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Creating The Future, Decision, Mindset, Responsibility

The Biggest Mistake You Can Make Holds You Back From What You Want!

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“Why do people toil so hard to get ahead but not see any results? What is they do, or don’t do, that makes it nearly impossible to succeed, even when they totally want to? What is it? Can one change it? What determines whether we succeed or not?

The major cause for difficulty is where you place your attention! Energy flows where attention goes. Keep that in mind while consider this: power either resides within you or comes from outside you. Whatever you believe determines your lot.

You either believe you are in control or something else in control. It is a matter of belief. It is whatever you think it is! Our beliefs create our perceptions and reality. It is as we think it is. If you don’t believe you are in charge of everything then something else is! It’s simple.

You Are The Power – You Are The Author Of Your Life – Act Like It

If YOU are in charge, then there is always something you can do to alter the situations in your favor. You are not a cork bobbing in the water, driven by the wind and current. You operate of own volition. You are ‘at cause’ not ‘at effect’ in your life. You’re the power source.

Mindset makes an incredible difference in everything you do. People suffer because of where they place control. If anything else is in charge, we are subject to that. Get it? Regardless, of what the ‘actuality’ is, our reality is determined by what we think it is.

Your beliefs and thoughts determine how far you go. Your mindset and attitude determine how much, or how little, influence you have in making your life what you want it to be. You either are in complete charge or you are not. You choose. You must decide. Which is it?

Within You Is The Power To Rise Above Any Situation Or Struggle

Power either comes from within you or from outside you. Frankly, you already made the decision while growing up. You made that decision and you live from it. If that decision doesn’t support you, and serve you, you can change it. That is the good news!

When you take responsibility for everything that happens, whether this notion is true or not, it puts you in a place of power. You make changes. You don’t sit and wait. You create. You determine what the events and circumstances mean. You become the cause.

As the cause, if you don’t like the meaning, you can reframe it. If you don’t like the results you can change them. You can think differently. You can change your m ind. You can feel and act differently. You create different results. You determine where you go and how far.

At Any Time You Can Declare This Is Not How My Story Ends

There are NO limitations except the ones, we THINK there are. Limitation exists only in our thoughts. What are you thinking right now? That will determine many things for you? Either you believe you can or you believe you can’t. Either way, you are correct.

In order to determine whether you, or someone else, is in charge simply listen to where you place authority. Do you blame the weather, the traffic, the people around you, the economy, and all sources outside yourself for what occurs, or do you accept it?

If you say, ‘sorry I am late because I didn’t get up on time’ at least you aren’t saying, ‘I was heading there but traffic was heavy and made me late’. Even if there was heavy traffic, it is up to you to get there on time. YOU are responsible for any delays, not the traffic. Get it?

You Must Learn You Have Always Had The Power – Now Accept It

Most people don’t want to, nor will they take, this kind of responsibility. They want to put it onto other things because this is how most of us were brought up. We learned it from others. That is okay. Now, is the time to change it! Now, is the time to take charge.

Get it? Power doesn’t reside outside of you, unless you are willing to give it all away. Yes, we WERE raised to give most of our power away. We no longer have to! Change your thinking and you can change your life. Accept 100% responsibility for everything and transform.

The moment you do, everything can change. You already have everything you need to transform your life in incredible ways, but most will continue to miss out. Stop! Don’t. Take charge today! When you do new horizons will open. Be glad you can. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Beliefs, Creating The Future, Faith, Patience

How Come Nothing Seems To Change For The Better?

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“What happens when you pursue your dreams and goals? You believe you have done everything ‘right’ but you see no evidence of change. Circumstances  remain the same or even get worse. You think, ‘what on earth is going on?  It is worse than before!’

Economist Dr. Rudi Dornbusch  said,  ‘Things takes a much longer time coming than you think, and then it happens much faster than you would have thought.” Napoleon Hill shared a very similar concept. The time it takes is the time it takes. You can’t force it.

Essentially, Hill said, when people pursue money, it takes as long as it takes, but when it comes it does so fast it is scary.  Hang in there. A seed planted takes time to bear fruit. Be patient. It is darkest before the dawn. Sometimes, it is very dark and turbulent prior.

Difficult Roads Often Lead To Beautiful Destinations

Hill said of the 520 richest people on earth that he studied and modeled, all of them had disappointment after disappointment, even catastrophe before breaking through. Similar to a roller coaster ride there were numerous uphill climbs and down times. It was tough.

This tends to happen almost without exception. When you decide to go after things you shake things up and make changes in the atmosphere. You pursue and you struggle. The journey may be difficult and long. You can’t see when it will come. You must trust.

How you wait is then secret ingredient. It is not THAT you wait but HOW you wait.  Trust the universe’s timing. It is out of your hands. You can’t know everything. I saw an info graphic today.  It read, ‘A Rolls Royce takes six months to make, a Toyota takes thirteen hours’.

Until You Are Broken You Don’t Know What You Are Made Of

Learn to have faith. This means letting go of how it shows up AND when it shows up. Trust, means knowing it will show up at the right moment. Hill stated, you must remain passionate and certain you will make it happen. Expect it, even though you don’t know when.

Certainty in the face of opposition IS how we grow. If it were easy we wouldn’t evolve much. Having to believe and keep the faith in spite of obstacles, and in spite of no evidence anything will happen for us, is how we develop this certainty. How else would we?

We grow by opposition, just as muscles grow by resistance. Consider the time between the moment you decide to make it happen and the moment it does happen, as your time to learn and evolve into the kind of wonderful person you can be. It is you very special time.

The Caterpillar Doesn’t Know It Is Going To Become A Butterfly

You will encounter doubts, opposition, worry, fear and down times. Feel blessed. Whenever these occur it is an opportunity to make changes. If you think, ‘it will never happen. I can’t do it.’ This is a belief you have held. Now, that it is up and in the open, change it.

It reared its head for you. You are facing it. It isn’t in the dark. It is out in the open. NOW, is when you can do something about it. Now, is when you can shift to the belief you would prefer to have. Now, you can take charge and learn to manage your thoughts and feelings.

Making the decision to go after your dream, pursuing it and waiting expectantly while you pursue it, is all part of making it happen. The seed grows under the cover of the earth and you can’t see exactly when it will break through. It will. Have faith. Be grateful for the journey. Gratitude will make the journey much more delightful and easier. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Choice, Decision, Focus, Letting Go

The Secret To All Happiness And Success Is To Treat Life As A Buffet!

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“What is it that most people do that screws things up? It could be otherwise for them. They could be happy, successful, pleased and satisfied, but instead they make things worse. It is actually something people do. Let me share an analogy. Okay?

I had a buffet this morning with friends. I picked out those things I liked and those things I’d like to sample. It was delicious. When seated, if I sampled something and I enjoyed it, I ‘d go back and take more. If I didn’t enjoy it, I didn’t take any more. I left it. Simple, right?

There were those things, I could see, as I went along the buffet table I absolutely wanted to have. I put those things on my plate. There were those items I could see I didn’t want. I didn’t take any of those.  When I sat to eat, I enjoyed the food on my plate. Again, simple.

Care Enough About Yourself To Focus On The Best Of Yourself

If I wanted more I went back and got more. The one thing I never did was complain about having stuff I didn’t like. Remember, I only chose and ate what I  liked. The food I didn’t like, I left alone. If I didn’t care for something I sampled, I didn’t eat any more of it. Very simple.

The same is true when it comes to people, events, circumstances and our desires in life. Focus on what you want and what you like. Ignore, let go or leave behind that which you don’t want or don’t like, just as you would at a buffet. It’s no more complex than that. It is simple.

Take what you want and leave what you don’t. Focus on what you want and desire. Stop giving attention or energy to what you don’t want. Stop concentrating on debt and lack; poor health and bad relationships. Stop focusing on irritations, problems and troubles.

Focus On The Things That Bring You Joy And Peace

Stop telling those stories, again and again, to yourself and others, how things aren’t working out or are going wrong. Stop repeating your failures and your mistakes. Just stop! Let go. Drop them and move along. There are many other good things to focus on and enjoy.

Focus on what you want! Enjoy what you want more of. Consider all the things you’d like to include in your life and speak of those things. Think on those things. Feel good about them. Enjoy them as you would a great buffet meal. Life has many wonderful choices. Focus!

It is this simple! You become what you think about! What you focus on does expand. Thoughts are things. What you hold in your head you can hold in your hand. Energy flows where your attention goes. Think about what it is you want and create more of that! Simple!

Love The Life You Have While You Create The Life You Want

It is whatever you choose to make it. If you like it, go back for seconds and thirds, even fourths. JUST stop whining. Stop blaming. Stop accusing. Stop being a victim. Be a victor. If you choose something from the buffet you didn’t like, you don’t pick it up again.

Or do you?  You don’t sit at your table and whine and complain and scream that food item has ruined your life. Or do you? You don’t talk about it endless to others and relive it over again in your head for days, or do you?  Remember, it is ALL about what you choose to do.

If you don’t do that at a buffet, don’t do it in every day life. Stop wallowing in poor choices you may have made. Stop! Choose what you want. Focus on that. Concentrate on enjoying it. Be grateful you have or can have what you like. Choices you make are all up to you.

The Joy We Experience In Life Comes From  What We Focus On

Enjoy life. Be grateful. Concentrate on making your dreams come and make them come true! Think and speak on these things. Speak only to bless, heal and prosper. Life is a buffet. Take what you want. Leave what you don’t. Enjoy what you take. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Creating The Future, Feelings, Goals, Visualization

To Be Do Or Have More You Need To Do This Now!

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“If money were no object, what would you be, do or have? If money were no object, what would your dreams be? What would you include? Who would you be? What would you be doing? What would you have? Imagine, for a moment, money is no object.

Sadly, most people don’t dream very big. We don’t dream big enough. It has been said, and I paraphrase, that ‘too often we aim at small targets and hit them’. What is your mission in life? What is your purpose? What is your definite chief purpose? Figure it out!

Have the courage to dream large. Thomas Edison did. He wanted to light up the world. So did Tesla. Ford wanted to make cars available and changed transportation. The Wright Brothers pioneered aviation and gave us air travel. There are many others, too.

Dare To Dream Big – Believe In Your Dreams – Believe In Yourself

These men, most of them, came from poor backgrounds and had little formal education. They weren’t all together, together, but they dared to dream. They dared to seek to make their dreams come true. They didn’t wait for others or the Law Of Attraction to do it.

They did it. IT began with their thinking. It started within them. They thought about it, dreamt about it and translated their dreams into physical reality. You can too! Start dreaming big. Visualize life and how it would be for you if money were no object. Imagine that!

Spend time day dreaming. Make a vision board or vision book. Go out and sit in your dream car. Tour your dream homes. Try on your dream jewelry. Take pictures of you doing these. That can help you imagine. Remember ‘Life Styles Of The Rich And Famous’? Do you?

Life Holds Special Magic For Those Who Dare To Dream Big

Rich people do this? They see things they want and make it happen. They imagine having more things, doing more things and creating more things. Don’t bother about how you make it happen just imagine the possibility. How comes later. Right now plant seeds.

Dream big. You can take small steps to your big goals, I’ve shared how you can do that, many times. Dream bigger than you have before. Stretch yourself! Wouldn’t it be awesome if you made your dream come true? You bet it would. When you do, how do you feel?

Imagine these feelings and feel them fully. Enjoy dream building your future. Have fun. Go out and get magazines and look at lavish lifestyles. Get the Robb Report. See how the rich live. Stretch your mind to include more potential, more possibilities. Imagine.

If Your Dreams Don’t Scare You They Aren’t Big Enough 

Oliver Wendell Holmes said, ‘A mind stretched to a new idea can never go back to its original dimension’. Stretch yourself. Have a blast. Feel incredible. Don’t envy or resent the rich people or you will never get what you want. The mind can’t hold two opposing ideas.

If you want to be rich but hate rich people, it is unlikely you will ever make yourself rich. Enjoy. Delight. By the way, it is not just about money or what you can do with it for yourself. You can help others too. It is all about stretching your mind to include more possibility.

Feel good. Make it fun. Go places and see cool things. Take tours of mansions. Go look at yachts and fancy cars. Window shop and feel good. Think, ‘I can be, do or have that too!’ How big can u dream? Be grateful. Express your gratitude. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Energy, Healthy Choices, Mindset, Relaxation

Stop! You Are More Likely To Fail If You Do This!

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“There are times when you have to be smart or suffer potential consequences. Many people attempt to work harder, and harder, to get ahead. Instead, they actually put themselves at risk of screwing up everything. Be smart. Know when to quit. Know when to let go.

No, I am not suggesting giving up on your dreams. I am suggesting taking a break. Don’t work when you’re exhausted. Stop trying so hard. Quit and take a break because you’re more prone to negativity, pessimism and even accidents, when you’re tired and worn out.

Take care of your mind and body.  Stop and go have a little fun. Lighten your load and spend time chilling out. Return to your work once you’re refreshed. You will perform much better. YOU have to be your own benevolent boss and  know when to stop! Get it?

Breathe – Take A Break – Rest – Have Fun – Then Move Forward

You make less mistakes, and have less do overs, when you are at the top of your game. If your mind is worn out, if your mindset is strained or tired, if your body needs rest, take the rest you need. You’ll be more productive when you are positive and feeling good. Get it?

So be good to yourself. Be gentle and kind. Keep yourspirits up! You get further faster when you are feeling great, anyway. Make it a point to always feel your best. Do those simple things I’ve shared elsewhere in my blogs to keep feeling good as you journey.

Savor each moment. Stop and smell the roses. Don’t allow yourself to fall two or more steps back because you didn’t take care of, and look out for, yourself. Enjoy the process. If you aren’t, stop. Take a breather! Stay positive. Stay optimistic. Keep feeling marvelous. Feel delighted, grateful and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Attitude, Feelings, Success, Vibrations

Some Inspiring News From The Front!

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“It was a delightful day, today. I’d like to share my conversations with two amazing manifestors. These gentleman are both making things happen and have insights to share. The first gentleman provides me health and body wisdom and practice, I provide mindset to him.

We mentor each other. I saw him today and asked how he was doing. He informed me he had written down numerous examples of when he was successful in his past. He fully relived these moments and allowed himself to savor the feelings. He upped his vibration!

Feeling fully successful, counting his wins, he added his future goals to the list so he’d feel as successful about those now, as he has with his other successes. Awesome! Is my response. This is exactly what you want to be doing. Act as if and feel as if you already are it!

What You Think And Feel And What Manifests Is Always A Match

Success breeds success. Read back through the blogs and you will see many reminders to count your wins and imbibe fully the feelings. It is a marvelous daily practice. If you are familiar with NLP you also may understand this as wisely using anchors and future pacing.

My next wonderful gent, called me. During the call, he informed me had been invited into an elite group. He would be mentored during the next year. It is an outstanding opportunity. They reached out to him and they sought him out. Really great stuff coming his way.

I jokingly asked, what he had to do to make this happen? His response, true to form, is ‘You attract who you are’. Absolutely, good things come to those who put out good things. Both these gentleman prosper in many ways because they go the extra mile.

With An Open Mind I Can Accept That Anything Is Possible

Service to others is not a foreign word to them. They walk their talk and good things come their way. I love being able to share this with you. I also want to share that Law Of Attraction Magazine published one on my blogs. Check out this cool magazine using the link below.

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That is it for today. Smile and laugh more. Enjoy all life brings. Stop and notice the beauty around you. Spend time reading and studying these materials that will help you transform your life. Spend time feeling good, expressing gratitude and celebrating everything!” Rex Sikes

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Attention, Attitude, Celebration, Creating The Future

It Doesn’t Matter Where You Begin!

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“It doesn’t matter where you begin. Many have begun with less than you have. What matters most is where you are going. What direction are you focused on? Someone once said, the future is most important because that is where we will spend most of our time.

Focus on what you want, not on what you don’t have. Focus on where you want to end up, not on where you started, not even where you are right now. Focus on making good happen. Focus your attention and resources on creating the you, you want most.

Enjoy the present as a means to tomorrow. Embrace right now, where you are on the journey, and take the next step toward your destination. Now becomes the next moment. When you live fully this moment you take it into the next moment. You get more back.

Focus On What Matters – What You Focus On Expands

Determine your Definite Chief Purpose or Aim. Dream big. Set the destination you know you will arrive at. NOW, concentrate on the first step that takes you there. Create the mindset, the feelings and the right actions that lead you to the next step. Step by step!

Step by step you close in on your destination. These steps should be small enough and simple enough you believe you can achieve them, and do so. They should be challenging enough, it holds your interest. If too small, and meaningless, they won’t hold your attention.

If too large you may not believe, or you may be too overwhelmed. Find the sweet spot where the goal, you currently pursue, is just the right size, and leads you to your larger destination. The most important ingredient in making things happen is to feel good.

If You Want Good In Your Future Put It Into Your Present Now

Feel ecstatic you are making things happen. Have fun. Enjoy the process. As I pointed out in my earlier blogs, keep winning along the way. Success breeds confidence. The more you do, the more you can do. You get better at making things happen. Momentum picks up.

Soon, you are making all sorts of wonderful things happen. You have moved from creating what you don’t want, to creating what you do want! You determine what happens. You design your life and live it on your terms. It all begins, now, with being positive and grateful,

It is in this moment, right now. Feel good. Delight. Help and support others. Be enthusiastic. Live, love and laugh, lots! Express your gratitude for where you are, where you have been and where you are going.  Live fully. Celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Now leads to then. Enjoy now!

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Emotions, Mindset, Responsibility, Right Action

To Stop Losing And Start Winning You Must Do This

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“Our social conditioning contributes to our mindset. Sadly, not much of our co-opted conditioning, that which happens to us from birth through childhood, is profoundly useful for helping us to recognize the powerful creators we are. It seems to be designed so we miss it.

We applaud the notion, ‘the buck stops here’, but few embrace and live from that notion. Instead of taking 100% responsibility for ourselves, we place responsibility, for our success or failure, on others, our upbringing, outer events and circumstances.

This is insidious! We blame our parents, our education, our friends, our enemies, our lovers, luck, the government, the economy, foreign powers, terrorists, the weather, the traffic, our pets, the media, you name it. We blame ourselves, too. We blame everything. Everything!

Learn To Separate What You Feel From What Is Happening

We are conditioned to do so. We learn from our parents, teachers, peers, churches and synagogues, media and others. Changing ourselves and becoming successful means we have to change where we place the responsibility. We have to assume it! Aim inward!

We are 100% responsible for everything that happens to us. Good or bad, right or wrong, accept the responsibility. We alone are accountable. We create our reality 100%.  Our responses determine our outcomes. No one else, no other agency is responsible. We are.

 Accepting total responsibility separates the survivor from the overcomer; the victim from the victor. When one takes responsibility for everything, one takes control and puts oneself in the driver’s seat. That person determines how the ride will go.

Learn To Act In Spite Of Your Mood – Always Give 100 %

Regardless of the outer terrain, or the weather, that person determines how they enjoy it, and where they travel. If they must take detours, so be it. They don’t whine and complain, make excuses or blame. They adjust and continue. They find or create a way.

This is the mindset for making life wonderful. Nothing will change until you do. Accept this! Change your conditioned thinking from limited to unlimited. Opportunity can be all around you but unless you notice and act on it, you will miss out. You must do it!

Many people think luck, or god or the universe, or attraction is doing it to or for them. Sadly, most don’t experience the abundant life they could. They live like a cork bobbing in the water, going where the current takes it. The power to change is YOU. Most don’t realize this.

Keep Your Commitments – Live Deliberately – Make It Happen

They don’t assume their power because they live from the old, limiting, conditioned beliefs that other forces are more powerful than they are. Those who get ahead, unconsciously break through, or they work very hard to do so. They change their thinking.

You want to win? Develop a winning attitude. Change your mindset. Become a champion in your thoughts and feelings. The right mindset will lead you to the right, inspired actions so you start getting better results. You determine your success and happiness in life.

You determine the exact amount of your financial well-being. You are the author and creator of your life whether you realize it, and act like it, or not. You are doing it! No one else. Yes, I know. You might think others are. That IS the issue. The issue is always your mindset.

Paradise Is A State Of Mind – You Determine Where You Live

The issue is always the thoughts and beliefs you have that govern what you will and won’t do. To make everlasting, positive change, you must change some things. Mindset is the first thing you need to master. You won’t win with a loser attitude. Get it? Change it!

Start changing your thinking for the better. Take charge! Overcome your prior conditioning. Recondition yourself. Get yourself in great mental shape. Become a warrior in mind and spirit. Become a peaceful warrior. Your life will transform incredibly when you do. Love, laugh, learn, live fully and celebrate everything!” Rex Sikes

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Make the most of each moment!

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Awareness, Decision, Focus, Overcoming Difficulty

The Key To Living The Good Life

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“The key to living the good life is to make each moment magical and magnificent! This is what we need to learn how to do. Take charge of your life and live it fully, non-stop. Learn to transform every disappointment into opportunity. Learn to celebrate everything!

Celebrate the big and small, the good and bad. As you do, you transform everything. YOU do it! You create your life every moment from the conscious and non-conscious decisions you make. You either live large or you live small. You either thrive or you die.

You decide every second. You create the quality of life from the quality of your mindset, emotions and feelings. You create the results. It is all your doing. Once you become aware and decide to make it different, you are on your way. It begins with a decision!

The Moment You Take Responsibility For Everything  In Your Life …

You must make a decision and follow through on it. Then one’s life becomes qualitatively different. Then you can thrive and live blissfully. Are you willing to choose to live the best life you can? Are you willing to take responsibility for making it happen? Are you?

Are you willing to stop believing in magic? Are you willing to stop waiting for circumstances to change? Are you willing to stop hoping to be lucky? Are you willing to stop blaming yourself, others and circumstances? Are you willing to stop making excuses?

Stop whining! Stop coming up with reasons why you can’t and why you don’t have what you want. Start coming up with reasons why you can and will get what you want! Start making it happen. No one will do it for you. You must decide to do it. It is your decision. Yours!

… Is The Moment You Can Change Anything In Your Life

Decide to live differently. Decide to live as a champion. Be a victor, not a victim. Be an overcomer, not a survivor. Decide to stop living an ‘okay’ life and determine to live the best life. It is all up to you! If you want your life to change, you must change what you think and do.

Smile and laugh more. Let your troubles roll off you like water off a ducks back. Don’t get hooked by the drama of circumstances. Stay centered and calm, like the eye of the hurricane. Don’t sweat the small or the big stuff. Learn to let go. Love more. Enjoy more.

Have fun! Accept and help others. Allow others to help you. Unite with positive people. Accept all circumstances as they are. It IS what it is.  Believe, for no reason at all, that all things happen for your good, even when they don’t seem like it. Re-frame events.

Take Responsibility For All The Consequences Of Your Choices

Find the lessons and opportunity within each. Consider everything a blessing. Read positive and inspiring material. Fill your mind with positive thoughts. Express positive feelings. Visualize and affirm. Act as if you already are the change you desire. Sing, dance, skip, shake or move but do those things that make you feel wonderful. Delight in all of it.  Celebrate everything.” Rex Sikes

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Beliefs, Decision, Limitation, Positive Thinking

Release Your ‘Why Nots’ And Start Getting What You Want

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“Could there be something holding you back, preventing you, from getting what you want? Once discovered you could stop, or change it, so you could begin making things happen. People miss out because they have ‘reasons’ why they can’t have what they want.

When you release all the reasons why you cannot have it, you will have it. It’s a de-conditioning process. You have to wake you up from the trance you are in. The trance you’re in, is the belief you don’t deserve it. You can’t have it. It requires hard work. You suck.

Life sucks! More bad reasons why you can’t have something includes; you’re not lucky enough, you weren’t raised right, you’re not smart enough, nor have you what it takes, other people deserve it, but not you. You have to stop believing these lies. Wake up!

To Get What You Want You Must Stop Doing What Isn’t Working

Stop the blaming. Quit making excuses. Drop the whining. Let go of all the reasons why you can’t have it and you can start having it.
As I dictated this blog post, the word ‘trance’ printed out as ‘trench’. In some ways that’s is quite apropos. You dig yourself into a trench.

Believing bad beliefs dig you a trench, of your own making. The goal is to get you out of that trench and wake you up from that trance. Once you’re out of the trench, and awakened from the trance, you can start manifesting all of your desires. This is important.

You will begin manifesting your desires because you no longer prevent yourself from getting them. That is your old conditioned way of thinking and being. Release the old conditioned ways and become aware of the possibilities that you can then create.

Stop Doubting – Believe In Yourself – Get What You Want

Prior to waking up, and getting out of the trance, you live from the conditioned mind, that tells you, you can’t have the thing, you don’t deserve to. So you want it but you don’t believe you can have it. You want it, but you don’t feel good about getting it. So you don’t get it.

You focus on your problems, not on what you want. So you continue to create more problems. You don’t believe you’re going to get it, so you don’t get it. You don’t feel good about getting it, so you don’t get it. Remember, you become what you think about. Thoughts expand.

You feel bad when you think about your goals, so you end up creating more struggle. I want to help you create everything you want with ease. To do this, you need to learn to let go of the old conditioned mind and embrace the new thinking. Think positively.

Have The Courage To Let Go Of That Which Has Held You Back

Use new thoughts and beliefs to get you to everything you want to have. Release, delete, let go of that which isn’t working, so that you can have more of what you want. It’s a decision you have to make.  You have to decide to stop continuing as you were. You must quit it.

You must stop perpetuating the myths and start living free as a champion and victor. You need to realize you are always, already, creating. You can’t not create but you’re creating what you don’t want. I want you to learn how to create what you do want!

Until you let go you may continue to struggle. Let go and give in. Give in to gratitude and optimism. Give in to enjoyment and enthusiasm. Give into expecting good things to happen. Trust, believe, have faith. Become certain you can create the life you want to live. Then you will begin to create more of the good stuff. Celebrate your wins. Celebrate everything!’ Rex Sikes

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