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If Your Attention Is Anywhere Else You’re Likely Fail!

“Most people make attributions outside themselves. They give their power away! The put their power on others, on events and circumstances. The blame the economy. the weather, the government, their parents, kids and spouses. Get it? They do this.

Do you? That is victim mentality. You need to realize who truly is running the show. Are you ready for this?  It is YOU! You run the show. I’m not saying you are making it rain or not, but you are determining the results you get. You influence you! Get it?

You have great power within you to become anything you can imagine and believe you can become. Don’t get wacky on this idea, I am not speaking of super powers. I am saying that as a human you can accomplish anything any other human has accomplished.

If You Can Conceive It And Believe It You Can Achieve It

You can be happy, rich, famous, successful, a loving partner, parent, child or caregiver. You can choose where you want to live and what you want to drive. It is all up to whether you believe this is possible for you or not. If you want it you can make it happen. Will it?

No one can say but YOU! You u can evolve. You can change and transform yourself and your life.  Never settle for just OKAY. A life without problems isn’t much of a  life.  Make your life the best it can be by becoming the best person you can be! Get it! Create your life!

Instead of settling, make a difference. If you don’t get as far as you hoped, but you get further than you are, isn’t that better? You decide. You determine what will or won’t be. Create your best life by managing your thinking. and by feeling your best most often.

As Long As You Say What You Have You Will Have What You Say

You can do this by any of the ways I have been sharing in these blog pages. You can do it easily by getting really, really grateful and expressing deep appreciation for all that life is. Feel glad to be who you are, what you have and for everyone and every moment of your life. Your transformation will be amazing when you celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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To Succeed You Must Tell A Different Story!

“Stop telling the same old story of why things don’t work they way your would like. Stop it. Zip your lips. Stop thinking it. Stop speaking it. Enough already. You create your life circumstances through the stories you tell. How so? You get what you focus on! Get it?

While you may not wish to own up to this, your present life experience, the results you are getting, favorable or not, are due to your previous thoughts, words and actions. What you think determines what you do or not do. Get it? You create everything!

Until you get this major point you are bound to perpetuate a lot of what you’d rather not have. If you are getting a lot of what you don’t want and not enough of what you do want, then you need to make some real changes. They can be small but you need to make them.

You Become What You Think About Most Frequently

First change to make is to begin telling a brand new story. Think and speak only of how things already are the way you want them to be.  Stop reinforcing old things you want to change. Begin reinforcing the positive change you want to have.

Stop speaking about what is wrong. Begin speaking, with enthusiasm and passion and excitement, about what is right!  ‘Act As If’ you are already do have the future good you want in your life. You can pretend anything and master it. You can fake it till you make it.

Act As If that future you, does all the things necessary to succeed. You think right, feel good and take the right actions. Start telling that story of how you do positively accomplish things. Repeat the story over and over to yourself. Write it out. Share with others.

What You Say Is What You Get – What You Focus On Expands

You aren’t lying you are in the process of making it happen. You are bringing it about with your positive attitude and actions. Get it. You can share how you are learning to make good things result! JUST stop talking about all the crap, negativity and distractions. Get it?

Talk about nothing else. but what you want more of. Create a new story for the person you are. Put an end to the old story you have told for so long. Think, ‘I’ve had enough of that crap already!’ Tell the new story. Create it and live it! Think it, write it, live it and be it

Little bit by little bit your life and circumstances will improve. When you improve your story you will get better results! Be glad. Be grateful. Have fun. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How Powerful Are You? Are You This Powerful?

“Are you making your career, your relationships, yourself and your life what you want it to be, or not? If not, what holds you back? What stops or prevents you from being, doing and having anything and everything you want? Have you ever considered this?

If you have, what are your answers. They’ll reveal much about what you think you’re able to do or not. Your answers will show you where you place control. You’re either in charge, or you’ve placed someone, or something outside yourself, in charge. GUESS WHAT?

If you have put others, or circumstances, in charge of you, and what you accomplish, you will mostly lose out. If you aren’t the captain of your own ship, someone, or something, is taking you for a ride. You may have never claimed your power before, but it is time to do so.

Happiness – It Is All Within Yourself – It Is In Your Way Of Thinking

Henry Ford’s statement, ‘If you think you can or you think you can’t, your right’ is a useful and powerful thought to embrace. If it is to be it is up to you. Your thoughts determine whether you will make it or not. Your mindset determines your chances. It’s all what you think!

You create and build what you want. This is what you must embrace. It is you doing it. You create and build what you want or you are creating and building what you don’t want. Get it? Either way, you are doing it. Don’t believe that, yet? Most likely, that’s the issue!

Instead of reacting and perpetuating what you do not want, it is either up to you, and within your power, to do something and pursue an objective, or you don’t think it is. In either case you are right. The results will be up to what you believe and do. Get it? Up to you!

The More You Do The More You Can Do – Success Breeds Success

Take charge. Get in control and steer the course of your life. You are so powerful, but you don’t even know it, if you haven’t claimed it. Learn to claim it and exercise your power to make marvelous, positive changes in your life.  Take control and make things happen.

Don’t wait.  Don’t expect others or luck to change. Learn to manage your thoughts, feelings and actions and create the best life you can. Study these blog posts and apply what you learn. You abilities and life can dramatically improve when you do! Get it? Meanwhile, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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A Powerful Yet Easy Way To Accomplish More Doing Less!

“You have a change you want to make but you don’t feel much like doing it. Yet you know you should. What to do? Is there a way to begin getting things done, accomplishing more, without getting burned out and giving up? Yes, there is! Read on and learn.

Whatever you want to do, whatever change you want to make for yourself, whether it’s personal or a task you want to accomplish, do some small part of it right away. Commit. Make sure you do something within 24 hours. 48 hours at the most. Just do it!

Do something small enough to begin right where you are. Don’t wait. Really, don’t let 24 hours pass without taking a small action. Want to clean your office?  Heck, throw out a magazine, or organize your pens. Anything that beings the process. THAT, you can do, right?

The More We Do The More We Can Do – Just Begin It! – Do It

It is all step by step, inch by inch. You don’t need to take massive action to get massive results. It is preferable to take minimum action to massive results. That is the 80/20 notion. Do 20% to get 80%. Okay, so begin doing something. Then do another small something.

Soon you will have completed the task. Once you begin it and do a few small things, it is more likely you will wish to continue. Motivation comes from doing, not from waiting. Get it? Do it! Do it right away. As soon as you can after you made the decision. Act on it.

You will soon find, if you work this way, you’ll be so much more productive. You’ll develop habits that support you. A 1% increase daily amounts to 365% increase in a year. That’s a great return on investment. So do a little each day and you will accomplish a lot! All the while you are doing so, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Some Things That Might Make You A Better Person

“What makes a person a better person? I’d like to list a few things. This list is not exhaustive. It is in no particular order. It may mean different things to different people. That’s okay. It’s a guide. Anyway here goes. You are a better person when:

You discover who you are. You recognize and live your truth. You are aligned with your purpose. You are able to share your truth with others, with compassion. You have love, for yourself, and all life. You learn to accept everything as it is and, yet, you continue to improve.

You develop yourself. You manage your thoughts and mindset. You become more positive and optimistic. You choose to feel your very best. You endeavor to help others do likewise. You keep your commitments and promises and word because you have integrity.

It Is Good To Be Alive – Run Jump With Joy Celebrate Everything

You are honest, trustworthy and loyal. You are accepting, allowing and forgiving of yourself, others and circumstances. You are secure in yourself and celebrate others. You are confident and radiate well being, joy and friendliness. You focus on solutions.

You are a team player. You are a  leader. You enjoy helping. You go the extra mile for others. You enjoy life and like people. You share and care. You are enthused. You know how to communicate and positively influence, motivate and inspire yourself and others.

You pay attention to others. You listen and seek to understand. You invite rather  than push. Still, you can push when necessary. You are committed and have strong will. You are determined and ambitious but not envious or destructive. You are passionate and upbeat.

First Thing In Morning Think What A Privilege It Is To Be Alive

You learn to play the game so that you win, but others can win too. You know we are in it together. You think and feel well, and take inspired action. You’ve learned to trust yourself. You seek out accurate information to make decision. You explore. You’re curious.

You drop and ignore gossip and opinion. You seek the truth. You speak to bless, heal and prosper. You invite. You know how to be excited and relaxed. You can be calm and steady. You are resourceful. You know you already have everything you need.

You are filled with gratitude. You realize that everything is a blessing, even when it may be disguised. You expect unexpected good. You know everything will turn out well. Its fine that you are happy. Its fine that others are happy. You are open. You allow.

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You give and receive because you know both are important. You accept and celebrate when others move ahead. You celebrate yourself, and others, for wherever you, and they, are on the path. You understand it is a journey and you are in process. You don’t judge.

You allow, and accept them, and yourself, to be as you are. Still, you are able to seek to evolve and change. You look on yourself and others with compassion. You are hopeful, optimistic and positive. You are inspiring. You know attitude is everything. You’re curious.

You share because you don’t need to insist. You realize everything happens in its own time. You know what you want. You are clear about it. You know what you don’t want ,so you focus on what you do. You believe you can accomplish it or learn how to. You persist.

It Is A New Day – I am Alive – I am Blessed – I Am Thankful

You pursue it eagerly and enjoy the process. You navigate difficult challenges and overcome each because you recognize them for what they are; opportunities to grow. You keep the faith. You remain coommitted. You achieve. You enjoy. Then think, ‘next!’. And on you go. You delight. You celebrate everything.” Rex Sikes

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Live Your Dreams By Overcoming Limitations!

“Why do people get stuck? What stops them? Why do you stop yourself? What stands in your way? What are your reasons? Learn how can you overcome limitations, break through blocks and positively live your best life, being, doing and having what you want?

I’ll not only cover what can limit you and what to do get free, but will share powerful tips, strategies and practices you can use to achieve your goals and live the life of your dreams. This podcast is a journey and exploration, rooted in discovering how to be your best you!

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I wanted to share this with you today! Enjoy the show. Learn lots and share what you learn. Sharing pays it forward AND it helps you remember it.

Podcast hosts: Tony Petrozza  & Rex Sikes

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Have a fabulous day! Learn to be, do and have what you want most. Learn how to create your best life. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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How You Define Success Could Hold You Back? Consider This!

“Sometimes people don’t succeed because of what success means to them. How we define success, can determine whether we are successful, or not. Whether we have realistic goals, expectations and time frames, matter greatly. It also matters what is important to us!

What do we focus on? What is it we value? Where do we put our attention? Are we mostly interested in things or in people? Do we consider relationships and what we can do for others, or do we only think, what is in it for me? This quote, is a great definition.

‘Success: To laugh often and much, to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children, to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others, to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition, to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.’ Ralph Waldo Emerson

I love it. What about you? Perhaps, you’d like to try that on. Not only is it lovely, it is practical and achievable. If you succeed in doing those things, you will feel good. Feeling good and succeeding breeds more of the same. Perpetuate goodness and it is returned to you. Have a blessed day succeeding. Enjoy, delight and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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What Ben Franklin Said You Should Know And Why

“What did old Ben Franklin say that is so profound? He said many important and useful things. The point he makes in this brief statement is one we should carry with us, in our hearts and minds, all the time. Remember and use it to make an incredible difference.

‘Do not anticipate trouble or worry about what may never happen. Keep in the sunlight.” Benjamin Franklin

What an important message! Keep in the sunlight. Stop anticipating trouble or worry. Live light and trouble free. Your worst worries may never come to pass. Live without them. Live carefree. Live with light, love and joy. Everything is perfect. I like it! What about you?

Worrying Will Never Change The Outcome

Everything is perfect even when it seems as if it isn’t. It provides contrast. To know warmth, you must know cold. To know light you, must know dark. Everything either provides you joy or contrast. Once you recognize that whatever is happening, is as it is.

It is a blessing! Everything is perfect, just as it should be. Your worries, your fears, your concerns will pass. They are transitory. As day gives way to night, night gives way to day. Problems are temporary. Love and enjoy each moment. No matter what.

It is all good, even when it appears it isn’t. There is truly nothing to worry about. There is nothing to fear. Remember, it is all illusion, ‘maya’, and we don’t have all the information at this moment. We can’t see what hasn’t arrived yet.

Difficult Roads Often Lead To The Most Beautiful Destinations

So go as far as you can see, and when you get there, you can see farther. Unexpected good will always come your way because it ALL is good. You just don’t always think so. When you do, all of your life beautifully transforms.

When you consider everything a blessing, no matter what it is, then everything is a blessing. No wrong can harm you. Get it? For some it will be a long time before they understand this. They will live as they do. But if you wake up, you wake up. Some day, they will too. Meantime, keep in the sunlight and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Can We Change Reality? Hell, Never Let That Stop You!

“We operate off internal maps of reality, not off reality. A map is a representation of a territory, as such, it cannot be the same as the territory, nor can it include all that which makes up the territory. It is only representation. It ‘re-presents’ something else.

As such, elements or components will be deleted, minimized or distorted.  It isn’t the same as the ‘real thing’. It is a mental, subjective construct, of the outer. We are aware of it through our senses, and from our beliefs, values, memories and such.

Our subjective mental map may, or may not be very accurate at all. Many of us forget we are operating from maps and mistake them as the real deal. This is how a popular phrase came to be. ‘You order the food from a menu. You don’t eat the menu.’ Well, do you?

Eat The Food Not The Menu – The Map Is Not The Territory

The menu is a representation of promised food offerings to come. Get it? So, what holds us back, are our own limitations. What stops us, are inner blocks and fears or worries about the outer, which may or may not even apply, though its reasonable to assume, they could.

It is our perception of reality. If our perception changes is there a difference? If a man, inside a prison cell feels free, then he experiences freedom, while others see him as imprisoned. What is ‘the’ reality?  Whose reality counts? What does ‘reality’ serve to do?

It is a weak analogy, but my point is, never let your thoughts about reality, prevent you from being the best you you can be. What if it were different and the person is actually free, yet imagines himself imprisoned? He feel in prison, yet, others see him as free. Get it?

Limitations Exist Only In The Mind – What You Focus On Expands

Both of these examples occur frequently in life. Some bust through apparent blocks, others are stopped by the invisible fears and worries. What is the truth? My guess is, for the individual, it is whatever they think it is. Free or not. They determine reality.

Get it? Reality is a mental construct we each individually create, and, to an extent, share some overlap. Someone, will ask the obvious ill-formed question, ‘then if I believe I can fly should I jump off a roof?’ No. If your wise, you stand on the ground and attempt to take off.

Everyone will come to their own conclusions. That is how it should be. Each person decides their own truth. Can we make it snow or stop snowing by thinking about it? Personally, I wouldn’t waste my time. Though, it is a matter of what is important to you, not me.

Whether You Think You Can Or You Cant You Are Right

Still,  I wouldn’t let thoughts about an economy, or the world, prevent me from attempting to move forward. Someone once said, ‘the only limitations there are,  exist in one’s own mind.’ Napoleon Hill stated. ‘If you can conceive it, and believe it, you can achieve it.’

Whether you do or not, is completely up to you. Whether, or not, you can first imagine it, believe you can do it, and then attempt it, is up to you.  If those three things are in place, you CAN achieve it, but you have to work at it. Mindset is first. Effort is second. It is up to you.

Those who say it cannot be done, of course, are correct too. For them! They can’t imagine it, don’t believe it, so they won’t attempt to achieve it. That is their reality or their truth. Neither case is ‘the’ truth. It simply is what it is. Limitations exist only in the mind!

If You Can Conceive It And Believe It You Can Achieve It

I like to keep things simple and as straightforward as possible. Henry Ford said, ‘whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you are right.’ . I think that says it all, about everything.  So the question really is a matter of good taste and time. What do you want in life?

Some waste time, trying to do silly things. Yet, we can spend our time well. What gives us the most bang for our buck? Would learning to fly from the ground up without assistance be that, or would learning how to be happy and successful and live the life of your dreams?

Which is more important is where the person will spend their time. If one chooses to fly, so be it. That is their choice at this time on their path, and it’s not really for me to judge. I feel the same with regard to the other proposition. Each person will do, or not, what they do.

You Become What You Think About Most Frequently

So, when it comes down to it, it is personal. The person will decide for themselves, where they are on their journey. While I may have an opinion about how they are spending their time, they won’t be able to hear it, until they are able to hear it. I hope you get this point.

So my opinion doesn’t actually matter. Arguing with them is fruitless, perhaps. When it is right, they will get it. Whenever, that is.  It isn’t for me to judge them either way. I think of it this way. I can invite everyone to a party. Those who come, do so. Those who don’t, don’t.

I don’t need to be concerned with who does what. I made the invitation and the choice is in their hands. It is up to them what they do with it. Same applies to how people use their consciousness to evolve. It’s not up to me, but up to each person. How are you doing?

What You Think See And Say Is What You Get – You Create It

What do you believe? What do you attempt? What do you allow to hold you back? If you could change it, would you? If so, why haven’t you? When will you, if not today? The answer to these is part of that mental map. Thoughts, thought habits, beliefs and what you value.

If you can conceive it, imagine the possibility, and believe you can accomplish it, that it IS possible for you, then you can or could achieve it, if you go after it, relentlessly until you get it. Get it? You make it happen, or you don’t. That is it, in a nutshell, so to speak.

I have found, the most rewarding journey is one that is predominantly based in hope, in optimism and in gratitude for everything. When we live appreciating who we are, all of our experiences, what we have, and the journey, becomes wonderful. We are free to become nearly anything we choose. It is a mindset, an attitude and a heart thing. We feel good and we do more. This is why I say, celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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You’ll Never Be Free Until You Understand The Difference Between Mind And Matter!

What is your mind? Is it the brain? Is it within you or without? Excellent questions, but I am not going to discuss those. There is something far more practical and important I want to share with you that can make an incredible difference in your ability to thrive.

What is mind? Mind is duality. It is the collection of habits and experiences from birth to today. Mind is your inner voice that tells you whether something is possible or not. It informs you if you can be, do or have something or not. It is dual. It is yes and no. Get it?

It can be positive and negative. Mind is what you are most aware of without being aware of it at all. It is the thoughts closest to you that you think without realizing. It is the servo-mechanism designed to keep you the same, eliminate risk, and keep you alive. It’s a servant.

What You Believe Determines What You Make True

Yet, most people serve their mind.They do whatever it says, whenever, and get tossed about like a small boat on the sea. They live reacting to what they mind does. Do you? I sure have? We all have. Most still do. It is your inner critical voice. It is what stops you!

Mind reasons. It doesn’t matter whether its logic is accurate or faulty. The reasons can be insane or completely invalid. Still, those are the reasons we can or can’t be, do or have, something. It performs reliably, consistently, automatically, and habitually.

So what is matter? That’s much easier to briefly answer. Matter is the physical world. It is everything surrounding us. It shows us, it reveals to us, if we are savvy enough to become aware, the results of our thinking mind. Its the results of our thoughts and how we think.

Change Your Beliefs And You Change Your Reality

Mind affects matter. Matter affects mind. Most of us look at matter and accept it as a valid interpretation of what is. We think it is reality. We act, as if it is. We act from our beliefs and mindset, our thoughts and our limitations. Matter IS the story we tell ourself.

When we accept matter as accurate, valid, or true, we further perpetuate that which is. It becomes self-reenforcing and self fulfilling prophecy. We assume circumstances are accurate and real, and we operate from the limitations we hold of them. Get it?

We create our reality by our thinking. Then, we accept that reality, and that, in turn, affects how we continue to think about it. It is a perpetual loop. We spiral into more negativity the more negative examples we find. We find them, because we look for those. Get it?

Alter Your Mindset And You Alter The Results You Get

If you were to focus only on positive thoughts and how you imagined and intended the world to be, if you created and told and retold that story instead, you’d find examples to support that, and you’d create that reality. You’d perpetuate a positive reality. It would spiral up!

Mind over matter. Mindset first and foremost. Yet, when problems arise, instead of fixing and adjusting the mindset, people work on fixing the matter. They work on the wrong end of the horse, so to speak. It is a ‘mental’ issue not a matter issue. Most act otherwise.

In order to create and transcend, you have to get the order at which you work on things correct. Fix your mindset and the rest begins to fall in place. Fix matter and you still have a mindset that runs counter to it. Life doesn’t change until you change. Get it? I mean, do you?

We Are Exactly What We Believe We Are

If you don’t, it remains the same. Change yourself by learning how to control and manage your thinking. That’s what this blog, my work, and my programs, are designed to do; help you to create your best life ever. I am dedicated to help you transform yourself positively.

The universe, you, source, god, whatever you want to call it, is a field of pure potentiality. Infinite and limitless potential is what you are and what you possess. Only, you don’t yet, know that, or believe that with any certainty. Perhaps, you aren’t even aware of it, yet.

You transform when, you realize anything and everything is possible for you to be, do and have, anytime, anywhere. When you accept who and what you are, and live from that place of acceptance and knowing, then. When you believe in you! Doubt, doesn’t change you.

You Get What You Focus On You Get What You Think About Most

Knowing you are creating your every moment does. Accepting it and acting like it. A king or queen must act as one to rule effectively. A weak analogy but you should get the point. Learn who you are. Learn what you are. Learn what is available to you and claim it. Own it!

Act from your place of power. You are the owner of the mind. Take charge of it. Control it. Stop being a servant of your mind and be it’s master. Once you do, you will never be the same. You will open new doors of discovery and adventure, that will delight and surprise you.

Only you can do this. Only you will do it when you are ready to. Until then, you won’t get it or understand it. At best, it will be a concept you debate and remember. Most will think it’s  ‘crap’ and forget about it. Yet, this is how it works. You either discover it or you don’t.

You Are Your Thoughts You Are The Results Of What You Think

Best wishes! Wake up and claim what is yours.  ‘Reality’ is only a subjective, mental construct. Our thinking, feeling and acting, makes it what it is, OR, it changes it in a way that pleases us.  We can change our reality, when we change our thoughts, beliefs and expectations. Remember, what we think, believe and expect, makes it so. Practice gratitude! Live full. Be joyous! Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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