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Your Vision Becomes Prophecy

“What more can be said. This quote I share says it all. The power you seek is within you. If you can imagine it you can make it happen. You have to initiate it. Most of us have been trained or conditioned out of it through social conditioning. Shed that. Live with the power!

“Dream lofty dreams, and as you dream, so shall you become. Your vision is the promise of what you shall one day be; your Ideal is the prophecy of what you shall at last unveil.” James Allen

Settle for nothing less. Create what you want to create. Make good things happen and you will. Others have known this. Others are doing this purposefully or by accident. Isn’t it time you learned to create the life you want too? Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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That Fussy Law Of Creation And How To Get It To Work!

“Imagine you want to build a statue. You conceive of a statue of a tree. You gather the materials and begin to work. The you think, better if it were a bird. So you start making the bird. When you realize you really prefer a squirrel. You adjust and then decide again.

You should make a man. Off you go. BUT then a woman would be nice. So you conform. This is the nature of the mind. It flits from this to that. You have to harness it and direct it to make things happen. When you ultimately decide is when you will create that.

In the meantime you will be in flux. It will be this and then that but you will never really get ahead. Herein is the problem with not focusing your thought, aiming your thought on what you really want to create. You must decide, get clear, absolutely want it.

You Get What You Think About – What You Focus On Expands

Then plan to have it. Do you think the pyramids would ever exist if every few years the ruler changed his mind? Absolutely not. You conceive it, make a blueprint and work the blueprint. As good as the plan is will be as good as the creation is. Get it? It is all your mind.

Conceive it. Believe it and you can achieve it. Stay focused and you will make it happen. If you aren’t deliberate or sure of what you want you will only create chaos or confusion. You must first imagine it as finished. Completed. The plan how to accomplish it. Otherwise…

You either make things happen or you don’t. You either expand or contract. You are either living or dying. You either move forward or backwards. Those who attempt to do both mess things up, at least for awhile until they decide on the direction they want to move in. Get it? Do it! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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I Own This Planet! What Say You?

“I own this planet. It is my planet. It is my world. It is my life. It doesn’t happen to me I happen to it. I am not a victim of life. I am life. Life conforms to me and my thinking. I don’t a accept circumstances. I dictate the circumstances. I make things happen. I am a creator.

I am not a pauper I am a rich person. I own this planet. It is my garden paradise. I act like an owner not a guest. It is mine.  Life is mine to declare what I want and to make it what I want. Stop living as if you need permission. Stop accepting circumstance and make them.

Live fully! Stop acting like you don’t belong. This planet belongs to you. We are all co-owners. Take care of it and treat it, and what you want, as if you do own it, because you do. Stop wimping around, begging for crumbs. You own paradise and, yet, live as a pauper.

What You Focus On Expands – You Get What You Think About

Stop that victim mentality! Live with authority. Declare your power. Realize and recognize your power comes from within you not from without. You determine how you shall live and what you will or won’t have. You don’t have to deprive anyone to have everything you want.

There is enough for all. Declare your power. Declare your authority. Assist others in finding and declaring theirs. Stop thinking about dividing a pie and think about creating more than enough pies for everyone! Stop living poorly and live rich and abundantly!

Create what you want. Live it! Make it happen. If you don’t know how, learn how. Design your mind! Create your best life ever. I am here to help. Read the blogs. Watch my videos. Enroll in my programs. Invest in yourself. Live the live you deserve to live.

Thoughts Become Things – What You Think About You Get

Stop waiting and start living fully. Overcome your limitations and blocks and sky rocket your results. If you aren’t living for yourself, your best life ever, then you are living some sort of life for someone else. STOP! Start living large! Now is the time. Do it now! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Probably The Toughest Thing You Need To Do Is This!

“I am not saying it is difficult, but some will think so. This is probably the toughest thing you need to learn, to do and to master. Once you have accomplished this the rest becomes so easy. Actually, it is all easy. We are the ones who make it tough. We think it is hard.

Therefore it is. Mindset rules. Your attitude determines everything. If you think it difficult it will be more difficult than if you know it is easy. While there are always delightful surprises, realize, if you think it is tough, and it turns out not to be, you made it so to begin with.

You thought it would be hard and you acted the same even if ultimately it turned out not to be. Our thoughts shape our reality. So the toughest thing you need to learn to do is let go. Letting go actually is easy, most people just think it is difficult. So then it is.

If You Want To Be Happy – Then Just Be – Learn To Receive – Enjoy

Let go and let god. Trust the universe. Trust source. Trust your higher self. Stop intellectualizing. Stop trying to figure it out. Stop trying to do it. Let go and trust the universe will provide. Your subconscious will see you through. Maintain a positive mindset and let it happen.

Then you think, feel, say and do all the right things. Then you align with what you want. There is no friction. No resistance. The issue is most people try to do another’s job. They try to do the work of the universe. I mentioned I bought some CDs recently. That is true.

That is what I did. I ordered them. I paid for them. I acted first. I knew what I wanted and I put my order in. I paid with faith and cash that I will get them. Nothing is free and you must go first. Demonstrate your faith.  I let go and let the company and PO deliver them.

I Am Too Positive And Optimistic To Be Doubtful Or Fearful

I can’t do their job. I don’t want to. Still, many people put their order in and then try to do all the things to make it happen. They create resistance and frustration. They focus on lack and time frames and get their undies all in a bunch. Relax, let go. Let god or the universe.

Call it whatever works best for you. The thing you and I, all of us need to do, and we have not been conditioned for this from birth, but conditioned against it, is to know what we want, ask for it, order it, pay for it, and eagerly and thankfully receive it. Get it?

Acting as if means you act as if you already have it. You believe it is yours. How do you believe it? By pretending. Do that long enough, correctly, repeatedly and you will develop the belief. You will transform and renew your very own mind. If you don’t, you won’t!

We Can’t Solve Problems With The Same Thinking Creating Them

Learn to stop trying to do the universe’s job and do your part instead. Do your part really well. Then you open the pathway to get what you want. You remove the blocks and obstacles because you allow. You align your thoughts, feelings, words and actions to receive. So do it. Master this and you become a master manifestor. Meanwhile, always celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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The Action You Must Take To Succeed!

“People work hard to get ahead. Do you? They are very busy but less than productive. Their actions aren’t helping resolve difficulty or further their positive cause. Too often their actions are the very thing that inhibit success. If you aren’t succeeding yet, consider this.

Right action means inspired action. Not action for the sake of doing. When things go awry many people try to solve the problem and figure out what to do. Stop! Figure out what to be, instead. Manage your mindset and your feelings. Be the change you want to occur.

Inspired action means you are acting to receive, not acting to fix. You aren’t trying to make something happen or something different, you are acting to receive, to allow. You are acting from faith. You believe it is coming to you, resolving itself, and you allow it.

Hope And Confidence Lead To Success – Believe And Receive

You get out of the way. When successful people say ‘I never work’ they mean they enjoy what they are doing so much they don’t consider it work. They love doing what they do. That attitude, those feelings, bring about further success. They are having fun. Get it?

They aren’t fretting, they are flowing! When you feel in flow you are taking inspired action. You are allowing all to come to you and you are celebrating and having fun. You are thinking positive and feeling positive. All is good. All is delightful. Get it? Learn to let go and enjoy.

In flow everything feels effortless. You are moving with the current not against it. You go where it takes you. You move intuitively not intellectually. You aren’t trying to figure out what to do next you are allowing your inner wisdom to take you there. You follow. You allow.

Trust – Relax – Float – Feel Wonderful – Allow – Expect – Receive

When you are truly grateful for all, you are in the moment. You are in flow. Your thoughts, feelings, words, behaviors or actions are all in alignment. The story you tell is uplifting and positive. Everything is lined up with you getting what you want. There is no discord, no distraction, no fear, worry or doubt. You believe and receive. So celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Are You A Faux Optimist?

“Some people think, ‘I can’t’ but who think they are, or may appear to be optimists, but they are not. They say nice things, but think mostly negative thoughts. A true optimist thinks ‘can do’ and handles any challenge. They see possibility, opportunity, success.

They don’t notice or pay attenton to negativity because they ARE an optimist. Remember, they see the glass half full. They think, ‘I can’. The negative person, pretend optimist, sees the glass half empty, not full, and worries this will disrupt their happiness. They worry a lot.

They are afraid, something will spoil their happiness. Their negativity does hamper their happiness. True happiness, or bliss or peace, transcends worry and fear. It only sees what is possible and what is good. It is not afraid of what is bad or what can’t be done. 

Optimism Is The Faith That Leads To Accomplishment

It notices it and then looks back toward the positive to what can be done and what is good and what is the potential for changing it. Then they do something positive. They don’t retreat or fear or segregate. Their awareness is recognizing when a change needs to take place.

From that awareness they then find solutions. They do not let the need for change cause discomfort. After all, they are true optimists. The look for and find the good in all. So, the true optimist isn’t bothered by anyone or anything. The live free from fear.

If one fears the negative, their actual focus is on the negative. If they doubt, worry or fear, that is where their attention it. That is where their energy goes. That is what they create and attract. Stop focusing on the negative. The optimist already knows this.

Pessimism Leads To Weakness Optimism Leads To Power

It is really quite simple when it comes down to it. You are what you eat. You are what you fill yourself with. You are where you spend your time. You are what you embrace. You are what you focus on. Therefore, focus on the good, the joyful. the fun, gratitude, positivity, peace, love, kindness and abundance. Stop focusing on anything less. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Only Need To Ask Once Damnit!

“You only need to ask once. Yes, I know, some of you have had children and are in the habit of asking them to do something many times. Some grew up begging their families for things over and over. But you know what, with the universe you only have to ask once.

I ordered some CDs the other day. I ordered one of each, one time. I didn’t keep reordering my CDs. I placed the order and now wait for them to be delivered. I relax, and let go and let the powers in charge take care of delivering my order. Do the same with the universe!

Ask. Place your order. Let go. Relax. Wait, eagerly expecting your order to arrive in the perfect time. Some people think they must ask again and again. You don’t. You ask once. Yes, affirm again and again how grateful you are that you now have it. Maintain your faith!

Ask Believing You Will Receive And You Shall Receive It – Believe

This point many miss. Act like you already have it! Feel the feelings of having it now, even before it arrives. Don’t notice the waiting, notice the enjoyment. Affirm having it and how good this feels. Napoleon Hill said, do it at least twice a day. Do it. Enjoy this!

You may be used to dealing with co-workers, bosses and employees whom you have had to ask again and again. That is people. I’m talking the universe, Source, your subconscious. Trust and rely on the process. Let go and let god. Allow your gifts to come. Expect!

‘See the things you want as already yours. Know that they will come to you at need. Then let them come. Don’t fret and worry about them. Don’t think about your lack of them. Think of them as yours, as belonging to you, already in your possession.’ Robert Collier.

One Cannot Think Crooked And Walk Straight – Believe It Is Yours

Enjoy the quote. Put it into practice. Ask and keep the faith. Believe you will receive and you will receive. Without faith it is impossible. You will vacillate. With faith anything is possible. Ask, believe, and receive. That is how it works. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You Won’t Succeed If You Can’t Do This!

“I’d rather tear my hair out than twiddle my thumbs. Completion is the sign of genius. Any fool can start something. It takes one with dedication and commitment, follow through and will to complete what one began.

If you committed to something, someone or yourself, KEEP your commitments. That is how you get back more good stuff from universe. You can’t feel good if you let yourself or others down. You get back what you put out.  You get back is more of the same!

Universe doesn’t care whether you are right or wrong, good or bad, positive or negative, you get back what you are! Now, substitute subconscious for universe and you see it is all the same. It doesn’t matter whether you believe in law of attraction or not. It doesn’t!

A Promise Means Everything – Once Broken It Means Nothing

For every cause there is an effect. Are you at cause or are you at effect? Too many people spend too much wasted time not completing things. Hence, they end up with more things they never finish. You don’t win or get the prize unless you cross the finish line!

Others won’t trust you if you fail to do what you say. You won’t trust yourself much if you don’t complete what you start. It is important you to do things without excuse or blames. Take responsibility for getting it done or not getting it done. Just own up to it all!

Don’t waste people’s time by making excuses. Don’t waste your time with excuses. Own up to your word. The best thought to think is: ‘My word is law! Whatever I say I make happen.’ So never break your word. Keep your word and you will have greater success.

People With Character Keep Their Word – Keep You Word

One reason why people don’t get what they want is because they vacillate between doing and not doing, faith and doubt, wanting and avoiding what they don’t want, positive and negative. We become whatever we think about most. What we think and say, we get.

If you can’t trust yourself, nor can others to keep your word, what value have you? Consider your word, regardless of whether or not you ‘promise’, as an oath. Live with honor and integrity. When you complete what you set out to do you will see you get more rewards that you could imagine! Think, ‘this is a day of completion. thy will be done!’ then go do it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How To Live Free Of Energy Vampires

“Never let wrongdoers spoil you day or your mood. Rise above the fray. Remain untouched while fighting for a better way. Never fall to their level. It only harms you and does little to affect them. Don’t fight fire with fire. Light doesn’t drive out darkness it just is light.

Love instead of hate. Take the higher road. Live stress free. Stop being distracted by news and media. There is far more good than not so good. Don’t get caught up. When you get caught up, distracted or predominantly negative you give away your power.

Power comes from within, not from without. Seek higher self. Seek higher counsel. Seek love and light. Stay optimistic. Keep the faith in what you can positively accomplish to bring good about. Don’t get caught in circumstances, events and energy vampires. Rise above!

Skill Comes Of Doing – The More You Do The More You Can Do

Live, love, laugh and learn from everything. All adversity contains seeds of learning and opportunity. You have to look. One door closes another opens. You decide how you live. You decide what your experience will be. You either react like knee jerk or you respond.

Fill your mind with positive and inspiring material. Hang out with optimistic, positive, good people. Listen to inspiring, motivational audios. Attend workshops where other high vibe people are. Speak only to bless, heal, prosper, inspire and motivate. Create good!

Responding is from choice and from you higher self and from power. So be grateful. Fill yourself with light. Meditate. Let go. Seek peace and joy. Allow peace and light to fill you. Receive. Be thankful. Consider everything a blessing. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Do This When Things Don’t Go Your Way

“Hey, it happens. People let you down. They don’t show up. They may break their promises. Events are cancelled. Less than glorious circumstances occur. People may lie, cheat or steal. What to do it? Most people get angry, frustrated, sad or want revenge. Do you?

It is natural. Especially depending on how and where you were raised. Bad things happen and we get disappointed and mad. We get consumed with negative thoughts. We think how it is unfair, shouldn’t happened or could have been otherwise. We obsess.

If you find yourself doing any of these it is natural. It is reacting from prior past conditioning. It is automatic and habitual. This is what you have done before so you do it again. The circumstances or people may change but the reaction is pretty much the same. Same ole stuff.

You Are Right Now Where Your Thoughts Have Brought You

However, you don’t have to do this again. You can change it. You can decide to be different and choose to respond instead of react. You can be in charge instead of a victim. You CAN change everything in an instant by changing what you choose to think and focus on.

Instantly! You can change the meaning of any event by changing what you think about. That said, learning to choose to think differently may take a little time but if you never start doing it a new way you will always be stuck doing it the old way. Get it? Change it!

It requires awareness. You must become aware you are going down the old pathway and must will yourself to think and feel and act differently. If you think this suck you must change it you something else. If you don’t you will just feel the same old way you always have.

You Will Be Tomorrow Where Your Present Thoughts Take You

You can realize that you don’t know everything and that while things didn’t pan out how you had hoped perhaps there is a lesson or some other good to come of it. Someone lets you down. You can be angry and blame or you can choose to examine why it matters so much.

You can explore how you might feel different. You might look for whatever other good could possibly come from this. After all you determine whether it is a problem or not. If you choose to look at it as a blessing instead then it isn’t a problem. It is your choice.

BUT you exclaim, it doesn’t seem like a choice. It seems like hard work. YUP it is whatever you declare it to be. You will always live from your filters, what you think and tell yourself and what you believe things to be. To change you must change these things.

Learn To Manage Your Thoughts Because You Can’t Escape Them

So yes, it takes some work. Just a getting physically fit takes some work. It is up to you. Stay the same or become new. Your choices, your decisions determine exactly what you get from life’s influences. You either fight it or go with the flow. You either feel bad or good.

Every moment it is your choice. The key to transformation is laying the ground work. Doing what may be difficult long enough until it becomes easy. If you want something  you will find a way to do it. If not you will find excuses and stay the same. What will you do now?

Begin to consider what positive steps you can take to think and feel differently? How might this be beneficial? How good will you feel when you discover the hidden blessing? Where else might you positively put your attention to begin to feel better? Ask yourself!

What We Want To Do With Ease We Must First Do With Diligence

Direct your mind, feelings, words and behaviors. STOP immediately and reframe it. Tell yourself a different story. Manage your self-talk and negative imagining. Stop feeling the victim and choose to be the victor. Look for the positive, the good and emphasize these now!

It is completely up to you. Choose to be different. Choose to think and feel differently. Set the intention. Make the decision. That is the beginning of your transformation. It won’t ever happen unless you do it. Focus on the good. Stop making it a problem. Look for what there is to be grateful for instead. Take positive steps to think and feel better. Consider it a blessing. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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