and seminars worldwide for nearly 40 years. It works!

Wealth And Success Is An Inner Game You Play To Win

It works when you learn to do it, and master it. If you do things in a half assed way you get half assed results. Watch and study what I share with you in this short video. Apply it! Keep applying it until you make it a habit. THEN and only the IT IS AUTOMATIC! Get it?

Struggling stops. Once you develop mastery, you find flow. Things get easier. Winning makes you feel good and makes it easier to win. Perfect practice makes perfect. Learning anything at first is difficult but with practice you improve and can become your best. DO IT!

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Life changes when you do. It doesn’t work the other way around. Watch the video. Study and apply what you learn. Change yourself. Do what it says. Stop putting it off. Stop wasting time. Begin today! Time is the one thing you never get back. Start now and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Rapport, Relationships, Trust, Win Win Outcomes

Only An Idiot Would Think This!

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“It is amazing how many people whine and complain that the world seems against them, but then they do nothing to make any change. They live as a victim rather than as victor. They’d prefer to follow than lead. What about you? Isn’t it time you take charge of you?

Some claim they want to be a better person. They want to improve but then spend most of their time distracted. They want help but then don’t help themselves. Hey, I know, I did this many years of my life. I wanted change but whined. I didn’t know what to do to get it.

Part of being a better person is being a better communicator. Learn how you can be more impactful, get through blocks preventing understanding and connection. Overcome objections, stop getting no’s and start getting more yeses. Important to you? Take action.

… Sometimes People Don’t Need To Be Told What To Do …

Want your kids to try a new food? Want your significant other to treat you nicer, or your customer to buy your product or service?Whatever it is, it is all pretty much the same. It is the sale of an idea to someone you have a relationship with. Get it? It is really a sale!

Watch the webinar I have placed here and learn how to influence with absolute integrity.  Regardless of what you do in life watch this webinar. Learn something. Stretch, get out of your comfort zone. The material in the webinar can revolutionize everything you do.

I repeat, and add, the material in the webinar, when applied, can revolutionize everything you do in your personal and professional relationships. When you know WHY THEY BUY you will be more powerful. This IS what you MUST seek to understand.

,,, They Need Someone Who Listens And Understands Them

Why does your child, your parent, your loved one, your boss, employee, friend, client, customer or stranger do what they do?. Why do they buy? What triggers their decisions? What do they need to say yes? Why do they say no? You need to understand THEM!

Only an idiot would think that ‘why they buy’ is only about ‘sales’. Okay, okay, I know that’s harsh but really, think about this and get it. Sales is an exchange within a relationship. It could be ideas, money time or services or whatever. It is an exchange within a relationship!

It is about how you interact with everyone. Yes, the presentations is skewed a lot toward professional sales but every ‘sales’ involves  A RELATIONSHIP with friend or stranger. The examples demonstrate how powerful you can be communicating with anyone! Get it?

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Don’t miss out on learning something wonderful because you have a particular mental bias. Explore. Then if it isn’t for you, it isn’t for you. BUT it if is you may have just discovered something that will allow you to become more effective in the kitchen, the bedroom and boardroom, or herever you spend your time. You do want that don’t you? Watch ‘why they buy’ you will be glad you did AND be sure to celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Acceptance, Attention, Attitude, Gratitude

Who Are You Really? Did You Know This About Yourself?

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“Sometimes it seems things aren’t happening as much or in the way that I would like. My dream career, my ideal job, my true love, that fantastic car or home, lot’s of money, being debt free seem so far away. Problems and issues loom. What’s going on? Ever asked that?

Neville Goddard, makes a most important point that we all should remember. Keep it in mind. Thought leaders from ancient to modern times promote and reinforce this idea. Once you begin to master the concept everything begins to change. Keep the faith and work it.

Mind set truly is everything. How we manage our thoughts, shapes our present and our future. It is how we relate to the past. Our thought is what moves us forward or keeps us stuck. It is why Ford said, ‘If you think you can or you think you can’t, you are right.’

You Are Already Everything You Want To Be …

‘Disregard appearances, condition, in fact all evidence of your senses that deny the fulfillment of your desire. Rest in the assumption that you are already what you want to be, for in that determined assumption, you and your infinite being are merged in

creative unity, and with your infinite being, all things are possible.’ – Neville Goddard. It is the skill we must master. We must stop getting caught up in how things presently appear to us. We never see the complete picture so we always operate on partial information!

We must ‘rest in the assumption that you are ALREADY what you want to be’. That is where our power stems from. We are already what we want to be, we already have everything. Even when it appears we aren’t or don’t. THAT is where the power is. In YOU!

… And You Are On The Path To Discovering Yourself

Now! BUT you, and I and everyone, miss it because we are focused on the wrong things, in the wrong direction, most of the time. We become what we think about, and we think about crap mostly. In order to live the life we want, we need to shift our mindset.

We need to shift our attention. That is why gratitude works. We focus on being grateful for what we already are, and have. Get it? If you let thoughts stop you from being who you are, and can discover, that’s sad. Yet that is what most everyone does. Discover yourself.

Say yes! Be grateful! Enjoy! Focus on already being, doing, and having everything you want. Express your gratitude. Most likely, it isn’t going to transform everything for you  overnight, BUT it can and could. I remind you of this because it is a journey. It’s not a flash and puff of smoke magical appearance. So enjoy and delight. Remember who you are and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Influence, Rapport, Trust, Values

Here’s The Secret To Stop Getting No And Start Getting Yes!

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“You have a major presentation or sale you have to make and you don’t want to blow it. What should you do? Obviously, you should be prepared. The better prepared you are, the more likely you will do well. Get it? Still, there are some things that are crucial to find out.

The more you learn about your prospect/s, the more you’re able to tailor your presentation to what’s important to them, so THEY get it right away. They understand you more easily because you ARE speaking THEIR language. You present based on what THEY value.

You aren’t forcing your concepts or values on them. You tailor your presentation to YOUR audience of one, or many. You speak their language and provide information to them in the way THEY are most comfortable with, to accept and process it. Get it? Do it THEIR way.

The Platinum Rule Treat Others How They Want To Be Treated

You sell them on yourself, your idea, product or service the way THEY want to be sold, whether they are your child, a friend, stranger or CEO of a major multi-million dollar enterprise. You develop a relationship based on trust because YOU understand THEM. Get it?

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Because of your presentation, they understand you better. Trust and rapport develops more quickly. You sell them the way THEY most WANT TO buy. Get it? This is a game changing concept too few know and put into practice. YOU become more influential right away!

Statistics suggest that most pro salespeople, including parents, and relational partners haven’t learn how to most easily communicate with others. Instead of doing it the way the other prefers, they force their way on the other person and  typically GET more no’s.

Frank Sang My Way – You Do It Their Way And You Both Win

If you want to be a better influencer, or a better sales person, if you want to communicate with greater ease, waste less time, and make more money then knowing how your customer buys is absolutely necessary. You WANT to begin getting many more yeses! Don’t you?

I want to introduce YOU to an incredible person.

My friend and mentor Cheri Tree developed an remarkable system, based in science, that will help you understand, and unlock, the other person’s buying behavior in under 90 seconds! Knowing the secrets, the science and the system can skyrocket your results.

You can help the other person and connect them up to resources with integrity. You can help them make good decisions. You can invite them to purchase from you and improve your closing ratio 300%. Don’t believe me alone, check it out. Watch Cheri’s webinar.

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This is the webinar, and Cheri is the friend and mentor I have referred to in previous blogs. Watch the webinar all the way through because Cheri teaches some IMPORTANT things you want to learn. Enter my name rexsikes just as you see it here, where she tells you.

If You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

Only you will be able to determine if this is something you must have or not. Be wise enough to check it out. It really is a game changing approach to influence, positive communication and sales. I love it! I think you will to. You must decide for yourself. Click the link now!

Obviously, as with anything, your results will depend on whether you apply the material or not. If you do you can have great success! In order to know if it is right for you, watch all of it. Get it? Make the time. It’s about 90 minutes but it is captivating. Watch the webinar.

It’s Free to watch! If you have questions feel free to ask me. I am happy to answer anything I can. If I can’t I’ll point you in the direction of someone who is able to,  I love BANK! I absolutely do. I love Cheri Tree and the BANK community. You will too if you get involved.

I think you will too. So, check out Cheri’s webinar. Let me know.

Leave a comment or a question! Meanwhile, continue to be grateful and practice gratitude for ALL things. The more you do the richer you become inside and out. The more you appreciate everything the BETTER life becomes. Be generous with your gratefulness and transform your life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Communicating, Influence, Integrity, Trust

You Lose If You Aren’t Speaking Their Language They Won’t Understand!

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“Is there something that converts a person’s “no” to a yes? If you could begin to get more yes’s in work and play, with associates, clients, family and friends, would it be worth it to you? Would you want to learn how to increase your ‘sales’ up to 300%? Well?

We need to learn and understand what is important to the people we are attempting to influence so we can sell them our ideas, products and services. This is true whether it is a friend or loved one we are attempting to convince, or a stranger and business associate.

If we have something, that truly meets their needs, but they can buy from anyone else, then we must learn to offer it, in such a way, that it aligns with their values. Then it is important to them. When we understand why they buy, then we can more easily sell.

The Reality Is We Are All In Sales We Sell Our Kids And Strangers

We appeal to what THEY want, not what we need. We need to know what is important to them, what their values are. We must know how to align with their values to deliver our product or service the way they prefer. The Platinum Rule really applies here.

Are you familiar with the Platinum Rule?  It states ‘do to others the way they prefer to have it done’. Do it their way, not your way! When we sell how we think others buy, we lose so much time and money. They buy because of why THEY buy! Their reasons, not ours.

We need to sell. They may need to buy. It comes down to whether they buy from you or from someone else. Bottom line, all things being equal, they will buy from the person they like and trust most and understand the easiest. Get it? Get that and you win more!

Everything In Life Is A Sale Everything You Want Is A Commission

You become more likable when you speak their language. You create rapport and connection when you adjust to them instead of requiring, or forcing, them to adjust to you. No template works for everyone. Learning to be flexible increases your batting average.

The more languages you speak the more people you can easily connect with and influence. They understand you because you can talk to them with words they understand. All of us have our own language. We have our own BUYING language! Learn theirs!

If you only sell from your language you will miss out on lots of people. Get it? AS sales people, or positive influencers, or people helpers who want to assist others in making good decisions, we NEED to learn how to communicate the way others buy. Get it?

Listen And Learn Are You Speaking Your Customer’s Language

We stop pushing our style on them and adapt to theirs, all the while maintaining our integrity. You are still the same person whether you speak English, Greek or Spanish. You still need to remain ethical when you have a wonderfully powerful way to connect with others.

So assuming you are a trustworthy, upright, honest person of the highest integrity, you owe it to yourself to learn how to communicate with maximum, positive effect, so you can maximally, and positively affect your clients, customers and consumers.

Learn why they buy so they can buy what you have! Learn it so you can support them with excellent customer service. Keep them as a source of revenue and referrals for ever!  You want to communicate well for your children, parents, friends and everyone else, too!

Old Ways Won’t Open New Doors – Learn A New Way To Be

Soon, I will share with you this powerful system for getting more yeses! You will learn to speak the language of the person you are communicating with. I’ll I share a 90 minute webinar that you will want to watch all the way through to the end. Make time for it.

I’ll introduce you to a good friend and mentor of mine. Together we’ll share the secrets, the science and the system for unlocking another person’s buying behavior to skyrocket your closing ration up to 300%. You will love learning this. I mean it. I love it. You will too!

I am thrilled to share this with you. I realized years ago if I didn’t speak the language of my customer, or anyone, I was attempting to influence then I not respecting them. I was losing out! You want deep lasting, trusting, positive connections. Don’t you?

The Ability To Sell Is The Number One Skill In Business 

Learn to become the best. Stop collecting ‘no’s’ start collectin yes’s. Stop losing out on money and start making more. Start adding more value to all the people you communicate with.I’ll share it soon! Stay tuned! Meanwhile Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Rapport, Relationships, Unlimited Power, Win Win Outcomes

You’ll Lose More Than You Win If You Don’t Know This About Other People!

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“Can you quickly and easily create trust, rapport, and gain understanding, while eliminating roadblocks with clients, customers, and important people, in your professional and personal life? Can loved ones, investors, customers, agents, kids and all be influenced?

If yes, then how? This is important. You must get this! If you understand  the importance of the principle I’m sharing it can revolutionize your life and everything you do. I mean that! Alright here is what you, and I, MUST do to succeed wildly! Get this!

You must meet the other person where they’re at! Not where you are. You must speak their language, not just your language! When you communicate with them, HOW they prefer to be communicated with, you win, and so do they. You must be flexible and not limited.

If You Always Do What You Always Did You’ll Get What You Got

You must know MORE than one way of doing things. The difficulty with most sales people and influencers is they sell, and attempt to persuade, how they THINK the other person wants to hear the information. This will have YOU hear ‘NO’, more often than not.

You must adjust FOR them. Do not expect them to adjust for you. You must be adaptable and flexible. You must be smart enough to discover WHY they ACTUALLY buy, and what is important to THEM, and not what you THINK the reasons are. You need to learn theirs!

You need to get curious enough about the other person to do it their way. No one really likes being sold. Do you? If someone is attempting to get you to do something, do you enjoy it? Most probably not, most of the time, BUT, you, and others, enjoy buying things. Get it?

If What You Are Doing Isn’t Working Do Anything Else

If you wanted to sell a Chinese or French speaking only person or client, you’d have to put your presentation into words and terms they understood. You wouldn’t insist they learned your language first, would you? Not if you are smart, but yet, that is what most do.

That is what less than successful people do all the time! They expect others to buy the way they sell. To be successful professionally, or personally, in influencing others, we need to sell the way the other person buys! Get it? Adjust to them, don’t make them adjust to you!

When you learn WHY THEY BUY and adjust your presentation to them, whether it’s you family and friends or professional clients, customers, associates and potential partners, they more easily and readily and completely, can understand the offer you are making.

If It Isn’t Working For Most People They Do It Again Only Louder

When you appeal to why they buy and what is important to them, they can more readily and easily say ‘YES’ to you! Because they can recognize how your offer fits with what is important with them. Get it? You’ll be far more successful when you master this! Seriously!

If you don’t apply this, and continue to do what you have always done, you will continue to hear more ‘nos’ than ‘yeses’. You will fail to convince your family and friends and lose tons of money, leaving it on the table professionally, if you keep doing what isn’t working.

Doing more of that IS the definition of insanity. If you are pleased with the results you get, you can still benefit from learning improved ways of doing things. You can learn, grow and excel even more! If you are unhappy with your results, you must change what you do!

Whether You Think You Can Or You Think You Can’t You Are Right

In coming blogs I will share with you a powerful system for getting more yeses! I will share with you, some of the secrets, the science and the system for unlocking another person’s buying behavior to skyrocket your results. You will love learning this. I mean it!

I will share with you a webinar that you will want to watch all the way through to the end. It is lengthy, about 90 minutes, so make time for it. I’ll introduce you to a good friend and mentor of mine. You watch and you will get everything you need to, to begin a new way.

I am thrilled to share this information with you. Because, I’ve been doing this for forty years. I realized years ago if I didn’t speak my customers language (and who is my customer? ANYONE I am attempting to influence) I was not respecting them. It was I, who lost.

The Chameleon Is A Wise Creature It Adapts To Its Surroundings

Once I learned what I needed to learn, what I needed to do, and learned my customer’s language, everything changed. I am happy to share this with you. Get it? If you want to improve a lot of different areas of your life this is an important way to begin to do that.

Until next blog consider these thoughts and principles. Plus, be sure to focus on what you are grateful for, and what you enjoy about you and your present life. Keep the faith and know that you will unlock the door and make all sorts of good things happen as you, feel grateful, put on a positive mindset, and take right action. So celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Communicating, Listening, Rapport, Win Win Outcomes

Once They Hear Me How Do I Keep Them Listening?

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“Is knowing why they buy, everything you need to know in order to sell more? Yes and no. It ‘s damn close. Nearly everything, BUT what else do you need? Think about it for a second? You need the goods. You need to be able to deliver something OF value. Understand this!

You want repeat business! You want to sell your film, the real estate, the electronics, the make-up, the food snacks to repeat customers or consumers. You don’t always want to be looking for new leads. So while you may be able to sell swamp land, you had better not.

Knowing why they buy may make them vulnerable but it doesn’t make them stupid. You burn a potential life long customer and business partner, you hurt yourself, perhaps more, than you ever hurt them. Don’t hurt either. Respect them. Respect  their time!

Speak With Honesty – Think With Sincerity – Act With Integrity

Deliver on your promise. Be exemplary! Have the best product to offer. We all know you think you do already, but DO YOU? This is where the rubber meets the road. Have a product worth buying or investing in. Then offer it to them, the way they want it offered.

Don’t burn them and run. Your reputation will suffer near and far. Be ethical, honest, loyal, reliable, respectful and deliver on your promises. Keep your commitments. Never make excuses or blame. Own up to your mistakes. Take 100% responsibility and THEN…

Then if you do these things AND you take the time to learn why they buy, what their values are, and what they want or need, you can align your product or service with what is important to them. You provide solutions. You help them solve problems. You become a hero.

When You Make A Commitment You Build Hope …

Isn’t that what you want? You want to have them like and appreciate you, your product and service, so much they continue on with you for a lifetime. Plus, they refer you to all their associates and friends. Isn’t this the way to get ahead in business? Stop thinking short term.

Stop thinking I got to kill it this time. Yes, do your best, but develop long term trusting relationships. Your customers, clients and consumers will reciprocate more than you can imagine when you GO FIRST!  Go the extra mile for them. AND unlock why they buy!

Then meet their criteria for purchasing or investing. Meet their criteria for doing what it is you invite them to do. Whether it is with your family and friends and personal matters, or in your professional sphere of influence, meet them where they’re at. Not where you are.

… When You Keep Your Commitment You Build Trust

Next blog I’ll share with you a powerful way to meet them where they are at. This is crucial.  There are four things you must know, ultimately, and we will get to these. Meanwhile, determine if your script, service, film, product, talent or whatever, is good enough. Also, find something to be grateful about. Then, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Attention, Attitude, Certainty, Concentration

If It’s Not The Law Of Attraction What Is It?

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“If it isn’t the Law Of Attraction what is it? You’ve heard, ‘like attracts like’ and ‘birds of a feather flock together’ so what gives? How come you don’t get what you want if like attracts like? Is the the LOA bogus? I never liked that name anyhow. It is misleading.

I don’t think the original intenders of the phrase we misleading about it, but it has been misunderstood for a long time. It is better to think of it as the Law Of Attention. You get back whatever you give your attention to. Good or bad. What you focus on actually expands.

It works this way. You want a new car, house, job, or money. You imagine getting it. But when you do you notice that you don’t have it and it seems a far way off. You wish you had it, because everything would change once you do. You don’t have it, but you continue on.

When You Look In The Mirror You Get Back What You Already Are

As you do this your attention is on the unwanted. Your attention is on not having it. You are focused on the lack of it. Your feelings let you know this because when you think about it, you don’t feel free and joyful, you feel as if something is missing, AND it is! Get it?

You notice not having it, and you get more of not having it back. It is working but not to give you what you want. You think you are focused on what you want BECAUSE you want it. BUT what you really are aware of most, is not having it yet. AND it’s painful.

So you remain not having it. For you to change it, you must get excited about having it, and imagine you already do. Then you get back what you are focusing on, actually having it. Your feelings determine what you get back. True joy brings more true joy. Get it?

Energy Flows Where Your Attention Goes

The knack of making it work is to remain joyful, feeling wonderful, and feeling like you already have it, ON the inside, even while it is invisible on the outside. You must keep the faith and the feelings in spite of current circumstances. That is why gratitude helps so much.

Focus on what you already have and feel truly grateful. Be happy about whatever you have. Express actual joy about it all and feel it fully. Then you begin getting more of the good feelings and more of the good things you have. Then you attract more of the good stuff.

Be thankful for your job, car, money or home. Then, BECAUSE of your ATTENTION to gratitude and the good feelings more can come your way. In fact, it doesn’t magically appear, but you open the doorway to get these things by your mindset and attitude. You make it happen. You bring it about. So feel good. If you want good things in your life, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What We Can Learn From David Lynch’s Twin Peaks

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“I love the show by Mark Frost and David Lynch. Twin Peaks was phenomenal when it burst onto the television screen in the 90’s. Twin Peaks: The Return on Showtime 25 years later is phenomenal. There’s some  important lessons we can learn from this great show.

First, Twin Peaks is not for everyone. The new incarnation is brutal and the topic area, past and present, horrific. It is dark and twisted. Yet, in all of it, good exists and humor. Optimism in the face of terrifying and difficult times, prevail. There is good and evil.

Good may not always appear to win out at first. It may seem smothered at times, but keep the faith. Persist and stay true to the pursuit of the good. Keep your humor. Enjoy simple things. Have some coffee, pie or donuts. Remember, to ‘gift yourself’ says Cooper.

Grow Through What You Go Through

There is much to learn from inside the show. There is much to learn from the show design itself. Not everything is neatly wrapped up or explained for you. In this fashion, ABC’s Twin Peaks broke the mold of current TV in the 90’s and kept fans guessing for 25 years.

There are loose ends and rabbit holes. Lynch and Frost don’t tell you what to think or how to think. They let you figure things out for yourself. Not everything in life has answers you want. You may not like what you hear or receive. No one gives it to you. You seek it out.

What you find is up to you. You determine what you think it is all about. There is no fairy tale ending. There is no bad ending. There is no ending. It is open and you must decide where to go from here. It is all up to you. This story in in your hands. How do you resolve things?

Every Up And Down Provides You Lessons To Make you Strong

David Lynch has often said, as other artists have, that art is not to be explained by the artist but experienced by the experiencer. So what do you make of it? All three seasons of Twin Peaks, and the prequel Fire Walk With Me have been simultaneously loved and hated by fans.

That is art imitating life or life imitating art. Loose ends is all we have. We assign the meaning. Our lives are our stories. Our stories are our life. What do we tell? Do we love it or hate it? How much closure do we need to move on? There is no closure ever. Ever!

We are always in process. Keep seeking and you will find different meanings at different times. Secrets reveal themselves to those who persist. In the end, there may be no secrets. What will you do with that? What if it is all entertainment? What if it is just a ride to go on?

Life Isn’t Meant To Be Figured Out It Is Meant To Be Enjoyed

Perhaps, we never have it neatly wrapped up for us. Are you okay with that? Can you be thrilled with the ride just as it is? Twin Peaks is what it is. We interpret it. It doesn’t change for us, we adapt to it. Life is that way. Make the most of it while you can. Enjoy the ride.

Live in and with mystery. It is an ongoing process. It is eternal. There is nothing to really do except, accept all of it and, be grateful you can. Be glad you are able to have ups and downs. You are here. You are alive. You can be aware. You can live well if you choose. Let go of the need to make it something other than it is and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Abundance, Acceptance, Creativity, Flow

What Is It About David Lynch You Must Know?

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“David Lynch is a popular film director. Loved by many, misunderstood by many. He is an artist, a painter, a filmmaker, a woodworker and has many other talents. Recently, Twin Peaks, The Return, his 18 part television series for Showtime, aired and ended.

He is controversial and audacious. Love him or not, he is a maverick in many ways. Why do I mention David Lynch? David is also a practiced meditator. He makes time for meditation twice a day. He meditates even while working hectic and long hours on a film set.

He’s said meditation revolutionized his life. I believe that. When he speaks on creativity and where his ideas and stories come from, he says, it’s as if they flow to him, from somewhere else. You have to catch them, like catching the big fish.

You Don’t Always Need A Plan Sometimes You Need To Breathe

Perhaps, as he describes it, ideas come, and he is receptive, because of all of his years meditating. He is patient. He allows. He is receptive. He is in a positive altered state while meditating. This way ideas CAN come to him because he doesn’t interfere.

He’s said, ‘An idea is a thought. It’s a thought that holds more than you think it does when you receive it. But in that first moment there is a spark … You fall in love with the first idea, that little tiny piece. And once you’ve got it, the rest will come.’

That quote is from David Lynch’s book Catching The Big Fish. It isn’t during mediation that the ideas come, but as a result of meditating. He clears and opens his mind and heart, the process of letting go in meditation. This becomes a way of life. Ideas then come at any time.

When we live in a state of abundance everything we desire flows to us automatically. When we are receptive, we more readily receive because we tap into more of our inner power.  Be willing eager and trusting and you will receive easily. Be open to allow it all in!

Be Open To The Inflow And Outpouring Of The Universe

Make it a practice of being in the relaxed flow of abundance. Ideas, are abundant. There are plenty for everyone. Imagine your life, and be grateful for all you have. When you imagine having more than enough of everything, are full, not lacking anything, more comes!

Flow. Imagine things flowing to you. Be receptive. Be open. Allow. Make this a daily practice habit. See love, peace, kindness, things, money flowing to you. Notice how it feels and enjoy these feelings. It is the inner reality that is important. Feel it fully. Live it inside.

Focus on what you want by noticing and appreciating everything you already have. Don’t get distracted by what is outside of you. Concentrate on the inner positive feelings. Count your blessings. You are more than enough. You have everything you need.

Open Up To The Great Flow Of Abundance In All Areas Of Life

Honor yourself as creative and powerful. Stay focused. Enjoy and delight. Relax and let go and allow all to come to you. Think, ‘Unexpected good always comes my way.” Expect it. Receive it. Open the doors and the possibility of letting things in. You do this through celebration. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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