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Act As If, Beliefs, Expectations, Faith

Your Eyes Always Deceive You

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“Your eyes will always deceive you. So will your ears. In fact, all of our senses deceive us on a regular basis. Still, people insist they will believe something only when they see it. This, is a sad state of affairs. Our neurology deceives us. Our brains see, our eyes really don’t.

We interpret what we see. The mind does the real seeing. We pay attention to limited amounts of information. Our brain filters much of the incoming data. We make associations and connect memories to what is going on. We miss much of what else may be there.

We have biases. We have habitual ways of noticing things and of missing things. What we pay attention to determines much of how things go. We can miss opportunities right in front of us because we are paying attention to something else at the time. What to do?

Expect The Best And Get It – Expectations Shape Your Results

If you want to see something, believe that you will. This is how it actually works. Expectations can shape our results. Expect it to be a good day, no matter what, and you are more likely to have one. Expect the best and you are more likely to find it. Believe it!

Things may come along that throw a wrench into the day, but if your expectation is that you can have a good one, no matter what, you can handle it, all will ultimately be fine, you are far more likely to. Your attitude determines what you pay attention to. Mindset matters.

Expect to be healthy, rich, loving and kind. Expect your best. Expect the best of others. Expect the best outcome in any situation and you are more likely to make that happen. You marshall your resources when you think positively and optimistically. Put yourself in charge.

Attitude Is Everything – You Get What You Focus On 

Believe miracles are possible and you are more apt to discover one. What you focus on expands. Energy flows where your attention goes. Manage your thoughts and your expectations. Believe everything always works out for the best. Believe in yourself.

Be thankful for the opportunities each day to discover how blessed you actually are. Count your blessings. Discover your blessings. The more you look and are grateful, the more you will find. Delight in all of it. Everything can be wonderful. It really can. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Act As If, Attitude, Beliefs, Creating The Future

Are You Attracting What You Want Or What You Don’t Want?

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“What is the biggest mistake people make in thinking about the Law Of Attraction (LOA)? What is the main reason people don’t attract what they want? How come it works for some but not for others? If you have questions or concerns like these then read on. I’ll answer.

People erroneously think that you use the Law Of Attraction to attract what you want, but that is a mistake. The principle that applies is ‘like attracts like’. So, you attract what you are, already, like. You do not attract what you aren’t, even if you want that.

I’ll rephrase that. If you are broke and you want to be rich, you will continue to attract broke, because like attracts like. Yes, you want to be rich but you can only attract back to you what you already are. Like attracts more of the same back. Do you understand this?

The More You Are Grateful – The More You Will Be Given

It doesn’t attract something different. It attracts the same. This is why you do mindset work. This is why you correct your thinking and feelings. Napoleon Hill said you trick your subconscious mind in certain ways. How? By thinking and acting as if you already are it.

You think and act and speak and feel as if you are already rich. You stop acting broke and start acting as if you have plenty of money and abundance. As you do this, daily, you begin to actually take on those thoughts and feelings. You convince yourself. You begin to believe.

When you believe you are rich, worthy, deserving, abundant and feel wonderful about it you attract that back into your life. You get more of the same. You do not attract what you want. You attract what you are! Do you now understand? You can make the LOA work for you.

Gratitude Is The Open Door To Abundance 

To do so, you must do some work, first. You prepare the soil for planting seeds. You do the same with the LOA. You act as if, you think it, speak it, feel it fully, first.  That IS preparing the soil. Once you believe it, you have planted the seeds. So yes, prior work is required.

Like attracts like.  If you are happy, you attract more happiness. If you feel rich, you attract more riches. You get more of what you already are. Most people are not what they want to attract yet, so they continue to attract the old stuff.

They focus on debt but want riches. They end up getting more debt. They focus on sickness but want health. They end up staying ill. They focus on what is wrong with their life partner but they want the perfect relationship. Do you see the pattern here? Do you get it?

If You Focus On What You Don’t Have You’ll Never Have Enough

You attract what you ARE presently. Whatever that is, good or bad, positive or negative. So what are you attracting? Look around you, examine your life. If it isn’t what you want you have some changes to make.  It’s cool we have this feedback that let’s us know what to do.

If you don’t have the results you want, then, you must make changes so that you can start getting them. If you want your life to change you must changes some things in your life. Change your thinking and feeling. Act as if you already have the success you desire. Go first!

Gratitude for what we presently have is the key. The more grateful you are, the better you feel. The better you feel the more good things you attract. Be grateful for finding a penny on the street. Why? Because that is finding money! You just found some money!

The More You Celebrate Your Life The More There Is To Celebrate

The brain and universe doesn’t care if it is a penny or a million dollars. It is money! Celebrate finding money. Celebrate being lucky. Celebrate whatever comes to you.  Your gratitude for money brings you more money. Appreciation adds value to everything. It does!

Your gratitude for health brings you more. Your gratitude for happiness brings you more happiness. When you vibrate high you attract much more. Remember, we get what we are! We do not get what we want.  If you really want it be grateful.

Appreciate the present and you’ll have a better future. How you feel right now determines how you will feel later on. You get back more of what you are. Live with delight. Live with ‘yes’. Live with fun, passion, enjoyment, enthusiasm. Live playfully. Live, love and laugh. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Acceptance, Awareness, Beliefs, Blessings

You Can’t Create Abundance! Anyone Who Says You Can Is Lying

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Anyone who tells you that you can create abundance lies! Either they are deliberately lying to you or they are misinformed. You cannot create abundance. The notion is wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong! You have been duped, if you think you can.

Abundance is our natural state. It is the condition of the universe we are all born into. You cannot create abundance. You can demand it, declare it, intend it, accept it, allow it, invite it, and resist it but you cannot create something that already is! However, you do create.

You create limitations. You create resistance. You create not having. You create excuses, whines and blames. You create reasons and needs and wants. Consider this. The universe already is abundant. That IS what the universe IS. According to this you have everything.

The Secret To Having It All Is Believing You Already Do

You already have everything you want and need. However, if you don’t have it in your physical reality THAT is an indication you are resisting having it. What resists persists. If you don’t have money and wealth now, then somehow you are resisting it.  Get it?

It is already there for you. Perhaps, you haven’t declared it, or allowed it or accepted it or received it. You resist having it or you would already have it. This is great news because it begins to inform you what you need to to enjoy what you already have.

Your wanting and needing it may be pushing it away. Your doubt, worry, fear, sadness, anger depression, may be  keeping it from you. Abundance is yours already. If you don’t have what you desire, perhaps, you have to let go of that which keeps it away. Let it go!

You Tune Into Abundance – You Don’t Acquire Abundance

Drop it and allow. Celebrate having it. Appreciate having it. If you really did have it you would feel good about it, wouldn’t you? For you to ‘manifest’ it in the here and now you ought to be feeling good; as if you already have it. Act As If! Celebrate and enjoy. Give thanks.

We give thanks for what we have! When you give thanks you allow room for more. You act generously, too. That doesn’t mean you have to give away your last dollar bill. It means you think and act more generously. Maybe you tip larger or compliment more frequently.

Happiness doesn’t come to those who aren’t happy! Happiness comes to those who celebrate life. It IS the journey not the destination. Abundance in all things IS already yours. Why live as a pauper? Live as if in the garden of paradise. Make your life grand.

Abundance Is A Celebration Of Life – Celebrate Everything

Don’t wait. Celebrate now. Stop resisting. Start living. Live fully. Allow, accept and enjoy! Encourage and give. Act like one who has it and you will discover the many more ways you already do have it. AND you will get more of it. Delight. Live joyously! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Beliefs, Learning, Rehearsal And Practice, Self Talk

How To Make Changes For Yourself And Help Others!

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“I was interviewed, just the other day, by coach Tim O’Keefe. I share his audio podcast as today’s blog. Tim had this to say. ‘The Amazing Rex Sikes. Go on a journey as he teaches us how to perform better so that we can help our players perform better.

Thanks to Rex Sikes for giving, and I mean giving, so much time to me this past week. The interview will take you on a bit of a ride. As he weaves his magical languaging to give us the right message at the right dose. And you feel like it was said specifically for you.

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Well, that is it. I hope you enjoy listening to today’s blog. It includes tips on coaching others and much of discussion on how we can transform ourselves. Let me know what you think in the comments.

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I hope you enjoyed and  learned lots that you can apply. Continue to delight, have fun and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Beliefs, Conditioning, Creating The Future, Letting The Past Go

Watch Your Words: You Get What you Say You Will

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“You have been talking to yourself and saying things to yourself for years and years. You have been repeating many of the ‘same old things’, perhaps, for decades. You have been telling others, too. You have, haven’t you? You have been repeating a story you tell to all.

Your story is what you think you and life are all about. You tell yourself and others your limitations, problems, setbacks, dashed hopes, worries, anxieties and everything else! Don’t you? My guess is, while some things change, much of your story remains the same.

It is consistent. It is why you are stuck, broken, limited and unable in to move ahead. Yes, at times you may mention your personal resources. Regardless, you, I and everyone, have been repeating stories about ourselves since our childhood. We need to watch it.

What You Say Is What You Get – What You Focus On Expands

The stories may or may not be real. I say they aren’t. Some will argue that. These stories are our reasons, our ‘becauses’, our ‘whys’ for what is. They’re explanations we got from others when we were too young to know the difference. We’ve lived with these for years.

Now, is the time to change your story. If the one you tell doesn’t support you in being the person you want to be, doing the things you’d like to do and having what you want, then it is time to stop telling the old non-supportive story. Swap it for a supportive one.

Make up a new one. The old one was made up. It’s just a fairy tale you believed. Make up a better one; one that is positive, productive, supportive and which helps you live the life you want to live. Change your story for one that works for you, instead of against you.

If You Say What You Have – You Will Have What You Say

The time to do this is right now. There is no better time. Now, is the only time. Do it. Don’t wait. Waste time, no more. Get into it and create the story and the life you want to be living. If you won’t, no one will do it for you. Create your life and make it happen. Yes!

Then you will live the life you design. You will live life on your terms. Tell it the way you want it to be. Tell it as you want it to unfold. Speak it into existence. Re-write your history and fashion your future. Create what you want instead of accepting someone else’s version. Do it! Live, love, laugh. Learn to enjoy. Be grateful. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Live fully today!

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Acceptance, Beliefs, Choice, Pain

Learn From Pain It Teaches You

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“There are many forms of pain and discomfort; Mental or psychic; Emotional; Physical and Spiritual . Through the ages people have questioned whether or not there is an advantage to pain. What is the purpose? We are told it is a way to stop and care for ourselves.

Still, we don’t want it. We do anything to avoid it or escape from it. I can’t tell you what to do about your pain or what it means to you or for you. It is highly individual. I am not qualified to provide medical advice. I can share what I have discovered for myself.

This may be meaningful for you. I don’t like pain anymore than the next person. I’ve learned more on how to welcome it and embrace it. I have learned how to utilize it and go through it. What I discovered, and continue to, is that pain is a signal and a great teacher.

If Everything Were Perfect You Would Never Learn Anything

Pain lets us know there is something amiss in our body, mind, heart and spirit. It signals us so we can address whatever is not right. We get that, most of us do, anyway, when it comes to physical pain. Most of us miss it when it is mental, emotional or spiritual pain.

These forms of pain show up in many ways; regret, anguish, negative thinking, laziness or procrastination, apathy, melancholy, depression, anxiety, anger, loneliness and more. These seem harder to identify as signals but they are signals, none the less.

People, myself included, give in or wallow in these forms of pain. We want out. We want to escape but we accept and live with it. Instead of recognizing these signals that a change is needed or that there is a lesson for us, we succumb to the pain as if there’ s no alternative.

If You Are Not Learning And Changing You Are Not Growing

There is an alternative. Stop. Breathe. Shift your thinking. Focus on what you want, not on what you don’t want. It isn’t always easy but it gets easier the more you do it. You train yourself to move away from what you don’t want and towards what you do want. It IS training!

You train yourself to act instead of giving in. It is a conditioning. You  replace an old habit with a new productive supportive one. You learn to recognize the less than glorious signals, for what they are and, then stop, breathe and shift your thinking to what it is you want.

When your thinking shifts your feelings can follow. Another way you can alter your feelings and thinking is through physical activity. Change your breathing, work in a garden, take a walk, sing, dance, meditate. Do something that changes your state for the better.

Learn To Listen In Silence To Your Inner Wisdom And Voice

Many people use drugs and alcohol to escape. You don’t need to do that. You can change your physiology, your activity level and shift your thinking and emotions without drugs. You can positively influence yourself to grow and evolve and transform wonderfully.

Another method is to embrace the pain. Stay with it and go through it. Ask what lessons and beliefs are hidden within? What is it trying to get you to learn? Some of use get the same events, circumstances, people, and pains in our life over and over. There is a message here.

What do you need to learn so you can become free of these repetitive patterns? Explore and discover. You can shift and manage the pain while asking the same questions and learn from it. Be still! Listen to your inner voice. You may have been loud for too long.

Be Still And Know – In Every Obstacle Is The Seed Of Opportunity

You have to become still because you haven’t listened to yourself. You’ll need to re-learn how to. When you accept and celebrate and are grateful for the lessons and the pain you may find yourself becoming free of them. As you learn, you let go of the old.

Gratitude and appreciation are so powerfully transformative! They open the doorways to vast treasures within yourself and without. Express your thankfulness for everything good and not so good. Feel blessed by everything that comes your way. Then you ARE free!

Accept. Let go. Be thankful. Stop. Breathe and shift. Move, dance, sing, Allow. Embrace. Explore. Reflect. Discover. Feel blessed. Express it. Journal it. State it. Declare it. Affirm It. Visualize it. Dream it, Imagine it. Celebrate it. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Celebrate no matter what!

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Beliefs, Creating The Future, Faith, Intentional Thinking

What I Learned From Manifesting Parking Spaces

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“What I learned from manifesting a parking space I didn’t expect to actually get. Miracles happen. Lessons abound. Keep the faith. Make things happen and accept whatever is. I settled for the first spot instead of risking and going for the one right in front.

So what it is all good. It is what it is. Allow it. Trust it. Continue to create and attract and allow and accept. Don’t try to push the water. Understand that this or something better exists for me. Everything IS a blessing, an opportunity and a learning. Take from that. Learn.

I got exactly what I wanted. A spot right in front AND a back up spot. Precisely, as I imagined them. I created the back up because I wasn’t convinced I could get the first spot. Always go for what you want. In this case I got both and took the second one because it was there.

What You Think And Feel Always Manifests – Do You Notice It

I encountered it first. Rather to be safe than sorry I snatched it. The other one was around the corner waiting. I couldn’t see around the corner. My unexpected good was right there. It would be easy to blame or make myself wrong but NOPE. That isn’t the case.

I created what I wanted. I got what I was ready in that moment to accept. No harm no foul. All is good. I don’t take this to mean take more risks. Nope. I did what I did. What amazes me most is that even while I didn’t believe I could have what I wanted I got all of it.

Then I didn’t take the prime spot. So what. I create or attracted or lucked into both spots. Whatever you want to think about it there are lessons here. What are yours? I am still learning from it. I could say more but enough for today. Bottom line celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

*** THIS could be the opportunity for you. Coaching is a $1 billion a year (and growing) industry. Discover whether you should get in on this trend when you download Christy Whitman’s free e-book, Everything You Need to Know About Becoming a Successful Life Coach. You’ll also get access to her new 5-part online coaching workshop.

Click the link below to get free ebook.

https://christywhitman.isrefer.com/go/ebook/SelfHelp

Click the link below to access the free 5 video workshop.

https://christywhitman.isrefer.com/go/freetraining/SelfHelp

Full Disclosure: I do not earn anything if you explore the link. If you do end up buying something that interests you there, I get some kind of a little thank-you referral. It does not  cost you anything extra when that happens. It absolutely does not cost you anything to look at the site. I would not recommend anything to you I did not think was worthwhile. I would not recommend anything to you that I do not approve of.  You have my personal word it is a solid recommendation.

ENJOY!

Appreciate yourself and those around you today!

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Beliefs, Creating The Future, Faith, Visualization

Can You Visualize And Make Things Happen?

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“I learned a lesson about manifesting by manifesting a parking space. Something so small many people would call it a coincidence. Perhaps. Still, see what you can derive and learn from this example from my experience. You may come away with a lot of insight.

I stayed at an apartment, in an area, that did not require a nighttime parking permit. Across the street to the south and a block a way a permit was required. This is where I would park if I couldn’t find a space on my street. My street was packed and spaces were rare.

They were much rarer if you parked there after 5pm. During the previous week no spots were available after 5 or 5:30 pm. I was going to be traveling the next day. I’d been at a meeting which was delayed. I left at 7:30 pm. I knew I’d have to park a block away.

What You Hold In Your Head You Can Hold In Your Hand

I decided at that moment to create a spot for myself right in front of the gate to the apartment. I saw it clearly in my mind. I affirmed that this was what I wanted. Heck, I’d even take a nearby one around the corner too. That was still close enough. I threw in the 2nd request.

Why? I imagined two spots because frankly, the likelihood of getting a spot in front of my apartment was nearly zero. I didn’t want to be disappointed in not getting one. I doubted there would be one. It was actually difficult for me to muster up enough energy to do it.

My thinking was don’t do this. There won’t be a spot and it will just weaken your convictions. Doubt, is a great de-motivator. I didn’t want to try something and have it not work. If I don’t know it won’t work I am willing, but I was certain this wouldn’t work. I knew it.

What You See Is What You Get

So I determined the first spot right out front and then a back up spot just in case. Neither were even remotely likely. I drove up the street and lo and behold the back up spot was available. I thought better take it now while it is here. I was tempted to drive around the corner.

I wanted there to be a spot in front of the apartment but if I didn’t take this one and there wasn’t I might miss out on this one too. I nabbed it. I parked. I felt good enough. I walked around the corner and there in front was the available space just as I imagined.

Both spots were there. I took the first one  got to, to be safe. This was unreal. Both spots in the exact places I visualized at a time when every day that week, and prior to that, there would be none. I felt fantastic, and a little bit disappointed I didn’t turn the corner first.

What You Focus On Expands – You Get What You Think About

I learned a lot from this experience which I will share soon. What might you have learned from my experience? This is important to explore? What might you have gleaned that you can use to manifest and create what you want in life? Please answer this for yourself.

What are your beliefs? Your convictions? Your doubts? What can you do to assist yourself in beginning to manifest with greater ease?  Take some time. I’ll share more soon. Meanwhile, enjoy! Delight and keep making great things happen. Practice gratitude and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

*** THIS could be the opportunity for you. Coaching is a $1 billion a year (and growing) industry. Discover whether you should get in on this trend when you download Christy Whitman’s free e-book, Everything You Need to Know About Becoming a Successful Life Coach. You’ll also get access to her new 5-part online coaching workshop.

Click the link below to get free ebook.

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Click the link below to access the free 5 video workshop.

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Full Disclosure: I do not earn anything if you explore the link. If you do end up buying something that interests you there, I get some kind of a little thank-you referral. It does not  cost you anything extra when that happens. It absolutely does not cost you anything to look at the site. I would not recommend anything to you I did not think was worthwhile. I would not recommend anything to you that I do not approve of.  You have my personal word it is a solid recommendation.

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Appreciate yourself and those around you today!

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Beliefs, Blessings, Focus, Overcoming Difficulty

You Gotta Move A Lot Of Dirt To Get To The Gold!

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“When you dig for gold you have to move tons of dirt. You’re not looking for the dirt. You’re looking for the gold. Still, you move all this dirt to find just a few ounces. The same is true when you seek to change and evolve yourself. You move the dirt to uncover the gold.

Sadly, some people focus on the dirt. They get caught up in the dirt. They revel in the dirt, talk about dirt, complain about dirt. Dirt, dirt, dirt. That is all they know. They don’t want the dirt but they perpetuate it. Instead of getting rid of dirt, they bag it and carry it.

When you begin to change and evolve you will encounter things about yourself you may not appreciate. You will find beliefs that don’t serve you. Memories of past hurts. You may be disappointed in a variety of ways, yet, this is all part of transformation and change.

The Future Can Be Better Than The Past And I Can Make It So

Remove the dirt that keeps your true self hidden. In order to discover who you are, eliminate what holds you back. Let it go. Drop it. Don’t wallow in it. Sift it for nuggets. Examine it and drop it. Don’t hang on to the dirt. Hang on to the treasures you find.

Since, you know you will encounter less than glorious thoughts and feelings, be prepared. Recognize these for what they are: opportunities to discover your true self hidden within them. Your obstacles, challenges, bad feelings, everything, are opportunities.

Remember, you get what you focus on! What you focus on expands. You get back more of what you put out.  They are not just opportunities but blessings! You are blessed. Go within. Appreciate yourself. Appreciate the journey. Appreciation always adds value!

Within In You Is The Light Of A Thousand Suns

Appreciate the dirt for it has kept you, the real you, hidden safe within it. It served its purpose. Now, let it go. Celebrate it! Learn from it. Learn from everything. Appreciate everything. Celebrate yourself. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

*** Here is an opportunity for you. Coaching is a $1 billion a year (and growing) industry. Discover whether you should get in on this trend when you download Christy Whitman’s free e-book, Everything You Need to Know About Becoming a Successful Life Coach. You’ll also get access to her new 5-part online coaching workshop.

Click the link below to get free ebook.

https://christywhitman.isrefer.com/go/ebook/SelfHelp

Click the link below to access the free 5 video workshop.

https://christywhitman.isrefer.com/go/freetraining/SelfHelp

Full Disclosure: I do not earn anything if you explore the link. If you do end up buying something that interests you there, I get some kind of a little thank-you referral. It does not  cost you anything extra when that happens. It absolutely does not cost you anything to look at the site. I would not recommend anything to you I did not think was worthwhile. I would not recommend anything to you that I do not approve of.  You have my personal word it is a solid recommendation.

ENJOY!

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Awareness, Beliefs, Imagination, Limitation

How Not To Make Yourself Or Others Wrong

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“Perception is everything. What you perceive IS what is. Someone says, ‘you hurt me’.  It may or may not be accurate. You may or may not have done anything, but, if they perceive it to be the case, then that is the reality. At least, for them. However, you are included.

Thus, it is somehow the reality for you, too. Do not argue against them. Don’t  say, ‘it’s all in your head. You’re making it up. You’re crazy. That’s not true.’ Making them wrong, won’t make it right. It is what they believe the reality is. You believe otherwise.

Everybody believes what they believe. Each of us believes our experience is the truth. It may not be. Still,  that’s what we believe it is. We want to be right. We don’t want to be told that we are wrong or crazy or insane or that it’s ridiculous to believe. We hate that.

The Limits Of Your Vision Are Not The Limits Of The World

Some say, ‘I saw with my own eyes. I heard with my own ears!’ Have you ever recounted a past event with a family member, or friend, and you have completely different versions of what occurred? It’s because we recall different elements. We perceive it differently.

If someone says they were slighted by you seek to find out exactly what occurred. Discover why they feel slighted. Attempt to smooth things over through rapport,  with trust and understanding. Put yourself in their shoes. Understand where they’re coming from.

By doing this, you preserve the relationship and, you might discover how they construed your behaviors to mean something particular. If you DID do something, even if you didn’t intend it, wouldn’t you want to make it better? Wouldn’t you want to correct it, if you could?

Difficulties Are Just Things To Overcome And Learn From 

Would you not want someone to do the same for you?  I assume you would want them to be understanding, patient, and tolerant of you. You’d prefer them to  not make snap judgments about you. Correct? Seek to understand where the other person is coming from.

You may help them see it differently. The high road may be to not defend, but say, ‘I am sorry. I didn’t mean to. That wasn’t my intent. What can I do to make up for it? How can we move past this?’ It isn’t about blaming you or them. It is about creating understanding.

Whenever you can build bridges instead of burn bridges that is what you might attempt to do. It may turn out they simply misunderstood you or that you inadvertently did, or said something, that hurt them. If you have a chance to make it better, do so. Don’t let ego prevent.

People See And Believe What They Want To See And Believe

It is better than blaming, even if they are. Blaming back, won’t help anything. Making excuses, whining, complaining, getting angry or getting even, doesn’t help. Perception is everything. It is what we believe is real. Whether it is or isn’t, we believe it to be.

You might think the economic downturn is why you have problems. It is why you have debt or can’t get a job. This will make it more difficult for you to get ahead. That’s a belief. That is what you perceive the situation to be. It may or may not be accurate.

You might believe the weather prevents you from doing certain things.  You may believe that your family or your educational background prevents you from creating success.  There could be ‘some truth’ to these.  A company may not be hiring. Get it?

What We See Never Has Anything To Do With The Truth

A company may require you have a particular degree  in order to get work. That doesn’t mean your your life is over if you don’t have one. There are plenty of wealthy,  happy people who aren’t educated well. Still, they became successful. They didn’t let it stop them. Don’t you.

Limitations only exist in the mind. Our imagination can be our best friend or our worst enemy. Problems exist mostly in the mind. It is what we think we can’t do that limits us. It is not thinking and not discovering what we can do that limits us. It is our imagination.

What we perceive the reality to be, will be what our reality is. If we think we are right and they are wrong, so be it. If we think they are right and we are wrong, so be it.  Whatever we think and believe to be the case or the reason becomes our story about what is.

My Perception Of You Is A Reflection Of Me

Don’t let thoughts stop you from doing the right thing. Don’t be stopped because your mindset hasn’t yet found a solution to a difficulty. Be optimistic. Become positive and seek to find or create a way. Adjust, correct and continue. Write a different story. You can!

Stay open. Become available and aware. Create harmony. Seek the high road. Be grateful. Appreciate yourself and your abilities. If you need to develop certain skills, develop them. Learn. Appreciate others. Realize perception IS everything! That is why Henry Ford said, ‘If you think you can or you think you can’t you are right!’ Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

*** Here is an opportunity for you. Coaching is a $1 billion a year (and growing) industry. Discover whether you should get in on this trend when you download Christy Whitman’s free e-book, Everything You Need to Know About Becoming a Successful Life Coach. You’ll also get access to her new 5-part online coaching workshop.

Click the link below to get free ebook.

https://christywhitman.isrefer.com/go/ebook/SelfHelp

Click the link below to access the free 5 video workshop.

https://christywhitman.isrefer.com/go/freetraining/SelfHelp

Full Disclosure: I do not earn anything if you explore the link. If you do end up buying something that interests you there, I get some kind of a little thank-you referral. It does not  cost you anything extra when that happens. It absolutely does not cost you anything to look at the site. I would not recommend anything to you I did not think was worthwhile. I would not recommend anything to you that I do not approve of.  You have my personal word it is a solid recommendation.

ENJOY!

Be kind to yourself and others today!

Please subscribe. Hit the Like Button. If you think these posts would help others spread the word.  Share these with others.

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